APCNig: Chidi Odinkalu can go and die. We will run this government the way we like, and you can do nothing. When Goatluck Ebele Jonathan and Muhammadu Buhari brought all their semi literate relatives to government, they were setting a precedence, now we are following their foot steps, but now more vicious. We will teach you how this game is run.
By his comment, you shall know that he has empty brain.
This is lamentation 101, when your people were marching the tail of lion, you sat and clapping for them, now the lion has roared and you started shouting UN UN. Oga minister pls carry your cross. Anything that has to do with terrorists, I support Israel 101%
FanRong: I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.
My story We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.
On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.
Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)
After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.
Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.
She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.
I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.
A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.
Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home. 1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.
2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.
3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears. When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.
4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, after all, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her. While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.
5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Bus Stop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex. Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me. We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.
After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys. At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.
I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.
The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.
We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.
Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.
I need mature and candid advice please. Should I continue with the marriage plans or the red flags are obvious?
The marriage won't work, you see handwriting on the wall and you still seek advice.btw who told you that you can a woman who still loves her ex-. Marry her at your own peril
Higherthan: While all the governors of the south east lives in lagos, even bitter obi, their miscreant and their parents Will be hiding under the bed. Guess why? Christmas and New Year is on Monday , una must sit at home in that region
Pls how old are you? Your comment says it all. Grow up!
It wasn't easy my dear, I have lost my Dad and mum, even my immediate elder brother but it was not as painful as my immediate younger sister and her son through poison by Nigerian man that lived with them though in her BQ in South Africa this March 2023, she lost her husband at 6th year of their marriage, she would have married to another man but because of her kids( 3 sons), the guy was angry that he would be asked to quit the house because my sister was planning to relocate to Us with 2 sons around with her. According to his surviving son on that fateful day, the guy came to their house as usual and my sister, requested for food and my sister asked him to go to fridge and take food because he was not stranger to them, in the process of collecting food from the fridge, he injectied poison substance in the juice in the fridge. So when my sister prepared food and made juice, she served her 2nd son and last one, but last one was busy with online video game, that was saving grace, otherwise all of them would have died. Even my sister was vomiting, the idiot of a guy asked my sister's children to go and get ambulance whereas he had my sister's car spare key. Anywhere, I was so devastated because of her death, she is the only one you would call in time of need, she would answer, her death cause me to be having BP. Since her death, nothing can move me again even if my children die now, It will pain me but I will be moved.
immortalcrown: Now that she is proudly enjoying her drama, you won't see people campaigning in her favour. But if the marriage later goes bad, people will begin to carry placards and condemn her husband. That is when people will say that her marriage is a forced girl-child marriage.
You are talking as if you are from North and religion of piss
[quote author=Pakute post=127046355]Very greedy and selfish marketers, when dem still dey collect subsidy in dollars, no matter the price of oil in international market, dem go find dollars anyhow way to import oil because say dem wan collect subsidy but now Govt don commot subsidy, na to dey depend on NNPCL to go import and then go buy from NNPCL. Nigerians are greedy all round, dem go buy foodstuffs from north carry am enter south dey sell am 3times the price and people go begin dey shout food don cost, which food cost?. Nigerians are wicked to themselves. Thank God baba commot subsidy, our refineries are about to start producing again. People collecting subsidy who stopped our refinery from working will all cry blood.[/quote0] My dear, you are day dreaming. Which Baba removed subsidy, everything about APC is the more you look, the less you see. Come to think that our refinary will work by December, you have serious malaria. Face the reality and stop dreaming because no hope in this country. Happy Sunday everybody
Pakute: Why are headless mob led by the short devil Ajaero trying to force union to join his greedy fight?. if a leader truly had earned the respect of his followers, you do not need to force yourself down their throat. Two things are certain; if state chairmen are hellbent at picketing unwilling members, dem go collect beating llke Ajaero. secondly, all these union wey no dey go work because Ajaero don lose one eye, na to go meet Ajaero to pay dem salary. No work no pay remain sancrosant.
Cry cry baby, who made you judge over us, after all, you are not a civil servant, but APC E-rat
In the viral video, the lecturer, Dr Ariyo of the Department of Electrical Engineering, could be heard asking her to switch off her phone but she refused
“You can’t be more than me” he said to her
He got angry and forcefully took the phone from her and then punched and pushed her
#wetindeyhappentv
Inasmuch I don't support taking laws into our hands, I stand with the lecturer here, some students are overdoing things, even if your father is VC, you should show element of home training, and if you don't want to be disciplined, stay in your father's house. You that posted this on social media do that the lecturer will be punished, remember that what goes around comes around. Good morning good people, may good lord bless good work of your hand today, he will lead you out in peace and you won't come back empty handed.
ravensckar: Bombs have really changed the nature of warfare. No more brilliant strategies, superior tactics or maneuverings. All we hear now is airstrikes, bombs, nukes, etc.
The likes of Alexander the Great, Hannibal, Napoleon Bonaparte, Julius Caesar, Ghengis Khan, Mehmed II, Khalid Ibn Walid, Subotai or even Adolf Hitler will be cringing in their graves.
Israel is definitely following America's playbook; sit down at the comfort of your cubicle and bomb your opponents to submission. Little wonder why America suffered defeat in Vietnam and Afghanistan. Bunch of cowards with nothing upstairs other than bombs.
When is the much anticipated ground invasion going to start? I wan check something abeg.
Cry cry baby, terrorists sympathizer, go and do the grand invasion by yourself. Next time the group you are supporting will not bite more than they can shew.
God1000: Good, they should release all the hostages to their families and Israel should stop bombing Gaza as well.
We need to stop vilifying and demonizing each other, nobody is subhuman, christian or Muslim
Both sides have committed serious atrocities, it won't be fair to blame one side
Palestinians should have their own country, though it appears like a pipedream now going by the current reality, but violence isn't the way to go
You comment is a lie from pit of hell, you won't blame any side because Israel just wake up and start bombarding Palestine. Blame Hammas and Palestine who just attacked Israel without any provocation.
This man's brain needs to be checked, imagine what his brother Bubu did to us and useless Drugie wants to nail our coffin, woman is the problem of Aboki, that is why terrorists every nook and cranny in the north. Kano state government has to be blamed for free wedding including those that their husbands have died.
gannod: no need for protests, you guys should join Hamas,make Israel turn una to suya. You guys did not protest when boko haram and bandits were butchering people of Plateau, Southern Kaduna, Benue and Zamfara but are now shedding crocodile tears for Palestinians. Even the loquacious MUMURIC is gentle. Bunch of hypocrites!
They won't because there brother's (bokoharam and bandit) arm are doing the killings in the north even Mumuric will close their dirty mouth