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Kobojunkie:
Well, in Jesus Christ you are not meant to submit to any human being...in fact we are all called to hate father, mother, husband, wife, children etc.. this in order that we may all submit to Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ alone.

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Kobojunkie:
Are you trying to suggest that what God says depends on whether one is married or not?

A question is a question. How you interpret it is not my business.
Just a yes or a no is good.

Kobojunkie:
God's Law and works are not about how you feel about your fellow man or your ego. You are called to submit to God's decrees and know His Truth, not form your own truth from God's Word.

Any of you who think that a curse is what defines you, automatically remove yourself from the blessings blessings that God has in store for those who belong to Him. Now do not for once be deceieved into thinking those shiny things you see in this world are it....no, since even the unbelievers have those in abundance.

Be sure of this, those who chose to continue to live according to the curse/condemnation of Sin- Genesis 3 vs 14 - 19 will never enter into the Kingdom of Heaven.

Na wa o.. Are you married?

siofra:
Of course, the Nigerian women I know are not unfaithful.

Lol... How many do you 'truly' know.

We have a female doctor in our family and she has told us many many many stories bout women and their unfaithfulnes. She said something similar like this 'in most marriages, the husband is not the biological father of the child'

So i know whatsup, you can only pray for a loyal and honest wife.

Ritzybeauty:
LOL.. You are obviously pained, I can see that.. Just know there is pride and happiness in spending and having your own money, so you don't lose friends because you weren't given money or start growing hatred for someone that doesn't even have an idea, you are wasting your energy man and try to look up entitled in the dictionary so you don't disgrace your parents outside.. Haha

Lol.. I agree very much with the guy, why dont you put yourself in his position.

What use is a friend who cant help you out when you need him when you know he could actually help you.

I will prefer to help my friend in need than to help any other woman excluding my blood related females.
A male friend is very much likely to appreciate you more than a female

nniero11:
i don laff(laugh) tire 4 here!

Lol...i also find it funny but its actually the hard truth.

Look around, guys are backing away from marriage.
Last week.. I found out that guys are now paying surrogate mother to get a child for them but these same guys prefer to Bleep streetwalker aka olosho.
All in Nigeria.
Things are getting worse but the matter never blow up.

nniero11:
hahahahahahahahahahaha


As a guy if u carry ursef well the easiest thing to get is a woman!

just be patient and na u go the choose

hahahahahaha


the smart ones know how the game is played.


Real homies don't lack nor beg for pussy

I agree bro.. Just wait and chill.. Dem go dey flow around like headless chickens

Ishilove:
You will see ndi team foreign girls avoiding this thread like a plague. Shior

If the males or females in a region are complaining about the other gender, then i believe something is wrong somewhere, it is best to tackle the root cause.

I understand some males and females on this platform complain alot due to their selfish, stupid or fetish reason. Its best to ignore them. People will grow up.

But to the genuine ones who complain
No one will just wake up one day and say males or females of other region are better.

If we keep brushing aside the root cause. The decay will keep spreading like a plague

MALIGNANTGuest:
Yes naaa.
Most of we MEN were manhandled by our maids and AUNTS in our elementary stages of life. In Fact, as a kid I caught one aunt pulling on a 7yr old boy's dicck back then.
MEN have to wake up.
We really have to wake up.

Yes bro... Men have to wakeup but the world wont take us seriously.
If its about girl issue, they will take it seriously because they can always cash out. all the NGO are examples.

Women are the most predators. The news media just dont mention it.

There are teen boys been sexually molested by women in nigeria but no news of it because nothing happens to the boy. Lol..... He wont get pregnant na compared to the other gender where you can easily detect she has been molested.

Go out there and carry out a survey/questionnaire on boy teen molestation, you will be fucking surprised that you will think its not real.
Women are extremely cunning

bepositive11:
It's subjective. Everyone has their own definition of a high value man. It depends on what people value

Yes... Its subjective. Thats why i gave different examples in my explanation above.

vest:
can you explain further on this your point am interested pls

Its quite simple..
Lets consider some people
Obama, Biden and Trump
If you look at them, they have something in common. They are high value people

Lets look at their personality,
I believe trump is more aggressive of the three but can you consider him an alpha.
Absolute No,
Next is obama, very calm and biden is maybe gentle (if you understand what am saying).
Lets talk about putin of russia or kim of north korea.
They cant even be considered Alpha even as they are because alpha does not exist

All abovementioned names are people of different personality and character and with power but they are high value people.

Guys who sleep around with women or because women run after those guys and thereby claiming the title of alpha is just bullshit to galvanize their own ego.

If you are a high value man of any character or personality with -'confidence' or -'no confidence', women will always fall at your feet. It may not be all women but majority will want to know you or sleep with you.

Lets look at mark of facebook, that guy has less confidence facing people (crowd) when he started in early 2010s but females would want to dine with him anyway. Is he an alpha or high value man?

This thing is deep, you just have to research online to get more info


The goal should not be to claim the title of an Alpha male but to be a high value man

bepositive11:
Alpha males are actually the weakest! They have very low self esteem which they hide behind their toxic masculinity

Beta males are the ones who have a secure sense of self. Barack Obama is beta, so is Joe Biden

Trump is alpha -- an insecure narcissist

Alpha male does not exist.... Only high value man

In human kingdom, Alpha male and Alpha female does not exist. Its just fiction

What exist is High value man and high value woman.

Alpha male and female exist only in animal kingdom

Penguin2:
Vatican needs to start allowing priests, who wish to, to get married.

The Church does not need these kind of scandals.

Bro... Not only priest... Some people (nun) also want to Bleep and have a child

daddymummy:
Generally, male gender is more beautiful than the female gender.

In humans for instance, males are generally taller, with all handsome features.

Most women only look beautiful with makeup. Without makeup, most women would not come close to men as far as beauty is concerned.

So a male is more beautiful if you are a neutral gender judging.

But actually,a man should see women as more beautiful and desirable than males, just as a woman should see males as more beautiful than females.

Opposites attract.

If you see your gender as more beautiful than the opposite gender,then something is wrong.


If a woman admires women more than men,then it is not normal.

[b] According to Freud, women's lack of penis is the reason why women look down on themselves to the extent of wearing make-up.

It is the reason why women continuously need validation to survive.

According to Freud,a woman continuously needs to hear that she is beautiful, that she is being desired.

According to Freud, women lack self confidence because they have no penis and need to be continuously assured that she is beautiful and desirable.


If a woman is not continuously assured and pampered, she may not survive from low self-esteem.

According to Freud,a little girl may see a man passing and open her vagina so that the man would see.

It gives her some childhood sexual pleasure that a man is looking into her vagina as he is passing.

But soon, she realized there is nothing there except a hole, while her male counterparts have a long penis down there.

She begins to feel inferior and envious of the male gender.

She begins to hide her vagina and grew up to loathe herself.

As she grew older, she needs so much assurance, admiration to survive.

That is Freudian theory[/b]

Classic

Is this from a book.. Pls recommend the book

siofra:
Now I want to ask, why are female humans more beautiful than male humans?

There is nothing beautiful about body of female human, You females just lie to yourself (like, you have a great body blah blah blah.Aauntie its a lie). the world just made it look beautiful to sell their product.
If we remove your VJ, what else remain. once you get old, will you consider yourself beautiful

As a matter of fact, the body of a man is a work of art and great in its own way, either young or old. Every woman wants a man latter in their life no matter how independent and strong they are.

The male human is always the prize because of the beauty and other things

donbachi:
U done ever see any guy in love,wey dey reasonable?

Is it everyday a guy is in love? .

Better to learn before you fall in love

or

learn after love do you strong thing if ya still alive and well mentally.

Mod helps guys and move it to FP

Marry any of these type of women and die with life full of regret. Marry at your own risk.

Warning to the reasonable guys out there



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otwnC6TQCgQ

Elporo:
Mostly sees you like a little brother..90% of women are not sexually charged as society portrays them to be especially Nigeria.

Married women are not going around fcking men like others guys tell you. Maybe 2 in 10 (but we consider this high). Dem no get that kind liver... except na ashewo dem do before marriage.. on a good day a typical Nigerian woman no matter how rich and powerful he family is becomes very docile in marriage - as long as it's her father who's the rich mofo.

bro...its a whole new world out there esp in naija...... was like you until last week. bros...na dem dey rule

Nancee4love:
I AM INLOVE WITH A GUY I AM FAR RICHER THAN.
I need a candid, serious and matured advice. I am a lady of 28yrs I stay in Abuja and work here. I am from south south in Nigeria. I recently moved to an area in Abuja and was thinking of a church to go so I went to a church closer to my house and I enjoy the service and I met this cute dark handsome guy in the church. Althrough the service my attention was on him, his personality and dress sense attracted me to him. I like slim guyz and tall guys because I am tall. So after service I went home, thinking about him and looking forward to Sunday morning to go to church to see my crush. I love the fact that this guy true loves God. One thing led to another we had to start talking and I fell even deeper inlove with him, he is a graduate and works in an IT Media firm. It's been 18 months now we have been talking and we are so fond of ourselves and absolutely we are catching feelings for each other but he has not said anything about relationship yet. I am super convinced that he has no relationship, I asked our pastor stylishly and he told me the guy is not in any relationship. This guy is a keeper, has character, treats me with uttermost respect and value. The way he looks into my eyes makes me know he has a thing in his heart for me. Note I have been to his house severally, he stays in a single studio apartment while I stay in a flat and still he is not intemidated at all. He has never asked me for money at all and never pushed for sex, and we have not had sex. We buy things for each other occasionally, like he reciprocates and appreciates my efforts.
Recently we were discussing and he Opened up to me that his salary is 80,000 and he is seriously thinking of how he can settle down with that and that's his major source of Income apart from other stuff he does. He has a registered company that he is working on already. I can see him pushing and making all efforts to improve himself. Me on the other side I make 250,000 monthly though I have not told him. I truly love this guy and I want to settle with him but on 80,000 naira income monthly. I was thinking could it be the reason why he has not asked me out yet after 18 months.
I told my girlfriends about it not relating or referring to him, my girlfriends, they said I should not settle for less I should look for a man who earns higher.
Please people here are my concerns.
1. I love this guy but he has not said anything about relationship yet, how do I make him ask me out
2. Am I settling for less with 80,000 as his salary, will he abandon family responsibility to me in the future.
3. Should I tell him how much I earn , will he not take advantage of me
4. Should I move on its been 18months but truly my heart is peaceful with him, we laugh we smile we encourage each other and we build each other.
5. Should I follow my girlfriends advice to look for someone who earns higher.
6. There is a guy who has been on my neck for 9 months now he works in NNPC, DPR has a car and comfort but I see a toxic red flag in him that's making me scared of him, yet he won't give up he is from south south as well
7. I spoke with my aunt and she said to me if she has her way she will make sure I never have contact with my girlfriends who don't understand life and who are not ready for marriage. My aunt told me that she feels the guy in my church is my God ordained husband. My mom also said the same thing that the guy is ok but she would have preferred someone from south south. My church guy is from middle belt
8. Many things are running through my mind I know I love him.
THIS ARE THE QUALITIES I LIKE IN HIM
1. He loves God and genuinely Born again Christian
2. He is sincerely and honest person
3. He is sacrificial and gives me listening ears.
4. He is very mature he seniors me with 6-7 yrs
5. He just a calm person and very organized and visionary
Please help me make the right decision by airing out your opinion.
Right now he is the only not too rich guy in my life who I expect him to ask me out and he has not. Other toaster's are super rich and they are on my neck trust me I am pretty beautiful light skin girl.

Auntie...
From what I read, I believe you have been blinded by your emotions. I know you like him but do you love him.
Your love might be one-sided since he is not taking any step, it is better to just ask him a simple question whether he likes you or not, so that you won't traumatize yourself.
I suggest you get over your emotions first and look clearly, no human been is perfect. If you like him, don't just look at his good qualities, understand his imperfection so that you won't land yourself in soup

I don't think it is possible in civil service.

NwekeUG:
Many cars were submerged in water following the heavy downpour witnessed in Lagos state today July 16.

The areas that were most affected were in Lagos Island.

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-kW17fs5wE

Mechanics go dey lick lips at this time

GeneralKoko:
I have been a victim of disrespect over the years from mainly my friends. I don't know if it is because I'm too free or too playful but I hardly gain the respect of people.

Please I need tips on how to gain the respect and loyalty of my friends.
Thanks

Its simple bro....

Be always unavailable by getting yourself busy
Move with people you think are better than your current friends

aribisala0:
You seem quite sensitive and easily offended .Anyway I already addressed that yes it is not the only skill that was not the point the point was that your advice still relates to going to his father for help rather than self reliance so perhaps you should take YOUR OWN advice on reading

You focussed on the part where you perceived an insult. Honestly that was not my intention .
You need to work on your self esteem and stop seeing insults where none exist.
Yes it is funny

From the story he told he needs to forget about his father as a source of money and look inward whether he is interested in data analytics or carpentry

Lol... Its seems you are hurt by my words. Don't take it to heart. Since you talk about self esteem, then its your issue bro... Settle it.

Like i said... Read and think

aribisala0:
Funny advice

Not everyone is interested in or has the aptitude for data analytics etc I guess that is your own area

All you are saying is still based on dependency on parents.

The fundamental issues is self reliance.

There are many jobs out there but many of our youth are too proud.

In the UK you will find graduates working in bars/pubs Starbucks Macdonald's etc serving the public

There are thousands if not millions who have no parents to do what this clown's parents are doing for him.

The Koko is if you determine that your father "is stingy" then organize your financial life and remove him from your calculus.
The reason he is able to engage in betting is because he is comfortable and has the mentality that he is a "rich man's son"

Your parents owe you only one thing and that is education

The advice is funny to you but not to others
Is data analytics the only skill... Its just an example.
Do you want him to be independent overnight without any effort
Read and think before you open your mouth...

aribisala0:
Funny advice

Not everyone is interested in or has the aptitude for data analytics etc I guess that is your own area

All you are saying is still based on dependency on parents.

The fundamental issues is self reliance.

There are many jobs out there but many of our youth are too proud.

In the UK you will find graduates working in bars/pubs Starbucks Macdonald's etc serving the public

There are thousands if not millions who have no parents to do what this clown's parents are doing for him.

The Koko is if you determine that your father "is stingy" then organize your financial life and remove him from your calculus.
The reason he is able to engage in betting is because he is comfortable and has the mentality that he is a "rich man's son"

Your parents owe you only one thing and that is education

The advice is funny to you but not to others
Is data analytics the only skill... Its just an example.
Read and think before you open your mouth

TOTOnigga:
Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of....

How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)...

Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter)

Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them..

The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...

Guy, you don't know your parents at all
if you want your parents to do your bidding, then you must do theirs

Read this
You said you don't have a laptop, right?
Find someone (your teacher or relative if possible) who can teach you skills like Data analytics, graphics etc(something good that can help your life). Then go back to your parents you need a laptop to learn this particular skill, then you back it up by saying this particular person is ready to teach you. since your parents want you to have a good education, I am very sure they will start considering it and looking at you in a new light. But you have to start learning those skills as soon as possible even if the laptop is not ready, but learn it with your heart. once they see you getting serious, the pressure will be on them. The laptop will then come in.

Getting serious with studies and your life is the key to unlocking the padlock of your parents....it is not by asking for money every time to buy this and that. You have to do things in a trade by barter way.

Get serious and things will change.



Modified....abeg no mind my grammar

I will marry from any race I like......if you have an issue with that, then it's your issue. Not mine at all

Who is the wife of cain?