₦airaland Forum

Twoclans:
She can call him my Tiger or my lion,wetin concern me ?whatever name she calls him if it is not coming from a good place in her heart to what benefit is it.

Regardless of what you call a loved one if that pet name is not with deep love it practically means nothing .

I have seen men/women call their partners all manner of pet names yet naaaaa lie .It means absolutely nothing to them .

Thats it. Welldone.
Not all family is the same.

MissRaine69:
There is respect and then there is servitude this is not respect.

Yea but the truth is 'what do you know about the family'
In your own perspective, its not respect but from the wife perspective, it might be respect.

Biglittlelois:
Yes it is OK, cos the woman also sacrifice her surname, her body by carryING a child not just once but 2, 3, 4 times as the case may be, works and takes care of the home, how many sacrifices did I call? Four sacrifices, and you're typing material things as sacrifice, even saying "sacrificing his life to protect you" meaning a man will die or kill himself to protect his family, when he's not Jesus Christ lol, yeye dey smell

You think all that is sacrifice?
Primarily, in most cases No one will force a lady to get married in first place.
The decision belongs to the lady whether to marry or not, so its not sacrifice.
Its simply what the lady wanted.

Badassblogger:
I went with to a friends home after church last Sunday.
They just recently moved to Canada from Benin in Nigeria and low and behold. . . the husband sat down like a king. Ordering is wife and kids up and down like slaves. He was about to eat and while everyone had rice for lunch, this man was served with a big ol plate of poundy with egusi soup and when I asked her . . . she said only their dad can have pounded yam while the rest of them had rice.

the funniest thing was: His wife kept repeating "My lord" this, My lord that . . i didn't even know she was refering to him until when she said, My lord do u want more food . . whoaaaaa
I asked the girl . . does your mum call your dad "My lord" and she answered yes.

What kind of love and authoritarian marriage is that?
beats how the wife and kids practically worships this guy

For the wife to say 'my lord this that' in front of a guest, that means she is cool with it.
Not every family is the same.

WomenTrainer:
#NoSexChallenge

Oya o! I'm challenging all single men and women all over the world.

The rule of this challenge is simple.

No sex for one year (i.e. from 14th February 2019 to 13th February 2020).

No sex means:
No normal sex.
No oral s*x.
No anal sex.
No phone s*x.
No internet sex.
No sex at all at all.

So, who's joining my #NoSexChallenge?
If you want to join start preparing your mind and body now because e no easy o! Trust me, I'm talking from experience. Konji go show you pepper. But you no go die sha. Lol.

Married people are NOT allowed to join this challenge abeg o!

3rd year and still counting....

Angela777:
You are welcome, check more Thalia songs on YouTube, she makes you love and dance

Alright, thanks

Angela777:
You are so right! Latino women are very attractive, very feminine and working ladies with most of them with high family values, it makes them good wives and mothers as well many good working professionals. They like black guys because they grew up in macho society and a bossy macho man appeals to them as a real man. Unfortunately in Latino culture lately some Latino men go to the gay side or some not bossy real macho enough for Latino ladies, bossy, strong, protective man is what they see in black guys, big attraction.

There is a song expressing it very well, Thalia, Amor a la mexicana
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xa_SUAwM46g
TRANSLATION
Mexican-style love
I don’t want compassion, I don’t want pity
I want a hard love that can make me vibrate
I want your flavour, I want your sweat
I want you madness to make me go delirious
pure (sugar)cane... pure love...

Mexican-style love, with cumbia, huapango and son (sorts of music)
horse, boot and sombrero, tequila, tobacco and rum,
Mexican-style love, hot and to the Sun’s rhythm
slowly and then he kills me, my macho at heart

Mexican-style love...
Mexican-style love...
Mexican-style love...
Mexican-style love...

I want it smooth, I want it very rough
I want it to touch the bottom of my heart
I want it slow, I always want more
I want it to scare me till I lose my mind
pure (sugar)cane... pure love...

Mexican-style love...
Oh, I want your love at the bottom of my heart
Mexican-style love...
and within your madness I want to lose my mind
Mexican-style love...
I want it smooth, slow
Mexican-love style
I’m dying of love and frenzy

That song just made my day, Thanks Angela

Jamariwolff:
The country, Nigeria, is a very HOT one and the heat literally affects the mental state of these black Nigerian Fools sorry, men. They're not candid, just bunch of lecherous deadbeat scum on the prowl. Don't waste your time!! Every single one is Frustrated, eccentric, agitated, rapey, loathsome, deplorable, red eyed, tacky, and always soughting appraisal for their worth. (Look at Airforce01 as an example!)

Ladies, trust me when I tell ya you're one up on other ladies in different part of the world having lived around Nigerian men.
Now, work hard, get that DOUGH and travel the WORLD!
A lady who prefers the average NIGERIAN men is one who loves feeling disposable!

Hire handsome latino, peurto rican, Italian gigolos, and FÙCK your toto out! Live life ostentatiously around men who act RATIONALLY!!

Here is a pointer to stacking your claim:
WITH a bit more hardwork and serendipity, you'll soon discover your WORTH! You deserve more than living, dating, marrying, fùcking, and procreating with a nigerian man. God forbid.

Date, marry whoever you want, who cares. As long as you are happy.
As for me, those latino females are really good, they are carefree and less moody and also they are endowed..... GOSH!
I recommend them to guys...
They love black guys.... Still don't know why(not the dick)

funmisticqueen:
A lot of ladies have fallen victim to truncating their life purpose for a few minutes of pleasure. He busts his nuts, depositing his seed. Higher chances, you didn't even achieve orgasm but you are left with the short end of the stick for 9 months then the rest of your life and you are left in the realm of singlemotherhood being a burden to yourself, parents and society while he has denied you and moved on.

What is the cause of this worldwide epidemic of single mum and babymama syndrome. It is simple evolutionary biology. A man is wired to want to sow his seed to ensure the continuity of his legacy so he looks for a womb that will do just that this is why men are seen to be polygamous. While women are the gatekeepers carefully selecting whose seed is worthy of nuturing into the world. Only the strong survive.

This is one of the sacred reasons the institution of marriage was created. It also creates a safe haven for the nuturing of the young to be useful in society. It also ensures the highest chances of their survival

You become a single mother when you ignore your instinct and get pregnant for an unworthy man who deceived you with flowery words and empty promises. He is effeminate and is not masculine enough to provide for you and his family. So you raise his children then he lays claims to finished products.
. Baby mamas take it a step further by eliminating the stress by letting the father or some other man provide, but that model can only last for so long before you go back to singlemotherhood.

My solution is simple, if you are not ready to shoulder the responsibility of single parenthood. Don't get pregnant by employing any suitable contraception method. if you do, abort that weak spawn from a weak man at the hands of a licensed professional. If that is not your cup of tea. Go through hormonal changes and increasing belly for 9 months, go into labor and experience the worst pain in your life and don't let that cuteness and helpless package decive you into cutting your options short and not pursuing your ambition for longer than 3 months. Wrap the child in a Christmas basket and kindly drop him off at his/her father's door and watch of he won't take care of his child. Men do what they do be cause they know u will pick up their slack while it is business as usual with the latest skirt in town. Responsibility. Ladies don't overburden our orphanges. Let the father raise up his child. Learn your lesson, pick up

pieces and move on with your life.

To the ladies out there don't allow a man to play bet9ja with your womb

Declaimer: This doesn't apply to widows or women who want and can afford to care for a child without the other package

Trying to solve a problem but still creating another problem......such insolence
If you don't want any man to play bet9ja with your womb then stay away from men and sex. Open your eyes wide, and look for a responsible man. It's simple.

Useless people and their useless governor....... Just because of this rally, they decided to block all major roads in Akure.......










It is really annoying, was riding round Akure just to bypass all those blocked road...

Benita27:
What has this got to do with feminism? When that Nigerian guy killed his wife abi girlfriend in Lag, did you call on feminists? The man should have tamed his dick to avoid being castrated.

lol.......point of correction..... the dead can never be castrated because the body is useless once dead.

Pataricatering:
the problem with you guys is you feel every woman must be accessible to you ! Some women are not your mate ! Whether they use olosho to get the money o , they worked for it o , their father gives them money o - it doesn’t matter - there are levels and some women will never be your mate !

Pataricatering:
the problem with you guys is you feel every woman must be accessible to you ! Some women are not your mate ! Whether they use olosho to get the money o , they worked for it o , their father gives them money o - it doesn’t matter - there are levels and some women will never be your mate !

whats this

zicoraads:
I've seen countless narratives on Nairaland about ladies and their love for money. The most annoying one was the one I saw today of a guy complaining that his girlfriend would always want them to eat out where he'll end up paying 2k or 3k. But let's be honest with ourselves, that narrative is very wrong.

Now I'll show you why it is.

There are different types of ladies in a university. As someone who comes from a modest home, go for the ones who are serious with their studies and are more into guys who know why they are in school. These ones are more of the future than the present. They don't even mind drinking garri with you. Others, however, are the ones whose houses off campus are tastefully furnished and who live in apartments worth 150k. They also dress to kill. You think all of these fell from the sky? She has a lifestyle that needs to be maintained. As her man, realize that you also have to contribute to that. Don't ask her out and if she starts demanding, you run to Nairaland, shouting about how ladies are materialistic.

There are also these types of ladies in the larger society. A working class lady will most likely not follow you to the woman who sells beans and bread around your area. She will most likely prefer to lodge or eat Golden Tulips, Jevinik, BluCabana etc. Not her fault, she is classy and has taste. She has probably passed that stage where she followed her university love to the beans and bread seller. She is not about that life anymore. She still loves you a lot though, her taste notwithstanding.

Point being, at every point in your life, know how to cut your coat according to your size. And if you want to punch above your weight, don't go shouting about ladies' love for money. They are most likely just above your league.

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You are just stressing yourself and overthinking things.

Your so called high class lady who demands alot will never go for a male lower in class.
If a high class lady dates a low class man, trust me, she wont demand anything from him because she knows what he is capable of. She wont stress him. Simple as that.

It's just some ladies pretend/behave like people of high class, thereby making life unbearable for the male counterpart of the same class.

This is where the trouble start.

since the male counterpart cant live above his means, then why won't he complain when he knew that you cant provide it for yourself.(you cant provide him a gold coin but you are asking him for gold coin, arrant nonsense!. why not sit down and produce it together. ).

And please, Class is never written on the body.
just because she putting on Gold dress doesnt mean she of high class(abeg, park well) and just because he's putting on roundneck vest, jeans and palm sander doesnt mean he is low class. so i can ask any female out.

Later if she thinks her class is higher and i cant provide for her, then she should leave. Why stay.


so... thats my thinking

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Nov. 19th.... Any lady ready to make friends and currently in Akure should pm me

y'all shouting 'know your worth', na so we men dey worthless?

Jamariwolff:
Sorry pènis-carriers, this is 21st century. Women can now also get turned on by what they see. In fact, we now consider appearance more than guys do.
Although most women will NOT accept this, it's the genuine truth. we all secretly feel this way.
We want the most handsome and tallest (RICH)guy in the room.
Who cares about your stupid awesome personality? Sigh.
Goodlooks will always come first, and yes I like him hot to the bone
No apologies, I didn't make you the genetic failure that u are.
You can't have a homely ass face or be short and be pursuing me, and simply expect me to accept you like that, bcuz I'm a woman or bcuz you think you're confident.
Do you all hórny things still think we're less visual than you?
Lol
It's all laughable.
An ugly boy opened a thread today, and to think I almost pitied him until he said he can't date ugly women, well if you can hear me boy, I want to advice u to leave your genetic superiors alone!!!! Stick to ur own kind if you want a girl that is truly attracted to you or stay single for all I care.
I think you ugly mfuckers shud learn to pick up these clues when ladies are not interested.
Stay d fùck away from me okay?

She's just crying up and down.

generationnext2054@gmail.com

dreamangel:
They are eveywhere

are you one of them?

360command:
I and the rest of nairalanders will surely come seeking that beautiful thick lady of yours.

Hehehehe.....I'll like to see you and rest of nairalanders try.

Pearly255:
I'm thick and extremely beautiful

How your pocket be

that's nice.....my pocket is fine

How your pocket be? ;

catso:
A man that would not be satisfied would not be satisfied. Give him different shapes and sizes he would still not be satisfied.
What satisfies a man in any relationship is the character and mutual respect. You would soon get tired of the shape and beauty with time.

Lol......do you think I'm that dumb to depend on shape and beauty.........no! Don't worry bro....but thanks

nice pictures....thick women rules...if I could get a beautiful thick lady. I'll be satisfied.

Amarabae:
A Queen is not yet a Queen until she meets A King.
Apart from sex, the companionship, procreation, togetherness,etc is wonderful.
So Men are important to women And Vice versa.

Well said

lol...... I rememba the last tym I had that kind of dream. I was fighting and killing unknown entities, I was like God of war , I was in perfect ecstasy until my phone rang. the caller just called to ask a sily question. I didn't even cut the phone, just went back to sleep but it was too late to continue the dream. no one vex pass me that day.

mumu suegbe post

lol....la free points

Biggcake:
This is how the bride will set it for the groom...

Mynd44:
I am not handsome, God fearing or within that age range

lol....bros..... u b devil fearing

Good courage.....God will bless you with a good man very soon

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wow, so there's a thread like this....this is my first time coming across it since I joined NL..........