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Her 'Plan A' flopped.
OP na backup plan....

You should have told her before the engagement.
Now, it's gonna be hard on her if you open up. Nonetheless, you still have to tell her, that's the price you pay for your past actions.

As for the professional course, take it seriously please. And whatever happens after you tell her, face it.
After your professional course, you can also start a part-time degree course and try to achieve more important things as well. Do all these before you start having kids ooo...or else, you won't finish nada.

Back to your fiancé, I pray she doesn't mess things up. OP, I hope your folks are aware of this situation, if not... Ah!!
You should be more bothered when your family and other people finds out.

If I remember any other thing, I go add am.
Good morning!

Lol.. There's no need to overanalyze

The lady wouldn't still feel pity if she sees the guy's true condition. She'd be so fixed on the little injury she has, afterall she's a weaker vessel and the guy should be able to deal with anything, as a man that he is.

That's the sad reality of the world we live in.

Goldbw122:
Let's program it like this
Men, the giver
Women, turn the money to support the family including the man
Children, A gift to the family and a gift from God

Fallacy!!
When manipulation sets in, the children would become a weapon to fight the man, making him look irresponsible/deadbeat.

And as for turning the money to support the family including the man, what happens when the money stops coming?

MICHEALADEX:
He wan trend, even wizkid no trend � on his birthday. Mama obi punana trending

Check the date. It's an old news

GeneralPula:
No go fall for scam sha

Scam?? For wetin nah
I was just pulling his legs.

alaribe1992:
Bros abeg no call the number

Lol.. Nothing to worry about jare. She's all yours

BigDan69:
Send the number abeg

You too like woman. Getat!!

alaribe1992:
Na mistake, I’ve modified the post, hope u never save the number sha ur eye no clear

I don save the number already, starts with 0813... ends with 68.



No worry, I'm not even close to Owerri.

And you had to display her number for everyone to see??

Thank God I took a screenshot before you deleted it. Anyone who needs the girl's number should send a DM.

managingpartner:
In as much as, she doesn't know your location in ife, just bone her.

Exactly what I was about to say. OP, does she know where you stay in Ife??

Why are you stressing yourself over nothing?

Cc: smellyanus

FatherCHRlSTMAS:
alright no p. tell him to modify the name. and I'll modify my post

I guess he must have seen this conversation, he would do the needful. And if he doesn't, then you're justified.

FatherCHRlSTMAS:
fool don't disrespect hungerbad fool don't disrespect hungerbad

Don't call him a fool. He probably doesn't know the guy is late. Politely ask him to delete it.

Good morning.

Redpiller indeed!!
And you're letting this small mind game affect you this much, attaching so much emotions to ordinary sex.

Oga, leave the girl alone or find a replacement.
It's not that hard, you don fu*k up already.

Stupidquestions:
How does Oyo town look? Abeg make una help me

I know Oyo town very well, but it seems you might be catching cruise as your moniker implies.

Everyone up there just shouting anyhow. The OP earns way lower than the guy's expectations. Una no dey read??

Just because a guy asked her how much she earns, y'all are already shouting gold digger. How much she get? Selfish and stingy things!!
Mtcheeew

OP, don't mind them jare. Open up to him, he might even give you suggestions on how to have other streams of income. And if it's otherwise, take a walk. Sha don't be a victim.
God bless.

I am not a perfectionist. But when I set out to achieve some goals, I do that without looking back. And most times, it's a success.

Perfectionism does not mean setting unrealistic targets or goals as you implied. But attaining the end-point stated from the onset with well thought-out plans and alternatives, incase the main one flops, with thorough discipline.
Mediocrity is not an option.

Whoever told you perfectionists abandon projects halfway cos of disappointment?? They always find an alternative route as soon as possible!! Don't even go there.

And most times, they do it all alone cos the moment you constitute a team as a perfectionist, you start to see other people's flaws and shortcomings, which would affect your end point or targeted goal, might even impede your success rate.
So as a perfectionist, set achievable and realistic goals... Then the rest is history.

Mind games

donPhill:
They will successfully enter UAR's air space unnoticed...
Working military

UAR's Air Force are busy battling issues on the Landspace.


Wetin concern us with Airspace!!

BANDITRY

Jokes apart, this is the type of question that should be running through the minds of employees. Especially one man business... What if the owner passes away and no hope of continuity?

No be wahala be dat?

tunapawizzy:
it is sha not coming home

Italy all the way!

Nigeria, My Beloved Country.

Send her money.
Congratulations, you just had your first non-biological child.

Majority of us are.

Philip for President!!

Kewtt:
No need. He should walk away.

Lol. He won't listen

Couragejay:
tell whats love then
when u as a kid u cant express urself in ur own family, when every u see ur daddy u will be afraid and u will be prayin him to travel and stay for months before returnin him, my guy dat man no deserve my love oh u that is talking abt love whats love?

Mtcheeeeeew

Couragejay:
na im i won do naw

Egbon Couragejay, you don't have to try too hard. Nothing you say will make me see your Dad in bad light, I'm sorry. Be a man and ignore my mentions. The more you try, the more we see 'that side' of you. Don't give in to temptation and resist the urge to shalaye.

Have a wonderful day ahead bro.
Cheers!!

DONFRANSKID:
You won't understand what your father did for you
Because you are still a little boy.
May you will understand when you grow up or have a kid

Leave am, he should wait till he has a kid (just one oo) and loads of responsibilities on his neck.

Couragejay:
no

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