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I don't think you need an explanation from her for not going out with you on vals day; her refusal to go out with you, at least in my own view, seems self explanatory-- she was screwing somebody or does not want you anymore.

As soon as I see a hot kele, my x-ray vision is activated and I analyze and internalize the internal and external features; if the features correlate with my database, I approach her and see if I can collect the kele's number so that I can give myself an opportunity of engaging her ( kin do pa) thereafter.

This sounds like another deluded female who thinks that any guy that refuses the advances of any woman is either dumb or gay. If we carry out our investigation, it is likely that her cousin is some 'wowo' edikaikon (aka ugly and shapeless) looking chick that does not stimulate the guy; or the girl is just not his type. Then this 'wowo' chick, instead of looking at the mirror or checking herself,  or her cousin advising her to accept her fate, will now translate the rejection into the guy being dumb. To put it in plain English, the girl that posted this is the dumb chick.

This same girl will probably be the one starting a blog about how guys will just hit anything that is thrown at them. This is empirical proof that not all guys will just hit anything-- some guys have better things to do--like investing their time in finding the chick they want to hit-- instead of hitting anything (like your cousin) that comes their way.

From experience, most girls that flaunt themselves at guys and get rejected are usually 'wowo' chicks; and your cousin, from the looks of it, is inescapably a 'wowo' chick.

What you need to do is to is wrap his ass in toilet paper and flush him deep down the bottomless soakaway. This will enable him to commingle with his kind, shit.

Topup, I agree with you. I just felt that the 29 yr old virgin needed a full spectrum of analysis so that she can understand the possible consequences of her actions. It is hard to reconcile spirituality with logic; however, I feel like the 29 year old virgin may be inexperienced and naive, and that a realistic insight will expose her to the kind of reality she is facing. The more reasons she needs to stand firm in God.

I believe the 9th secret is that women are equally or more hornier than men-- they love to ride it just as much as guys love to hit it.

I think it is about time someone sheds a realistic insight to this issue which, obviously, has been plagued with posts by bloggers motivated by emotion. It makes little, if any, sense for a 29 year old to try to keep her virginity under the cloak of christianity; yet, this same person lustfully kisses, smooshes, and  engages in other intimate sexual encounters-- a clear violation of biblical principles-- which has made it clear that he who lusts after the other has clearly committed fornication. A sin is a sin; and sorry, a partial sin is not looked upon with less favor than a whole sin.

Second, this woman has to realize that many, if not most, men would like to "engage" their partner before marriage for obvious reasons. It is good to check their sexual compatibility prior to marriage; many women would like their men to "engage" them-- and if this same man does not engage the woman, she may think that he is a 'mugu' and leave him for another man who can engage her properly.

Third, most grown men ( I am just keeping it real) would like to have sex with the person they are dating. If not, the man will likely be walking around with a full tank, masturbating, or busy scouring for potential preys to disgorge his "full tank," a good recipe for destroying a relationship.

Fourth, the statistical probability of this woman finding a grown man that has not engaged many women is slim to none. So, what is the logical reason for holding your virginity for a man that has not held his own virginity for you or, at the very least, kept his partners to a minimum. 

This woman would likely miss out on good men or find men that would date her and get busy with other women because she is, so called, keeping her virginity till marriage. Keeping your virginity is also not a guarantor for marriage, especially in this days where sex is a major ingredient of a relationship-- all these women spitting garbage on this blog are probably sleeping with their boyfriends or whomever they are dating. I would recommend that you lose your virginity as it may be a major impediment in your quest for marriage.