Capensis:
The Ikeji's family were raised in lack and it shows in their character.
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I have no idea why a man married this one.

is like they are doing valedictory service In your brain give yourself a slap mumu

davodyguy:

I'm sure you're a Christian or claim to be a Christian. From which Bible verse did you learn how to hate?

will you shut your mouth?

boxymccoy:

While I understand what you are passing through, I will like to kindly implore you not to act unruly to your parents just because you have grown to make decisions for yourself as this can have some ripple effects years later. As a child of God, you are bound to obey your parents while you are still under their roof. You talked about your father’s anger issue, I know it’s not easy but I can assure you God can give you grace to bear with him. Jesus who was perfect in his ways had to subject himself to imperfect parents for 30yrs. He knew more than them and had more understanding than them but had to obey them for 30yrs that He was under their roof. My dear, the number of years remaining for you to leave their roof can not be compared with the years you have spent. Work at getting a good job, work hard and keep making progress. Don’t allow your dad’s attitude and church doctrines provoke you into making rash decisions that you will later regret, don’t just rush into marriage because you want ease yourself from the wahala you daily face at home. Do you know how many boring sermons that Jesus listened to from those Saducees and Pharisees yet he knew God more than them. But when his time came, None could stop him. See, when it is time you will make these decisions without having any hitch with your parents, and I think you are much more closer to the “liberation “ that your heart is longing for.......God bless you

thank you I love your advice but I feel you do not understand how frustrating it can be sometimes as much as she wants to be free I won't lie to you your advice at the moment cannot help her to change the already made up mind instead you should advise that even in her quest of freedom she should make sure she doesn't miss her way I think that's the best

Flourishh:
As we all know, many people believe the children of pastors are mostly wayward.
I for example, I'm a female and my dad is a pastor in Deeper life Bible Church and trust me I've been looking for ways to leave the church. My dad isn't even helping matters, he has serious temper issues that makes him say things that gets me, my mum and siblings angry. I really do not see myself getting married in his church. Please tell me if I'm doing the right thing. Because i feel we all have our lives to live.
I need your advice because I'm already fed up of my dad's attitude and the church's doctrines.

You can also share similar experiences. If you have any
Thank you.

I'm in the same shoe as yours a pastors daughter in deeper life but this was what I did I got a job out of the state my parents stay though close but the fact that we don't see daily was a plus I stayed with a neutral family friend who won't criticize my actions I still earned their trust i was going home every weekend later I stopped going my dear apart from your job get busy through on that can fetch you more money on the side give them cogent reasons why you can't come home during weekends gradually they'll detach it might not happen so soon reduce the way you call them not drastically but in a fair way detach yourself gradually when you go home attend their church it's not going to kill you join a church that preaches the word of God not through one that will take you away from God because despite all this you still need God join the workforce and serve God. don't let them know you've left the church until after like 2 or 3years. I hope with this few points of mine I'm able to convince you and not confuse you. P. S don't mind my punctuations I'm not just good at it. much love from a former deeper life girl

deanxy:
My fiancee and I have been in a relationship for 5 years now. I met her since she was in secondary school. We both love each other and she is very nice, loving and supportive too.

We have talked and started planning on settling down and that should before the end of the year but I am beginning to have a second thought.

The problem is not my fiancee but her mom. The woman is very nice and welcoming but lately, she did something that I am not comfortable with. Last week she sent me a text asking for financial assistance. That her daughter (my fiancee) is yet to pay her house rent at school and that my fiancee younger brother is yet to pay his registration fee. And so she had asked me to loan her some amount before the end of the month when she will remit it. That she considered me a son and that's why she confided in me. I later sent her SMS that I don't have anything.

I was like why would she asked me for loan when her daughter never asked for one naira in our Five years of relationship? So my fear is, should I marry her daughter, wont she trouble me with further demands? Please is there anyway around this? Please what do I do?

Man!!!!! with a lady you've spent 5 years with she's very nice o you can't date me for a whole year and not give me a dime I won't ask you buy shame no go let you rest except you're a naturally stingy person guy you should be happy to render such help it should look like an opportunity to buy the heart of her mother don't you think that can hasten your marriage plans? But as it stands now the woman knows you can afford to give her that was why she asked it could even be a test on you now you've used your selfish brain to push what would have been yours away because trust me you've lost your respect I'm that family you don't know your money can buy you real respect not shakushaku one o

JayCynic:
The woman's recumbent position shows just how women are malleable, into hoes, into sexslaves. Feminism to me sounds like a bullshited mazy phenomenon, it just doesnt hold. The man is a dick anyways.

waris all these rubbish now �

When there are well covered churches everywhere in Nigeria. canopies are plenty if they want to do it outside shey dey don't have rental services in cape Town? Why will they go all the way from Nigeria to cape Town to be heated by the sun on their wedding day? Abi I'm the only one noticing? Or is the sun different from the sun in Nigeria ni? Does it have a special flavor or it adds a special juice to their wedding because me I'm not understanding anymore o

40kobo77:
Caption should have been
" I'm only available to distribute HIV"

God will bless you that was what came to my mind immediately

June4th

NwaAmaikpe:



That comedy skit was unflavoured, relatively crude and everything opposite of funny.
The only thing promoted in it was Godfatherism.

Baba's pidgin was so caustic and lacked fluidity, Ajibola himself overacted.

I still wonder what type of boredom made Obasanjo stoop so low as to feature in such backstreet piece of shallowness.

Haba this is too much kilode!

My ex and I had issues with our relationship we attend the same church the relationship was filled with a whole lot of dramas like I don't call I don't send messages to him even when I'm online and all my ex stopped talking to me and I went to his friend to talk to him about it his friend tried to resolve it but I already have it full with my ex because there is nothing fun and fulfilling in our relationship he's half educated and we have a lot of differences he doesn't know how to express himself fluently in English and when I say some things he does not comprehend there is absolutely no challenge in the relationship no goal of getting better because your man does not even have an idea of getting better. Plus he's not a Nigerian it gets at me because I'm not challenged in the relationship no goal of learning something new from your spouse no heated argument on intellectual things I feel wasted in the relationship. His friend showed interest in me and I like him but my boyfriend won't take it lightly with me if he finds out because he's aggressive I'm confused about what to do. His friend is super he's what I want in a man he challenges me he puts me on a race to learn new things I'm a knowledge inquisitor and he puts me through all that please advice me what can I do I'm in a dilemma now I don't want to be the reason for their fight and my own reputation is at stake here

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