₦airaland Forum

Any man who in any way attempts to justify or play down rape is an animal. I've seen the mind of rapists and the biggest fault there starts with subtle justification of it then inability to know there is a way to escape the act.

Ladies beware this is why its important to know the psychological make-up more than the height, finances, skin colour, nose shape and social status of a man before dating him. Imagine some of the animal guys yarning dust on this matter are somebodies boyfriend, potential boyfriend and husband.

#BewareofPotentialRapists

Being fair, loud and fuckery.

Kia.....see the only Yoruba lady i love. Who have spoil her?��

QueenSuccubus:



Who's GLAD TO HAVE ME in his life

smart.

I must first be mad.

Mklancee:
I feel very bad for myself for never having the opportunity to date foreign women

Sorry na.

Mcslize:
That's the truth. Majority of Nigeria girls lack the skills of how to hold a conversation with a guy. They just can't. When you ask a girl what's good with you..how is your day kicking? They lack humour . A humorous girl will say my day is kicking pretty fine & bubbling. What about you, what's good with your day? A Nigeria girl will never reciprocate your conversation with her.

They feel that conversing with a guy is a one way thing.

" They don't know that if I ask you and you ask me na dey make conversation dey sweet"

When you chat with a white girl you will see the big difference. White girls are quite inquisitive and curious when conversing with you. They want to know you more as such the conversation end up being seemingly interesting.

But naija girls when you ask them what's good how are you kicking today? All they will say is "fine"

And if you meet the worse one...and you ask what's good with your day? They will kill your morale by replying with the worse reply ever which is "k"

How does "k" relate to what's good with your day question one asked.?
So, I will say the Op is pretty right .

How can they hold an interesting conversation when they are more mentally engaged thinking of the best line , scenerio or excuse with which to siphon cash from the guy with which to pose to their gf's even as the relationship never set well. To most of them, the relationship with the guy is more about impressing their gf's with talking points about how they knocked cash off you than impressing or knowing you.

Maybe its the poverty in the land or they are raised to think like cockroaches or not taught at all on the right relationship orientation since their is usually little or no relationship talk between daughters and parents beyond the occasional " what has he given or done for you" question once in a while by adults around the girl. Hence they learn mainly nonsense from their gf's instead and half copy whites.

DKM123:
Yes o!

Nigerian men are PERFECT. The BEST any woman from America, Japan and Jupiter can have for a husband!

Nigerian women are #$&@likemoney!@#%moneyfck%& !


Did I say, Nigerian men are PERFECT? Oh yes! Okay.

P.S: Nigerian men don't like money.


Smh! Nigerian men. You people are a sick bunch of bullies and I actually have genuine PITY for our women. You men are poison to this poor women and I wish they never have to be with men that feel this way towards them.

So what if they ask for money? It is the way society has raised them to believe the MAN is the provider, the master and the leader and the only way they assert that leadership is to be PROVIDERS. After all, they are told their duty as women is the caring for the family and raising the kids while the men is to PROVIDE MONEY!
You men crying foul here are also of this opinion. So why are you bitter. Choose a struggle.

When you start RESPECTING women the way you all DEMAND respect and tell them they can be Presidents, major CEOs and not shove them aside when they come out for top positions (just because they are women) or tell them to only aspire to marriage and childbirth and serving their husbands and cleaning the house and all this other bullsheet..... Maybe then, they will realise that they are just as intelligent as any man and can think towards being a WO(MAN) of themselves and not less likely to succeed financially than the man.

That time is coming though because our women are very hardworking and very brilliant, yet homely and decent as compared to ANY OTHER WOMEN IN OTHER CLIMES. Who know know!

Combining egocentric entitlement and feminism, thats the new height of Nigerian female nascism. Most Nigeria ladies can't spare 10% of their income on their man once in a while but expect him to regularly spend 50% -60% of his while also dragging "equal rights" and pushing feminism at him.

Since you accuse the society of teaching them that men are providers, who is teaching/ taught them feminism without full responsibility like sheltering, feeding (not just cooking), pay for their meal during a date and pimping their man like white ladies whom they half copy feminism from do? This shows that they learn or half copy whatever from where ever just to backup their selfish orientation and attitude.

And they wonder why Nigerian men have to marry them 3 or 4 just to derive oe squeze out some usefulness from the combination of them semi-whores called Nigeria ladies apart from in za oza room( for few who are not log wood selfish pretenders their) or in the kitchen.

Instead of them to learn and improve, most are here yarning dust.

I knew the fireworks will be hot between...... But that shouldnt always be the case even on trivial issues. Its funny how many igbos are concurring. I would say; it depends on the cook.

Any lady who thinks a guy getting paid 60k a month is broke should endeavor to help the guy with her own cash afterall she is supposed to be a helpmate and what a broke mate needs is cash or something that will cost money not cleaning, cooking or loathing etc (unless he is handicapped too)

Most of the ladies despising that amount of income can't even comfortably spend 10% of their own income on a guy. Good to see that many of the ladies are talking nice here.

She stuck with the guy when he was broke so the reward should be the guy sticking with her when he makes it. Abi did she spend 20% of her income on the guy then to warrant a car from him?

Its phony how most of these Nigerian ladies cant even bring themselves to spend 10% of their income on their guy talk more of housing him like white ladies normally do but really expect a lambo from him in due time.

Whatever a guy/ man does for a woman is for goodness sake unless in few special cases.

Meanwhile Buhari is busy with fulani herdsmen matters.

The answer depends on what she was doing while being stuck to the broke guy
-Was she contributing positively to uplifting and making him successful? Or was
she tapping the little he had, threatening, loathing or nagging around while waiting for the guy to done?

Hanseel1:
When a guy date a broke girl, should he be rewarded for dating the girl despite her terrible status?

Or is the rewarding not applicable to females?

Lol... is that what it is?