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Now thats a helpmate. Atleast the man can't tell stories at the end of the day.

Richdad50:
Dear Men,

God made virgins for wives not girlfriends. Keeping your virginity is the best gift you can give to a wife. A virgin is more likely to have a whole penis, whereas a man whose had multiple sexual partners may have bits worn away. Also, women bite. -Credit to Reno

Your hemp vendor must be mad by now.

Be submissive and helpful both financially, in attitude and orientation but don't be slavish.
Don't bring him stress. Be sexy and play with him.

BiafranBushBoy:
you should be ... how old?

18 - 20 years I guess!

I think you should be majorly concerned as to how you can come outta school with good grades and get a good - and probably keep it.

Not how to keep a man! Unless you just got a job as a man keeper in a psychiatric facility.

This stupid advice is why many girls are single at 35- They remained ignorant of important relationship matters like she has raised and missed chances to get on when they were young and hot.

naijanewstv:
My dearest, please don't allow water swallow your fellow woman. My daughter is in her SS2, they are the one to get into SS3 once school resumes.

She has a phone and 2 days ago, I almost caught stroke where I was going through her phone. I sent her to buy me some toiletries at the super market down the road and her phone was in her room charging. When she left, it started ringing and I went to pick up the Call, it was one of her school mates.

So I told her to call her back. The phone wasn't on password. What made me start assessing the phone was her fine profile picture, how beautiful it was.

I opened the gallery and saw hell. N!aked v!agina, lesb!an videos.Her and her friends snapped n!aked . I felt I have failed on my part.

Help me on what to do ? She is 15 years. Should I stop her from boarding because her school have day student who go and return home. It's just paying for school bus which will cost me 55k per month.

I am finished. I have ceased the phone, what else should I do ?

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/09/my-15-year-old-daughter-is-practicing-lesbianism.html

Are you sure you are not, like many educated women, one on those women who claim to be liberal and raise your kids with the orientation that there is nothing wrong with LGBT? Most of you educated women believe its ok as long as e no concern una until eventually one of your kids pick the cue and become one.

This is why i can never marry and run away from any lady who has no problem with LGBT before she will teach my kids nonsense and raise me homo children as a result of them imbibing her orientation early to the extend of experimenting.

Secondly, sending children to boarding below SS1 especially if its not unisex is almost assured that your that they will be involved in one or two.......so who knows the level at which you sent her to boarding school?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You people don't get, if the guy opened up and told me he's broke or in between jobs or something, it would have been fine. You forming posh and still asking for airtime. I didn't expect anyone to understand sha, abi no be nairaland again

If he is actually rich or works in an oil company, he doesn't deserve airtime from you. Ok i get it. Rich guys should limit their love life to only sending airtime not asking for one.

Realname:
Yep Nigerians are slaves like animals in a cage

I don't feel any pity for nigerians because they deserve every mean wicked and harsh treatement they get

Look at how they bicker amongst each other here like rabid dogs.

You see a Nigerian come here and try to seek supporters to speak evil about another's tribe and when people like me try to stop.it they say useless statements like you are joining the ibos to abuse yorubas so they will.like you?

I mean what sort of animal reasons like that. Personally I want Nigerians to be treated worse than dogs for they carry themselves so low and think their main mission is to out class the other tribe . Instead dof focusing on out classing international countries they are trying to out do each other

Nigerians are ruled by hate and envy . They see someone doing evil instead of condemning it , they will rather side with evil if it makes their tribe look better

What sort of living human thinks like that?

I feel no sympathy of these people whatsoever

Let Nigerians experience the worst ever I wouldn't even bat an eye lid

Nigerians are evil morally bankrupt and dirty

They are empty and hollow just a lot of superficiality and noise

No be all lie.

Dudeweedlmao:
I just dey laugh Nigeria. They think Asians are a better alternative to white/western people just like how some people think Russia would be better off as world power compared to the west.The chinks are known to be souless and have zero empathy. They are like blacks but with very high IQ. Atleast white people have empathy toward animal and human (that's why their country is being flooded today by immigrants) they feel guilty for what their ancestors did to the world, especially Germany with the holocaust, its called White-Guilt, it's actually a thing but the Chinese? Lol.

Exactly the point i was trying to make before i saw yours. Blacks are still seen and used like slaves in China today but many Africans love and revere them for their cheap fake product while hating Americans who amongst other things voted for a black man twice as president of the greatest country on earth.



Black man and ignorance be like 5 & 6.

Most Africans in their chronic ignorance, revere Chinese more than Americans who fought and died to end slavery. They go get sense of how much racism and hate the average Chinese is towards towards them later.

Guerella:
Lol lol lol bruh, thanks for your honest comment , where can I find some sugar mummies? , I'm not really tall, just average height but I am good looking lol

Its not necessarily that they hate you just that on sighting you, matured ladies gets flashbacks of the last case of handsome who burned them and the guys gets flash back of the handsome who took their second to last girlfriend from them. I've been there so i know. You just have to work harder at dispersing their informed fears cause you are guilty until proved innocent with them.

As for the sugar mommy's matter lets just let that slide for now until you are through with the matured ladies.

chigoizie7:
Do u really think that if jobs has been readily available for all, both men and women, that our ladies will be jumping from dick to dicksons.?

All those jumpings started from somewhere, and with time, it became a normal thing for them.

No be lie but there has never been job for all yet in comparism to ladies of past generation, the orientation and focus wasn't basically and mainly to see the mans paycheck first (which leads to the jumpings now) before having a quality relationship.

For me, i reassess the parameters on which i went into the relationship, the sequence of events that led to break up, the possibilities of reoccurrence of such events if i decide to go back to the relationship, The why's, what's, how's, actions and inaction, solutions and corrections to avert similar occurrence in next relationship. My brain simply goes into empirical mode where i fairly weigh and judge myself and her through the entire series of events that led to break up.

This process can last days/months and consume a great part of my CPU depending on how much emotional attachment i had towards the babe, as i have remember, mentally replay and process a lot of information from the relationship.

Finally i lol at myself with a brand new set of parameters and rules of engagement to take on the next babe peacefully. Never going to break another heart just because of the actions of another lady or failure of another relationship. Thats not fair.

nwanneni:
please sister i also need airtime,nothing is too small!
I can manage any amount

Lol. In the love book of Nigerian ladies, sending a guy something as little as airtime is a taboo and gold digging. The only way it works in Nigeria is only guys do airtime sending, ladies only do bed things.

chigoizie7:
because what was obtainable as at that time as in, standard of living is not the same now.

Once u are out of school then, job awaits u, my mother got a job b4 she served. She said that in her school back then UNN, at the end of each session, companies, gov't establishmentS go round begging for people to come work with them. It also applies to men too.




All those things are not applicable today.

Job or no job, the women then dated their men until conditions financially improved for marriage. Now, ladies are jumping around from dick to dickson looking for only ready made and fat pay check earners so the few fat earners knowing whats up, are having a field day with them without commitment.

Mourinho gets sacked, gets heavily paid and moves to PSG while Manu goes to hell with their youth development and English-boys-must-be-played-nonsense.

Timil:
Conte won the league with Luiz and Gary Cahill infact he won the league with the same team mou complained and whinned about a season earlier.

Ranieri won the league with huth and wes morgan, Mourinho should get the best out of his players and stop giving excuses for his failure.

So Conte did not buy players to win the league?
Mourinho built a fantastic team with which Conte won then Conte tried to dismantle Mou's Chelsea and buy his own squad and got sacked doing that.
Now he needs freedom and money to build manU. Respect the special one and he would win you trophies!

Timil:
You are the foolish and ignoramus one who are has failed to accept the fact Mourinho is always looking for who to blame for his failure and also bragging about his past success which is quintessential of our own Buhari.

Majority of man utd fans have become confused, foolish and also settling for less ever since Mourinho became coach.

Today they blame pogba, tomorrow its ed woodward when the actual problem of Man Utd is Mourinho.

The most appaling of it all is the settling for less attitude they've put on under Mourinho.

I can't imagine why the fans of a team that has won 20 leagues, 12 FA, 3 UCL titles will be flattered by a coach who can only win them an Europa league & FA CUP titles, Barca fans nor Madrid fans will never ever celebrate such coaches.

If Mourinho remains the coach of utd even with Leo and CR7 they can't win any major title with Mourinho's outdated coaching methods. #MouOut

What was Manu fast becoming a couple of years after Sir left before Mourinho was employed? Use your brain if you get one there.

If he keeps playing/starting any two of the small boys- Lingard, Matial and Rashford; Lukaku in big games and smalling/Jones alot he will be sacked due to bad results. Big players make and keep Big teams big.

But would Woodward stop pushing youth development nonsense and play-English-boys down Mourinho's throat. Left to Mourinho most of the average talented English boys will be shipped off to westbrom and Efficient names bought to make manu great again.

I only like teaching smart students. Am not patient enough to teach dull ones if they are not pushing hard enough to learn. It takes a special mind to be a good teacher.

The only thing i can regret in my relationship is not being loyal and i can't even blame myself too much for that

The society is rightfully empowering black ladies more but instead of to gladly improve on their beautiful role to complement and support men or take on relationship financial responsibilities gladly like men and white ladies do with their own empowerment, African ladies use their new found position to become recalcitrant, indignant, antagonistic and to challenge men and their headship or leadership role of a home.

Hence, more men become weary of permanently settling with such mentally stressful vibe, attitude and orientation ladies now exude.

Empower a man (even if na with keke or gate man job) and he immediately looks for a lady of even far less financial capacity to improve, financially support and marry. On the other hand, empower a black lady (even if with oil company/offshore job or immigration job) and behold someone who loathes all men she is richer than and starts looking for even richer men until nature forces her to act otherwise.

Can you come to my house i want to do things to you?
If she shows up....

Guerella:
Please Why Are Fine Guys Hated Here In Nigeria?

I notice the disdain especially from girls when a really fine guy shows up, it's almost like one demon just came up, their faces change and they start murmuring among themselves like you broke one of em heart.

As a fine guy I have no gf, because when I approach girls they don't seem to trust me, it's almost like I am one deadly virus they are avoiding, they just see me as some serious competition they can't keep up with.

And I also noticed that most people don't just like fine guys, I don't know why they feel so unsafe around us.

My friends don't even introduce me to their gfs for unknown reasons.

In Nigeria here nobody gives a Bleep if you are fine cute or not, they don't care about your personality, if you don't have money, you like shit to everyone.

This is not the case in other countries, in US if you cute, everyone loves you especially the ladies even if you broke you get girls to shower you with love, gifts.

Why is it the other way round here in Nigeria? Lol

Because in Nigeria peoples brain operate in reverse due to malaria.
On a serious note, younger girls (teenagers) and very early 20's then older ones(sugar mommas), if you are tall, will "love" you for your handsomeness.

Whats is it with mouth odor being mentioned here.
If the person interested in you or you are interested in has mouth odor then why not buy tooth brush and paste for him or her and continue your matter with him/her? What are friends for? Show some love people.

Whenever am in a near death situation (like last night) i see my dead relations and take caution. I love them. More importantly, they love me.

All lovely.

bukatyne:
I am a lady bro

eewww apologies pretty, forgive my lack of attention. I didn't check.

bukatyne:
O yeah, we are the problem till ladies and guys are desperately trying to settle down in their 30s. The lady especially is too desperate and can longer diligently choose so she settles for anyone and later cry that all men are...... Insert whatever adjective you like.

And who told you that people at 20 don't have jobs?

Let's assume the are even in school.

At 20, a lady starts preparing for marriage... Start becoming more homely, start doing personality checks and realise that fuckboys are off the table. She might find someone at 21, study him in a 2yr courtship and start prepping for wedding so that by 24/25/26, she is married.

Because she is still young, she is not pressured to settle and can end a relationship if the guy is not what she thought he was when she gets closer.

Whatever she thinks she is enjoying with random men can be enjoyed with one man if she marries right. Couples do date nights, go to clubs if inclined, go for vacation, have destination sex, have sex in their car/balconey/hotel/rooftop etc. As they like it.

Ditto a guy.

True talk there. My man. Now too much school and locked up in work place day after day only exposed to fellow workmates who may not be inclined to date them have robbed many ladies of finding the man at their prime of their physical beauty.
How can they understand.
What you write is exactly what i plan to advise my daughters. Start looking for marriage partner early as 20 while studing whatever.

Being short.
Being a leftist( not against islam, LGBT).
Bleaching.
Heavy make up like masquerade.
Men antagonizing feminism.

Ladies need to focus more on building great friendship, being helpmates and bringers of joy than chopmates, fuckmates and contentious leadership and role dragging based on feminism with men alone so men can consider them useful beyond the bed.


More women have occupied jobs men mostly do before from which they raise money to marry without taking the responsibility of financially facilitating and bankrolling marriage as a matter of responsibilities part of their new found positioning. Hence the average earning lady in Nigeria unlike her white counterpart, is still looking for a man to bank roll their friendship and marriage when she and her fellows are occupying the very jobs men have to occupy to do the bank rolling. Thus the few men who can bank roll friendship and marriage now have excess ladies flocking around them that they can have "all" marriage gives without being married.

For even many married men wish they are single due to their wife being bringers of stress by exhibiting antagonistic vibes and attitudes!

majekdom2:
can I ask, what is the sole reason of having a partner? Is it a means to sustain one’s financial needs or a means to make one better? The thing is some women have this mentality a man is just there to meet their need just like you have put upthere, thus when they can meet their needs without the support of who they call partners, the wisdom and sense to keep a partner is gone. The reason they are single. They can’t love or see a man beyond his financial abilities at that time. The reason why we work as a team in organizations is to achieve higher grounds, meet goals faster. This is same for relationships. What can you say of a lady whose fiancee suggested they open a joint account, save together towards a goal and the response the guy got was “ you are looking for someone to sponsor you abi”. We need to have the right mindset, this is where is starts from.

You wise.