₦airaland Forum

Asu015:
And he didnt even care about the muslims in south

Because they are not subjected to religious bigotry like in the north where the story is different.

Richdad50:
Atiku, the last unifier that may ever come from the North. A miss of this opportunity may spell doom and anarchy for decades to come. If you know the operations of this present government, then you will understand why the country needs a unifier at this time else, we will plunge into an unredeemable pit of hatred and sectionalism.

#Richdad

True talk there.

1StopRudeness:
Lol...

My own is ...let everyone know what they want in a relationship. And state it on-time without assumption...so no one feels cheated....

before one party starts to feel the body she's donating is expected to yield morethan an erection but also iphone, hair and wedding ring

lol.
na so... fellow sabinus.

blindjustice13:
what do you expect from a country where women teach their daughters from the day they are born how to kneel down and serve their husbands food and pound yam while they let their sons run around like wild animals . which is why Nigerian men are special breeds of savages on the surface of the earth. Even people from other countries can testify to that.

Na woman go write this kind nonsense (pun intended) aswear. Do you know if it's lack of kneeling down and serving the husbands food and pound yam that led to the mans attitude?

victorian:
Am telling you.
Some men are like that. You will be shocked .

I blame myself small cos i don't know where to start cautioning him as he knows my ungood side (before not present ) too soo where mouth to preach? He may not take it serious and i wonder small sef if he got spoiled trying to be like us (but ours dont involve wife/maltreatment) or if always had it in him or if the wife does not match his sexual appetite. It's a straw web.

1StopRudeness:
My sincere apologies if I struck a nerve..I know it sounds a bit fallacious....but that's what it is lately....I'm not trying insult any woman.... Or generalize....it's just the order of the day.
Sometimes u ladies don't even know u have it..but unconsciously, once u start fvcking a guy...u start to have the entitlement feeling that u deserve, not his body this time...but other things like cash and the likes

Ok....I agree prostitution might sound like a derogatory word..but correct me if I'm wrong, the exchange of sex and cash/ material things doesn't have another name..
A relationship just makes it look nice...and it's all good if you are getting married soon...

...don't get me wrong I don't think it's bad.....shébi u notice me advicing the Op it's no Biggie to spend...it's just what it is...and there a just some ladies that over do it which now makes it look like taking advantage and that's what guys don't like...

All correct, sir.
I like the way you put it across thats its our cross to be magaed one way or the other but the degree of magaring and intensity of the magarer can pose a confusion problem to the magaed.

Many ladies of marriageable status are not yet married because they can't convince a guy that they are useful especially outside the bed or many run along with guys that have no use for them outside the bed for too long for the love of money and a long thing until suddenly, the sunsets.

anonymous1759:
Shame shame shame!!! Shame on African leaders you see where you've placed yourself.. Very soon international community will tell you how to fuvk your wives and how many children you can have.

Over 58 yrs of independence you can't conduct simple election... Look at how uk and US are threatning you guys with Visa, why because you can't sit at home and develop your nation traveling from one County to another even the so called president. I dislike all of you like shitit nonsense leaders bringing Shame on the African continent... Can usa interfere in North Korea elections? Russia, even small countries Dénmark Belgium they can't.

Useless leaders without Pride and useless supporters who see Nothing wrong when international community interfere in thier countries business.

If they don't interfere, some people will use others do headscarf. Blacks see politics as a kill and dry your opponent (perceived enemy) thing. Interference can be positive or negative thing. This case its a positive .

Good.

victorian:
At the bolded , please speak for your self

Some men out there , look good , dashing and all are not mentally OK. They have double personalities . they are not OK upstairs . and that's the truth .
They show off a certain nice personality that a lot of their friends will envy and be like this man is so gentle and meek like a dove ;DD
He cannot hurt a fly .
But when wife starts crying out , everyone will be perplexed . As in what is she saying ? Women sef ! They can never be satisfied ! But this woman is living inside hell in her own home .

May God not allow us marry people who are psychologically imbalanced in Jesus name .
I know what she's going through, that's why am saying this and it will only get worse , if she doesn't swallow her pride and what her parents will say of " we told u so" but u thought our mouth were smelling, now your eyes don clear , abi?
The earlier she divorce that man , the better for her . cause at the end , if she doesn't leave , Na death dey end am . last last.

You are not lying at all. I have a friend with all that criteria (cant say meek was part of it though) yet within 10 minutes of being with him and his newly wedded wife i noticed he was practically terrorizing her and even their little baby. After all the elaborate wedding and so much frenzy. Even running side chicks till today am yet to process it all. And the wife is even very beautiful and gentle type. Shame catch me for my friend.

victorian:
Lefulefu, you are not far from the truth at all.

You no lie !

Am telling you. Most marriage out there , na children dey keep them.

Some are even worse than prison .

I don't envy married people one bit . Na my own life I just face .

Except very few.

And many dey pray and fast to enter there own prison. Lol

joelenesleek:
The most horrible boys in Nigeria are here on Nairaland, very quick to abuse women. It's most likely they were birthed by gorrillas that's why the lack respect for women. Every beautiful, well shaped successful or not lady is a prostitute to them.#tueh. I pity the vaginas that birthed such men and I pity the vagina they will end up with

What!!!

People who don't know anything about marriage and are not fit will go and marry then start sharing stories that touch. Funny enough it was always easy to know where they will end up given how they reason beforehand. How did she end up with such man if not for love of money or big "dyke"? Who knows how many true gentle men she rejected on her way to domestic hell. Parents should raise the issues of good partners and teach their daughters how to detect and avoid such emotional immature guys.

Westaslave2:
Dat one is small na

Wat of husbands who ar softspokers dat cant stand dia fvcking ground wen faced wt challenge ,instead dey wl start crying

I mean husband women ar marrying SHAME

lol

Samunique:
I cannot but agree with u.
But to achieve this looks terribly very impossible because of the huge population the northern illiterate youths who know noting rather than their religion and are like "push and start car". This has always been our set back in Nigeria , and they have been what these old cargos always rely on to wrestle, and continue to hold on to power. The only way to achieve this is to first liberate these people from their ignorance and poor mind set and get them to think for themselves just like u and I, that's when what u said here will be possible.

How will they be educated?

ItsMeAboki:
Too bad, your Igbo ppl will rather Atikulate for another northerner than vote for you their own daughter; yet the same ppl will later be crying marginalisation and northern born to rule mentality.

As if you and your kind would have voted for her. Igbos are not given to your kind of ethnic bigotry politics devoid of moral sensibility. It's a sign of developed mindset unlike the crude politics you subscribe to that can only leave a nation moribund as seen so far.

Bitterleafsoup:
Its true but me I can't vote for her or Sowore for helping APC into power.

Yeah understandable we all held that against her but she has carried out this huge political redemption act now. I call clean slate. Or dont you think her sins should be forgiven now? I think so.

Observer007:
Most reasonable comment so far. She's a true patriot. Imagine Sowore, Olawepo-Hashim, Durotoye, Duke and Okotie getting behind Moghalu and galvanising votes for him against PDP/APC.

That's what good mature politics where the good of the people trumps selfish individual interest like beloved Oby just demonstrated should look like. That's how saner clones run politics to the betterment of their people.

Wow. This is glorious. My respect for her and womanity just skyrocketed. Imagine the other candidates doing the same then we have a real contest. Wow.... this woman has earned her place in the pack of true enlightened political elites and written her name in Gold.

This powerful move should earn her a place as VP to any of the other candidates.

#Itshallberemembered.

Sakamaje:
Atiku is so lucky. He's the only Fulani/Muslim igbos don't hate.

As if it is the fault of igbos that they have a problem with many Fulani leaders. If they behaved reasonably without bigotry will igbos hate them? Igbos are not interested in hating anyone just because he is not igbo only those whose doings call for it.

But then who hates Atiku? He has being playing politics of goodwill to every side to a large extent apart from some other matters. Is that the effect of being educated and enlightened or just who he is?

Can you say igbos hate Fulani people while they provide them employment massively as gatemen and even allow them bring many of their brothers to stay eat from them while at it? What igbos hate are the ones who carry out killings or support it or look away because they are not victims yet.

Well done. Fine children. They look like twins. Are they?

Westaslave2:
U ar nt being sensitize in ur words ,hit d nail pls

D lady fighting me in a situation wt diabolical means goes 2 church 24/7 ,
So wat did u think? I lyk men dat goes straight 2 d point

Wow in the case of diabolism (of you are very sure its involved), only God can save you and the man.

Westaslave2:
nna u ar here ! Tell me more

You want make i write epistle abi .
Aha, you want to learn what it is they do that spins mens brain so you can start doing it abi ..lol ..bad ph girl. I just have one one word - dedication. Dedication to steal a heart like their life depends on it cos actualy their lifestyle depends on it. And men subliminally sense it and are hooked.

stupidity:
its so true bro. If not for the grace of God, I for don break up with my babe begin date olosho. This ashi is damn caring and knows how to make me relax, fvcks me to high heavens and always put bubbyy in my mouth while I’m alsleep. Now tell me why an ignorant man won’t divorce his wife and marry such girl. But na God get power, her plan for me nor work.

lol

kernel001:
Thanks for opening my eyes towards another dimension... "middle belt who voted for Buhari yet where turned into salah rams while he looked the other way?".

You're damn right with your observation.

Welcome nnaa. The way some people think just reeks of poor mental development and exposure they eb

There quest to be chopmates instead of helpmates.

That's Nigerian women for you. Making money is an opportunity to berate men while men are killing themselves to make money and buy their love or hand (abi some other body part in marriage). I pity those dying to spend on those that are only worth being fxckmates.

They become better at detecting wrong guys, deceiving the gullible nice ones and learning to give guys a sense of genuine love out of experience.

kernel001:
Oooh! My man, it's been ages. I was banned by some overzealous moderator for perceived infraction.

Back to the matter, Yorubas should understand that any tribe has a right to vote anybody, and still retain there rights, without any fear of being marginalise.

Thats something moderators can improve on - the banning system.

Unfortunately only few of them have enough social moral intelligence to know that. It takes a less ethnocentric bigot bent brain to understand that.

Phony enough what are they going to say about middle belt who voted for Buhari yet where turned into salah rams while he looked the other way? Did those ones make stupid decision too even though whom they voted for won?
All these shallow low IQ orientation in some climes sounds soo sophisticated but is very dumb even nation destroying on further perusal hence the moribund state of the nation when those who peddle it have their way.
Abi a case of anything to paint igbos black.
If they vote - they will be accused of voting the wrong candidate (even while the so - called right candidate is making a mess of the nation) They decide not to vote to avoid rubbish they get accused of trying to instigate division and disruption.
They see a candidate showing a body language of carrying everyone along and having experience of how to bring improvement soo decide to support him, they threaten them with victimization if he losses.
If they agree to one Nigeria and ask that every side be threated right and given a sense of belonging those screaming one Nigeria but pursuing ethnic politics at the detriment of the country accuse them of claiming marginalized for not joining them to play such selfish and nation destroying politics.
If they ask for a referendum to ascertain if everyone is comfortable with the lopsidedness and tacit oppression, they get accused of calling for war.
What kind of zoo is this?

kernel001:
Igbos have a right to choose who to vote. Secondly, voting the opposition doesn't deny any tribe the right to what's due to them.

How can you explain this to a retard. That no tribe deserves to be victimized due to whoever they vote for by whoever wins otherwise no one should vote then lest who they voted for losses. This is beyond the allowed IQ of retards.

Have i not said that this is what homosexuality definitely involves? But simpletons said let them be it's just a personal thing.

Deicide:
So what should we do?

Apply while vacancy exist.