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queencalipso:
Apologies for my mistake.

Apologies accepted, shurry

nma24:
No I don't have a problem with that. Serves you right if you are though....

Lol, I even thought she was my ex too considering how pained she sounded

SANCHEZH1:
i don see dis story before

Where you see am bro

ChikezieU:
you bid her good bye for good, true she messed you up but trust me you will later regret that act. You loved her and still does, i hope you don't try to woo her back cause she will make you pay worse although God has the final say. You would have played nice even if u didnt pay for perfume atleast finish up nice show by lifting her, she knows u r no fool and will still respect you more. Atleast it would have helped to put ur mind to rest cause you still love her.

I know her, she will mistake my kindness as an attempt to woo her back. She takes things for granted a lot & I've already vowed never to spend a dime on her prior to our encounter at shoprite. I'll never woo her back but if she shows enough remorse I might consider her and it would be strictly based on mutual respect

queencalipso:
Chino is this you? I thought you are a married man, where is this story coming from?

I'm certainly not him pls, if anything, I hate his views on most political issues.

Lescalier:
Just one question for you. Which of the shoprites did you go to?

How many shoprite malls are in Owerri?

hilaomo:
UPDATING ALL THIS SHOW HOW MUCH YOU CARE ABOUT HER...NO CRY YOURSELF A RIVER AGAIN,TAKE HER BACK!!!

But she hasnt even come to plead for forgiveness and I have decided that I would rather remain a bachelor for life than for me to ask her to come back!

@Nelgenius4me, maybe you missed the part were I said I once proposed to her, so she would know i'm serious but she later returned the ring saying that i want to tie her down. I'm already in the process of trying to date two other girls and see which one will work out. Although, I still have feelings for my ex but its dying gradually expecially since i have tried to maintain zero contact with her against immense urge to call her. I pray everything works out well in the end. I have to admit that my family did not like her expecially from the time they learnt she was living with me & they were threatning her. In fact that was when we started having serious problem before I got her to live with some student as roommates, from there things went south rapidly.

Oksman:
@ Op, run as far as you can from her cause she is a gold digger. What you are suffering from is withdrawal syndrome caused by the high oxytocin level in your system resulting from the years of bonding with her (sexually), that feeling of yours is not love, so do away with her or you'd regret it. Pray to God for a wife and forget this your adventure

Ok, Thanks!

ChemicalReaction:
You should have paid for one of the perfumes jorh! Whats perfume? Btw, you're obviously still very much in love with her(updatin ur successes and checkin her out on fb)and ur also trying to make her jealous thats for not buying the perfume. I can bet you bought most of those not necessarily cos you want 'em but cos she's there,right? Make up already! Go for what you want.#my opinion tho.

Lol, you are probably right about me still being in love with her, yes I agree but its no longer a do or die affair. About not buying a perfume for her, its not because of the money but the fact that she wants to eat her cake and still have it. Perfume is nothing compared to the things I used to buy for her when we were together. She even said she told her friend that they might meet me there because she knows I frequent there on sundays. She wronged me terribly, if she begs me, I'll forgive her but I'll never be the one to ask her back no matter my feelings for her.

ChemicalReaction:
OP, why would you be seeking for justification if you feel you did the right thing?

Simple, because two heads are better than one!

abbeyology88:
Mister.


U said u guyz av been 2geda for ova 3yrs and she left cos of her friendz bad advices.

*na somethin like dis I like pass *


Wait 4 anoda three years, check her out, u will b surprised that u are a lucky man to have left her on her own (I no wish am bad Oo)

but whoeva dat is not contented wit wat he/she has always ended up regrettin their moves.


My old Gf did d same (even got married and had a kid). Afta a year, I was surprized, she called me dat she wanted us to start our reltnshp


so, strange. "Married with a kid"

I said No to devil.


Bro, live on.

Thanks Bro, She even said she wants us to remain friends while she will have a lover elsewhere! I queitly rejected the satanic offer and went zero contact on her for over a month. I hate blowing my trumpet but I'm relatively successful (viz-a-viz my age) with a bright future ahead. I hope it wont be too late when she comes back!

SirDavico:
Ok then. Take care bro. And If u do take her back, sit her down and have a serious talk with her. Most ladies are materialistic. U just have to learn to control them discreatly.

Of course we will never get back together except after a serious discussion. She used to tell me that I mean the world to her when we newly met and did my part in trying to reassure her by showing her love but along the line she changed to something else & started manipulating me. I believe it her friends that corrupted her mind.

Pweedyfaszy:
she might be regretting n trying 2 look 4 a tactic 2 come 2u.

I guess so too because the day I visited her recently, she later called me at night(10pm) with a bedroom voice and was asking me if I was back home while I left her place at 6;30pm. After each question, she would pause to see if I would initiate talks with her but I kept replying with yes and no answers. Then she bade me goodnight and cut. The irony is that when we were together, she would never call me to know if i back homely safely. I would still be the one to call getting home. The problem is that she has too much pride in her, and might decide to suffer in silence than beg me for another chance. Either way, I'm ok with it.

kwaso:
@proeast, why are u seeking justification from the public. The question is how would she has treated u if the story was opposite? U r a man. Be responsible for ur actions

Ok, but your second sentence isnt clear to me

harsysky:
proeast, I beg of you, "Do not go back to that girl". Whether you have feelings or not, just let her go. If you feel you could handle her again this time, I pity for you cos she has already written that scenario in her heart and will do anything to make you feel worse. My 2 cent

Thanks for the advice bro

Dab2mydick:
u want her to hang herself abi

No, but I couldnt help it bro!

SirDavico:
Although I can't say ur ex didn't err, what u did was Imature. U shouldn't have embarassed her in public. If u had the money, u could have bought the perfumes for her, even if it's just one.

She's been calling u stingy, right? Had u bought it for her, She would be feeling even more guilty now.

Even if u don't want her back, which is apparent, u should have play the mr nice guy to the fullest.

And if u treated her that way inorder not to appear as a ''maga''....So man, u got it all wrong.

I still do have feelings for her, if she comes back with tears and beg me, I'll forgive her and then we will have mutual respect for each other. When she told me how her friend was reaping off the other guy. I couldnt help but imagine it could be me. About the stingy part, she thought the grass was greener elsewhere but must have realised I was even a cheerful giver. I bet any man would hardly spend as much as I spent on her except all these politician sugar daddies

Pweedyfaszy:
Wat a pity....i feel sorry 4her.

What do you think her feelings for me now, will be like? Will she hate me with me with passion or regret how she treated me ab initio??

moststylish:
I have observed that in the world we live now, u have to have a cold heart to succeed, wen u are soft people will trample on you.

Fact! Experience is the best teacher and I learnt the hard way. I used to be very nice and caring until my ex messed me up!

Dab2mydick:
I can't really do such to a girl... Dis story pained me, i just believe it's not true

Very true bro, it happened just yesterday at shoprite here in Owerri. I'll never waste my time to fabricate stories!

icedbeatz:
Sorry bro after all in your brilliant mind and perception Facebook is "only" meant for publishing the good and exciting things happening in our lives, btw if by now you're not smart enough to know what to do with the girl from when she started threatening to leave you for Mr. Turkey till when she was in the middle of gold digging operations with her partner in crime that seeks advice from her tutor then once again sorry bro. Enjoy yourself though.

I only asked for advice but you started insulting me. Even if I made a mistake, which every human being is prone to make sometimes, should that be an avenue to start insulting me??

Dab2mydick:
that's enough torture already... Take her back and stop these shii bro... U don't treat a lady that way. Don't u have a conscience

Bro, talking about conscience, she took advantage of unconditional love I had for her and made me pass through hell. I was like someone bewitched!

I meandered through the roundabout, slotted in phyno's Fada Fada with Olamide and pressed hard on the throttle. THE END.

She said I've refused to buy her anything. I said she didnt ask, then she quickly added that it was not too late, that would she would go and get them & left immediately. By now, it was my turn to display what I'm paying for, the guy was busy calculating what I bought, already a lady had earlier asked me jokingly if I was doing an occassion based on the large goods I bought & I smiled and said no. My ex rushed back with two perfumes when I was paying & I told her I was sorry I wasnt having enough to cover that. She was embarrassed & went to keep it back. When she came back, I asked her if she could her me with some of the goods I bought to my car. She was flustered but obliged me all the same. when we got to my car, I packed the goods on the back seat and told her I would have giving them a lift but unfortunately, I need to get to somewhere first before heading home & she said ok. As I drove off, I observed she was looking at me & when I looked in her direction, she started pressing her phone....

icedbeatz:
you upload the good and exciting things happening in your life on Facebook?!?! What the fk is wrong with your brains meeeeeeehn! how could you be doing such stupid thing that mostly girls are known to do? you're must be a fuccking joker to be "updating" your life on Facebook. I haven't seen some dumb thing like this for a while but I guess welcome back to Nairaland. Please stop that its awful and immature. Enjoy your life to the fullest, snap pics to keep memory if you can and go on publishing it to the world like you're one of the RKOI.

Stop feeling funky son, you just typed nonsense! What is facebook for if not to keep in touch with others and share life experiences? Kids like you thinking they know it all when its obvious they are ignorant!

Liamm:
Okay... Proeast, you've succeeded in getting the attention of members on this board.... Come and finish up this your story so we can advice you on what to do....


takes my jotter and pen... Jots one thing or so

Thanks Dear

Initially, I asked her about her new guy and she said he has gone back to Turkey. I looked at her and said I thought she was smart. Why would she believe very obvious lies the guy told her? I asked her if she has seen pictures of him while he was in Turkey, she said no. I asked her if she has gone through his profile on facebook (which I know the answer because I go through her facebook profile and I observed that she hasnt added anyone with such resemblance) and she said no but added that they do chat on wassap and she also saw his international passport. By now we were waiting in line at the payment desk. I remembered that I forgot to pick toilet rolls and told her to hold the trolley while I get it. When I came back, I observed she was restless....

ChemicalReaction:
Proeast, where art thou?! We're waiting for update!

I'm on it please. I'll still need your advice devoid of sentiment, because I know that ladies like forming aluta solidarity atimes when it comes to female matters

kaziblake:
Proeast update fast abeg

Hold on a bit dear, I'm on it!

Spicylate:
Patiently waiting to read up before I drop my one thing, two things advice

Pls I'll need the advice and I hope it will be constructive. I still have feelings for the girl, despite the fact that I'm already in involved with two different girls who are showing serious interest in me. Inwardly, I know that if my ex comes begging I might still forgive her!!!

And started pick'n groceries while she walked beside me, making coments like, wow they have this product here. Things are cheap here & bla bla bla to which I just nodded in agreement. She picked up one perfume and said my God, that she would have bought it if not that she wasnt having money with her, I just ignored the statement, then she left soon after saying she wants to check on her friend & I said ok. I continued shopping, filling the two baskets with goods. She later rejoined me and gossiped to me that her friend asked her if she should pick a lot of things and she replied her that there may not be a next time so she should make the most of it! I looked at her & shook my head, to which she laughed. I instantly felt pity for the guy on how they were unabashedly exploiting him even when the girl has no intention of dating him! I asked her whether they know if the guy has enough money to pay for all the items her friend was picking and she said that was there business.....