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This is what you need op.
Thanks for the write up.

baldman:
Dear OP, Please keep moving on, and I advice you move on really fast. You should thank God that you got to know about her promiscuity early enough. You should never look past any act of cheating in a committed relationship ( meaning a relationship where both of you have professed love for one another, and are both looking for something that will be long term) . It is a huge red flag, and any kind of feeling that will make one want to continue with someone who has cheated is not a healthy one. I dare say it comes from the confusion caused by the unhealthy bonding which sex before marriage brings about ( Sorry, I digressed). The reason why cheating should not be condoned is that a successful marriage is built on trust. It is hard to trust someone who has once betrayed one's trust. You do not want to spend your whole life monitoring your wife. Moreover, cheaters are bound to lie, and there is nothing worse than marrying an irredeemable liar ( she cried even though she knew it was a lie). Again, you don't want to spend the rest of your life doing fact check every time you wife tells you something. It is even more terrible if you marry into a family where they have low moral standard. The girl's mother's reaction shows that cheating is acceptable in their world. Would she beg her son to marry such a girl? She is also highly manipulative ( the girl probably got that from her mum) the begging and cursing are way of trying to manipulate you. Her prayers and curses has no weight, just delete her number and her daughters and move on. There are seven lessons that I think you should learn from this, and I will outline them for other single guys to note as well.

1. Do not marry any girl who does not regard you as a bestie or maintains an opposite sex as a bestie even after meeting you. If you find that you are not able to overthrow her previous besties( not by force but by charm, conscious show of affection and commitment), work towards establishing friendship first. Under normal circumstances, the besties should gradually fade away as your friendship deepens. You know you have won when you are the one that has to remind her to check up on her friends or they have to befriend you to maintain her attention.
2. Do not marry a lady that is manipulative. She cried to manipulate him, she introduced the boyfriend in order to manipulate both of them. She got the Mum involved to manipulate him.
3. Do not marry someone that can lie convincingly over any matter whether having to do with infidelity or not. Liars should be avoided unless you want to be a life-long investigative journalist. Lying should be a deal breaker. If you discover one lie, you bet there are a thousand others still hidden.
4. Watch the family you want to marry into, speak to those who are married to their children, ask questions around their neighborhood or community. If they do not have values that aligns with yours, do not marry their daughter. Every girl you marry comes with a baggage - her family. Choose your wife having regard to the quality of her baggage. They will determine if you marriage will work or not. If a man report such a thing to some mothers, the mother will be too ashamed to call the boyfriend.
5. If you got her to sleep with you cheaply, if she does not think sex is something special that should be reserved, be careful about going on with her. If all of her exes got her just because they were dating, and you got her too because you guys are dating (no indication of something serious) be careful. I feel when young well raised men experience sex before marriage, they tend to bond with the partner to soon, and the judgment gets clouded. I will say, follow the word of God, but if you can't I will say, keep sex off the table until you are sure you know this person well enough to make a clear headed decision, and you are committed to them.
6. Always look out for loyalty and compassion in any girl you want to be with. The urge to misbehave will be there for every couple, both male and female, but people who have sense of loyalty will be hard to be swayed, and those who will just remember there partner and think, he does not deserve to be treated like this, may likely try to resist tempting situation.
7. Never marry a girl that does not respect the sanctity of marriage. Any girl that is quick to suggest divorce, any girl that thinks it is ok to date several men at a time, any girl that will selfishly date a married man should be a No-No.

Thanks

Oluwabuyi1:
Boss thank you for this... even I was touched by this

Because se are professional and we love our profession.[q1uote author=WorworBoi post=88968211]

Why all the tailors in the house have "Prof" as their moniker....wetin dey coronate sef [/quote]

Guy don't mind those olosho you call girlfriend
They are always after money the question is why can't their brothers or father join yahoo yahoo. Tailoring is a good profession am proud to be a tailor, grad of accounting, living in my own house and happily married. God will give you your own wife. I have some friends back then who refuse to learn any skill now they are suffering and still on the streets.
Go to the island and see tailors making it big those olosho want yahooboy that will spend on them and later use them for rituals.

Everybody will die including Christians but after death where will you end. Many will survive this covid -19 base on their faith in God. My God is able to deliver at all times
Remember the 3 Hebrew men they were faced with two options either to bow down to lesser god or to burn in the fiery furnace we all know what happened next.

LordReed:
I call bullshit. The bishop that died in the US boasted the same way you are boasting now yet he is dead from the virus. Not only him other "fire-filled" Christians have died with after similar boasts.

It is likely that they call off a full lockdown today and allow people return to work. Watch and see, because I am quite certain the number of cases will balloon and unfortunately people will catch the virus and die of it. I can bet you, Christians will not be spared even the so called "fire-filled" ones. I urge everyone to take every precaution in this period to be safe, Any reliance on so called "fire-filled" bullshit is only opening yourself to danger.

My God liveth for ever.
My pastor is fine too
Did you have any of these?

kingxsamz:
Where is your God, Nd where are your pastors too?

Are witches and wizard also affected by this lockdown?
Do they still attends their secret meeting at night?
Do they maintain social distancing in their meeting?
They claim they have power why can't they cure their family members that are in need at this time.
Where are The Babalawos, Ritualist don't they have power again, or their so call power is to kill innocent child.

What is happening now in the whole world shows that all Power belong to God Almighty,
He is the only one that can heal our Land.
Please reconcile with your God and he will have mercy on you.

No 27.

He is my sufficiency. Throughout this lockdown have not been working and no source of income for me and my family, but surprisingly God has been my provider all through. God has been feeding us. Thank you Jesus.

Why the Love Machine check the rate at which they buy it online even on jumia.

You think everybody have enough before lockdown..

Ikemefuna18:
What have you been doing before the lockdown?

You call this good question, if you cant help let others do.

Samakus:
Good question

That's not kehinde bankole. She is not fair in complexion like that and she has never acted as miss pepeye.

I dey here ooo. No shingbam for house ooo
3015126930 firstbank

Cook ewedu and okro and put them inside your vagina. Thanks me later

The A.C is new why did you want to put gas. Abi na used one

Bomboclairee

Which kind incomplete news be this,,, guy becareful

I learnt a lot from this thanks sir

Where is part 2

What men see frequently is easy to change their mind. Youve gone too far away, someone is around him

Pls see alagbo. I believe you understand. it could be Teso. Then pls take your wife along to the alagbo place so that she need to be check it could be from her I know what am saying sir. Then pls what is your sex life before you got married hope you didn't offend any lady

3minssex:
Same thing,sir.

I last same 3-4 minutes in second and subsequent rounds

After 1st round do you still last for 3 minute in second round if yes that's a big problem. But if it happen in 1st round no qualms. Solution don't rush to penetrate and put your mind elsewhere during the act.

Thanks God bless you

2billion dollars from our reserves is enough for the 40million bvn holders to get 20000naira each. But they won't share it

Corona jam virus. Good for them

I don laugh tire oooo

owoRITAKpor:
both of you will be in the same class as it is, however you will be the class captain since you are closer to the answer than he is.

Jeka do rawa

Kontinue, what now happen how did you know the way in.