MadeINchenzen2:
u will be wise if u dont disregard my sincere advice. Dont die with ur talents because u deliberately dont want to get rid of that cankerworm called PRIDE

Please I need 3k to pay an agent as to secure a security job, please help a jobless brother. God will you bless you exceedly

peteregwu:


Oga, listen to her testimony. We didn't give her invitation neither did any member of the Lords Chosen preached to her. Which popularity are you talking about. The Lords Chosen is even more popular than her. It seems you don't even know the Lords Chosen. Anyway, na jesus arrest am sha. Na she talk am by her self. Jesus is in the Lords Chosen.

The poster from the picture wrote "prob 18-16" if I'm correct but it's funny how she never wanted anything to do with God. Just wondering

princeSammyz:
Are the millions really real millions or e get as e be? Why do not not make Forbes richest men?

Because they all are salary earners Forbes is made up of business men and company owners. No matter how much you earn you're still getting paid by someone

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engrelvis:
defend ke?read well bro.l was just saying prostitutes v now upgraded. As for getting a good girl am a respectable married man ( 14yr now).

There's nothing respectable about you because you can carry any STI and dump it in your matrimonial bed.. 14 years??!! and you carry Ashawo at the sliest of chance you have. Brother I fó for you oh!

Chizuru01:


Guy, Olosho hardly release body fluid. That is an oil she rubbed on her vagina. Nothing to worry about. Those Ashawo are more careful than newly disvirgined girls

I swear those ashewo no dey cum

engrelvis:
thank u bro but there r modern prostitutes now-dey r called runs girl.

You're even defending prostitution, get yourself a good girl abeg and control your pad when you're away for a short time

akpoguma1989:

If you read very well, I used protection throughout

So why are you still worried?! I laff in tongues

walexbiz:
Pls ops stand your ground, I have seen cases where the groom will cater for everything while the wife will use her money for frivolities while the husband suffers in silence. Tell her your reason for taking such a stand and let her know she too has a responsibility to take up in the house and she shouldn't see your income has our income while her own income is her own income. A bird flies with two wings and not one, also one hand doesn't put load on the head she must be an active contributor in the upkeep of the house since she too will be part of the decision making team. Pls take your stand as a saying goes thus, if you fail to stand for something you will fall for everything, a word is good enough for the wise.

I stand with you fully

sharone21:


No,..... child bearing is not work or risk to one's life because u just see women carry their babies and enter their houses, what about the many that weren't so lucky? The man go come go marry another babe.
If dem REALLY tell u now to born children for your wife, u go start to panic and if at all u born na ONLY 1 pikin and u no go let the child and world hear world again.
Please, give it to women ANYDAY....don't EVER impose or debate on gender equality trash/feminism when you know women still do more work in any marriage, small wonder why children NEVER forget their mums..... For my type of dad( not your type of men), he is GOLDEN and we can NEVER forget him too( as his kids)....

If GOD blessed men with the power to carry children, I'll carry 6 with joy am happy you're talking from your mind set... You're pointlessly beating around the bush, it's better you continue sitting on your fence

slimmaintenance:
If it's possible, I could have given you 1000000 likes.
You too sabi


You don't go direct when you want a woman to contribute financially to something. You go Tactically[Not imposing, but asking how and where she can take care of, she'll choose, no matter the percentage of her choice, you lock up, keep the planning going, pretend like you are cool and then sketch out a personal plan of how to act worried and restless before her, she'll wanna know the problem, act like you wanna hide it from her, she'll be worried and pissed that you are hiding things from her, then you'll come up with a story and open up that you are facing financial crisis and don't know how to sort some things out concerning the wedding, she'll willingly help with pity without seeing you as a stingy or mean person]

No be everything dem dey form mancho, you go dey use your head.

You've spent on traditional wedding and for that not to be a total waste, kindly go and meet her, reason with her and go tactical, not directly with authority.

Happy married life in advance!

He didn't impose, read again, he said he asked her to handle a part of the expenses, should he kneel, come on guys this is who you're going to spend the rest of your life with and you still need tactics to ask what will benefit you both?? I don't buy that ideal never.

victorian:









For me? I don't have issues with white wedding.
Traditional and court Is OK by me. People looking at spending millions or lots of thousands of naira on their wedding day, are just wasting money. They are not even looking at the bigger picture that's the marriage.
Marriage is forever if both parties are not selfish, while wedding is just one day affair. Alot of people getting married have misplaced priorities.
For me, a simple quiet court marriage is OK. Any of my friends or fans or family who do not like it, should make their own carnival like. It's their choice.

Then with genieve, how do u know she's not happy? Let's assume. How? Because she's single and not married?

Maybe tasting different dicks and bodies give her immeasurable joy. You can't say? As some Men love tasting different pussies, also there are women who enjoys tasting different men. It gives them great joy.

Not everyone must desire marriage or must marry. That's my view anyways.

I don't care about her happiness, she assumed so I decided to counter it. But can you be sincere and say you'll sit your child down to advice them that to Bleep as many men or women as they want, I would never do that and morally I don't think it sounds good. You don't want to get married but you want the fun of marriage and mind you, you'll jumping between married men/women. Well I'm not married maybe because I see it as a beautiful union in my opinion.

sharone21:


So, who told you childbearing is solely a woman's work especially for ENTITLED men like you.
If u want to save cost, bear the children yourself after all they will bear your surname.....or PAY a surrogate....
This is 21st century biko.

Is childbearing work? Your type will get paid to get pregnant and born, I laff at your village people. And you skipped the bride price side, I thought as much. If a woman tells me she can't CARRY OUR CHILD like her mother carried her abeg I go find my level. I'm AFRAID that motherly love might soon be lost over worthless nonsense thoughts like yours..

sharone21:


I expected you to tell me why men want EQUAL financial contribution by force( for men like you) when she can do that without any imposition, since women won't impose on you to bear the children by yourself if u choose to save cost or spend that money u don't want to give to her on a surrogate mum.
You didn't so justice to this gender equality and feel justified that it is a woman's work to bear children, so why isnt it a man's work to provide financially( mainly)?
Your answer was dodgy and childish....Gold digger my foot, these days it is even the men that are gigolos and gold diggers

Child bearing doesn't concern gender equality if you know your facts right, can a woman impregnate herself? Of course NO so why should I answer that, can you ask GOD why? Gender equality is simply the man/woman controlled not natured controlled. Talk about BRIDE PRICE and I'll see the point you can make. If you can't afford to spend that on yourself simply means it's worthy to be spent on you by someone you claim you love, besides she can talk about it if she really wants the marriage. That woman is not the right person for him abeg. Take your argument to sleep abeg. He paid your bride price all alone which is his responsibility and you think white wedding should be the problem. I mean does she think? Simply call it off and nothing changes.

victorian:







When I hit 40 ,it's not the end of the world.

Genieve is in her 40s, she is still living life well , successful and looking younger everyday.

Not everyone can take the rubbish going on in marriages these days.

I can't anyways, I will pass on it, Biko.

I want to live long in peace and harmony not die in my prime because of naija man's attitude . I can't deal.

White man will never spend 200k on a white wedding after spending 200k on traditional, they wedd with rented gown take all the expenses to the minimum level, stop deceiving yourself, no one told you Genevieve is happy been alone you just assume things. She's jump from one dick to another more than a frog jumps In a year.

Jubilee1982:
Please go see your fiancee and apologize to her. What you did was very wrong. No matter how much she earns currently, allocating 50% of the expenses was very wrong in a wrong direction. Women are not the heads but subordinates. If she decides to take such responsibility then it's fine but giving her such responsibility only sent a wrong message to her. It's not late to settle your differences. I wish you all the best.

Apologize my foot, after all you done marry as the Bible and our tradition commends, if she wants an extravagant wedding let her have a fair share of the spoil, if not brother you're okay to make a family and forget the fucking white people wedding, the church is letting us forget that GOD created us as Africans. WE ARE NOT WHITES AND WILL NEVER BE.

sharone21:


Please, does your definition of gender equality also include your helping her with childbearing as she helps out with the finances because this area is one are women NEED help with.

Either men go with caesarian section or go with surrogacy( pay for the service) so their wives keeps her shape, work hard and not sacrifice her promotions at work to create a family or risk her life.

When men especially Nigerian men start helping their wives with childbearing then gender equality will truly be equal, if not for now, it is not.

You're talking trash. If you can't help your man financially then you're a GOLD DIGGER quote me anywhere anytime anyday. Bearing children is a gift to woman from GOD as well as a man's ability to impregnate a woman. And you think promotion at work is worth more than making family, if you're above 21 with these thoughts you need help. African women and money. Hanty you will make a terrible wife and I don't pray for my enemies to encounter your type. I JUMP AND PASS

[quote author=Davash222 post=86449294]She’s earning 200K monthly
Where she dey work?



Assuming this story is legit, her 3 months salary should cover for her gown and the catering. But, that doesn’t mean you have to impose that on her unless she forced you to marry her.

No one is forcing you to wed. if you don’t have the funds for that, since you’re done with the traditional wedding and rites, go to any magistrate court close to you and certify your wedding.

I don’t even know who brought this issue of white wedding to Africans. [/quote

I totally disagree with you, marriage is not a one sided thing as you say, two people get married and if she's financially capable why not after all na woman dey use white boost to their friends, we men don't care about all that, so you're making a very wrong point maybe you just won type Sha....

If she can't contribute to the wedding just know that, all the expenses that will come in marriage is on your head (school fees, house rent, feeding) the only she will do is give money to her family, brother abeg go and collect your bride price she's not the one for you...

Ginaz:


I stayed good 6 months at a friend’s family house. I never went to the pot to serve without first asking, sometimes I would wait for my friend to indicate interest to eat and we go together to serve our meal. That is respect. Humans are very funny , you think they don’t notice everything but they do.

I don’t want a situation I go and serve at anytime I want then it would bring talks of me feeling too much at home to the extent I serve food “anyhow” or she likes “eating too much ,” na only food she dey go pot go serve”.

There are boundaries and I try my best to follow them in everything I do. So far you are under someone’s roof, so far you are not the one making important decisions in the house ... kindly respect everything that has to do with the owner of the house.

It shows respect and it’s no way demeaning at all to ask for permission to serve. If it is so demeaning then start brining in money for cooking so you can serve as you want .

Don’t go and serve with reckless abandon a food you don’t bring a kobo for. Show some respect and coordination.

Hanty your case is different, my brother can't be telling that his wife thinks I eat too much, she should be forcing me to eat more than enough so long my brother is not complaining

Well I don't expect your husband to say anything because when he tells his brother to stop eating what he can provide anyhow he wants is unheard-of

*before marriage it wasn't your pot but now you have pack in completely its become your pot, oh! Lawd, I laff in French

*if it's your sister she can dish, serve and even help you to cook, but because it's your husband's brother it's vice-versa, this laff na for pidgin

*You know for sure that his only here for a while but yet you want all the restricting order on him. I shake my head for you

*Lastly you can simply tell him to assist you in doing the dishes if you saw him as a brother oh no you don't because his not the husband and whenever he dishes food your face go be like shit way them march, and you're not happy seeing him because he has over stayed his welcome of 2 weeks

NB: Wife come and go (only few stay forever) brother will always be and that surname can never change. Ask any couple that lasted until death, they never set all these rules that you have.

beejay85:

I support your take....she should be diplomatic in handling the situation. If u live in an environ with good electricity supply,prepare soup for one meal.. refrigerate the remainder .. let's see how d gluttonous BIL will dip his hands in a frozen soupD���

Makes no sense because she's already upset about his presence even if him dey eat out she will still find another fault, did see where she wrote, he does whatever he likes (that's live freely) I have one aunt who thinks before you on TV you have to take permission but she can't do so if my uncle is around, everyone from my uncles side have stopped going even my grandmother doesn't visit because of her take permission to do anything( that's basically taking permission to live and it's just wickedness)

Ten06:
Please, don't talk to him about it. Continue to tell your husband to find solution to his brother's behavior, make your husband to understand the gravity of his brother's misbehavior.

Gravity, I don't see it, sister calm your nerves and you can even ask him to help you wash the plates, she herself no won humble and weather you like it or not, because you marry my elder brother doesn't make you any older because you're still a woman and he can still date your age mate. If her sister was the one living with her, she will not only dish food but also cook and serve if she's too tired to do it so what's the big deal there

Iwantpeace:

no pls it's not all about that! do u know when I am not around this guy does whatever he likes at home.finish everything he sees. I just came back from the market now to look for what to cook later in the afternoon. I perceived smoke in the whole house, this guy has fried yam n ate all of it, washed the plate and left the others the way I saw it. as in from 8am -12pm he has eaten 2times not even minding if I have eaten once or not. haba!!

Hanty you the characteristics of wicked house wife, I'm sure it won't be a problem if your own sister dish her own food. And you will never agree to dish his food and take it to him and clear his table, [b][/b] So why can't he dish his own, did he eat all the meat? Abeg let the young man be. Marriage that God has not even started blessing you, you have already put time frame for family. Wife will come and go but brother will remain be it good or bad. When you said smoke I thought is, Indian Hemp was very surprised to hear na only yam frying smoke you dey complain for, the last person I know who pass this road you won pass (my uncle wife) is still childless. Be Warned, love and open mindedness is key to a lot of marital blessings

ican2020:
Go and confiscate his property by force lazy soul

I don't understand how you call someone doing better than you in life a lazy soul

J111333:
My teary eyes are on those kids already.
Why bring kids into this kind of situation? Why not struggle more with no burden of children to improve on their standard of living before bringing those beautiful kids to this world?

No no no no, I don't like this kind of love and "happy home".
This is stupidity.

If I handle that place, I'll repaint it, put better carpet, those cheap wardrobe and you won't recognize it again, believe me, it's not the house it's man, common packing can let your destiny helper locate you...

Jaynom:

In Russia. An AK47 is a locally made gun! See this clown!

You know nothing!! Automatic weapon can not be locally made. Use your upper please. It's a magazine gun not a cartridge

[b][/b]

Wyzkyd:
It was three semesters back when a female friend of mine came to visit fast forward to the day bfr I bought perfume around 4500 (big money) to give my course-mate for his birthday cos the guy had helped me thru hard-times only for the girl to tell me she liked it I said ok,now fast forward to the day after she visited I was looking for the perf to wrap I searched everywhere immediately a thought occurred to me, I called the girl and she was like I thought u said I should take it. Well I explained to my friend and he said I should forget it,but based on who I be,I no dey forget. For the rest of that semester nah for her place I dey chop. Even today sef I plan on going bfr night class.

Wyzkyd:
It was three semesters back when a female friend of mine came to visit fast forward to the day bfr I bought perfume around 4500 (big money) to give my course-mate for his birthday cos the guy had helped me thru hard-times only for the girl to tell me she liked it I said ok,now fast forward to the day after she visited I was looking for the perf to wrap I searched everywhere immediately a thought occurred to me, I called the girl and she was like I thought u said I should take it. Well I explained to my friend and he said I should forget it,but based on who I be,I no dey forget. For the rest of that semester nah for her place I dey chop. Even today sef I plan on going bfr night class.

Wyzkyd:
It was three semesters back when a female friend of mine came to visit fast forward to the day bfr I bought perfume around 4500 (big money) to give my course-mate for his birthday cos the guy had helped me thru hard-times only for the girl to tell me she liked it I said ok,now fast forward to the day after she visited I was looking for the perf to wrap I searched everywhere immediately a thought occurred to me, I called the girl and she was like I thought u said I should take it. Well I explained to my friend and he said I should forget it,but based on who I be,I no dey forget. For the rest of that semester nah for her place I dey chop. Even today sef I plan on going bfr night class.

Who you be?? Egede man or Elebe man abi na Fine Boi or RB.. Show yourself

chical:

Did she ask you to spend all those money on her... U be heartless ram

Hanty please why did she agree to do when she asked her leave.. If you're chopping my body anty I will chop your body too oouu!!!

Jaynom:
I hope you went to school? I hope you paid attention in English class? I hope you know what a paradox is?

An AK47 is not a locally made gun in any part of the Western world, they well constructed guns made from Russia.... English class or not, you need enlightening

WelcomeToBiafra:
Give a lion bad names to kill him. Who is the founder of cultism in Nigeria.
I am in BIAFRALAND and I assure you that there is no cultism in BIAFRALAND.

�... I laff in Arabic