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rusher14:
Sarrki, I disagree.

What right does any nation have to suggest to us how we must handle an impasse ?
You like and collect their foreign aid but you don't want their suggestions? HYPOCRITE.

Have we ever suggested to Trump how he must handle Pelosi? No, because we don't have such right. Only givers have the right to suggest and the last time I checked, Nigeria is the one begging them for financial support.

Does Nigeria dictate to May how she must relate with Corbyn? The same reasons as aboved.

When we needed arms for Boko Haram, was it not on a cash before purchase and oh you must wait a few years before delivery? Its called due process and this is done in order to verify that it will be use for the purpose stated and also to make sure that it doesn't fall into the wrong hands.

No nation can dictate to us. You are a joker! He who pays the piper calls the tune.

Valerie47:
The body is willing but the flesh is weak, ask God for forgiveness and pray .

greensavanna:
Please, check your mail

greensavanna:
Hello guys, I created this account to maintain anonymity. I created a thread initially about the issue I was having with bae but things are looking more serious than I thought. God forgive me that I am having this thought cause I feel bae can't do such being a very church going girl but her dad is a very strong man in Edo state.

I overheard them in an intercepted call where she was telling him about me, the man told her to send him my pics so he can check if I am "good" for her, I monitored the return call and he responded (after two days) that I am "good"(after "checking". Recently I complained of incessant headaches and she brought a traditional soap she said her dad gave her and warned me that the soap box should not touch ground. I used the soap to wash my head, in fact, that afternoon, we bathed together in the shower, washing our heads with the soap. so I guess it was nothing.

But I've been having this severe anxiety of losing her or something like that. I've been the hard man in this relationship (loving her as much as I can but with zero fear of losing her, being a fast rising guy) but I am turning to one sissy like that, complaining of every little thing. I can't eat, all I think of is her, I that thinks 80% if my career and like 10% of her now thinks 100% of her.

I have shut virtually everyone out of my life except her, I wish every call that enters my phone would be from her. The thought of her makes my heart skip with an intense fear. All I crave for is her presence, frankly speaking, she is not cheating on me and I'm sure she is not thinking of it, yet I feel so insecure like a woman (this is not me, I am way ahead of her, I can attract better looking ladies than her, even my mum told me she didn't dream I would think of settling down with her, so there's no need for this feeling yet it hunts me). I barely sleep at night, I look so thin.

I am not the prayerful type and I want to wife her May this year (though I intended to do that August). My life seems so meaningless for no reason when I should be at the top of my career.

Please, I seriously need help and front page will help, I behave like someone under a spell. I am very sure this is not the me I know.

oluphunmy:
What is this woman preaching for Gods sake haaaaaa. Husband material biko get ready to get dirty with me oooooo we are doing everything ONLY in za oza room and also some nice places in the house when the kids are out u hear

Raltrending:
My Husband Want me To be Walkinv around the house Naked , he said I should always wear panties around , bra, half naked and naked things with my 4 kids in the house . I feel very very uncomfortable and I refused because I can’t be going around the house naked with my children just because I want to keep a marriage.

The useless therapist we saw was the one that suggested this rubbish, saying it will spice up our relationship and love life , pant and bra after 4 kids at my age and level in this life , I refused to do it and he started threatening to cheat .

I refuse him to carry my legs so high during sex because I am not a small girl, I refuse him to hit me from behind because I am not a slut, I refuse him to put his fingers or his tongue inside me because it is disgusting and against my believe and religion.

Can’t people just have normal sex and be happy, must you all get dirty and irritating because you want to have sex , I refuse to be that woman if that is all he wants .
But if he cheats on me I swear to God i will pick up my kids and walk away so far that he will never set his eyes on us ever again.

Women don’t let men abuse your body , husband or boyfriend, have normal sex just like the Bible taught us to stop all this rubbish fingering, head , Mouth Action rubbish that is why many of you will not make heaven .
Ral this is my story and advise too.

This story got sent in to a Relationship Platform on Instagram.

Source: http://instagram.com/Relationship_and_life

ofiko123:
I came to read comments...

CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.

I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn

lonelydora:
Maybe the interview is politically motivated.



On my first day on Nairaland in 2019, i made FTC. This is a sign that 2019 will be a great year for all of us.

May we all be first in all we do this year in Jesus Name, Amen!

Atouke:
Ibeno, eket, esit eket, Onna LGAs use to be one LGA called Eket. Untill the men in uniform started Splitting LGAs.

Eket is still the main metro area of these place.

Atouke:
Onna is vast becoming an industrial hub in its own right. There should be enough places for primary assignment. Check this thread out it might help you.

https://www.nairaland.com/4931692/onna-industrial-corridor-budding-new