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A one time thing or a regular thing?

pansophist:
You don't insult or curse who you love. It's like telling me you love me but give me poison to drink when I said I am thirsty. Your words are useless, it's your actions that matters.

Next time, make sure it's not your fault when things go bad. Control yourself and your mouth. Maybe she has set trap to leave and dump the blame on you, and you've given her the vehicle, fuel, and keys to zoom off.

You've absorb her of any guilt she may have if she was secretly looking for an exit route. And also soften the chance for her to retune, if her next relationship may not work.

You've missed the chance for her to possibly miss you after seeing the trash in the dating world. You've also legitimize the lies she may tell others, after all, you insult her and can be guilty of the rest.

No matter the nonsense out there, she will convince herself that she can't go back because you're abusive, and emotionally traumatised her, and more fancy words.

When smart people want to punish you, they will wait for you to give them the rope to crucify you with. The rope you gave her what's the insult, and she used it perfectly.

And your conscience will always tell you that she left because it's your fault. In your next relationship, try get small sense before you enter. It is important.

This is a bittersweet post as you somehow make it seem like she's evil, manipulative and dubious for leaving a glaring toxic relationship.

A relationship isn't a do or die affair that one has to be sneaky about ending it especially a bad one. If I read right, according to you a relationship is something you have to play smart about so you don't end looking bad even when you know it's not right for you. Like you have to play hide and seek so people won't think you are bad because you end something that doesn't favour you. 😂 abi did I read wrongly?

A lady walked out of a relationship with a tongue ripper but you made it seem like that's a very bad thing to do and Op gave her chances. What if verbal abuse is the only reason she ended the relationship?

You think it's only men that wants peace of mind? Lol You can't have a caustic tongue and expect the world to adjust to it. Honestly I don't know how partners "insult" each other during arguments. I have never experienced that! Like you argue, say your mind in harsh tones but "insults"? Naaaah.

That was how one too called his girlfriend " a prostitute" on another thread. Like who are these people? 😄

CrownOfClay724:
Apt!🥱

Reason a man has to expand his harem as much as possible when he have a job aresources to do so.

As a man you don't have a business being loyal to people who are only loyal to what you can provide for them.

Whatever makes you sleep well dude!

If you want to be fed, sheltered and clothed by a woman, knock yourself out. Don't come here to cry wolf when she demands submission or goes masculine on you.

As for your last paragraph, you don't need a woman who feeds you to be loyal, loyalty isn't the average Nigerian man's forte! So next time you want to ruffle feathers , do it right.

idahme:
I don't blame women who have this notion, I blame men for making life easy and allowing women enjoy without commiserate interest with knowing behind the scenes of how the money is made.

For an adult to have zero accountability and responsibilities for herself another must have made her to believe this rubbish mindset by throwing money at her thereby making her life easier. When you meet someone that allows you take responsibility for yourself you will start gnashing your teeth.

Roll this and shove it into the darkest part of your body!

I stated my opinion (a basic fact) if you are not good with it go twerk on a cactus plant!

Dexy4yah:
Madam i hope u have a source of income??
you seem like one that depends on a man toomuch. Just asking respectfully sha

Softlife baby! Just responding respectfully.

That's because women are not created to be providers! Whoever loses job should get another!

EmperorCaesar:
Did u even go through his write-up?
Can u feel the pain in his heart via this message?
After all that, is this the best u can fine up with?

U people no just get heart

Shame on men who still consider cohabiting with women in 2024

Eyah... Sorry

If you will waste your time making sense of a tale of a man who wrote thousands of words without sharing the Genesis of his problem then be my guest.

A woman can't be like that from the beginning and he goes on to marry her. Ask him what he did wrong, what he has been doing wrongly and what he's still doing wrongly for his wife whom is a descendant of women who "die there" in marriage (African Women) to give up on him and the marriage.

😂😂 Op is not ready yet 🤣

Wait...

What's the news? Her twerks?

These are men who love Arya is that abnormal.

I no too understand these gays thing self

DonroxyII:
Wait till you are 30 first then ask me then 😉 ...

Mind You, You don't know yourself than You think ... There are bunch of dudes who could know you more than you would ever imagined

Mister

You can go now.

All this epistle on top spark you catch with your office girl

You will be alright

DonroxyII:
Correct Updated Formatting Would Still Make you return

Wow Great... I finally meet one who knows me better than myself on Nl!


Quick question : Will I make 50 million before I'm 30? Answer fast I want to know

This is sad.

Worthy of note: Never severe relationship with your family to be with a partner.

Phew

I like Seun's response Sha