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Charlex23:
How unfortunate that you've chosen to wallow in bitterness and assumptions. Maybe one day you'll realize that not everyone fits into your narrow-minded perception. And as to why I decided to bring the issue here. Well I think that’s none of your business. And I’d appreciate if you get the hell outta my thread.

It's my business oooooooo

You made it my business and everyone's business the minute you opened this thread

Lol

That Sense wey una no wan get, Una go get am by force.

Gossip Association of Nl

Charlex23:
How unfortunate that you've chosen to wallow in bitterness and assumptions. Maybe one day you'll realize that not everyone fits into your narrow-minded perception. And as to why I decided to bring the issue here. Well I think that’s none of your business. And I’d appreciate if you get the hell outta my thread.

The only person that has been hyperventilating since is you. Why so angry?

Kindly tell this audience why you have refused to confront the lady offline but chose to gossip her on Nl .

Why have you also refused to provide evidence of her blocking you as you have uploaded those of her's requesting your financial assistance?

Very simple questions you dey jack like car wey fuel finish inside it.

Charlex23:
You keep buzzing around like a housefly. How typical of you to resort to baseless insults when faced with a differing opinion. Your attempt at superiority is laughable. Perhaps one day you'll realize that humility is a virtue. Until then, enjoy your delusions.

You just dey throw words around dude! What has superiority got to do with this? Do you feel threatened because I hold you accountable? There are over 20 posts in agreement with you but somehow I'm being superior/threatening because I called out your bullcrap? Lol 😂😂😂😂

Humility is definitely not agreeing/following the herd. So yes I'm a proud thinker .

Show evidence of the lady blocking you and explain the purpose of this thread or accept you only seek validation on Nl Very simple sturv

EreluRoz:
Nobody is dragging head with any man but let them be head in it's complete sense by providing and making sure his wife and family lives a luxurious life else the head will be dragged the moment they start demanding their wives contribute financially.

Women are created to enjoy their life and care for her home but modern men have successfully pushed women into hustling and providing financially which is why we record more divorce in this generation than the older generation.

Men should safeguard being the head or ready to share the head.

Raise am Raise am

How did I miss this thread

Person talk say make op no worry she has sorted it out. You dey claim she's a scammer. See I know y'all don't see any good in women and I'm not here to help you think otherwise. That's your problem.

My own issue be why op no confront the babe and bring the issue here. What's the purpose of the thread? That's my own headache ooo

idahme:
Read to understand and not read to respond, this is the singular reason people fail exams even if they have read.

Did you see where the OP refused to lend money to the lady?

Women lack accountability and responsibilities, once you put a lady to task most of the time she default What is wrong for a lender to request a repay of the loan he issued? Nothing but most women will get angry because of entitled mentality just like the message above.

That girl is just a scammer who job is to scam unsuspecting guys who fall for her gimmicks, what stops her from taking the money and returning it back as the lender asserted if not that she expected free money from men as usual. Ladies should be learn to be responsible, no one owes you anything. As an adult you have to give account for everything you engage yourself in.

Convince me she truly blocked him / the purpose of this thread or keep your opinion to yourself.

They won't face issues head on they will rather gossip and hate online and claim it's reality.

Is this the quality of men we now have in Nigeria?

Charlex23:
It’s exhausting living in a world where everyone else is wrong and you're always right. And you chose to be disturbed if not, you could’ve quietly avoided this thread and do something better with your good for nothing life. Enjoy your holier-than-thou parade while the rest of us live in reality. Cheers to your delusion!

Oga go and face the girl that offended you offline. Be a man, tell her she's wrong if her reason doesn't resonate with you. Don't come and gossip her on Nl .

Funny enough your type may even smile and stylishly explain yourself to her if you see her. We know your type.

Him dey talk reality.... So Nl is your reality while the lady offline is your delusions. Wahala

Don Jazzy no be Wizkid mate nah but shey him no be influencer ni

People would want to eat their cake and have it. He chose someone else, I don't know what he feels for the other person but what he feels for you is definitely not love.

Move on please 🥺

Nigerian women are evil we agree

Should that make Nigerian men petty, insecure and so childish?

Person offend you offline instead of you to address her, you come create topic on Nl. Wetin make we do? Collect her address go beat her?

Do you all really think before you create threads here?

Sad


May her soul rest in peace

Charlex23:
What stupid validation is that? It’s apparent you're quite eager to jump to conclusions without understanding the full context. My post was about addressing a situation, not seeking validation. Maybe next time, refrain from making assumptions and focus on comprehending the situation before passing judgment.

If you don't see the wrong in you bringing a private issue online for strangers opinions while the person involved is oblivious of your grief then this conversation ends here.

Not only did you commit a fallacy of hasty generalization by your experience with a single girl, you are here claiming not to seek validation when that's the logical explanation to your actions. Delulu?

Speak to the girl that offended you and don't come and disturb us online if truly you do not seek Nl validation and cheers.

Don't come here to do "Gather ye brethren let's hate on girls together"

Gbadugbakun:
So will you help.

Lol You mistake my engagement for interest.

Have a lovely evening ahead.

Gbadugbakun:
You should be helping the op get through this heartbreak. But you're joking about it. This is so wrong and it's one of the reasons why Cain killed Abel.

Eyah sorry

Gbadugbakun:
Collect her number from the op.

I don't run a happyhub

If your face dey hungry me to see and your presence dey hungry me to be in, why won't I pay?



The problem be say Una no dey wait make your faces hungry us .

Gbadugbakun:
Help him talk to her na.

I don't know her nah

As men aspire to be "Ogas" so will women aspire to be "Oga 's wives" Abi una wan marry trees? 🤷

Auxtan:
I am presently living in so much regret. So much regret!

Reach out to her nah

Internet is truly an enabler

Abi Anthony dey bear femi ni

tuzle:
if u read it well, u would have understood that he isn't here because she wanted to borrow money from him. Like he said she has been of help to him before in the past. The reason why he posted it was because she blocked him after requesting for help.

Is she on Nl? Why isn't he tagging her monicker?
And where is the evidence she genuinely blocked him like other evidence of her asking for help we have seen?

I wonder what type of men we breed these days. Men who are quick to make topics online instead of directly addressing people whom they have issues with offline.

Op could have spoken to the lady offline and let her know she did wrong if he's not convinced by whatever reasons she comes up with. Instead he is here tabling his issues with other gossip and shallow minded lots like himself. All for NL validation?

Lol 😂

"Scratched until it's pink" that's too detailed for a Third party experience

And he added, "he told me" 😂😂😂😂 who asked you?

Op go and see a doctor

I believe women should be wiser not to fall in situations like this. A man will tell you anything just to be involved with you but as a woman you should know better. A woman should know her faith and hold on to it so as to avoid unnecessary consequences. I've had a non Christian brother tell me he has no issue with my religion but I know better. Na sweet talk when situation arise nah my own he go be .

Look at this, I'm sure this non Christian man said there won't be issues when they started but now he won't even follow her to church for their child's dedication. That's crazy.

The pastor in this case is within his right, you can't name a child Ahmed or Fatima or Sangomuyiwa on the pulpit of God in a Church. It is the woman who bit more than she could chew. May God help her

Are these the lies you tell yourself to feel better?

You even have to berate women just to feel good about yourself. My dear you are down to earth .You should not downgrade woman to elevate your humble beginning.

folake4u:
It serves them right.

Why would he keep his financial status hidden and still propose?

He wan suffer person pikin and her pikin(s)

What are the odds that the lady who accepted him turned out to be her sister?

Okay... Okay... Did this really happened?

folake4u:
G.G, you're mouthed oh.

Like he just dey give them back to back