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Holluwatarhyor:
bros,write another one,the lady already complicated the issue by telling the DJ it's her friend's wedding,she has the intention of cheating abeg

DrGroove:
The wife to be is f o o l ish.
what type of phone is she using that she can't have it passworded,pattern locked,face locked,voice locked,all d lockable that somebody will have access to see her chats and go thru her phone in her absence?

Oyind17:
You said Men. Your dad is not an exception na. Or your dad na woman?

Its just logic.

No need to take offense











You chop craze? why involve my dad in this baseless argument?

Eberex:
my guy, a woman with a mission can never be found out even by the FBI.

Billygee2u:
the may be as guilty as the lady

Lizabeth25:
Issues before marriage!

It is well though cus I believe in most couples, when they will settle their matter now, nobody will be there!


As for the friend @OP, it best you mid your business. Because at the end, people will blame you if they end marrying and they still break up!

A single person is better than a divorcee"

Kolade354:
You're Daft.

Adedoks:
That girl is already cheating on him... I fear women ooo... She's flirting and some people here are saying the guy is too jealous... I don't think you guys understand wat it means for someone to but aving that kind of chat when she and her said hubby to be are close to settling down... Am a married man n I enjoy my marriage if the Op's friend cannot bear wat she's doing call off the wedding instead of having the intention to be sleeping with babes when married as revenge... Hhhmn I fear women ooo

Oyind17:
Must you paint this lady black in public? tell your friend to call it quit. she maybe innocent after all.

ifeomaekol:
Op pls tell ur frd ds------ let him stop d wedding immediately, let him nt destory his life n future cos a woman dt is out to ruin him. Its beta his wedding didn't work out than his marriage nt to. Bad marriage kills, dias no excuse for her agreeing on a date wt another man wen her wedding is jux by d conner. Let her stay single till she's ready for marriage. Let him stop dt wedding regardless of wat pple ll say. They ll talk bt it wnt be them dt ll stay in d marriage.

tsdarkside:
thats it!!!!..the next person that wish me to be saved by that white-Jesus-christ,i will swear for am!!!

agarawu23:
lol


the accusations might be making her mad, don't you think so ? God knows the true story sha!

agarawu23:
I will keep waiting becos we haven't heard from the Lady. I can't jump into conclusion when I know how things can be......

No evidence here cos the guy didn't catch the Lady red handed. Imaginations is killing the guy.

agarawu23:
hmmm!!!
The guy is talking as if he met the lady a week to their wedding. she is arrogant doesn't mean that character can make her do anything. everybody get for body.

If you guys are 100% sure the Lady is a flirt, nothing bad if you guys can end the wedding.

BUT

your evidence must be solid.

peeparty:
public brawl? please explain in details maybe it might help others.


public brawl? please explain in details maybe it might help others.

agarawu23:
okay , since you are close to the couple to be, can you tell us the kind of Lady she is ? at least you will know her and I blv your friend will have been gisting you na. so tell us make we hear

agarawu23:
now you are talking about "trust" , can you make up your mind to marry a lady you don't trust

The guy is a flirt himself with negative mind. his thinking might not be real.

don't forget he has already made up his mind to start fvcking around after marriage. from that statement , you will get my point

agarawu23:
you are him then

Oyind17:
You are taking sides with your friend. if the lady is doing all that, why is your friend hell bent on marrying this lady? I wish I can hear the Lady's side of this story. My man was angry cos I didn't pick his call, my phone was on silent and he sent an annoying msg to me. If he opens a thread on Nl I know the kind of advice people will give him.

naijaboiy:
[b][color=#1980BC]We are all commenting based on the story line given to us.

This is not a case of thinking out the box sir.

And don't tell me you don't know that anybody can pretend or hide their true character when it comes to getting what they want from someone. You can't know the true character of everyone before getting close to them. In fact,, it is 85% of the time highly impossible.

And just so you know the best way to hide something from someone is to leave it open. She obviously didn't hide her chats with the DJ so that her fiance will not suspect something fishy. And it was when they started speaking on phone that he suspected something.

She collected his phone number for strictly business and didn't even inform him that it was her own wedding but a friend. If the DJ should call,,their phone conversations should be strictly for business and nothing else.

There are a lot of evidences. How about her countenance whenever the DJ calls and the fiance is present? She acts strange and sometimes excuses herself just to speak with him.

If you are in his shoe and at that point you are still giving her the benefit of doubt then i'm sorry you are really in for the shocker of your life.

You don't need to catch her red handed,,pants down in bed with the DJ before you call it an evidence. [/color][/b]

agarawu23:
stop speaking for him as if you were there

if you are the real person, let us know.

just answer this question

CAN YOU MAKE UP YOUR MIND TO MARRY A FLIRT ?

if the girl is a flirt, he won't wanna marry her.

Oyind17:
Men can be jealous

agarawu23:
The girl left her conversations with the DJ on her phone until the husband to be saw it ? we shouldn't rush into conclusion that the lady is trying to fvck the DJ.

They have been together for so long before planning to get married, and the guy never complained about the girl trying to cheat of flirt. if he hasn't, we shouldn't think what we are thinking.

But if the guy knows the lady for flirting around, he should end the wedding once and for all instead of planning to fvck around after the wedding because it will only shorten his life.

misspicy:
Hmmmm,now am confused,she is arrogant?
seriously sometimes,women cause most heartache they experience in marriage...
Op advice your friend to wear his usain bolt snickers and run,if not,dat marriage will be a sham....him sleeping around and she going on a date around...
Its d children they will have that wilk suffer the effect of a bad marriage.

ireke:
I'll rather not get married than begin to plan how to hurt the woman I'm supposed to protect. If my Wife-to-be is exposing herself to this kind of temptation and is not remorseful, then I'll rather not get yoked with such a fellow

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] This laughable attempt at saving face is not going to work... How about fibbing this rubbish to the loved ones of those whose lives have been ritually cut off as part of the burial rites of the late Ooni? May Be they would prefer your head in Ooni's tomb instead of this cover up. [/color]

Katastrofy:
Tinubu
OshomOLE
Amaechi
ARAgbesola
Fashola
Obasanjo
Timpre sylva

that should be the best place for them..