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I believe my wife shouldn't even have an idea of what I do for my family members. It's none of her business.

Her business is how I take care of her and the nuclear family.

cucumbae:
The coronavirus virus test kits given to Africa are gift from jaque ma.It is the same test kits that tested pawpaw and goat as positive to coronavirus in Tanzania.The test kits are chinko made and therefore scam.

This is not my line of argument. Not just anybody is being tested. You have to develop some symptoms before you get tested.

Did she develop certain symptoms before calling NCDC officials to take her sample or her sample was taken forcefully?

Why present yourself for test for a disease you don't believe in?

Scaredd:
I know this question sounds weird, but please don't get worked up a bit.

Alright, I'm 32yrs and I've been looking back the memory lane of late, starting from 18yrs till now, and I'm certainly not happy when I do a body count of all the women I slept with.

At least, I've slept with 45 different women, and some of these were beyond one night stand. This taught doesn't go down well with me, I feel I've been very loose with women.

So guys, how many women have you slept with? Including your age will be worthwhile.

As for those who don't have any or few body counts, I want to congratulate you and encourage you to maintain such habit. Sleeping with everything under skirt doesn't pay, I just imagine all the money spent on drinks, entertainment and what have you, and noticed I should have been building my house now, not to mention the health risk (I'm a lucky champ).

Once again, I ask my fellow men, how many women you don't hit? To even imagine I asked my new girlfriend if she was a virgin, is very laughable, if only she knew my body count.

cc lalasticlala

Just 45? U be learner o ooo. I know people who have lost count. Come to think of it, na virgin wife dem dey find.

Guys, we are not being fair to the ladies.

Did she present herself for testing? If yes, why present yourself for a disease you know is scam in Nigeria?

Did NCDC officials forcefully gain access to your house to take sample for testing? If this is the case, it is understandable.

She need to answer these questions before I can believe her story.

Let us continue to adhere to safety guidelines so as to be alive to witness if COVID-19 is scam in Nigeria or not.

We no even understand the trend our curve is taking. Maybe it is going up or down and when it will flatten.

God go help us oooo..

The importance of good grades cannot be over emphasized. Having a first class degree is something to be proud of. However, don't let it get into your head.

During school days, first class students even have their clique and don't relate with classmates who are on 2.2 or 3rd class. Some of them were so full of themselves thinking their First degree equate to good jobs after graduation.

They realised that first class doesn't equate to good jobs during our IT semester. Only a few of them got good IT placement. While the students they looked down on got good IT placements. Some in the oil & gas, others in multinational FMCG.

Upon resumption for the final year, the first class students started relating with everybody. I guess they were exposed to the reality of life.

Even after graduation, the first class students struggled to get good jobs. Las las na Masters and PhD routes abroad be their best option.

Before you start saying I am beefing First Class graduate, I graduated with a 2.1( 4.35/5.00). At least I was among the best 15 students in a class of 120 students.

GraGra247:
Best reply so far. I can't suffer for a woman and she doesn't value me.

I will not only delete her pictures, I will delete any money I use to support her and her family going forward.

Since she said her Facebook belongs to her and she does what she wants with it, then I readily prove to her that my money belongs to me and I do what I want with it.

Baba, u harsh ooo.

edoman2016:
I made an investigation. I discovered most so called Private estates in Lagos give Deed of sub lease to buyers. Except if you buy land from individual or omonile/family land, you get deed of assignment. These private estate companies are not to be trusted.

Check your subscription form you submitted when you bought the land. Is it Deed of Sub-lease or Deed of Assignment that was quoted on the form?

Deed of Sub lease is issued in a situation where the land in question is being leased out to you for a period of time.

When you purchase the land outrightly, a Deed of Assignment should be issued to you.

Raise an alarm as quickly as possible. You may wish to involve a lawyer.

Cc: Lawyer

Never confront a woman without undeniable evidence. You will loose out if you try that.

Keep monitoring her chats with the guy. Be smart enough not to change your attitude towards her during this period. Be your normal self.

After getting all your evidences, present it to her and take your decision as it pleases you.

Wish you good luck.

zedegit:
As long as God is involved; even if catching Coro and dying will make your type to go away. God will intervene.

He won't suffer shame for his goodwill.

Nothing will happen to his job. He just needs to be careful going forward.

Celebrate your success but don't get to over excited and starts revealing sensitive information online.

Polchiz:
Which labour law are you quoting?
Your lawyer and family members can have access to your appointment letter. It is not a secret document my dear.

Calm down bro. Not will happen to him or his job. I am not heartless or wicked.

He just needed to be warned and guided to prevent such occurrence going forward.

Celebrate your success with people but don't put out a company's salary breakdown online.

I can see the Op has deleted his account. But you have been fished out already.

I can see you are over excited or naive about your new job that's why you are putting out sensitive information that your colleagues shouldn't even see talkless of the general public.

You have breached the Confidentiality of Information oath you swore to and you will be severely punished for this.

Kekereekun123:
sure people are earning 3 to 7m in this Nigeria. I used to be an auditor and saw those fat pays. But for an entry level job with no experience it sounds and looks fishy

It happens with companies in the FMCG sector. You are recruited with 0-2 years of work experience as a Management Trainee.

You undergo training for 1 year and you become a manager. For these companies, their Management Trainees are the future of the companies.

So the figures he quoted are synonymous to what Junior Managers earn in the FMCG sector.

sexylassie2:
he cannot get sacked, this is a anonymous forum.

People get sacked if they expose too much about themselves

Yes, this is an anonymous forum. But he already gave out a lot and he is already tending towards exposing himself.

I know the company he works for already. It is better he's guided.

sexylassie2:
so all the figures your posted were crammed

didnt they give you a letter of employment stating your Compensation, benefits, and terms?

Show us your letter of employment and conceal your name and the company name

So he can get sacked abi? Even the breakdown of the salary he dropped on a public forum is wrong. Hopefully such act doesn't land him in trouble. I know the company he works for, same way other employees of the company will know.

@Davidhnk, take down the breakdown of your package from this forum. It is in your best interest.

Happyfela:
They are always stupid on whatsap status. One beautiful lady I picked up in my hood during lockdown, her status na mumu things

I feel like ice cream today, God bless the man behind my smile etc

10k Challenge!!! I challenge 5 people to give me 10k each.

Picture of Domino Pizza and Cold stone!!! I am craving for this.

Who will subscribe for me?

And for those tending towards evening newspaper, they upload their pix with the caption 'Wife Material 1000 yards'

And all other rubbish stuff.

Girls make una get sense for once.

demolagilbert:
and yet a savings/investment culture trumps a credit culture anyday. Someone made a post on LinkedIn about the financial armaggedon in the US and the huge job losses, painting a grim picture of how a COO could end up working at a mall post COVID. 'Anything to stay afloat, till things stabilise, cos the BILLS have to be paid'. And truly it has already begun evident by the comments on the post by high ranking officials who are now jobless submitting that they truly will take any job, even if it rubbishes all efforts that grew their careers in the last 10-15 years. Why that level of desperation? It is cos debts will have to be repaid. Student loans, car loans, mortgage payments, even phones and computers are bought mostly on credit.

I take pride in that my car is mine 100%, and everything I own is mine 100%. I resigned at the height of the recession in 2015/2016, still did my MBA and got married. no shaking. Didnt take up another job till mid-2017. Took up another, and got transferred after 3 mths halfway across Nigeria, and three mths after the transfer I resigned again. Heaven did not fall. Till Jan 2019 when I took this current one. While, not everyone will be wildly crazily optimistic like me with my penchant for dumping jobs that don't make me fulfilled, I could have never had as much CONTROL over my life and life decisions, if I was neck deep in all manner of loans. Like the average American I would swiftly descend into a state of despair, willing to take anything. I believe strongly that we should be in CHARGE of our finances, and by extension lives.

A borrower is a SLAVE to the lender. To me, it is bondage. If it isn't for business I will never/pray to not ever have a reason to use debt to get personal tins done, so help me GOD.

You are absolutely right. I strongly subscribe to your school of thought.

To buttress your point, you see people spend all their savings or take bank loan to buy a car because they have job and can finance such loans with their salary. However, they often forget that you can lose your job at anytime. Imagine the current situation we find ourselves now.

How can you finance a loan when you are out of job? How can you earn a living when you didn't save for unexpected times like a job loss period.

Like people will say, you can't teach anyone how to spend his/her money. However, you must be prepared for the consequences of your actions.

funshint:
I pity Dangote and his refinery.

Have it at the back of your mind, refinery is different from exploration and production oil company.

Refinery can never be at a loss.

TheAlchemist:
Modular refineries ke... please don't vex our darling uncle Dangote. Which modular refinery has come on stream as they say " the devil is in the details".

Modular refineries are to serve immediate communities.

There is one in Rivers state already.

Check out this article

WalterSmith Petroman Oil Limited refinery in Imo state is nearing completion. May 2020 was stated for commissioning.

sulaak:
The majority of oil export is for cars, power generators and Electricity power plants with the advent of Electric Vehicle (EV), Solar Energy and Battery and Natural Gas there will be fewer requirements for crude oil export.

But this applies to the developed countries. How soon will the underdeveloped or developing countries catch up with them.

Don't forget most of the refined products are shipped to the underdeveloped or developing countries.

miltonchux:
Oga you can't do without oil, if they don't use it as energy to power the Car, there are lubricating part that needs lubricant an greese. Our abundant Gas is also needed to Generate electricity. So leave all those electrical car story

To buttress your point, why will Dangote be building a 650,000 bpd refinery when Crude Oil will be useless as being speculated in some quarters.

For your information, marginal field operators in the country are also embracing the concept of modular refinery.

Definitely, other forms of energy will come. But the question remains, how soon?

Pending when the above question will be answered, Crude Oil isn't worthless yet.

abike12:
You are an evil man and I'm very sure you're unattractive. Do you know that a c section is a major surgery? You're coming to report a new mother to a forum full of strangers because of three months of no sex after a c section. You're a vile and disgusting excuse for a human being and I hope she leaves you and finds a better husband.

Why call him an evil man and unattractive? Did he demand sex from you or is he toasting you? Don't hide behind a faceless forum to display stupidity.

If you can't address the issue in a civil manner, read the post and move on.

If she doesn't leave him, go and drag her away from his house.

Good news. However, we demand transparency. We need to know the amount of people we a testing a day.

This will give us an indication of the success made so far.

donbachi:
And someone will come and tell me "lynching of a thief" is not gud.

Don't mind such people. Once you are sure the person is a robber, don't spare them.

Going by The 48 Laws of Power, Law 15 states that: Crush your enemy totally.

SpecialAgent:
lol, u dey craze

Even if i earn 50Ok I will do everything required of me down to cable tv payment, then give her 4k monthly for recharge card & data. Well, that does not include the occasional surprise gift like jewleries & all those women women things depending on my mod & how well she dey behave

Too much sense will not kill. You be correct guy.

You want him to start talking off points? His handlers are aware of this trait.

So such won't happen till he complete his tenure.

nifemi25:
May her soul rest in peace... May your soul never allow your killer to know peace even if h8e will be later released by the police

We have a very useless Police Force. However, I know they don't joke with murder case.

Hopefully, the murder suspect is made to face the wrath of the law.

Jestin:
With all due respect, I stand with peak milk

If you like stand with Peak milk, your money is still going to the same purse.

In other news, Peak milk and 3 Crowns are from the same manufacturer.

ednut1:
Wike just like to behave like tout. Their ph base is in naval airforce. Will any lga or state officer dare go there

Let him be jam talking. A Local Government Chairman going to close down a Federal Government Facility?

Are we sure Wike go school like this?

PHijo:
You Nigerians are a shameless bunch! I mostly disagree with Wike but on this I am with him. If possible he should shut down production.

Nonsense!!!!!!!

He should shut down oil production? Do you have sense at all?

Where is Nigeria's source of income? Not even now when oil price is on the low.

Let us be guide.

ignis:
The most important factor in landing a good paying job now is connection. You have to know somebody that knows somebody that knows somebody. Once you do, you don't even need to attend the interview.

In Nigeria, most people that finally lands the job did not pass through interview screening process. Even if they do, it's just for formality.

Yes. You have to know somebody that knows somebody that knows somebody. This is termed recommendation.

However, the candidate will still be subjected to an interview and need to prove that the person who recommended him/her was right.

I am not disputing the case of outright long leg as you are insinuating.