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Olamsoh:

OP is talking bout marriage. I’m pretty sure you won’t marry that good looking grandma even if you can bleep her. I quoted the wrong person self. Please forbid it to the rightful owner.

smat101:
As in eh...
The story didn't flow...
well I can marry my elder brother's wife's junior sister...
I see nothing wrong with that...

Lol. Why don’t you choose your younger sister’s uncle son nephew elder sister? That one no go still bad na.

Two gboza for OP.

The only things I can understand in this post are brothers, sisters, aunt, mother, father. You day forbid to use paragraph and create sentence flow?

marvelous000:
To correct your egregious perception of my gender; I'm a man.

I do expect loyalty from anybody I choose to make my woman(that's if I'm able to come out of this phase I'm in), which is why I haven't got my own woman in more than 20 years now, because I can't guarantee that, and don't want to hurt anyone.

It's actually risible how people make pathetic stew out of delusion, utopia, emotion and mendacity, then call it love. Love is nothing but a superficial force of cohesion, but loyalty is the bulwark of relationship.
have you taken time to ruminate on the reason why the love of a mother wither for her child who have become the negation of her expectations, not to talk of love between spouses.

Like you’re the first person I’ve come across that shares similar views on the term love. Sorry I made an error on your gender.

A mother’s love dies just like every other thing. The ability for people to forget that they once loved, or not feel love again implies that love is a total hogwash. A man who has tasted fish and loved it cannot hate fish for just any reason. Emotions are subject to irrational thinking because one must care for one thing to not care for another. People who say that there’s something called love in a relationship are liars that have been blinded by false emotions. How can you love out of your pocket?

As for loyalty, it’s a game played to who’s in control. You cannot be loyal to the one who is being killed when the killer holds the power to end your life. Not getting a female partner after these years is not a bad thing. I stopped having relationships as I needed to focus more on life rather than on a person’s life. People don’t know the essence of loyalty and time, and that’s why they’re willing to dedicate their all to a nefarious partner in the name of an insatiable hunger for an imaginary feeling.

Bigseven:
REAL MEN are set of men who holds the virtue of ''FAITHFUL WITH ONE PARTNER'' with dignity and high esteem come rain come sunshine. But you sound PAINED by my comment bro! Lets called a spade, a spade! So just because women wants our obediece we should be hard on em? Ok o.

Pained by your comment? I don’t feel pained by words, that’s something for emotional folks. You point on obedience is absurd. No one should seek your obedience unless they have something that you’re benefitting from. In the modern woman’s case, they tag their hole as the ultimate sacrifice, and feel that you can’t do without it. Now, they fail to realize that they’re at least 200 holes you can bleep in your life as an average male. Now where does the term “going hard on them” comes in?

If you have options, then you won’t mind discarding something for the other. Do you get my point? It’s alright if you don’t, it really won’t matter. There’s nothing life being faithful with one partner. If you’re a Christian, you’ll know that an unmarried folk is not even expected to show faithfulness to a partner. You can get that from the part where Paul stated that if you can not control your urge, you should get married to remain accountable.

Now, that’s for a married man, and here, we are talking about unmarried persons. Women want you to be obedient to them, they want to ride on you like a slave (which you might already be to your girlfriend) and what do they offer you? Less than slavemasters once did.

There’s nothing like cheating outside marriage; it’s just an exploration, and you get pained when you choose to be loyal to your partner by not messing up the same he or she does. So calling a spade a spade doesn’t entail cheating. Real men are the men who wake up in the morning without thinking of satisfying anybody. They are those folks who go about their daily lives without pleasing women. They know they’re made for themselves only, so they don’t jump at the command of a lady. They can bust ten asses in a day, and won’t be held accountable. They can have a girlfriend and sleep with someone else and won’t feel guilty. Faithfulness is not a thing in a relationship unless it is marriage.

Now, another man will be panshing her while you’re suffering in jail. What foolishness!

Who said lying is a big no? Lying is the reason why most humans are alive today. In fact, a perfect liar is termed as an intelligent folk due to his outstanding ability to construct imaginary events and lay them out as is. The best liar even gets to narrate his lies perfectly after four to five years.

I remember when my ex called me to say that she cheated on me. I actually told her I was not angry, cause it’s normal. Pretty sure she doesn’t understand the meaning of that statement till tomorrow. So cheat and lie brothers if you must. If you choose to remain faithful, be as faithful as Judas was to Jesus.

Bigseven:
Is not out of place to justify the rational that men cheat and get away with it because the society has placed men in advantage side via customs, traditions and culture especialy in africa. But the western world placed both gendre in the same advantage side. For instance, a typical married african man can take a single lady or a married woman for an outing and the society will see it as normal but a married woman seen with a young guy or married man hmmm its a taboo cos she'll be tag as olosho. So allow men to ride in the norm and tradions meanwhile REAL MEN DONT CHEAT.

I still don’t understand this talk bout “real men.” A man is a man, there’s nothing like a fake man or a real man. That term is just a female agenda for dragging men down to their level and obeying their wishes. I can’t believe that even a matured man with many years of experience will be out screaming the term real men don’t cheat.

The term cheating is basically used loosely, and now it doesn’t hold water anymore.

marvelous000:
please, If I may ask; do you expect loyalty in your relationship with women?

What you give is what you get. At a point when I was loyal, I did expect loyalty from my partner. Currently, I don’t since I’m not loyal. I’m not a hypocrite.

What about you? Do you expect loyalty from your man?

Is it that hard for the OP to shut up, ignore, and return back insults? Now you’ve blown your supposed cover, which was already blown before . NL is a faceless forum, enjoy the insults and return the ones you feel like.

At least, this is the best place where you can insult someone twice your age without getting beaten or scorned. You can even be the first person to throw insults if you like. So now you’ve been called gay, how does it feel? When you guys give support to awon feminists n backlashers, you don’t know how it feels to be on the receiving side. If everyone feels as offended as you usually do, only the mods will be active on this forum.

Look at Martinez39, he was banned but came back, same with AstroG. They’re not crying. I’m not crying even when someone almost beat me in the game of insults. Even if you know who’s behind this moniker, there’s nothing you can do except insult me on NL.

Media life is different from real life dear, reason the former has been tagged fake life. You either need to be an ugly gal or a lady that has suffered heartbreaks numerously to take Nairaland comments and insults serious.

Do take a chill pill, and read Psalm 23. And stop calling him “your Master Jesu”s, I’m a worse atheist than you, but I still love n respect Jesus, that’s if love is a thing.

marvelous000:
that is to unequivocally say; you'll drop her like a bag of filth as soon as you find someone better than her.

And, drop her like a bag of filth he should.

My advice to OP is this. Chop this thing then clean mouth. Make sure you wear double condoms Incase she’s trying to place pregnancy on your head. Infact, but that drug for her before you guys start. Like this I’m preparing to accept one advance on Wednesday. You need to see my condom collection.

RussianKGB:
Another lost soul who's destiny evolves around the dual walls of a vagina

His moniker says it all.

BlackfireX:
Who can you trust in this life

We don’t know who we can trust, but we now know never to trust Aboy.

Myzzyfrazzy:
she is relying on me for advice and she really respects my opinion i dont want to be be in a rush let hear from a lot of you guys b4 i talk to her.

As sad and untrue as it may sound, she’d still do what she wants to do. From a man’s mentality, I’d say it’s pure foolishness not to marry someone you don’t love cause he isn’t rich yet. Heck she went to school, the both of them can start hustling together and get something doing.

However, the female world is different. From that perspective, it’s better she stick to the new guy she just found, but she needs to know what baba has been waiting for that prevented him from wedding or even having a fiancé all that time.

So, code red, code red; she better stick to her previous boyfriend if he’s been faithful. If not, she should accept the new one. Regret is normal in life; “why” is way better than “what if?”

Nobody should take this up without proof o. Sex for screening in Delsu is next to impossible. Ah ah bros, is it the same Delsu I’m attending? Your course advisor gets to screen you first, and after you’re through with that, it’s a free pass to get your mat number. Even in 300l, screening is done in ten minutes. I’m not saying you’re lying o, but your babe needs to be a diva for her to be used for common screening.

Mecojackson:
15years so rare

It isn’t rare bro. Some people are really talented, but unlucky in life. My full street was once beaten in a table tennis contest by one ten years old boy. The way he day give us back to back eh, e do me make I strangle am that year.

What kind of advice are you looking for? The female mind is programmed to want free things without suffering much. There’s a chance she’d go for the nestoil guy, which is quite rational, but bluntly stupid based on the fact that she’s been rejecting previous suitors.

Let her use her mind n head, which will normally deceive her, since she’s been programmed to deceive herself.