rockyh:
i like ur spirit, am a graduate of economics but I went into farming to have peace of mind today I can proudly saymy decision is worth it

Nice one man. I actually never believed in education, although I was the brightest student in my secondary school days. . Might say as you grow older, you tend not to give a bleep bout what people think, so I’m even satisfied with my 3rd class. Of course, I know there’s no natural way of getting employed with it , and as weird as it may seem; I kind of like it. That way, I’ll know to best focus on my alternatives as they’ll be the only means of surviving and thriving.

I’m like that person who doesn’t love having a Plan B; infact my Plan B’s are dependent on my Plan A. If the latter fails, the rest will fail. I always tell people; the best student doesn’t always come out on top in life. So, it’s more of doing your thing properly. University is different from real life.

iRyan:

How many hours do you study in a day

Up to 8 hours daily. Don’t actually study for exam till exam. I usually don’t even see the point of exam. Some persons need to read over n over again before they can understand something. Like it took me 2 years to fully understand almost everything bout U.S and International tax law; but my school course has been a mystery since the last four years. Na God know as I take day escape with D.

rockyh:
try and graduate with it engage in a skill n wait upon the lord. I know a lady with a masters degree but she runs a baby store n worth millions that her mates of the working class level look up to her don't give up only put pride far from ur dwelling n u will see that someday you will laugh at your degree n say I made it

I don’t even need the degree self. I’m just reading so I don’t pay another school after this year. All the hard work on education didn’t reflect on my result, so I kissed mama goodbye. Lol.

slyfoxxjoe:
If you’re not going to follow it up with a masters to boost your resume, then a 2.2 is as useless as not going to school at all. In this age were many good paying companies are asking for masters as minimum degree requirement, You now come with 2.2 bachelors. Don’t get me wrong, success in life is in no way dependent or guaranteed by whether you go to university at all, many people who didn’t go to uni are millionaires today. But if you’re going to waste the money, effort and 4+ years of your life on higher education, then it’s really foolish to come out with anything less than a 2.1

And I’m struggling to maintain my 3rd class. See life.

Simplep:
what exactly are you saying oga?

Aunty, me self tire o. I’ve been laughing since the first two paragraphs.

Pope22:
Am heart broken and its painful. A girl I have dated for good 3 years just walked away. I met her when she never enterd university. I stood by her, registered her in jupeb and got her a jamb form. She got admission and I have never left her side. I rent house for her, used to give her money before she asked, I made sure she never lacks. I got her gifts, phones, clothes, etc. I always take her out. She has the spare keys to my house and she can come anytime she wants. I never cheated on her. I took her siblings as mine and also do help some of her friends. She cheated on me many times in the past and i forgave have. I have been so nice and caring to her and I have been the best for her for good 3 years. Last month, she stared misbehaving. She started by refusing me access to her phone, said she doesn't want me to see things that will make feel bad even when they dont mean anything. She stopped having sex with me and said she needed break for sex. From there, she said she needed space and time to sort out personal things and from there, she broke up with me. I could not lay any hands on what I have done or where I have wronged her. I asked her many times to tell me what the problem is and she refused. When I persisted and disturbed many times, she opened up and told me that "Am the best she has ever had, that am the kindest and most generous guy she has ever known and that she will never find someone like me again.

She said that SHE NEVER LOVED" Am confused and in pain because it shocked me how could someone pretend to be in love for 3 years? Please, is it possible? I love her and its been hard for me to move on. How do I get over her? Please how do I fall in love with another girl with this kind of betrayal?

I need advice and help please. Anything that will make me get over her and out of this mess? 08070314305 for chats. Thanks

The bolded is your problem. Nice guys always come last. You’ve been used, accept it and more on. In my opinion, you can fight for the love but it won’t work (personal experience). So move on and find someone else, but don’t get played again. You can ask AstroG1 for advise . I can’t actually give you a non-sociopathic advise per say.

Who said anger is bad? If you release it at that point, it is good, as long as you place a limit. I can’t get angry actually. At least not at the particular time you offend me. It’s just like malice, but it’s not. After doing your nonsense, I’ll be smiling all through, only to start nurturing evil intentions for you. If I’m able to get an outburst at the time I’m offended, then it’d be better.

I actually curbed anger myself. It’s quite easy to do it, you don’t need to count 1 to 10 silently . However the side effects are worse. I’m currently thinking of how to drill my neighbor who offended me two months ago. I just remembered yesterday that he offended me at a point, so I’m going to get even this night.

stanvesco:

Let me tell u a story...

I had a male turkey so huge that he could barely mate the female turkeys. It made Dem hate him and always attack him. They extended d hate to me,but I had to pet Dem...
My question is; Have u made her a woman? If u haven't den shes just acting out her homes on u. U mustn't have sex before marriage,but u must make ur woman orgasm frequently even though u don't penetrate her. Do u give her frequent orgasms?

Guy; male turkey n female turkey? Nairalanders no go kill person with laff.

Brown14:
what about the break up stage?

That’s the reason I even opened this thread. OP, write on the breakup stage.

gbefunmi:
Nairaland should improve on its lies. Wetin happen, is it a must to dish out news even if its fake? Imagine an occurrence that happened some days/weeks ago and u r giving me graphic photo of 2012 just to sell ur headlines. Shame on u!

That’s an edited image Oga. The picture taken when he was alive was 2012. They just added the image of his dead body to the picture.

PoliticalWitch:


The good old FCT.

And by the way, in that same old FCT, I have treated victims of SARS in my day job (and on an unrelated note was once nearly run off the road by a SARS vehicle in transit...was not too pleased about it)....so, not all nice.

I’m in FCT now self. The treatment here is somehow better than in other states. I have shouted on a SARS officer here, I won’t try that in Delta. In FCT, if you package well and speak perfect English, they might mistake you for a person in power, so they’re afraid of just beating anybody, except you loseguard. In my side, if you dress well; oh pa ri. Better dress like one beggar so nobody will look at you. Anytime I’m staying outside till 1am, I’ll wear bathroom slippers, shorts and one xxl shirt. Them no go even look me two times.

So the experience in FCT n in other states is different.

od501:
As sad and irresponsible of the FSARs as this event is....this goes far to approve of the reasons why we must seek to pursue only legitimate means of livelihood.

Now, the dead can't defend themselves cos they heaped guilt on themselves by running.

May the rescued get quick recovery and a mind to turn a new leaf... And may the dead rest in peace.



Its either you didn't grow up in this country or u have just chosen to ignore the fact on ground.
So at this stage and time in this country you will come in close contact with SARS and u decide to stay still just cos u are innocent? How many guilty ones have they arrested since this year?

What happened to those boys was a situation of coming in close contact with the devil and the deep blue sea. If you jump into the water, you die, if you allow SARS to arrest u, u will still die. I think they choose a more viable option, they are just too unfortunate to end this way.
But never u for once say that they made a mistake by running in the first place cos that's exactly what I will do if it where me.

Please don’t mind some ignorant folks here. I remember one Sunday when I was going home at around 9pm from a friend’s place. I decided to pass a shortcut. On both sides of the road, there were bushes, so it’s kind of lonely. As I was walking, I pulled out my phone and called someone. I was talking to this bro and walking when I saw SARS from a distance. A boy was in front of me; approximately 25-50 meters. These SARS officials jumped out of the bush (they were hiding before) and cramped this boy. Omo, no be my eye, I quick quick reverse tear race go pass long journey.

Another event happened to my guy. The SARS official held him and said they were doing stop n search. After searching my guy’s phone and pockets, they didn’t find anything, so they one said that they should search him again, that he’s suspicious of this my friend. Can you believe that they inserted Indian hemp seed within their fingers and placed their hands in my guys pocket, only to bring it out and accuse him of smoking weed. Worse part is that; this guy don’t even know how to hold cigarette properly. He bailed himself with 20k for something he was framed for.

So all those people asking why they ran, you guys have just been lucky since. I’ve met SARS by 11:30pm outside (was coming from my babe’s place), and they didn’t do anything to me. They just flashed their torch and told us to continue our journey. That doesn’t mean that I won’t dodge them if I have the chance. So before you blast those boys, let SARS maltreat you first. Then you can speak from experience n not from sentiments. By the way; mine is Delsu, so ABK sars are idiots.

PoliticalWitch:


To some extent, that is true...

Was stopped by SARS once.I think we got off on a good note when I willingly pulled my car over. From there...smooth sailing. Just checked my car documents, told me to get my roadworhiness certificate sorted (in sorting THAT out, I discovered a problem with the brake system that needed fixing...cost me N33000, but I got it fixed properly)..

Even then, the allegation here is that FSars may have been called in on the initative of someone who had a dispute with these boYS. Plus, a lot of people have had bad experiece with SARS...including those who represented themselves well

What state in Nigeria?

Chepos1:


I think say na only me c am o.

If them say make una go school, una go think say na wickedness. See as old men day disgrace themselves. Oya modify your comment joor.

mosho2good:
NAIJA OF OLD I MISS YOU OO!������
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1. I miss d days when we went to school, lined up & D headmistress & teachers inspect our nails & uniform & den we match to our classrooms, U Remember na?? ���
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2. D days of Nasco Biscuit,Trebor, Iced coloured water tied in nylon we called it “lolly”���
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3. D days of Goody-Goody & pako Biscuit.��
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4. D days of ali & simbi, Mr Salami & Mrs Salami, Agbon, Edet lives in Calabar.���
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5. Chei, i remember those days when one naira na money, when groundnut was 5 kobo. & choco milo sweet was 5 kobo
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6. The days of messing game, who is in d garden, police and thief
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7. D days of mama & papa play
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8. The days when we use to build houses with sand, play suwe game, tinco tinco, change U̅r style, ten ten, skipping, stop! U remember nau?
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9. Those days wen we used to fly kite on streets, wen boys used to use d paint bucket cover as tire & their daddy’s hanger as d steering
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10. Those days when rubber band was stock exchange.
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11. The days when voltron, jimbo, power rangers, spider man was our favourite cartoon.
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12. D days of limca soft drinks & choco milo advert on black and white tv and sunday rendevous by1:30pm
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13. Those days when we say ‘leke leke give me white finger’
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14. Those days when eleganza pen was d best
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15. D days wen we used to drink water from d tap even suck out d water if its not coming out
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16. D days when NTA will show rainbow color for 30 mins then national anthem before they resume program @ 4pm
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17. D days wen basket sandals, simbi nd Bata sandals were d best
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18. D Days wen we all sing sandalili sandalili songs.
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NOTE: If you didn't experience any of the above, then you should be calling me sir. I'm not your mate. ..

Common kwayet joor. Which day power rangers come out for here?

Crazyemberr:
i will.

Lol. I know you, but I won’t say. I just played a little reverse psychology there. Have a nice day.

Crazyemberr:
No problem. Although you and my previous moniker were cool. Good day psalm.

You too. But fore you go off, read Psalm 23

Crazyemberr:
You really have no idea. But i like it that way. Im starting anew.

It doesn’t actually matter. Whether or not you’re her or someone else, we were just saying it intentionally. No one actually means most of the things they say on NL. I remember one day that me n her almost had an issue, but I decided to drop it cause the conversation was becoming boring. So you’re crazyemberr n no one else, we like you that way.

Crazyemberr:
okay, hope you get a job based on it

Lol. Brazzers. I’m the next big thing there o. Like the next big thing.

Omar09:

She used dear... Are you thinking what I'm thinking?

Sandra8

Crazyemberr:
Where you taught? The knowledge comes naturally.
Whats ikenga?

I took classes o. I even have a degree in Insertion Studies.

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
You are very useless and senseless. May all your daughters be gang raped by 5 immature teenagers due to peer pressure and may she never get just for it. FOOL!!!

Why’re you lashing out? This is not a place to throw your hate without valid points. If you see an error in what he said, simply point it out. Hold an intelligent convo and stop disgracing yourself.

The harm that sentiment does to people is unimaginable. You just picked on someone for saying something you don’t accept without countering. That’s really immature lady, learn to act appropriately.

Cain drilled his sister; it wasn’t a sin at that time. Ammon drilled Tamar. Adam gave birth to lots of children, but only three were named to reduce the size of the Bible. Abi you wan day read person life story?

Now, my question is this; who taught Adam were to put his natural Ikenga? That’s been baffling me since.

Ah don’t understand number 3. Can you explain more on it?

I agree with your point on arrogance. I see no reason why women would want to front for someone they are attracted to. So that he can keep asking you out so you don’t look cheap? Who even told these ladies that if they agree at once, that we’d think cheaply of them? Most of them are just deceiving themselves.

On the part where you said they tend to post their cars and stuffs, most do it out of good intentions. Like they want you to know that they’re not golddigers, so you shouldn’t run from them if you like them. Of course it turns most men off, especially those programmed to cater for their beloved (lol), but not me shall. Heaven helps those who help themselves. If you can provide for yourself, then there’s a higher chance of me providing for you, since I know that your intentions are not programmed on my small pocket .

Lastly, bout the flower part, most ladies didnt actually date when they were younger. Some were in high demand that they forgot to think twice when rejecting suitors. Some were not beautiful even at their prime (yes, nature cheats most people), so we can’t really blame them when there’s no suitor. Marriage is not by force, but if one must marry to save her face, then she should be prepared for greater unhappiness.

So I basically agree with you on the arrogance part; most ladies exhibit it, but I actually don’t care bout it though. I’m a one way person, I’ve even dispensed family members for feeling entitled or acting arrogantly.

My advice to ladies; don’t wait for men to chase after you. In the western world which we are trying to emulate, most women make the first move. Some men have become used to rejections, so next time you don’t want to look cheap, think bout the possibility of your crush asking twice. Like me, I can date any girl that approaches me (if she’s attractive), I won’t even form expensive. Don’t get to men oh pause before you start acting maturely.

Remember this: nobody actually gives a shit bout your situation or looks (just kidding, they do), or whether you’re cheap or not. It’s all in your head. So, enjoy life, and stop being arrogant.

Quite weird that I’m typing this long at 2am.