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Alero3Arubi:
The English language has some wonderful anthropomorphic collective nouns for various groups of animals.

We are all familiar with:
A Herd of cows,
A Flock of chickens,
A School of fish &
A Gaggle of geese.

However, less widely known nouns are:
A Pride of lions;
A Murder of crows
A Murder of ravens
An Exaltation of doves

And, presumably because they look so wise, a group of owls is referred to as:
A Congress of owls.

Now, consider a group of Baboons. They are the loudest, most dangerous, most obnoxious, most viciously aggressive and least intelligent of all animals. And what is the proper collective noun for a group of baboons?

Believe it or not ............a Parliament. English Language refers to a group of baboons as - A PARLIAMENT OF BABOONS!

I guess that pretty much explains the things that come out from Nigeria's National Assembly!!!

Just thinking aloud sha.
#copied

I use to think it's an "unkindness of ravens "
too much TV series, thanks Lucas Scot

Everyone sleeping unclad, it seems you don't live in areas where the weather is always in the extreme.
during the harmattan season in Zaria or funtua, I dare not sleep unclad .
I sleep with four clothes on, double socks, a pair of thick hand gloves and a head warmer like I'm heading to the moon.

when the heat comes, the kind of insects that roam around these regions are super fly, hell bent on sucking you dry and super gigantic. You will want to build a fortress against all these before you are exterminated ..

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GboyegaD:
Do not enrol in a doctoral program because it is an alternative to what you want because there are days that it could be frustrating. Ever thought of preparing for a departmental seminar on one of your papers and people thrash your work that you feel you have wasted your life all the while? Sincerely, what keeps the going sometimes is that you are doing what you really want.

That said, why not think of getting funding abroad for your program since often times, the school will fund all you need? Think through this option and should you think you want to do the research in Nigeria, then try apply for the various fundings available within the country.

Thank you so much.

mapet:
I am a bit emotional about your cause, not because you tagged me, but much more because I will have taken a path like yours. I have a first degree in Zoology, with speciality in Genetics. My supervisor wanted me to continue as a research assistant, but I got a job in the private sector and had a partial "calling" for IT back then. I still fancy my littel work in genetics (Speciation)

Now to your plight.......

Have you considered looking for sponsorship? Write to friends, family, church, NGOs, scholarship boards etc. You are can get assistance where you do not imagine. Consider looking towards the Scandinavian countries, follow people with related interest on twitter like Dr. Dipo Awojide https://twitter.com/OgbeniDipo, who can furnish you with information about scholarship opportunities in the UK

Thank you for the wonderful advise. I will work on it.

L0velyn:
Dear young guys at 22 to 28
Don't make silly mistakes, marry now with the little you have, don't wait to be a millionaire, have kids early so you can grow with them...grow with ur kids and succeed with ur wife, you will never finish making money or achieving your plans, you might still not succeed at your target year, so start your life early with consistency you will grow, I had this one friend at 22 he told me he was always on making billions before getting married so many years later billions didn't come yet no wife or Kids, he had an opportunity to marry the love of his life very early after he graduated, but his fear was "can he take care of her" she's married now with two grown up children. ...the guy she married was still schooling then, but had the courage they worked hard and succeeded together

So if you can feed your self , you can feed ur wife, you have to believe it marry early don't wait don't start regretting after.... You see ur childhood friends who are already married most of them are not doing well as you, but they are happier, trust me it isn't about money only, but Rather your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom with a well planned life they are happier...

So what your problem? You wanna build mansions? Roll Royce ? Marry Sharon stone type but still you don't have those things you dreamt of and of course the years wasted!!! And still can't have them....

Don't pray to be 60years old and your kids will still be in their 20's, what are you , Supposed to be at that age, their grand father??
Get married, don't be afraid that girl you are finding fault In has many good qualities if you look well, don't ever think you will get everything before you settle down, God can change your life in a blink with a good wife by yourside you will succeed!!!!

Nice, I guess I should just ask you to be my wife ..lol

Followed this thread for a while now. You guys are doing a great job already.
Kindly advise me please

B.Sc Zoology (ABU)
Postgraduates Diploma in Education (NOUN)

M.Sc (Zoology) Cell Biology and Genetics (UI)
why I'm not doing my PhD in this field?
the cost of doing research is beyond my current budget (loads of PCR, RNA /DNA extraction kits and other stuff like that , Storage facilities).


I thought about doing a PhD in Animal Production (Agric). From the info I have gathered so far, it's not possible.

pls do suggest other feasible options for me. thanks

cc: conceptz21, husseinjnr, Nogen, unibadan, benuejosh, Keneking, Idumuose44, mapet, GboyegaD, luvkia, slydog, Epiphany, dailydolar, kensoft

some people even liked his suicide post.. you never know who's hurting be careful what you say. RIP to the dead.

is anyone watching Lethal Weapon funny and action packed at the same time .

Emerald city.. the witches and wizard thing don tire me, I ran from witches of the East end come jam this one again.

Suite is wonderful, saw season 6 finale.

currently seeing Beyond... looking like another smallville

hakeemlyon:
good day guy's. please I need a site I can Download emerald city.. thanks

02tvseries

passey:
My brother, I am physically challenged too, have been, for over 30 years now. I have a paralyzed left foot and use crutches to move around.
I was also in a similar condition with you or even worse- a poor orphaned dude from a very poor family. My blessed Mumcy was frying Akara to support a family of 7 kids. The good news is that I managed to get my self educated working as a barber on crutches and selling used clothes of course with the much my Mumcy could give me which was never more than 3k.
I now hold a Masters degree, married to a beautiful lady who graduated from the same university with me and we are blessed with 2 beautiful kids, a 5yrs old boy and a months old beautiful girl.
By the grace of God, I worked as a lecturer in the university before moving to a multinational IOC with a monthly salary in seven figures!
Now I don't say all these to boast but to encourage you to put your head down and work hard for yourself and for your own life. Don't be distracted by frivolities and my brother, when you succeed you will have a choice of the most beautiful ladies around and God will give you one that will truly love you for you. people will be falling over themselves to identify with you.
By all means get a trade so you can be making some money to keep you going without depending on anyone. Make sure you get educated and ensure that you make atleast a 2.2 because that will count for you, aim for a first class, even if you are going to a poly or COE. As a person with disability, you need twice the amount of efforts required by others to get the same things they get. You must be extra focused but you can surely make it... take it from me, bro.
Polish your talents and skills... try boldly approaching a radio station and ask to volunteer seek help for an opportunity to learn....
there is so much you can do...
it is not a this ability, I call it These-abilities!
Feel free to contact me... May God help you!!

inspiring, thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Goodlyhrt:
I will appreciate any help towards that sportbetting of a thing

You want to trade your little cash on sport bet. Pls Don't! For the fun of it, you can with a little change. Your future is at stake here. Don't rely on it.

Like someone said earlier, approach radio station, religion centers (like T. B Joshua )and NGO's tell them of your heart desire. There are kind hearted folks outta there.

WINDSOW:
I LOVE HIS GENRE OF MUSIC N HIS PAIR OF SANDAL. WHO CAN HELP ME WITH THE SANDAL's NAME.

Salubata

makydebbie:
Growing up in Nigeria was fun, and I had the opportunity to listen to lots of talented musicians/music artistes and groups from Africa's most populous black nation ranging from the likes of Onyeka Onwenu, to Asa, to TY bello, to psquare, to wizkid, style plus and so many more.

But among all these, one voice was among the "special few" that did stand out. He was known as, "The masked one". A lot of people still don't know the face behind the mask of this music legend, though recently, he unmasked his face in honour of his daughter's wedding.

His name is "Lagbaja".


Lagbaja, originally known as; Bisade Ologunde, who is currently based in Manhattan, new york, USA is a Nigerian afrobeat musician, singer and song writer.

He was born in year 1960 in Lagos state. He is from Odogun's compound, ijagbo community in Ogun local government area of Kwara state.

The Nigerian music icon, adopted the name, "lagbaja" ( meaning "anonymous" or "The faceless one" in Yoruba).

He is also an instrumentalist, who plays the saxophone. He made his debut in year 1993 into the music industry and since then, he has been able to fascinate us with his unique style of using traditional African drums/instruments.

His music is purely instrumental but sometimes, they are sung in Yoruba or English or a blend of the two. Most of his songs entertain, while some send a serious message which is most times, filled with humour.

He has won awards such as, Nigerian music awards in 2001, including artist of the year, producer of the year, and album of the year. He and his band performed on the African stage at the BBC music live festival over the Golden jubilee celebration at London's Hyde park in summer 2002.


The songs and punchlines of lagbaja are still in use in our society today. From "konko below", to "gra gra", to "skentele", to "nothing for you", and a few more. His songs and style are ever green and will always be remembered by Nigerians and other Africans, who got wind of his talents also.

Lagbaja was like a breath of fresh air that blew and made us bask in the beauties of true music.
Many legends and class acts come and go. But in lagbaja, we have one who cannot be buried in the annals of history but will always live long in our memories.

There are spirits brave,
There are legends true,
There are legacies eternal and also talents extraordinary.

In the masked one, we had almost all these...

He is truly one of Afrobeats' finest of the finest and King of African Jazz....

Here's to saying; "Lagbaja, some of us still miss you and your music which always offered laughter, entertainment, hope and love".


Lagbaja is a true icon of music not just in Nigeria, but in Africa and till date in the 17th year of the 21st century, is still missed despite the boom in music dynamism and styles across the continent called, "Mother Africa". Lagbaja was a genuine super Original.

Original writer: Makydebbie
(His biggest fan).


Cc: Lalasticlala

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https://www.lagbaja.com/images/lagbaja2.jpg

https://www.peoplesdailyng.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/Lagbaja-Alone.jpg








Source of some info in the write-up: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lagbaja

http://www.allmusic.com/artist/lagbaja-mn0000125482/biography

it's ijagbo, oyun local government of kwara state.

constituted money from a constituted authority..

hollowpot15684:
For those who have dropped their reasonable advice I appreciate, and for those without common sense I say thank you too..

Yes I know it sounds stupid Buh I love my girlfriend and I will do all my best to tell her the situation on ground..I will also give her time to get mad at me to the fullest. I hope and believe that with the rate at which she loves me she will forgive me and if not, I'll move on as a single father..

I also pray so many of you have the ability to be emphatic and not criticize all the time.. if it were to be you, will you start insulting yourself?? Pls let us grow up and also learn to see things for what it is instead of how it is.

I don't know why you seeking advice when ur mind is made up already. Only a desperate lady will stay in such relationship. if you really love that girl, just let her be, face ur baby mama drama... leave her outta of that mess, she doesn't have to suffer for your sins.. thank you

iamDaisy:
Iranu

jealousy

These are the 2017 nominations in full:
BEST PICTURE
Arrival
Fences
Hacksaw Ridge
Hell or High Water
Hidden Figures
La La Land
Lion
Manchester by the Sea
Moonlight
ACTOR IN A LEADING ROLE
Casey Affleck, Manchester by the Sea
Andrew Garfield, Hacksaw Ridge
Ryan Gosling, La La Land
Viggo Mortensen, Captain Fantastic
Denzel Washington, Fences
ACTRESS IN A LEADING ROLE
Isabelle Huppert, Elle
Ruth Negga, Loving
Natalie Portman, Jackie
Emma Stone, La La Land
Meryl Streep, Florence Foster Jenkins
ACTOR IN A SUPPORTING ROLE
Mahershala Ali, Moonlight
Jeff Bridges, Hell or High Water
Lucas Hedges, Manchester by the Sea
Dev Patel, Lion
Michael Shannon, Nocturnal Animals
ACTRESS IN A SUPPORTING ROLE
Viola Davis, Fences
Naomie Harris, Moonlight
Nicole Kidman, Lion
Octavia Spencer, Hidden Figures
Michelle Williams, Manchester by the Sea
DIRECTING
Arrival
Hacksaw Ridge
La La Land
Manchester by the Sea
Moonlight
ADAPTED SCREENPLAY
Arrival
Fences
Hidden Figures
Lion
Moonlight
ORIGINAL SCREENPLAY
Hell of High water
La La Land
The Lobster
Manchester by the Sea
20th Century Women
ANIMATED FEATURE FILM
Kubo and the Two Strings
Moana
My Life as a Zucchini
The Red Turtle
Zootropolis
FOREIGN LANGUAGE
Land of Mine
A Man Called Ove
The Salesman
Tanna
Toni Erdmann
CINEMATOGRAPHY
Arrival
La La Land
Lion
Moonlight
Silence
COSTUME DESIGN
Allied
Fantastic Beasts
Florence Foster Jenkins
Jackie
La La Land
DOCUMENTARY FEATURE
Fire at Sea
I am Not Your Negro
Life Animated
OJ Made in America
The 13th
DOCUMENTARY SHORT
Extremis
4.1 Miles
Joe's Violin
Watani: My Homeland
The White Helmets
EDITING
Arrival
Hacksaw Ridge
Hell or High Water
La La Land
Moonlight
MAKEUP AND HAIRSTYLING
A Man Called Ove
Star Trek Beyond
Suicide Squad
ORIGINAL SCORE
Jackie
La La Land
Lion
Moonlight
Passengers
ORIGINAL SONG
Audition, La La Land
Can’t Stop the Feeling, Trolls
City of Stars, La La Land
The Empty Chair, The James Foley Story
How Far I’ll Go, Moana
PRODUCTION DESIGN
Arrival
Fantastic Beasts
Hail Caesar
La La Land
Passengers
ANIMATED SHORT FILM
Blind Vaysha
Borrowed Time
Pear Cider and Cigarettes
Pearl
Piper
LIVE ACTION SHORT FILM
Ennemis Interieurs
La Femme et le TGV
Silent Nights
Sing
Tiemcode
SOUND EDITING
Arrival
Deepwater Horizon
Hacksaw Ridge
La La Land
Sully
SOUND MIXING
Arrival
Hacksaw Ridge
La La Land
Rogue One
13 Hours
VISUAL EFFECTS
Deepwater Horizon
Doctor Strange
The Jungle Book
Kubo and the Two Strings
Rogue One

My pain as a graduate is people criticizing my choice of course (Zoology) and telling me I'm hopeless and I'm as good as I haven't gone to school at all. it's frustrating and demoralizing. I have been to several people and places and mere seeing my qualifications, there first response is " I hope you know this is not a Zoo".

Well life goes on anyway and suicide is not an option for me, cos life is a gift, and I intend to make the best outta of it till my last breath. Graduated from ABU Zaria in 2012, my objective is to prove all this doubters wrong and to show dem I can make a life in this field, and hopefully provide opportunities for others in my situation and those after me.

Zoologist are intelligent people, they don't have brains for raising chimps and Monkeys alone. They use strategies, proper planning, pure and advance scientific method for solving problems. Their knowledge of animal behavior, development, and physiology makes Zoologists wonderful human resource managers.

Zoologist are not archaic and sedentary, zoologist are IT savvy as as well and are in-tune with modernization , no life sciences can exist this days without bioinformatics, which involves advance programming language, diverse computer applications and lots data gathering which would be curated.

In Heath care, zoologists are not left out, from parasitology, helminthology, virology, epidemiology and all other laboratory practices, they are also competent.

I am one of those..... I have good grades as well (if that's what you looking for)

I have PGD in Education, my Msc in Cell Biology and Genetics ,the field I'm most excited about out of all others. Where I get to discover the powerful secrets the creator ingrained in humans and other animals...my plan is to be a genetic counselor someday in the future. But right now I still need a job and that will not happen if employers think I only have knowledge for raising chimpanzees and Zebras.

Thanks for reading my epistle.. lol,
seriously now, my mail is
ajidepromise@gmail.com

Designated survivor ..Nikita and Jack Bauer in one series!
Heart of Dixie.. Rachael Bilson talks too much

Kwara government claimed they received only 5 billion...i die if this governor and is cabinet go near heaven.. And they couldnt pay a full month salary . Governor and is boss special hell is reserved for you both

Welcome to England Wilfred

Story dat touch....OP u get problem, after 10years, u re just realising all this.

Quasarr:
Thinking about my immediate ex, I can't really tell any good trait I developed through him or learnt from him. Rather, he spoilt the few ones I managed to have
So, the credit goes to my first boyfie who taught me loyalty, and telling the truth always!


Compliment of the Season

Hi, its you. Compliment of the season dear

Most times I read about how romancelander laments about their ex'es, so today In the spirit of christmas I was out with a couple of friends, and I was happy with how composed I was throughout. It wasn't a date but I got into the good book of the ladies. So I realised I learnt this new trait from ex, so I decided to share some character change my ex made me learn before she tossed me out.

1. She bought me brand new clothes
And burned my skinny jeans.


2. She gave me swag, made me cool,

3.
she holds my hand at the movies,and cautioned
Never stares at other boobies
.


4.She Had me brushing my teeth, even flossing...


But she wasn't in love so she tossed me...
So,go ahead give your ex'es some credit where it's due,

fijiano202:
bros ur matter worse pass op ooo...that " COOL" for the matter na bad market

I didn't knw "cool" is the new f*ck off..lol. Her loss !

Kenshinmunac:
*sigh* searching and searching for a girlfriend, all to no avail. Young cool fine guy, but very lonely, no girlfriend. I don't think at this point with all this rejection that I will ever get married in life.

I have searching for a gf, met some girls who turned out to be nasty gold diggers, I didn't wanna waste my time on them cause I'm not a flirt, I'm not looking for a short term relationship so having "fun" with all these girls seemed like a waste of time to me as Sex is not my problem, love is.

So I met this girl few days back, we got talking, I fell for her instantly, she looked calm and very honest, she is not all these girls who do kk in chat, she is caring and very simple, hard to come by., we flowed really well chatting and I was very happy I found someone as I quickly asked her out and she said "let's see how it goes"

I said okay, so today being Sunday, normal chilling day, I called her, very eager to see her beautiful face once more, we got talking and she said I should come to her side.

So I said okay by six,

Six reach I entered road straight to her side, 30 mins drive, when I got close I dialled her number twice she didn't pick I thought maybe she was taking her bath or something was patient and kept on going, so when I got there by 7pm, I called and called but she didn't pick up the call and she was expecting me o!

Na so I begin call her, Even send whatsapp message and direct message all to no avail. I got so maddddd and pissed off, I almost cried because I don't know why I'm being treated like this by ladies. Head to toe I complete, face I fine, fashion sense Is great, but yet, my handsomeness and the growing cash I get can't even get me the slightest fly talk less about a lady

*sigh*

By 5 mins past 8 she called me, by then I was already going home, and she began to plead, this where error words.

"please I'm sorry, my elder brother took my phone to share WiFi, I didn't know he would go far"

I asked "didn't you tell him you were expecting someone"?"

She replied" i did na but he did not listen, I can't just come and stand on the road and be waiting for you, please don't be angry"

In my heart I said Chai! What kind of excuse is this?? This girl just told me indirectly that I'm not important.

So painful.

I see guys with their girl very happy preparing for Christmas, me i have none. All I do is admire beautiful couples and wish It could be......

Unfortunately the sad reality greets me in my face.

I begin to lose my self confidence gradually because of rejection.

Smh, all I feel right now is self pity, all I can do is lament.

I don't know if I just dislike women right now self.

I feel your pain my brother, cos I was in a similar situation. At least you just met this one a few days ago. This girl I have known for ova 6 month, I asked out 4 days ago and she said she was cool, since then, she never pick my call talkless of replying my instant messages.
But I have found peace and rest of mind in other things. So my brother, these feelings doesn't make you less a man, let go of apathy and live well. A lady who wil appreciate d man you are will surely come around, but know that she won't fall for a depressed man. So get up your saddle and live free and protect yourself from emotional breakdown.

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