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Quasarr:
Thinking about my immediate ex, I can't really tell any good trait I developed through him or learnt from him. Rather, he spoilt the few ones I managed to have
So, the credit goes to my first boyfie who taught me loyalty, and telling the truth always!


Compliment of the Season

Hi, its you. Compliment of the season dear

Most times I read about how romancelander laments about their ex'es, so today In the spirit of christmas I was out with a couple of friends, and I was happy with how composed I was throughout. It wasn't a date but I got into the good book of the ladies. So I realised I learnt this new trait from ex, so I decided to share some character change my ex made me learn before she tossed me out.

1. She bought me brand new clothes
And burned my skinny jeans.


2. She gave me swag, made me cool,

3.
she holds my hand at the movies,and cautioned
Never stares at other boobies
.


4.She Had me brushing my teeth, even flossing...


But she wasn't in love so she tossed me...
So,go ahead give your ex'es some credit where it's due,

fijiano202:
bros ur matter worse pass op ooo...that " COOL" for the matter na bad market

I didn't knw "cool" is the new f*ck off..lol. Her loss !

Kenshinmunac:
*sigh* searching and searching for a girlfriend, all to no avail. Young cool fine guy, but very lonely, no girlfriend. I don't think at this point with all this rejection that I will ever get married in life.

I have searching for a gf, met some girls who turned out to be nasty gold diggers, I didn't wanna waste my time on them cause I'm not a flirt, I'm not looking for a short term relationship so having "fun" with all these girls seemed like a waste of time to me as Sex is not my problem, love is.

So I met this girl few days back, we got talking, I fell for her instantly, she looked calm and very honest, she is not all these girls who do kk in chat, she is caring and very simple, hard to come by., we flowed really well chatting and I was very happy I found someone as I quickly asked her out and she said "let's see how it goes"

I said okay, so today being Sunday, normal chilling day, I called her, very eager to see her beautiful face once more, we got talking and she said I should come to her side.

So I said okay by six,

Six reach I entered road straight to her side, 30 mins drive, when I got close I dialled her number twice she didn't pick I thought maybe she was taking her bath or something was patient and kept on going, so when I got there by 7pm, I called and called but she didn't pick up the call and she was expecting me o!

Na so I begin call her, Even send whatsapp message and direct message all to no avail. I got so maddddd and pissed off, I almost cried because I don't know why I'm being treated like this by ladies. Head to toe I complete, face I fine, fashion sense Is great, but yet, my handsomeness and the growing cash I get can't even get me the slightest fly talk less about a lady

*sigh*

By 5 mins past 8 she called me, by then I was already going home, and she began to plead, this where error words.

"please I'm sorry, my elder brother took my phone to share WiFi, I didn't know he would go far"

I asked "didn't you tell him you were expecting someone"?"

She replied" i did na but he did not listen, I can't just come and stand on the road and be waiting for you, please don't be angry"

In my heart I said Chai! What kind of excuse is this?? This girl just told me indirectly that I'm not important.

So painful.

I see guys with their girl very happy preparing for Christmas, me i have none. All I do is admire beautiful couples and wish It could be......

Unfortunately the sad reality greets me in my face.

I begin to lose my self confidence gradually because of rejection.

Smh, all I feel right now is self pity, all I can do is lament.

I don't know if I just dislike women right now self.

I feel your pain my brother, cos I was in a similar situation. At least you just met this one a few days ago. This girl I have known for ova 6 month, I asked out 4 days ago and she said she was cool, since then, she never pick my call talkless of replying my instant messages.
But I have found peace and rest of mind in other things. So my brother, these feelings doesn't make you less a man, let go of apathy and live well. A lady who wil appreciate d man you are will surely come around, but know that she won't fall for a depressed man. So get up your saddle and live free and protect yourself from emotional breakdown.

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DoPeRoSa:
It's almost the end of the year....

We've watched movies almost throughout the year, From Hollywood to Nollywood to Bollywood to Ghallywood to Chinawood(lol) Etc

Some made us cry, some made us brace up, some inspired us, some annoyed us, some made us laugh really hard..

The question comes down to
WHICH MOVIES MADE YOUR 2016??

Mine are :Jungle Book, Captain America(civil war), Love triangle, and zootopia

Jungle book rocks, the legend of Tarzan, Benghazi soldiers, ride along 2, eyes in the sky, mother's day, Grimsby brothers, mechanic revolution.... Just to mention a few. This year certainly has lots of good movie to look back to..

3mmyz:
you should be a priest by now.

No I got ova it..I left dat sch after dat term

Do u know that moment when u suddenly change from an hero to zero,that's my story!
I was in Jss1 very flexible, in one of our PHE classes, the topic was gymnastic. Everyone knows I could do dis acrobatic posture dat I walk wit my hands and my legs will be hanging above my head. Everyone begged me to come and do it for d class. I thought about it as an opportunity to impress Tosin my crush. Unfortunately for me I was given one oversize sportwear,and I forgot I was nt wearing any underwear, as I got into my my acrobatic posture,my john thomas (prick) hanged out from one side of my hip side,waving hello is it u to everyone. For my mind I was expecting claps and cheer, instead it was dead silence......and long stretch of Jesus! The teacher did her best to distract everyone but d deed was done. I felt like dieing dat day

2 days

Awesome

Howardnadler:
Would still prefer you as a sugar daddy

Just say it, you want his money...what is surgary abt any daddy. If not his money

Why do other countries come into Nigeria freely..at least deny them visa until Tomorrow night now

themonk:
A post he has already deleted?

it's back on his wall now. Reposted. You can check
https://m.facebook.com/tbjministries/

Don't believe everything you read...always search for the truth before you conclude. No one is placed as a judge over anyone!

Well the MOG has reaffirmed his claims on the result of the just concluded Presidential election. His post his back. God is certainly upto something!

Let Men of God be

Elkay3:
I'm still seeing this sort of so new, I haven't tried I yet sha. But it seems lovely. You're the third to say much good about this. Keep up.

The app is nice, not just the interface.. U can play games with the Google assistant, if none of your friends are online. It will as well teach you. I watched a movie about humans dating an app on their computer.. I think this might be D beginning of it... Lol

This app is fun, I tell you, only that It doesn't know pounded yam and Amala and ewedu soup.

colossus12:
Please how do I get to ibadan Distance learning centre, sasa road. Somborri help!!!

When you get to the bus stop directly opposite u. I you will get a bus or car going to sasa..

tiredsoul:
Thanks, I can see that am not even fit to be living. If you know a quick and painless way to go, pls let me know.

where did you even know you are going... ? you are here complaining of everything not working in your life. Have you thought of those things that are probably going well for you. You need to get out a little more, and see people who are in unimaginable situations perfectly happy with their lives... before you end it.... you might probably want to let people who still have something to live for have your organs...a little kindness from you

CrazyQuinn:
Please do! This world is already overpopulated, we need to get rid of a lot of people like you ASAP so there can be balance in this world, this world is not meant for the weak

What balance are you creating, and what da f**k do you know about bin weak. You better watch wat u say to people, D other time you advice someone to murder her baby. You might've suppress ur consciousness,but u are still human...and stop giving people razz advice.

asuo27:
Lack of prospect.
Lack of good fashion sense.
Pride.
Laziness.
Gambling.
And one last one but guys should know already.

talk ya mind finish

lavendae:
pls I need urgent reply, I don't know why since from my ss1 the first girls I dated was the one that walk up to me telling me she loves me, now through university the same thing, girls keep telling me they love me, though am not even rich,now am about to get married, buh am confused because I think I may not be able to be faithful to my wife,

you just want to show your self abi.. See your life. "I think I might not be faithful to my wife " You have already planned to fail before you embark on this journey. You better learn to resist whatever curse they placed on u, just keep deceiving yourself. You will end up like one of those macheteee husband

The list is long o.... Most impotantly
Arrogance, greediness, dirty feet, long nails, smelling hair,body odour, light skin, body incisions, tattoo.

I laff in Spanish

Story that touch! He should stop paying the rent and wait till they are sent packing.. Play along.. Lol

What do you think. The Kenyan's threw a nice punch

RadicallyBlunt:
Yepa!

It is a show that she want to be liking the perdon. She will temptation you to liking her then later she will dumper you when she see another bobo dat she liking her dresses and perfum and english passes you.

So shine ur eyeses

lwkmd ..u wicked!

I don’t like asking for help. Who does? It brings out all those uncomfortable feelings of vulnerability, loss of independence, of being a burden. It requires a level of honesty and trust I have not mastered before.

Truth be told, I’m getting there already, because pain makes sure I get to practice what I seem not to be use to.

Pain is humbling. A day ago, I needed to carry something heavy down a wet stair , and right there I could have easily asked to be assisted, I’m not proud. I just decided not to burdened anyone, so I embarked on my simple task and came down the stairs gently, step by step I descended, suddenly, I placed a foot on a slippery point and that was it. I landed hard on the floor on one of my hands, and for like few seconds, all I heard was vibrations and tingingling all over my body. I couldn't feel one of my hands also. I picked up myself and I lost coordination, as my eyes eyes were tired. I sat right there for like a minute. And that was it! The pains came like nothing I have never felt before, especially in my hand. I have withstand pains, but this was way different. I wanted to scream but I couldn't bring myself to do it.

The pain was like no challenge I’ve met before. It’s life grabbing me , shaking me until my bones rattle and my skin shivered. Screaming in my head, Will you listen now ? It says. Will you fucking listen?

I still fight it. Then I yield, and bow. And listen. I picked up myself, went to the lab packed up and headed out to my house.

Maybe such a stubborn student like me needed such a fierce teacher like PAIN

But you know what? Turns out that the door I need to open in order for others to help me, is the same door that love comes through.m. But now I know. When someone helps me they’re saying (with our without words)

You can rely on us. We’re willing to go through some trouble for you. You’re not alone.

Who knew?

Pain strips you of a lot of things, now I had to adjust to using one hand to do everything for now, and painfully I can't get out to do anything productive until I get better.

Things i thought I had to do. Things I liked to do. Things i dreamt of doing in the last few hours. All gone, cos I wanted to do it all by myself

The pain took away so much, but if only I was willing to let go and seek help it leaves me with something invaluable.

For me as a person, the fact that there are a lot of things I can’t do is not a problem. Joint effort thrives in limited spaces. When you can’t reach for the obvious solution you’ll have to dig deeper to find a way, and the results of your labour will be more original for it.

This is my point right now. And I’m not talking about self care as a good health decision, or even as kindness. But self care as necessity. As an integral and inseparable part of a healthy life.

This is where it’s decided. I’m just beginning to understand the extent to which we miss out on our power and potential because we don’t know how to take care of ourselves properly. Half the time, we don’t even know what we need, and certainly not how to give it to ourselves. Lifetimes of conditioning tell us that duty comes first. So we oblige. We struggle and we strive.

Knowing when and how to go slow is one aspect of taking care of ourselves. Sleeping is another. Filling up on inspiration. Enjoying our bodies, our sensual experiences, food, light, warmth, moonlight, poetry, sound, paintings, space. Understanding energy. Making friends with time and silence. Approaching work in the spirit of giving and receiving, rather than achieving.

Opening that door fully invites a kind of creative energy into your system that is unlike anything you’ve known before.

We usually give ourselves what we need only if there’s time, after the “real” work is done. And we do it as a remedy, to avoid stress, burnout and disease. Which is a good start. But it’s like using a lorry as a car. That’s a lot of unused loading space.

Self care is not optional. It’s mandatory!

25yrs, 4 months, 2 days, 13 hours, 8 minutes and 40seconds..and that's exactly how old I'm

Rotimiseyi:
Good to see you here. I've been here since and I never see anyone post anything about Ilorin. I'm also in Ilorin and I need a teaching job as well. Try to submit your cv in schools around you. They may start recruiting soon. Take care

thank you sir, I will move around and submit My CV.