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Gangster1ms:
These girls thinking they are doing u favour by dating u and that's why u see most of them misbehaving.. meanwhile the real person doing the favour is the guys.. they are helping the girls miserable life sef. My God.. u don use konji scatter this world.. take away that curse from we men and u see these women cry blood cos we no go send them at all!

Buy a intimacy gadget

AZeD1:
So you think everyone that broke up because of genotype or relocation did it mutually?
Or you think everyone who broke up with their partners gave an explanation?

See why I said we need a logic class? You can't make up things on the fly and claim what you said is logically.

So a guy who leaves the country without telling his partner, is that "dumping" or "parting mutually"?

You are overwhelmed wt what u think you knw and it makes u not to calm down to read other ppl's opinion and to also comprehend it to make a rational argument.

ManFromJos:
Lmao.. say na malfunctioning sex doll..
but you're right Bro.. if u don't support a motion they are proposing, they'd just label u as a misogynist.. its quite disappointing,.
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That's exactly what their problem is. They don't entertain opinion outside what they beliv.
They failed to realize that men are not created to function that way. Even wen men are dancing to ur tune, thet are just doing that for peace to rein not dat u are in possession of their mumu button.

Well, I don't blame them. They are created that way so that they can easily be manipulated by men. If not tell me hw u can convince a girl to remove her clothe for u to chop her and she will agree. After that u dump her. Another guy will come wt that same strategy d former used in breaking her heart and she will still fall for it. That one will chop and run, still next comes wt the same style and she will still fall for it.

I don't call it bn a mumu. Our creator made them so for men to enjoy. If women get men brain ehnnn..... It may take u more than 5yrs to convince one girl to give u access to go in-between her.

AZeD1:
Can you explain the difference please?

I agree to a quick extablishment of a logic institution cos you will be the first enrollee.

Dumping a lady is different from parting ways based on genotypic factor or relocation.

Toks2008, please easy wt ur grammar naa. Some ppl are lost.

@AZed1, U dump a woman wen u just wake up and decide u no wan do again without giving the girl enough explanation.

Parting ways is when both of u mutually agree to quit due to one reason or the other. From wot Toks2008 wrote up there

based on genotypic factor or relocation

, it means they agree to part ways due to incompatibility in their genotype or because one of them is relocating to another place that may not offer them the "conduciveness" needed to run a smooth relationship

biacan:
He even brought the issue on nairaland last year..... I know him very well he knows what I'm talking about ask him

The way u are following dis guy around ehh. It seems u kw all his posts.

U can confide in me, do u crush on this guy?

JennieCutie4U:
what if he dates you for a day and dumps you the next day...is something wrong with you too? #seriouslyasking?

May be the character odour is so much....lol

Toks2008:
I have a penchant fir controversial writeups so I always leave it open...I could add few points that will shush most ladies attacking me but I left it out to see if they would raise it but am I surprised that they rather chose to attack the writer? HELL NO...and this is why many of them are dumped in no time...lack of sound IQ...

You are on point bro.
Low IQ
Always thinking that all that men need to stay in a relationship is giving them Bwest and P*ssy.
Men are more dan dat.

Wen they are dumped, u hear them crying "Upon giving him my body for over 3yrs, the idiot had the mind to dump me". Who told you that ur body can tie a man to a relationship?
Whoever that is teaching our women this should better stop.

cococandy:
Shut up with your stupid excuses

Is this how u expect to get married.

No sane man will marry ur type.

MISTAICEY02288:
Oh yea she's got some attitudes. I actually know she is loyal and doesn't cheat though. But she seems not to be as committed as i am to the relationship. She doesn't call often or send messages. Most times lately, i do the talking first before her. We both might be online on Whatsapp and she wouldn't say a thin until i do that. I believe she loves me actually but i cant continue being the one doing the most. You can imagine having a partner who doesn't call or keep in touch with you whereas some other dude keeps in touch with you more often than your so called partner. Thats exactly whats goin on now. Theres this lady who calls and messages me every moment just to know how i am doing while babe doesn't do that often.

If that's the only reason u ve for contemplating dumping her, pls do have a rethink.
Consider other ways she make up with this ur assumed flaw.
U said she loves u. She is faithful and loyal. What else do u want in a relationship.
Because u are internet freak and she is not, then u think she is less committed. Bros eehhh.

Let me lend u some sense. U should be happy that she is not as internet freak as u wanted her to be. By the time u push her into all these Whatsapp frequent chat, Facebook, Instagram etc, bros u will be surprise that the loyal babe u used to kw has changed. Abeg cherish that girl.

The other one u want to concentrate on, did she tell u dat she has no boyfriend. Guy u dey mess up oo. Now u think she will leave her bobo come dey follow u. Ok even if he follows you, have u tasted her fidelity and loyalty.
So what you want in a relationship is a woman that will be calling u regularly and chatting with u from morning till night.
I know what ur problem is. U don't have a job that needs ur total concentration. By the time u do, my brother, more that 2 calls a day from ur partner will be like a serious disturbance to u. U wont even have time for that ur Whatsapp.

Yankee101:
Stop making women feel inferior about themselves.

Men are generally scared of commitment

Men won't tell you if you have a fault they just walk away

Men go out to look for the 5% that their lover lacks

If men talk more constructively I think relationships will be better

For women, generally be clean, non talkative, hard working, not overly demanding and love him up.

Bros, I don't beliv that men are scared of commitment.
Rather men try to be very rational once commitment is concerned.
They understand from the beginning what it means to make irrational decision.
Dat is why they may take so much time before getting involved.

When it comes to women, she may go into a very serious commitment just to pls other ppl not even thinking of the danger of taking that decision.
A woman may decide to marry just any man just because her mates are married. She just want to be at par with her mates.

RuthDaniels:
Oga Toks you are being myopic here, Haba. This is like saying every break up is the woman's fault. Are you saying there are no men who are unsatisfied even with an angel?

Do you mean all men know what they want ? All men are saints? No man will want to chop and go even when a lady is worth staying with? Stop deceiving yourself Biko!

This thread is just to polish your ego, to cover up your flaws and faults. And you know what some shallow minded ones will support you but that won't change the fact that you are wrong!

My dear U still did not understand this post.
Most men come to chop and clean mouth.
Most were not even thinking of getting married at the initial stage.

If a man was able to date a woman for a whole one year and finally wake up one day and leave, my dear the woman need to recheck herself.
If I come to chop and clean mouth and on the process i found out that dis babe is really a nice girl with so many wonderful traits of a good wife material, I bet u, I may consider sticking more with the babe till I have what it takes to marry her. If this girl could not convince me to think outside chop and clean mouth, my dear, I may wake up one day and ask myself...what am I even doing with this babe.

You can create a counter post of this post and we will still tell u the truth why a woman will wake up and dump a man she has bn dating for over a year.
Let us learn to treat an issue fairly irrespective of who will get pained.

ManFromJos:
I think something is wrong with NL commenters...
so if u are sitting with a person on the same pew for over an hour enjoying a conversation,.. and suddenly, he/she gets up and moves to the sit in front of you without any excuse or explanation, wouldn't u be forced to 'count ur teeth with ur tongue?'.. common sense would make u check urself.
Same thing here.. If a guy outrightly dumps u without any reasonable reason, then u really need to check urself.
I wonder how different the comments Here would have been if it were actually refering to the male folks .
Besides, checking ur self (be it a guy or a lady) does not mean u have faults.. it would just foster better changes to ur previous self and enable u to quickly move on..
NB; A girl once told me i wasn't even half as serious as her ex.. She walked away,.. After serious reflection, i realised why she said that.. It has helped me alot.. Made me more matured.. She now even tries to hang out with me sef,. Lol,. Make i just dy laff biko.. #CheckUp .
xf

Help me tell them. One problem wt women is that they don't want to hear that what dey did is wrong. They always want to be praised even wen they are doing the wrong thing.

Tell a girl that what she is wearing or that her make up is not ok. She will likely want to kill you and label u bad belle.
Tell her that she look prettier than the prettiest Angel even wen she look like the worst Calabar masquerade, u will see her smiling like malfunctioning sex doll.

Toks2008:
Any thread I create on romance has a deep message only few can understand.

Ppl that are created to understand will definitely understand while those that are pained cos of their situation will try so hard to make the thread a piece of shit.

I don't argue with women. I give them piece of my heart and let them keep ranting. They were created that way.

Jamariwolff:
So I shud check myself because of a nigga when there are millions of other niggas that will appreciate me and all I have a offer.

Rubbish.

I think you should check yourself, Why you jump from one lady to another like a bag of flies.

The 1st one appreciated u initially and later dumped u. So don't be over-carried by the initial gragra.
If a guy dates you, loves u and do not cheat on u and after 1yr he dumped u, my dear u really need to check urself unless if his reason for dumping u is understandable like Blood Group incompatibility. Even at dat he will not dump you. Both of you will mutually agree to terminate the relationship.

nerodenero:
Rule of the game: Don't ever get caught.

I like the wife, she attacked the husband and not his girlfriend. Some women would have gone for the girlfriend instead. Serves him right as he deserves more than a slap.

Unfortunately he'd beg the wife again and she'd accept. I pity women o, some of them dey suffer walahi. Most men won't tolerate a cheating wife but many women still tolerate a cheating husband.

A cheating wife is more deadlier than a cheating husband.
Men can cheat but still love and respect their wives.
Once a woman start cheating, she starts disrespecting her husband.
She will start loving the other man than her husband.
She may even think of killing her husband to pave way for her to enjoy her new love unrestricted.

Dis is why men don't tolerate cheating wives.

Mind you, I don't support any form of infidelity no matter where it is coming from.

pyyxxaro:
Fucck off swine

Go ahead, I'm still diagnosing you.

pyyxxaro:
One sense u nor get


Learn to mind ur business


With ur lizard face

Lol.....are u pained?

And u talked of minding one's business.
I believe the post u made that comment ur business.
Mr. CEO

MissAprokoMedia:
Why do you guys love Breast

Don't u love it too?

The way u carry urs makes me love it

dasparrow:
Mercy Johnson is trying too hard to be constantly noticed after marrying the husband of another woman by the name of Lovely Okojie who resides in Canada and who already had 2 beautiful kids with Mercy's husband Odianosen Okojie before Mercy Johnson and the 2 sacks of beans she is carrying on her chest grabbed Odianosen Okojie from Lovely Okojie.

Later some bloody Nairalanders will not let Stella Damasus rest constantly calling her "husband snatcher" but no one is saying anything about Mercy Johnson who is also a husband grabber abi snatcher.

Hypocrisy?

Sue her to court and stop wailing

pyyxxaro:
Old age gradually creeping in

...and what is wrong in getting old?

If u think that old age is a curse, can u ask God to make u skip it

datola:
So, the Facebook rescuer still left the child on the highway to take the pictures and post on Facebook.

Hmmm....

Yes, it is very necessary to do dat for security reasons.

ATTITUDE2:
I donblivit, position ABDE are mostly for women on short skirt trying hide their undie! . And anybody can learn any of them, 2 is my position tho.

Position 2
These people are recognized as dreamers. They are a very creative person and usually have innovative ideas that’s what make them famous as the soul of the team or an organization. They are friendly, cheerful, interesting and can prove themselves as the best company for you. They are born-travellers and cannot live without travelling. They can easily take fresh starts without thinking twice whether it is from the coming Monday or maybe as a New year Resolution. That are what helps them in changing them entirely whether it is their appearance, partner or even a city.

Did the above description fit into the type of person you are?

Mine, will not show you the message. It will snap u, both front and rear views. Report the particular app you were trying to access, time the attempts were made and the numbers u tried using to access my phone.

Most importantly, It will forward a text to the other of my phone about the wrong attempts

biacan:
Every lady has the right to check their spouse phone in other to avoid insecurity problems....... any man/guy that locks his phone is a cheat and should be dealt with seriously

Girl you gat it wrong. Different ppl have different reasons for locking their phone.

For me, locking my phone used to be a serious inconvenience to me. I hated going through locks b4 accessing my phone until something made me start locking my phone.

My Boss requested to make call wt my phone which I obliged. He went into his office to make the call while I was in our general office.
Instinctively, something told me that there is more to that request. I rushed to his door, behold he locked the door from behind.
When he returned the phone, I checked accessed the "recent activity" and "Call Recorder" platforms, I saw that there was no call made by him. I only saw that he accessed my Whatsapp, Facebook and Messages. The rest became story.

From then, I got a wonderful lock for my phone.

We all know that there is various methodology through which one can determine some real facts about their personality. But recently, researchers observed that an individual’s sitting position can also reveal a lot of hidden facts regarding their behaviour and it can also represent their overall personality. Don’t believe my words? Then you must read this article to explore yourself and that too on your own.



We all know that there is various methodology through which one can determine some real facts about their personality. But recently, researchers observed that an individual’s sitting position can also reveal a lot of hidden facts regarding their behaviour and it can also represent their overall personality. Don’t believe my words? Then you must read this article to explore yourself and that too on your own.


Position 1
People who sit in this position are usually outer-directed and believe that the problems will end without putting any efforts. One can start an interaction with these people easily and they are the ones who can switch themselves in various situations effortlessly. They possess childish behaviour and never stick to the same idea for the longer time period. They possess a charming personality and also comprise of a strong imaginative power.

Position 2
These people are recognized as dreamers. They are a very creative person and usually have innovative ideas that’s what make them famous as the soul of the team or an organization. They are friendly, cheerful, interesting and can prove themselves as the best company for you. They are born-travellers and cannot live without travelling. They can easily take fresh starts without thinking twice whether it is from the coming Monday or maybe as a New year Resolution. That are what helps them in changing them entirely whether it is their appearance, partner or even a city.

Position 3
These people know their comfort zone very well. They are the one who does not put any efforts in maintaining themselves but can consume a lot of time in selecting accessories for the same. They are choosy and unpredictable in case of clothing. They may be chaotic from the perception of other people but they are really not. Their one and only weakness is their poor concentration power.

Position 4
These people don’t appreciate being late. They are intelligent, emotional who can hurt and sacrifice for themselves just to avoid fights. Such people are introvert and usually, fear to express their feelings in public. Those people who prefer this position are open-minded, straightforward and extroverts.
If individual wishes to lift the upper part of the foot, relying on the heels, then it directly reflects that can easily adapt a change in life.

Position 5
These people never rush for anything and never try to end their work in a hurry as they believe that each thing takes its own time. For instance, if a person is involved in a marital relationship then they will take time and plan every step of building their family. Firstly, they will attain the necessary education for it then build a career, then they will get married and set accordingly and will plan their family. In some situations, they are a kind of stubborn. They are goal-oriented and hard-working which helps them in achieving their task and that’s what makes them ambitious.
They are self-obsessed and prioritize their physical appearance. Such people are a little insecure too!

https://banter.fun/heres-what-your-sitting-position-says-about-your-personality-2/

Rivers State Governor, Nyesom Wike on Tuesday blasted Governor Rochas Okorocha for granting amnesty to ‘notorious cultists’ behind the New year Day killings in Omoku community which led to the death of about 23 Rivers residents.

He said this amnesty granted by the Imo State Governor to the cultists will have no impact in Rivers State and the N20 million bounty placed on them by Rivers State government remains.

He told journalists at the Government House in Port Harcourt that the cultists whom Governor Okorocha pardoned are kingpins of the slained Don Waney cultist group who have been declared wanted.
“Yesterday, the Governor of Imo State granted amnesty to the cultists we declared wanted. These are cultists of the Don Waney gang who killed 23 persons on New Year Day.
“These are cultists who have been killing security agents. That amnesty offered by Governor Okorocha cannot cover Rivers State. These criminals are still wanted for their crimes against Rivers State and her people,” he said.
He claimed that the action of Governor Okorocha is a proof of the ‘intelligence’ made available to the Rivers State Government of the plans to grant Amnesty to wanted cultists for political reasons.
Wike also lamented what he described at the introduction of politics into security affairs.
“There is no need playing politics with the security of lives and property. Before Governor Rochas Okorocha granted amnesty to those who killed our people, he did not deem it fit to call me.
“They should always weigh the implications of these actions to the security of the region. Whether you are in PDP or APC, there is no need to politicise security,” Wike said, adding that the state government will continue to work towards improved security.

Chiedu4Trump:
Then both of u are confirming what I said, that men are not to pass themselves off as women and vice versa.


Which wan na Chosen Member?

I kw u kw what i mean

kkboy:
The good girls usually end up with the bad guys, While most of the very good guys always fall into the hands of runsgals. What a world.

Physics helped in solving this ur mystery.

Like Poles repel; opposite poles attract.
Are u still confused?

Chiedu4Trump:
That verse
Deuteronomy 22:5
The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment:
for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God.

Is Old Testament and not new.

In the new testament women and men are simply not to exchange roles or pass one off as the other sex.

Thats why the bible forbids effeminates

1 Corinthians 6:9
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers,
nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,

A Chosen Member detected

doctor306:
ur current

but am serious pls if u can help i would appreciate

Ok...I will message u

Where are u?

Since we cannot get the man's side of the story, let us analyze what the woman told us

I believe in that restaurant, there should be an organized parking lot. She choose to park the wrong way. (just assuming that it's an organized eatery)

It is annoying for u to see ur car blocked especially wen i haste to leave a particular place.
When she was informed of her wrong parking, she carelessly gave her car key to a securityman to drive for her in her absence. She is a careless woman.
Even when the security man told u of their policy of not driving customer's cars u still had to wait for the man to come inside. If u had followed the security man wen he left that place, I don't think the man will have any reason coming inside to shout at u.

Now let us analyze the picture u painted about the man;

You want us to beliv that the man is a rascal, ungentlemanly and violent.
Your story of slapping him 3 times and went back to give him the 4th finishing slap proved u wrong.
If the man was as violent as u wanted us to beliv, he would've changed it for you just by ur first slap on him, not to talk of 4 solid slaps.

It's very hard to beliv that the man came and collected your car key, went out and come back again poured ur food on ur body. Com....ooon madam, fear God small naa. When he collected ur key, what did he use it for? What did u do when he snatched the key from u? Tell us that side of the story.

I can't buy this lie. It's too cheap for me.

Finally, madam, as i said earlier, you are a very careless and callous woman. How can u have this kind of encounter, you went free from slapping the man, you still went ahead to post it on social media with you picture and other details.
What if the man traces u and attack u. Why is internet making some ppl stupid?