I know this question has been asked many times before, but does it really happen?

I'm not asking if it is possible, almost anything under the sun is possible. But what I want to know is how many of you actually see this in real life?

Are women with attractive male friends or men with attractive female friends always looking for something more?

How old is your friend and the guy she went to see?

I wouldn't tell her to go straight to her parents. . . she needs to go talk to her brother. As embarrassing as it may be, it was his friend and he probably knows him better.

I like this

You need a new boyfriend when you notice he has female underwear in his drawers, and it's not yours!

Yes, that is what friends are for, but that's not the only thing. You definitely want your girlfriends to feel comfortable to talk to you about their relationship problems because who else would she talk to? However, I don't agree with women abandoning their friends just because they have a new guy in their life. If that relationship goes south, it's her friends that she would rely on. That said, a boyfriend is never more important than the rest of her friends. They both have "friend" in their titles and so should be on similar levels. The same level of intimacy can definitely be attained between a woman and her friends as that same woman can have with her boyfriend. The only reason girls drop friends is because they can become so immersed and blinded by their relationship that only that other person exists. It's partially up to her friends to remind her that there is life outside the guy.

I am not completely against initiating relationships online. . . but that is only if it is possible for both parties to interact physically regularly.

To each his own, but relationships started and maintained online can be full of deceit. When you interact with someone online, you have no other choice but to believe everything that they say. You can have your doubts, but there is no proof. You are more likely to meet bad characters online and maintain that relationship than if you see them in person. In person you can at least notice things (weird actions, lies), you can see who their friends are. You know the saying "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are." These are things that are hard to do online.

So overall, I would definitely say no. But if you are in the same vicinity (maybe 30 minutes apart or so) then maybe it's possible.

I really can't support this because you body does a pretty good job on it's own of removing toxins from your body. Unless you have an actual illness, most doctors will tell you detoxing is actually dangerous. It's better to just eat healthy, because reducing caloric intake for long periods of time will wreak havoc on your metabolism when you come off of it. Cutting out coffee is a great start because depending on your intake, caffeine can make you feel sluggish when it is not in your system.

What does your daily exercise consist of?

This is from the same poster who made a thread about how white women are disrespecting of Nigerian men. . .

The OP was probably rejected by every woman that he ever approached and so feels the need to take it out on women everywhere

Seriously. . . grow the heck up!

I only added someone I didn't know well once.

I used to accept friend requests from people I didn't know, until it got to the point where I was getting at least three a day from people I didn't know (not to talk of party promoters), that's when I stopped.

You are cheating on your girlfriend, and the other woman wants you to dump your girlfriend. And now she insists that you have sex with her without a condom. . . . and you have no idea what you should do?

The woman is clearly trying to get pregnant, so that you can dump your current girlfriend and are forced to stay with her. What you need to do is if you want to stay with your girlfriend, drop the side girl. Then you need to tell your girlfriend what you are doing so that she can decide what she wants to do.

I'm sorry, but I can't seem to understand who's feelings you care about more here, yours, or the side girl? Because you obviously have no regard for your girlfriend if you are coming here to ask what to do to keep your side girl happy. . . and would even consider sleeping with her without a condom. Do you have any idea what kinds of diseases are out there? Do you know if that girl is completely clean? How would you feel if you passed anything to your girlfriend?

iyatrustee:

his Signature on his bank cheque

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I have to say intelligence is first, but a great sense of humor is a close second.

I thought plaits and braids are the same?

Or do you mean braiding my hair by itself, without extensions?

From my observation, Yoruba women.

It had to read your post slowly because it was hard to understand. . . but she was saying that she was dating a guy for two years, and when he went on vacation he was "too busy" to talk to her. Turns out he cheated, and told her that he's sorry but that he still wants to be with her.

OP,

Seriously, that guy is not worth your time. It's two years into your relationship and he is cheating, how do you expect your relationship to survive in the long run? Please don't stay with him just because you've been together for a couple of years. You are not married to him, and it was clearly not a one time thing if he ignored you the whole break. Just move on, he's not worth it.

And the fact that you are Ghanaian and he is Nigerian has nothing to do with it. If he cared about you, he would care about you regardless of your nationality. He was a jerk, end of story.

A lot of women still wear breaded and twisted hair styles. I've worn weaves and stuff, but when my hair is not out my go to style is braids/twists.

I don't think so. You can be in love with the image that they project to you, but you can't really love what you cannot physically see and interact with.

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You and me both! Though I am seriously partial to boots

I sometime get asked if I'm wearing contacts because my eyes can look "weird" in certain lights lol.

My goals in life.

Excited!

D'banj or Paul Walker

Awwww, he is adorable!

I only know one type of woman that only wants sex and money from a man: a prostitute!

My favorite, is simply "Hi, my name is [insert name here]" or "[insert some witty comment about the situation here]."

Nothing better than a guy actually trying to talk, because cliche/textbook lines get ignored.

I keep in contact with mine, in fact my last boyfriend is still my best friend. It really depends on the relationship you guys had and how it ended. It was always clear that we were friends first, and that we wanted to stay friends afterward. To be honest, I would question a guy if he didn't seem to talk to any of his ex's.