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@ op you have to be very careful. 1yr and 6months is a long time for anyone to forget about someone. I think he has just been jilted or heartbroken,bored,lonely, h@rny and is looking for an easy prey,to pick up on the rebound.like an ex who still has something for him and you fall in.

My advice : Move on. If he truely case he would have been keeping in touch all along and would have brought this month a fews months after the break up.



Be carefull.

MizMyColi: And How the Heck does a publicenemy come up with a public inspiring article?!

I have no Idea

While we may not know who exactly we are going to marry, as fully developed, young adults, we have a pretty good idea of the qualities we’re looking for in a partner.

This isn’t a little girl’s “Prince Charming” wish list. Think of this, instead, as the list Rihanna’s friends gave to her after she broke up with Chris Brown… for the second time.

Despite this suspicious feeling that writing this list will guarantee my future as a spinster, here are the 20 qualities you should look for in the person you marry:
1. Shares your beliefs

Regardless if you believe in Satan or sprinkles, your partner should have respect for your views. Believing in the same things — like Beyoncé as a religion, or coffee as a morning non-negotiable — brings you two closer.
2. Teaches you something new

Life together will be pretty boring if you can’t learn from each other. It can be a lesson as small as how to bake chocolate chip cookies with Oreos stuffed in the middle (this has actually turned out to be an important life skill), or something more substantial, like how to use chopsticks properly. For me, this means he’s well-versed in politics and will give me the Sparknotes version of White House current events. Let’s also not forget there’s an inherent good feeling when you teach someone a new fact or skill.
3. Trusts you (and is trustworthy him or herself)

If you feel the need to raid your partner’s cell phone, you’re basically displaying your distrust for him or her — what good is a relationship like that? Once you start prying into each other’s phones, all faith goes out the window and every text is grounds for an argument.

Bottom line: If you go digging for sh*t, you’re gonna smell it.
4. Appreciates staying in together

Every couple needs quality time — just make sure your definition of “quality time” is the same as your partner’s. Going out and socializing as a duo is always fun, but it’s equally important that your partner can curl up next to you for an intimate night in. Sometimes, the most magical moments are the ones we take the time to slow down and enjoy with the person who’s right in front of us. No audience necessary.
5. Makes you a better person

You want someone who brings out your best self. A great way tell if you and your partner should tie the knot is by honestly asking yourself, “Does this person make me better?”
6. Entertains inside jokes

No, I’m not talking about how you both love to crack up while watching the “Afternoon Delight” scene in “Anchorman.” I’m talking about the kind of inside joke, where all you have to do is give the other person a certain look and it instantly sends you both into a laughing fit. You are both so on the same page that the joke doesn’t need to be explained; your partner just gets it.
7. Does not place restrictions on you or the relationship

The person you marry shouldn’t give you ultimatums like, “I won’t date you until you get a promotion,” or “If you go out with your friends, I’ll break up with you.” There shouldn’t be rules to your relationship that prohibit you from doing certain things or hold you back from being who you are.

He can’t prevent you from wearing your crop top to the bar (although, it is very flattering when he gets jealous like that). Likewise, she can’t stop you from playing video games before bed (that is, unless she’s not wearing any clothes…).
8. Compromises

Compromise is the key to any successful relationship; we’ve been taught this since kindergarten. Do I love going to Phish concerts and listening to 20-minute guitar riffs? No, but I’ll make it my mission to enjoy myself and do it anyway (for the drugs, mostly). And I’m sure he doesn’t like being dragged to see weird indie films, but I’ll buy the popcorn and soda and toss in a Xanax because I’m nice like that.
9. Respects your family

Notice how I don’t use the word “likes” here; although, that’s always a plus. This also goes for both sets of friends.
10. Satisfies in bed

If you can’t please your partner in bed, chances are, he or she is gonna look for that satisfaction elsewhere. Being satisfied in the sack goes beyond pleasure; it means you two are also sexually comfortable with one another. When it comes to matters in the bedroom, you and your partner should keep an open dialogue.
11. Maintains a healthy relationship with alcohol and socializing

If your partner can’t handle drinking or social situations, then you’ll either: A) Have to accept the role of the occasional babysitter, or B) Pass on it altogether. (Shout out to my future hubby!) Drinking Jameson and crying at the bar afterwards is kind of a deal-breaker — same with getting violent, Chris Brown.
12. Loves your flaws

True confession: I love not wearing pants. If you don’t love that about me, then we probably aren’t meant to be together. The person you marry should, of course, play up your strengths, but also appreciate your imperfections. It might sound trite, but it’s your quirks that make you… You.
13. Gives you well-deserved compliments

So sue us for wanting the person we love to tell us we’re beautiful and perfect and incredible and smart and the best person on the planet?

Seriously, though, you don’t need to shower us in flattery, but when we’ve spent all day researching the perfect lingerie, hearing that we look “sexier than Rihanna in her ‘Pour It Up’ video,” is always well-received.

(Yes, patrons in the comments section, these are my daddy issues talking — you’ve totally figured me out.)
14. Shares the same values

Someone who is materialistic and enjoys splurging on extravagances probably won’t last very long with someone who is down-to-earth and likes to rough it. This is why celebrities marry other celebrities***.

(***The reason they don’t last very long, though, is completely unrelated to this list.)
15. Stays faithful

This seems fairly obvious; although, you’d be surprised at how many people are more and more accepting of the fact that their spouses will cheat at least once in their relationship.

I am not one of those people. Don’t f*cking cheat on me, or I’ll break up with you… And then cut off your balls because I assume you have none in order to do that to a person. (Smiles.)
16. Displays intelligence

Smart people don’t suck. They also offer insightful advice and help you make good choices. Your spouse doesn’t have to be a college graduate. We’re referring to the kind of partner who innately possesses that brand of sage intelligence.
17. Appeases your attraction (whatever that means to you)

Because you’re going to be spending the better part of your life with this person, it’s mildly crucial that you also feel connected to him or her. I happen to be fond of older, hairy men. And I’m pretty sure that sounds attractive to no one but myself.
18. Partakes in various hobbies

They don’t have to be the same hobbies as yours (see #8 ‘Compromises’), so long as your partner has other ways of fulfilling him or herself, aside from banging you and then cuddling on repeat. Whether that means frequenting museums or watching viral videos, your partner should have other interests outside of your relationship.

Bonus points if by “hobby,” you also mean “grubbing.”
19. Shares in your vision for the future

Hopefully you’re both in it.
20. Delivers unconditional love

Unconditional love is kind of like the Olive Garden: When you’re there, you’re family.

this girl just dey run up and down....




make she no go run comot from the stadium o...

and so she broke up with you......


you should be happy.

he better be carefull with that kid

Danhumprey: GBAM! I like this!

meeeen...i neeed that iphone.

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tiger generator...i dont have one...sorry.

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you have seen public enemy....

thats a joke...cos even i havent seen myself.

Deapexboy: is that the answer to the question?

there was never a question..l

BoiledCorn: This is why I don't trust ladies any more.
Just because I gave her the key to my gate, she entered my house when I wasn't around and stole my phone!! My antique 1960 version landline telephone!!! she has been begging me for money to make her hair. Am I her father?? Am I her husband? Am I her boyfriend? NO!!!

I called MOPOL and paraded her place. After much threatening she confess that she sold it to one tout. And the tout has selled it to Alhaji and buy igboo, and Alhaji has carried it to dubai.

After 1 week of sleeping in cell with other criminals she will learn her lesson.

so what do you want nairalanders to do now?

Deapexboy: Mayb u believe in mythm of no sex till ur wedding night(hmmm am neutral) and on ur wedding night as u both were about doing the needfull thing you find out that ur man/woman have a scary tattoon on his/her private part..mayb tatton of wild animals or beast

WHAT WILL U DO?

COMMENTS ARE WELLCOME

"no sex till wedding night" is different from "not seeing her unclothedness till wedding night"

what if she is transexual...

bigemmmybig: Wonders shall never end! According to Report Ghana News, this Pastor was
preaching to his congregation on a Sunday morning then he ask people with
health problems to stand up and come close to touch a specific place on his
body for healing.

While everyone was touching the Pastor’s head, shoes and
shoulder; this woman, a Bishop of same congregation decided to hold the
pastor’s privates for healing.


The Pastor ask why she hold his privates and the woman responded
that, “ her husband penis is not working anymore so she believes when
she hold the Pastor’s penis, her husband’s thing would be healed .”


On hearing what the female Bishop said, then the pastor shouted, hallelujah
somebody. But can anyone blame the lady, wasn’t she obeying the Pastor’s
instruction to touch anywhere for healing? Smh!





www.nollywoodmagazine.com/2014/07/woman-touches-pastors-manhood-during-church-service.html

got to be kidding me

Famouspecky: am single with a boyfriend though.
am so so confused,
he already told me he loves me Buh he is married,
if I accept his gift I already will put myself in Buh if I reject,
In sincerity I need a car.

#1. you are either single or you have a boyfriend
#2. you are not confused at all you will accept that car in the end
#3. if you reject the car nothing will happen,you just will keep trecking the streets of lagos or abuja..but you wont cos you are a naija babe and will definitely take that car.
#4. ofcourse everyone needs a car.

my only advise to you is this: if you love your boyfriend,you respect him and have him in your future plans,talk to him about it and whatever you both decide, you go ahead with it.but if you are just managing him...take the car and trust me whatever happens in future with you and the generous americana will be down to the decisions you make.

most of these people abroad like to have stand by pvvsies and diicks when they come to naija. he tells you his wife trapped him with the pregnancy and you believe him.maybe its true maybe not,but a responsible man will never say that about his wife even if its true.if you dont want anything intimate or emotional with him,make it know politely to him before accepting his gift.

the man no want make she use grammar break people head oh.

OGA JONA NO WANT WAHALA

Nigeria’s President Goodluck Jonathan has dropped his controversial wife, Patience, from his 73-man delegation heading to Washington DC for the “U.S.-Africa Leaders Summit” which begins next Monday.

Mr. Jonathan is billed to arrive in the US capital on Sunday, rolling in with one of the largest delegations at the three-day summit, but it is a trip governed by fear of the unknown, including possible uncomfortable encounters with members of the press, protesters and angry citizens.

Observers say the Nigerian leader’s decision to drop his wife from the trip stems from deep concern that she might be humiliated in Washington DC over her denunciation of the kidnap of hundreds of Nigerian school girls in Chibok, Borno State, in April.
qXjhACOzzt4 Mrs. Jonathan "weeping" dramatically on National TV in April...

Mrs. Jonathan and Kema Chikwe, the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) National Women leader, were among those within top government circles who initially questioned and denounced the abduction story, claiming it was a farce. A television appearance by Mrs. Jonathan went viral, and has become the butt of several spoofs on the Internet. President Jonathan’s acceptance of the farce theory was responsible for the delay in rescue efforts that could have saved several of the girls.

Mrs. Jonathan is also widely remembered for leading a thorough humiliation of officials of the Government Girls Secondary School from where the girls were abducted, including the Principal, Mrs. Asaba Kwabura , who she ordered detained alongside Naomi Nyadar a lead campaigner for the “BringBackOurGirls” movement.

Presidency sources told SaharaReporters it is feared that Mrs. Obama, one of the best-known supporters of “BringBackOurGirls,” might not be favorably disposed to interacting with Mrs. Jonathan.

Meanwhile, it has also been learned that President Jonathan has himself had his request for a one-on-one meeting with President Obama turned down.

In a further reflection of the extent of the fear of the unknown during the trip, Mr. Jonathan has also turned down a request to be at a “solidarity rally” by a group of praise-singers who call themselves “The Diaspora Nigerians in America group,” scheduled for August 5 in front of the Nigerian Embassy.

A press statement issued by the group today confirmed Mr. Jonathan’s decision to bail out of the self-serving love-fest.

Governors Godswill Akpabio of Akwa Ibom, Gabriel Suswam of Benue, Seriake Dickson of Bayelsa, and Isah Yuguda of Bauchi will accompany President Jonathan to the United States. Also on the entourage will be the Ministers of Foreign Affairs, Finance, Youth Culture and Tourism, Petroleum Resources, Diezani Alison Madueke.

Businessmen listed on the entourage include Femi Otedola, Wale Tinubu and Kola Adeshina of Sahara Energy. The rest of the list is made up of aides, advisers and staff.

The Summit will end on Wednesday

http://saharareporters.com/2014/07/30/president-jonathan-drops-wife-washington-dc-trip-travel-73-delegates

nnekamezor: LOL ....dat one na fr movies nw( film trick tins) omo dis one na real life matter ooo.... Life no get part two ooo...

i dey tell you...

who don die don go .

Everton have signed Chelsea striker Romelu Lukaku for a club record £28m.

The 21-year-old Belgian World Cup forward, who scored 16 goals on loan at Everton last season, has signed a five-year contract at Goodison Park.

Everton boss Roberto Martinez said: "This signing is not just important for this season. It is a significant day in the history of this football club."

Lukaku joined Chelsea from Anderlecht for £18m in August 2011 but played only 15 games for the club.

After signing his contract at Goodison, Lukaku said: "I'm 21, I need to be playing in a good team. I needed to be in a place that felt right.

"I decided very quickly I wanted to come back. This is the place I belong."
Romelu Lukaku's career statistics
Team League matches League goals

Everton


31


15

West Brom


35


17

Chelsea


10


0

Anderlecht


72


33

Lukaku's transfer breaks the previous record of £15m for Marouane Fellaini when he joined Everton from Standard Liege in 2008 .

It was originally thought Everton would pay £23.7m for Lukaku before the club revealed the £28m fee. Chelsea believe the transfer puts them in a strong position to comply with Uefa's Financial Fair Play rules .

Martinez said: "We know that Romelu is still a young man and the potential that he has is quite unique, and we are desperate to see him enjoying his football and to watch him grow as footballer in the years to come."

Lukaku rose to prominence as a 16-year-old with Anderlecht in the 2009-10 season when he scored 15 goals to help clinch the Belgium league title.

He scored 16 the next season and 2011-12 made the move to Chelsea, where he played a bit-part role under Andre Villas-Boas and then Roberto Di Matteo.

Lukaku joined West Brom on loan for the 2012-13 season, scoring 17 goals in 38 games as the Baggies recorded their highest ever Premier League finish of eighth.

Then last season, he was top scorer at Everton as they finished fifth in the Premier League and qualified for Europe for the first time in five years.

nnekamezor: who no dey fear No be persin e be...

when he dey form super man for home videos....i think sey he be everything proof

she sees it as a shrine.

so jim iyke dey fear.

hmmnnn....wahala dey

deductons ?

perfect post for me

gabmaxblanco: Virgo (Aug 23 - Sep 23)
The man Virgo first choice is neat and clean, or well-groomed and conservatively-dressed - and, above all, appears "proper".They are very choosy and do not want anything less than perfection. Because of this, Virgo man are very often alone.

i am virgo and you just hit the nail on my fvcking head. GBAM!!!

the Government should provide jobs for them and stop looting and implementing policies that are not ordinary man friendly.

neuljosh: One of the Special Advisers to President
Goodluck Jonath, Reno Omokri has
tweeted that the Sambisa Forest where
the abducted school students where kept
was bigger than Lagos State.
It will be recalled that Boko Haram leader,
Abubakar Shekau on Monday, released a
video showing some of the girls
kidnapped at a government secondary
school in Chibok, Borno State on April 14.

He noted that the soldiers needed to be
commended and not humiliated.
"Sambisa Forest is larger than the entire
state of Lagos. Visualize that and you will
better understand what our military is
dealing with," he tweeted.

How true is this

Big rubbish.

The Nigerian Government and military should have control over every thing within its borders.

This is not an excuse.

jdilight: Where did you get this information bros

Are you a fool ?

Quotng the whole write up just for one stupid question?

;/

rectitude: Popular Lagos pastor and Convener of the Save Nigeria Group, Pastor Tunde Bakare says one of the ways to end the spate of attacks by terror group, Boko Haram in Nigeria, is for the Federal Govt of Nigeria to apologize to the sect members for killing their leader, Mohammed Yusuf in 2009.
According to Vanguard, he gave the advise during the state of the nation address at a church service in Lagos.
“The summary execution of the Boko Haram’s former leader, Mohammed Yusuf in 2009 provided the soil of martyrdom for the nurture and growth of the sect. Government must declare peace first of all; apologizing for the murder of Mohammed Yusuf to the sect members. not their sympathizers or bandits.” he said. http://platform9ja..nl/2014/07/pastor-tunde-bakare-says-fg-should.html?m=1

he must be a learner