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Dioxidane:
Haba, you would assess him first na... Oh, you think if the lady in question no fine I for gree for am?

I don't quite get the Pidgin part, sorry.
But I say, you should have pushed her greasy head away

No. What if he has lice or something?

Do you know the kind of things you could contract from people's clothes & through skin contact? Eww, eww, eww.

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Amusaopeyemi:
We are coping. But I hate it when people take me for granted cuz of my size o.

That's when you explode on them like a dynamite

You look very tiny, how tall are you?

JayKayMaybachz:
Anything

Oh ok lol

JayKayMaybachz:
Hehehehehe


You na badt gurl


Abeg no spoil me oooo


Ah no sabi shishi

What's shishi?

Acekidc4:
This more like a Sellout!! Are u actually advising her to sell out her Ego? Cmon datz Gross!! She should just be herself Finish, d right guy will come by sooner dan she expected!! Adios sister!!!

Since when is talking = "sellout" ? Did I tell her to go hump his leg or something as "gross" as that? She sounds like she wants them to approach her, so I was simply giving her some pointers on how to start new relations.

Adios to you too, chucha.

JayKayMaybachz:
Yeah


But it was sweeter then cos... ..

Yes.

Kinda reminds me of that old song, "Whispers in the dark, oh oh oh oh..."

JayKayMaybachz:
Ewwwwwww

IKR. But it was way back in the day. We both had to sneak out of the house right after dinner, in the dark, so we wouldn't be seen. Things were much stricter back then.

It was very strange. For one, I didn't know that it involved a tongue, so when he shoved his tongue down my throat, I freaked out. I was like, "Eww. WTF?" Plus it didn't help that he still had bits of his dinner still stuck between his teeth. It really put me off kissing for a few good years.

I love it now though

She sounds like a nymphomaniac. Don't see why "other ladies" would have to "admit" to anything though. She's the sick one here if sex is all that matters to her.

Maybe they're overlooked because they ask stupid questions. Who says things like, "Guess my age"? Just sounds childish. They should stop acting their size & start acting more like their age. Problem solved.

I cope well.

Some of you must be schizophrenic. Where in South Africa do they offer something as ridiculous as "Pay as you watch" ? You don't like how DStv is conducting THEIR business? Then simply throw your decoder in the bin because nobody is forcing you to own one.

Useless whinging.

debolly:
Op...be yourself & don't be desperate so as not to fall for preys, cos they are everywhere.

Do you think you can only find love @ your workplace?

Those guys are not meant for you if they can't approach you.

But maybe there's a reason why she's not being approached, anywhere.
Guys are humans too & everyone is scared of rejection.
Maybe the OP needs to improve on her interpersonal skills. People are going to be afraid to talk to you if you wear a sour face or a bytch face on the daily. To be approached, you must be approachable to begin with. There's something she must be lacking in the people's department.

And yet you have people queuing for rice & yam in your country, but we're the hungry ones. OK.

iamNotAlone:
The secretary, who always listen to office gossips told me

Oh, so it's what they say amongst themselves, rather than what they say TO themselves. You scared me there a little.

Ok, since you're in the know on who is interested in you in the office, why not start a lively conversation with one of them & see where it leads? You can't always wait for things to come to you. Talk.

Personality for sure, the rest matters only in small degrees.

For me personally it's, humour & intelligence.

Wait, how do you know what these men tell themselves?
Are you also a mind reader? Interesting