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 Family › Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 5:45pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
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| Family › Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 5:25pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Efemena_xy: Old enough to be your mother.You're quite insecure then. Him replying Coogar is basically him high-fiving a team member. They are on the same side of an argument. If I was the one that asked the same question he would have replied me before you. Even though you're feigning "sitting on the fence" any intelligent mind would know you are not on OP's side of argument judging from your posts, hence his reason for ignoring your obvious question. But calling him a sexist though? Haba? "Why didn't you answer me first?" Lol 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 5:17pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
Efemena_xy: Who says I'm being sarcastic here?This is hilarious. Funniest post so far.... How old are you? |
| Family › Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 2:35pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
dommfa: Now they are ridiculous likes yeah? When you were gathering likes for your ridiculous posts and that of the bitter, angry and confused Op, you did not cry foul or whine..They are ridiculous because they're coming from ghosts. The likes before were from fellow posters; they weren't strange multiple monikers. Now, one person created 5/6 usernames to like their own posts. Now that's ridiculous and sad. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Michelle Obama Wants A Divorce! by PureOhio(f): 10:53am On Dec 31, 2013 |
Smh. Ignorance/lack of knowledge is a disease. Who believes stuffs like this? |
| Business › Re: The Success Of Tecno: A Business Lesson For All by PureOhio(f): 10:41am On Dec 31, 2013 |
God punish poverty. When you start justifying the use of an inferior product over a legit one then poverty is about to take permanent charge. It's like someone that has no car telling a Mercedes owner that he's overspending. They say things like "vanity upon vanity"  Good business lesson though; making products available to majority of the population (including the less privileged) 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 5:38am On Dec 31, 2013 |
bukatyne: Is this a general observation? If this is the traditional benefits then i laugh in spanishI hope you know Yorubas isn't equal to Nigeria. Plus, let's assume those aren't benefits, like you said. bukatyne: You must be watching hollywood to think that most nigerian men usually do nothing when their wives get violent. It is actually new school.So, when the wives get violent, the husbands retaliate. Isn't that what feminists want? Equality? 5 Likes |
| Family › Re: How To Control Incest In The Family? by PureOhio(f): 11:24pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
byvan: How do you give a baby sex education?I was gonna ask the same question, but.... |
| Family › Re: How To Control Incest In The Family? by PureOhio(f): 11:06pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
ireneidiva: i still know a housewife whoose kid was almost abused right under her nose.Almost? And how did this happen ? ireneidiva: You can't tell a woman not to hustle because of kids.When you start leaving your kids in care of third parties, be ready to deal with whatever comes |
| Family › Re: How To Control Incest In The Family? by PureOhio(f): 10:12pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Reason why working mothers (career women) should choose between making kids and making money (as odd as it may sound). Raising kids is a JoB on it's own. In the course of focusing on work, the kids are left in the care of uncles, aunties and babysitters. The mum gets back from work and is even too tired to hear how her kids' day went. When you start leaving your kids in care of third parties, be ready to deal with whatever comes. 2000 lawsuits against the child molëstër won't erase what has happened (that's even if you find out). 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Open Challenge! Show Me One Recent Notable Feminist Who Had A Great Marriage by PureOhio(f): 9:08pm On Dec 30, 2013*. Modified: 10:43am On Dec 31, 2013 |
bukatyne: Jide sorry Ewuro, which one be tradutional benefits/ shoe shiner again?Traditional benefits: He pays the bride price. He foots majority of the wedding bill He pays majority of the bills (school fees, rent/mortgage, miscellaneous ) He gives his wife monthly allowance When she gets violent, he can't do anything (she's only a woman, she's allowed to be emotional) Etc Most Nigerian feminists want these benefits (because it's cultural and it's biblical). Like Ewuro said, eating your cake and having it. Btw, if these are the benefits and things expected from a married man, in what area is equality needed ? 8 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Ladies, Share Your Nairaland (PM) Toasting Experience by PureOhio(f): 5:38am On Dec 30, 2013 |
Too many floating heads (walking dead) talking. Isn't the 15 pages of insults unnecessary ? Even after OP apologized, insults still continued ? If you want to learn how to hurl insults smoothly, why not go watch battle rap? This is just too tacky and razz. |
| Romance › Re: Humility: The Lost Female Art by PureOhio(f): 1:14pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
warrior101: Don't be a plunk... Go see how baby girls are being born everyday in 3z and 4z in one family compared to baby boy. Are you okay?Very däft. The human sex ratio at birth is 105 boys to 100 girls. The overall world ratio is 101 males to 100 females. Plus, Nigeria is one of those countries where there are more males than females. What you should have said is that the number of men ready to get married is less than the number of women ready to get married. The main reason for that is the economy that's going in a downward spiral. Men need financial security to start a family. Women just want to be married to financially stable man. 5 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji Builds Duplex For Parents (Photos) by PureOhio(f): 10:14pm On Dec 24, 2013 |
Arguing with Tpia is like arguing with Musiwa/becomrich. Why insult a mentally unstable person? The highest you can do is laugh with her /hype her or just ignore. Old NL users know that by now. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Guyz Don't Ever Marry A Girl That You Have Not Had Sex With by PureOhio(f): 10:20pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Eberex: I think this thread are for those who consider sex as a basis for their marriage to be successful, which I would say is a wrong mentality. Who says youy can't change your wife if she falls in any of those categories? Anyway they are not valid reasons to have sex before marriage.https://www.nairaland.com/1561070/problems-sex-ruining-marriage#20319059 |
| Romance › Re: Guyz Don't Ever Marry A Girl That You Have Not Had Sex With by PureOhio(f): 10:09pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Charlesamino: Hw many & stl countin hv u opend ur legs 4? I 1da wat u'l hv left 4 d 1 u finaly marry, b4 then d tin go don over wide or hv did op put it,den no naira lander in support go fit marry u. Unfortunately na innocent responsible person u go finaly settle wit. God go reward uDon't worry about me. I tested and I have no regrets. The chemistry was on point, the sëx just had to be good and I wasn't disappointed. Settling down with an innocent boy? Mba. My SO is the opposite of innocent. We deserve each other. Pörn-stars in the making...  If i was getting a Zimbabwean dollar for each time God has been mentioned on this thread, I'll be a millionaire by now. Pharisees. |
| Romance › Re: Guyz Don't Ever Marry A Girl That You Have Not Had Sex With by PureOhio(f): 8:45pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
andyanders: Never tasted b4 I got married but got a blessing from God and we have been happily married. I am lucky it worked for me.Luck, right ? What if you weren't so lucky? andyanders: Since you say her private part is as wide as anything and also it smells like this or that, it is people like you that put them to that state because you keep tasting and expect to get the one that has not been tasted or the one with no odour.Väginäl odor has little or nothing to do with pënises, it's all about personal hygiene. Some ladies don't even know what their private parts look like, talkless of cleaning it religiously. Some don't know you're supposed to wipe and clean after pee-ing and after sëx. The ignorance and pure laziness right from the early years accumulates and the result is a lady with smelly väginä in her 30s. As per the elasticity, except you fück every man you come across constantly, that's no issue. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: Guyz Don't Ever Marry A Girl That You Have Not Had Sex With by PureOhio(f): 8:09pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
TruthTella:You've already failed my test, so carry your erëction to the nearest keyhole. |
| Romance › Re: Guyz Don't Ever Marry A Girl That You Have Not Had Sex With by PureOhio(f): 7:58pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
TruthTella: Aunty, how many men have tested you so far?45 and counting.  |
| Romance › Re: Guyz Don't Ever Marry A Girl That You Have Not Had Sex With by PureOhio(f): 7:51pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
born_to_be_gr8t: See sensible post from a female o!, instead of the "victims" to start finding solutions ,they are attacking me . Sister may u neva be a victimDon't mind them. They'll be the same set of men running to Ekaette for rounds of mind-blowing sëx because Madam is lazy in bed. |
| Romance › Re: Guyz Don't Ever Marry A Girl That You Have Not Had Sex With by PureOhio(f): 7:47pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Sunglow: See why I believe Nigerian men are sexist in nature.if se* is the yardstick for choosing a wife pls kindly get yourself a p0rn star bleep her as much as you want.Anyways, marriage ain't for boyz......A man that's real with himself knows that sëxual compatibility is one of the most important yardstick in choosing a wife. |
| Romance › Re: Guyz Don't Ever Marry A Girl That You Have Not Had Sex With by PureOhio(f): 7:11pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
Spotless180: D op hv listed some problem that can be encountered in marriage. My question is, what are the solutions to the problems? Or didn't they have solution? Since i do nt support sex before marriage. Pls state the solutions incase i encountered anyone of them when i get married. But i pray it should nt be me. Abeg God help me o!Solutions? The first problem about smelly väginä? She hasn't found a solution to a smelly part of her body and all of a sudden, after marriage, a solution will fly from God? I think not. The second problem about loose väginä ? Her hole is gonna tighten up because of constant sëx after marriage ? I think not. The third problem about her being lukewarm in bed? You still have a chance if this is the problem you encounter. She can learn some kamasutra. But If she thinks döggy stlye and cowgirl are satanic, pele o. The fourth wahala about being insatiable ? Lol. It's either you hümp her all day long or she'll shâg your driver and gateman. So, sir, you can't eat your cake and have it. Let the testers continue on their paths to hell and let the non-testers live with whatever problem they encounter, and find everlasting peace in paradise. Lol |
| Romance › Re: Guyz Don't Ever Marry A Girl That You Have Not Had Sex With by PureOhio(f): 5:19pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
There was a topic on the front page recently about a lady that married her husband a virgin and they've been unable to have good sëx. Väginä no fit open, the man can't have sëx with his wife without her squeaking in pain. What kind of life is that ? What is the joy in that marriage ? The husband is bitterly regretting not testing, and he'll definitely cheat on her sooner or later. So what's the point? |
| Romance › Re: Guyz Don't Ever Marry A Girl That You Have Not Had Sex With by PureOhio(f): 5:11pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
doteb: If u continue dis way, how many will u sample? Try and change that mentality O°˚˚˚Isn't it better to find the one you're sèxual compatible with, than signing the dotted line with someone you're not compatible with and committing adultery. Nigerians/ Christians and hypocrisy are synonymous. This is logic. Why would you want to marry someone without knowing if you're sèxual compatible ? Sèx is the most important thing in marriage and you still want to gamble with it... I tire. 3 Likes |
| Family › Re: Making Love & Raising A Family by PureOhio(f): 4:18pm On Dec 20, 2013 |
@Dyekatana's story I've come to realize that most people don't marry who they truly love. They marry who is available. Mr A and Miss B are in love. For one reason or the other they can't get married yet, but Miss B wants to feel among and she wants the aso-ebi-hype (biological clock too may be ticking fast). Mr D comes along and he's ready to wife Miss B, which results in a bland relationship in the long wrong. Mr A fûcks (always) better than Mr D, he's more spontaneous, more romantic.... and "the devil" crawls in. @ Dyeakatana,the "mistake" has been made already. There are only two ways to this; work on your marriage or ruin it. Ending your relationship with your ex wouldn't solve your marital issue; that's just a part of the solution. The bigger solution is falling in love with your husband, because if you end your relationship with your ex and your marriage is still flavorless, there's still room for "the devil" to crawl in. In the next life, marry your love/friend or remain single. |
