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coogar: because she's peace-loving.https://data1.whicdn.com/images/59376145/large.gif |
coogar: hahahaha - step your chase game up. if you want something, go for it. that's better than mind-förnicating with a guy that is completely oblivious of your feelings towards him.Nah. I got chased. Though the knuckle head claims I did the chasing. Wishful thinking. ![]() I know it makes you glad to see a woman chasing you, so I don't really fault you. The only people we should be mind-fornicating with are celebrities. If a guy doesn't like you, you'll know. No need to patch-patch and force . Let it flow, ladies. It's good for the heart in the long run. |
coogar: didn't i say from my experience?Your experience is insignificant in the grande scheme of things. I'm right, you're wrong, in the bigger picture. |
coogar: from my experience, the fantasists are the ones difficult to bed. just like you said, she's planned honeymoon in her head - majority of these fantasists are anti-premarital sex. she only wants a husband, not sex.A girl that asks you out isn't a traditionalist, so odds are she's for pre-marital sêx. What i meant by Planning honeymoon in her head is, she's already in love with you in her head. She's yearning for you. Just a "hi" from you makes her wet. So yes, she's all for pre-marital sêx. |
coogar: no way....Who's willing to give up sëx between the two. The one that's already planned your honeymoon in her head or the one that's still fronting. Assuming you find them both attractive, who is easier to bed? |
coogar: and what makes you think a guy will readily bed every woman that approaches him? you think men don't put women through their own selection process? read my lips clearly - we do. it's just that women are very smart these days they use makeup & accessories to cover up a lot of things & we get smitten by the props.Seems you just want to type for the sakes of typing. When did selection come into the topic? I don't care if you select or not. Before you select, don't you have to have options? And which is easier? Your options coming to you or you going to your options? My point is, getting sëx from a girl that approach you is easier than getting sëx from a girl you're approaching.. less work. Deciding to bed her is another story . But if he wants to, it's easy-er. |
coogar: i am curious....Didn't even notice I said. Don't capitalize on that abeg. I hate when women say a guy used them for sëx too. What I meant by free sëx is the process leading to the sêx, he wouldn't have to do much to get the sëx because the babe would do practically do anything he wants. Back the argument pls.. |
coogar: i am arguing for sex equalitySëx equality? Good luck in your fight. You want clear communication because it makes you happy that a lady wants you not necessarily because you care. And ladies hinting they like you is usually free sëx for guys or even free gold digging ![]() There's always someone out there you like, as a guy, and that's where the focus should be. Let's leave things the way they were mean to be. Isn't it funny that fighters for sëx equality are very selective, or rather they talk from both sides of their mouth. A man fighting for sëx equality wants to split money and resources 50/50, but want women to do the chasing. A woman fighting for sëx equality doesn't want a man to hit her when she hits him first. Attempting to eat your cake and having it, is why divorce rate is so high. |
coogar: that is no trouble!Whoever said man= woman? And why are you putting words in my mouth? You know what they say about the meat stolen from the pot of soup tasting sweeter that regular meat. It's not sweet when your yansh getting whipped though. Same reason why girls are drawn to married men. Doesn't mean its ok. You already agreed that I have a good point. What now? |
bukatyne: Yummy!It's just a regular drink with a catchy name. coogar: spot on!Chasing after you with a cutlass= blowing up your phone 200 times a day = looking for subtle ways to ruin your current relationship = resenting you = looking for any means to get revenge Not necessarily "cutlass". Actually, there are a lot of angry females on the Internet because they got rejected. Females aren't angry when they're crushing on a guy. That's the best part for them. Every little thing he does makes them giggle. It sounds good on textbook for womem to go after men, sound exciting. But in the long run, it's a mess. Men are men and women are women for a reason. We keep forgetting that. Waiting for him to love you causes heartbreak and depression because she's not paying attention to those that can already die for her. |
coogar: feminists should hate you for this.Men don't take rejection well? Well, there's a reason 99% of Presidents in the world are male. There's a reason you guys are programmed to do the toasting. The odds that you'll go after the woman that rejected you with a cutlass is lower. It becomes a shïtty situation when we start swapping the gender roles. You want the woman to chase you because it's a new and exciting experience for most men. If I've been eating rice for weeks, at some point I'll like beans for a change. It's normal for you to feel that way. But in reality and in the long run, what I illustrated comes close to the truth. Hunter-hunted is an analogy. Fasting and praying? I don't even believe in those two things. |
charles316:Lol |
The same reason why men are the head and women are the neck bla bla bla. This is the reason why marriages are so screwed up nowadays. We want to change everything! There are some things that should be left the way they are. Let the men toast --Women are emotional beings. No matter how much we want to feign the "tough persona", women don't take rejection very well. They may not show it, but it hurts like a bïtch. I've heard plenty stories of girls going after the guy that rejected them. -- For a woman to go out of her way to toast a guy directly or indirectly, it means she's way toooo in love. When a woman.loves her man more than he loves her, it's a danger zone. Think of a normal woman, then amplify her emotional hormones She's gonna be jealous (amplified), territorial (amplified), needy (amplified), CIA (amplified). These are the kind of women that end up on an episode of "I killed my husband".I mean, the guy is her meat, she haunted him down and caught him. -- When girls have crushes on guys, every mundane thing he does is misread as flirting. And every subsequent choices and decisions made on both sides will be made on that false foundation. Nuff said. The guys here will advise you to "go for it", because they love it when girls chase after them. It feels different from the norm. Different isn't always good. |
Ronnie65: Am not forming for him Cougar. he comes all flirty a times and that goes on for like two days and next five days he becomes official.If he's interested in you relationship-wise, he would have made a move, especially if he's not the shy type. The subtle signs are obvious enough. Don't push it. Being wanted and being loved is better than putting yourself out there to be wanted (in the long run). Let the men toast. |
I get the ladies are more hörny. or I was just reading fantasies of the Girls' thread ![]() |
steph7: guilty what?!! lol mehn!! I have better thing to do with my time.Yes! We'll call Seun. Yes it sounds childish, we'll be okay. Steph7 will be the first person here spreading mat and chewing pop-corn when the ghost is revealed ![]() |
steph7: you must be crazy!! if you think I have the time to create multiple monikers and like posts. all of a sudden j'adore was ileoba , now its me. lmao!! there is officially nothing I haven't read on NL today.What's with the guilty conscience? I only asked if you were scared? You being scared might be because "the jadore" is someone you know or like . ![]() If you're the one, please don't waste seun's time. He'll need resources to fish out the ghosts. |
steph7: Honestly, I don't see how the number of likes a comment on NL has, is an issue, whether they are made by humans or ghosts it still doesn't change the substance of the comment. I feel this whole polymonikering and IP address tracing, is unnecessary and uncalled for.Are you scared? Seun has been alerted and will be here later in the day to reveal who jadore is. ![]() |
What's up with these flimsy accusations ? If you're going to accuse someone of being someone else, have tangible evidence. |
ileobatojo: Nothing? I apologize for my error and move on. I have no qualms admitting when I'm wrong as long as it's demonstrable.Sweet. We'll wait for Seun to bring back the button. |
@ ileobatojo, I've created the username and liked some posts on this page, but the deactivate button is currently not available. When it becomes available, we'll squash this. Reminder ; your argument is that Coogar photo-shooed those names on the screenshot because you can no longer find any evidence that they ever existed on NL. If I'm able to prove that usernames with only likes disappear after deactivation, what happens? |
The only Jadore crew that posted was Jadoremoid and that's why he still exists. The other Jadores only created the accounts to like posts. If you create an account to like posts and you deactivate it, there should be no evidence that you ever existed on NL, obviously. I'm actually going to experiment. I'll create a username, like a bunch of posts, deactivate and see what happens Brb. |
coogar: plenty of others must have done - but they were not as quick thinking as i am. not too many people can do screenshots, i can.I saw it.. didn't bother screenshoting coz it was already out in the open. |
But Nawa for some women sha. One was here crying that the OP replied a male before her. Another one created 6 monikers to like her own posts and others on her side of argument . ![]() The thirst is real. Why would Coogar (that was already getting likes normally alongside others on the OP's side of argument) create monikers to like his "opponents"' posts ?? |
Being a 30+ year old single woman in Nigeria is apparently a serious problem. Suitor A is acting like she's doing the woman a favor. Captain-save-an-overripe-spinster. Suitor B is scared that she might be barren. If he discovers her chances of giving birth are slim .... Eligible men are scarce for real. |
@ Coogar you have the £100-dry-cleaner because you spent money on the item. What's a $10 F21 top doing at the dry-cleaner's? The money to dry-clean is even more than the price you got it for. ![]() |
Baby mama: Quality at a bargain is the keyWhen it comes to Ross, Marshals, TJ/TK maxx(those hand-me-downs-from designer stores), they do have good deals. However, finding your size becomes the problem. They hardly have variety of sizes. I'm sure you know why. |
Baby mama: Cheap sucksCheap does suck. I'm learning the hard way. I got a pair of jeans for $15 at asos-online months ago. It was literally falling apart the first day I wore it ; zipper came off, button came off; On top say I won save money. |
coogar: lower-tier guys, abeg! how many professionals would go to a thrift store & buy stuff there. you know women can share such info & have fun with it. colleagues diss each other if they find out you are dumbing down.40 pairs of jeans for £400? Na bend-down-select? And that's my point. After buying the pair of jeans for £10, the jeans will get ripped in the dryer after one wash. Now she has to get another pair. A $100 skirt at zara = 5 trips to F21 to buy $20 skirts. One good pair of jeans that would last you three years = numerous pairs for her over the same period of time. All these bargains for females na lie. All those clothes on the clearance rack are nothing to write about compared to the real deal. You still have to come back to buy more cheap shirts because the ones you bought have started to fade. Meigaurd clipping your nails? Ew. You need Asians in your life. It doesn't matter who is footing the bills, the point is women are more expensive. |
coogar: well - you have a point!Uhn? Guys don't rock atmosphere ? I had to volunteer at thrift store some weeks back and during the process it was mostly guys that came thrift-ing. You're comparing yourself to most men. Majority of men don't rock £400 jeans. Most of these blokes at canary wharf are trust fund babies. They are not the majority. Remember I still have my pedis and manis, and MAC. 2 MAC foundations can buy you 2 shirts at Ralph. You can't overlook the frequency at which women shop, and the things they have to buy. You mentioned spending £120 for three months on your hair-cuts. Well-done braids would cost $200. Women hardly even keep them for 3 months nowadays. Btw, braids are even cheap. Weaves have become a lucrative business; even guys sell weaves. There's a reason for that. |
coogar: women shop more but their stuff are ridiculously cheap. your most expensive shoe would buy her entire wardrobe. they just have them in huge quantity, the value is nothing to fret about.That is a myth. You'd buy her entire closet if you shop at ralphlauren etc. If you shop at forever21's men or any regular guys store, and she shops at F21, you and the female are on the same level. If you both shop at ralphlauren, there's no difference. Now, how many men actually shop at Ralph, buy movado watches ? Not the majority. Plus, women's fashion evolve. Men's fashion is very stagnant (shirt and trouser). Women will keep buying to stay on trend. Men don't have to. Abi when last did you change your wrist watch? Women are more expensive (the fashion conscious ones) |
Efemenaxy after reading OP's response to Coogar. https://i.perezhilton.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/britney-spears-sad.gif |



or I was just reading fantasies of the Girls' thread 