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layla129:Lol.. It's obvious you don't know what you want.. . The question is to choose between an Authoritative man and a Gentle man. This is the problem with you ladies, your imaginations are wild and desires aren't realistic, you think an Authoritative man will make your opinion count? That can only happen if it's in line with his opinion.. Choose and don't compromise because you want it your way... |
Normally I'd advise you let her be since you don't really have plans for her but Fvck it! She may want to play and have fun too, who knows? How do you separate yourself from her usual "Toasters" or "Admirers"? Since you think you have an edge because you think she's already into you (which might not be true), don't ask her out.. If you do, you will simply join the list of her admirers. All you need do is to make a move to kiss her. Create a conducive environment for just two, prolly your apartment.. Make sure she's comfortable and make the move, if she doesn't comply, don't look or feel remorseful, just act normal like it's a normal thing and if she ask the usual questions like: Why do you wanna kiss me? You aren't my boyfriend, then tell her you have feelings for her. Make sure you don't talk too much, make her wanna know more of what's on your mind, don't be precise just let her have a feeling that you want her but don't make it obvious.. I bet she will roll with it, if not same day, definitely some time soon. Just do all these perfectly and you are in... Trust me.. ![]() |
slyIsaac:Lol.. I know what you are driving at.. It's cool though.. Enjoy the night man.. Same.. |
layla129:Exactly.. |
C.. It's simple. |
slyIsaac:Nah.... It's not fvcked up when you are you are the one fvcking it.. Let me ask you this: Can you be bad? I know you want to be bad, judging by your signature but can you? |
I will give you three good reasons why things are like that... 1) Good people are the target of the devil/bad people: If you are already in the wild or let me say devil's domain as the Pastor would call it, there is no need for the devil to tempt you or punish you. You won't be failed because everything you do will be fair.. But if you are good, the bad people will see you as a prey, the devil will see you as a threat and thereby loads of temptation coupled with punishment for little sins will keep rolling in your life (unless you don't fall for temptation or sin).. The man might have just made a little mistake and he got punished for it likewise the young lady.. 2) Bad people don't play fair: Good people have principles and laws that guards (also limit and restrict) them.. Bad people have no boundaries, they get what they want because they can go to any length to get it unlike the good ones.. It's like stating a rule in a football game that the ball should be played with one leg and someone just came in and started using both legs to play, you can't match that! 3) Bad people do what they want: Unlike the good ones that are restricted by rules, laws and principles, bad people are free, they do what they want, instead of waiting they'd rather rig.. You see: Being bad is easy, being good is difficult and staying good is extremely difficult. Being bad is fun while being good is boring.. |
Ladies don't have the urge for sex like the men do.. Don't be deceived ya'll... Just ask yourself this: If they so much love sex like the men, how then do they manage to pretend and curb their desire? The answer is simply because, it is a lie, women don't find sex as fascinating as men.. |
Men are more jealous.. Just imagine another man ontop of your woman ramming her really hard and you will get my point.. |
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All what you did is just wrong.. Go pray bro, though I don't think there is anything fetish about the ring thing but what you've done is wrong... Nobody Holly pass but that doesn't mean we shouldn't say the truth since you asked for advice.. |
AccidentalGenius:Yeah.. Exactly! Though 75% of the good guys are born while the remaining 25% are made but 100% of the great guys/men are made, no man is born great.. So, there is a good chance that a lady can make a great guy.. Like you said, they should get busy.. Lol.. |
I think sex will always work at this point.. Whenever she ask for such, I will just bend her a Lil and give it to her, I believe she will prefer that.. Lol Na joke oh.. |
AccidentalGenius:Yeah man... "It takes gut to live in this world".. That's a nice one.. I believe everyone should acquire it.. A wise man once told me that: A man with gut has acquired 50% wisdom. |
AccidentalGenius:Having balls, for some: It's innate while for some, it's acquired due to pressure and circumstances but we all cannot be the same.. People with no gut tends to be manipulative (alot of women are), I don't blame them, they are just trying to survive.. I've experienced sheet enough in this world not to judge or put blame on people.. We are who we are, the best we can do is to blend in, work to be a better person no matter who we are.. Sometimes what matters is not the abilities (to be gentle, tough, brave, brilliant, strong) but the will to be! |
DlawTECHY:Ooh! That's Cray. |
The worst reply I got was: I love you too. You know why? She lied! I love you too was my best and worst reply though.. |
AccidentalGenius:It's not that easy bro, you know we guys can be mean.. Some still do though, but those are the ones with huge balls.. |
AccidentalGenius:Had it been that we've accepted women with such orientation in our community without tagging them "hoe", the rest (other women) would have started opening up too.. Our environment is not matured enough for such.. Even on Nairaland here, you will see some girls coming out about her feelings for some dude and you will see comments like "I pity your P*ssy" and all sort.. It's Cray mehn! |
I don't blame them, Nigerian men aren't helping matters.. Many will say they won't take advantage of such lady online and do the opposite in real life.. Realistically speaking, more than 70% of guys will take advantage of a lady that asks them out.. Sometimes I pity em ladies.. |
Something like that only happened to me once, about 3 years back, it was by 3rd year in uni, though it wasn't straight up asking out but it was close.. I went to see a male friend and they've always told me about some gay guy in their hostel that do behave like a sissy.. Mehn! This guy talks, walks even look like a girl, so disgusting.. I greeted everyone as I got there and when I shook him, he held on to my hand, I was like WTF! He started giving me this strange stare and I remembered what my friends had told me, I gave him a stern look but he wouldn't stop.. This dude kept talking about handsome guys and all, I was so disgusted that I had to change the topic but he was so good in his shitty talk so I couldn't stop him, all my friends were just laughing at his ugly talks.. After some minutes, he asked me why I wasn't talking and gbam! He said the scary word, "I like this guy".. In my mind I was like: Werey leleyi sha! I left there immediately and he started laughing as I was going out.. Anytime I jam him on the street, he would give me this silly stare and smile.. It was a fucking experience.. |
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suzan404:What if he meets all other criteria you desire in a man? Anyways, I get your point, but maybe you need to expand your mind, and don't just be the regular chick.. It's always fun to get out of the box, I'll bet there are some younger guys that will get you tripping.. |
Maxi112:Lol.. Okay. |
torqque7:Ooh! That's cray.. I use to state this: Never exercise your emotions, exercise your mind instead. Because you are in Love doesn't mean you should take shiit.. |
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