₦airaland Forum

suzan404:
well,i can't

Why?

torqque7:
Well depends on a lot of things and actually I tried been a good guy but that ddnt go too well,so I had to go back to just been me,the guy who doesn't let things botther him especially matters of the opposite sex ..I do it as I see it,truth is the way things are in the world just makes it a lot easier to be strong minded,but don't get it twisted I am also a gentle man just that i might not do things the way she might want or dream it..

Being strong minded is a necessity for all..

You are not far from the truth my brother..

Maxi112:
why d laugh, abi I no dey gentle

Chief, your face dey betray you oh.. Lol..

Maxi112:
hmmm! bad boy ke!



am a gentleman oh

Lol.. Na so.

Badoox:
Omo toh bad.
Being a 'bad boy' is really cool though.
its a matter of being urself and not suppressing the way u want people to see and feel u.

Yeah..

discoprophet:
"Bad" is for the weak in spirit and strong in self-deception..
What am I even sayin?

It depends on one's perspective though, but going by the spiritual aspect, your assertion is quite true..

tintedniggz:
fam, honestly, I don't know lol. I just do what I think its best for me.

Ooh, that's cool.. Sticking to the necessity..

daretodiffer:
Can you hear yourself?

How many black girls do you know that are dating white dudes? If your logic were true, shouldn't we have more BW+WM?

Stop trying to sound stvpid. Like I said, let's start with your momma!

Ooh!
Well, I know your type, I won't bother to quote you again..
If anyone is sounding stvpid here, it's definitely you..

I know you don't have respect for your mum, I won't throw any shiit at the innocent woman after all the only mistake she did was that she gave birth to you..

Come up with more stvpid words lady, so you can show how retarded you are.. We are waiting...

tintedniggz:
Lol Bad boy records

Yeah!
You bad?

daretodiffer:
Start celebrating with your momma

Do I fvcking know you somewhere?
I'm sure I can't ever come across you though, not only that I'm outta your fvcking league but your mind is as shallow as the wilderness.
All you could deduce in your narrow mind is that I'm insulting the Black women huh? I was just concerned about the rate at which you lots throw yourself at a white dude just cos he's white and cry fowl when some rich black dude gets married to a white chick..

Don't ever abuse my mum in your fvcking life, I wish I can get my hands on you right now..
If you are gonna trow more tantrums, please direct it at me and not my mum..
This shows how much you respect your mum..

halfricanadian:
Op b like

TIME TO DE EVILISE

?

Many have tried to be a perfect gentleman and many have been reduced to being termed as a "Bad boy"..
What we seek and desire in life is different but more than 95% of human being on earth desire for sexual pleasure, Love and companion..

In recent years, guys around the world have discovered that being a gentleman is most seen by ladies as weakling so most men crave to be termed as a "Bad boy".

We don't just love, we see, think, feel before we do and the easiest way for a lady to feel anything for a guy is if she thinks the guy have all what it takes to be a man..
Yes, MAN!!

The definition of a Man by an average lady in her subconscious mind is a male with masculine, cocky, strong, confidence, emotionless and brave attributes..
Don't get me wrong, an experienced woman will desire or seek a man with other qualities like, gentle, caring, loving and all that but it's because of her experience with other men..

The choice of being termed as a bad boy is not what anyone can dwell into.. I personally think everyone to be his/herself, if you know you don't have the gut, balls or the stomach of being a bad boy, don't even bother to try because you will always betray yourself (if you know what I mean)..

Most dudes in here (Nairaland) will form cocky and all but in actual sense they are just looking for a medium to act their rehearsed fantasy... Lol..
They are as solo as a duck in real life....

HOW DO I BECOME BAD?
The only way to become a bad boy is to strangle your emotions, don't show much care about anything, this will eventually cause huge damage to your personality but if you think the juice is worth the squeeze, you can go down that lane...
I'll advise every guy to simply be who they are but if you are too weak to accept who you are, there is an option for you which is being bad but ask yourself, if it is worth the stress?

P S: To all the natural bad boys , there is still a chance to redeem yourself, I guess you are enjoying the life but always have it at the back of your mind that your world is in the wild where you can also be hunted or fall prey, and also that no one is born Bad..

Young lady!

I think you need help..

Are you suffering from Loneliness? Is it inferiority complex? Ooh maybe you're just attention starved but this is a faceless forum, dope guys don't really give a fvck, only the ducky, whacky dudes will give you the attention you seek...

We are tired of seeing your useless posts, please do something about your life because it's like something is really wrong with you..

Go see a therapist or something cos I believe you really need it..

Woow!! Disgusting load of bullocks.

Well, there is a lil bit of truth in all what he said..

Congrats! Black women, you've finally succeeded in throwing away your dignity for cheap recognition..

MathsChic:
That gender equality is still a discussion in Nigeria is overwhelming disappointing. Though it may seem unobvious, the equality of the sexes is one of the bars representative of an advanced, progressive society.

There isn't any proof of that..

You haven't answered my question miss.

What do they stand to gain in their struggle for gender equality that they aren't already?

hopeforcharles:
My brother I have thought about this and didn't see any bone of contention, they already enjoy all this rights and even politics they are in it, they even have preference treatment in almost everywhere nobody stops them, they are been limited by themselves, They want something else not Gender equality.

They want the world to be given to them just cos they are female and don't want to struggle..

MathsChic:
Utterly baffling. I was expecting some male folks to support this. Just wasn't expecting this much overwhelming support. I keep wondering what in the world will make the Nigerian male turn away from these chauvinistic trappings.

Really!!!! Chauvinistic trappings?
If you don't mind my dear:
In just a sentence, simply state what the women want to achieve with the bill.

What do you want?

Onegai:
Not just senators, aren't you reading the comments from most of the male children on this thread? Because when you have a right to work and educate yourself and stop your husband from beating you, you become a prostitute or a lesbian immediately.

Like lunatics, they will come and be shouting "women are not equal, we are Africans, shut up!" in Politics section, then open a thread in Family section saying "my father has abandoned his responsibilities and my mum cannot support me and my siblings".

Really?

The lesbianism excuse is bull so I don't know what they thought about to have produced such inference..

I personally think there is no need for Gender equality because in Nigeria a female has every opportunity a male has..
What these "emotional traumatised" women seek is Female nepotism and superiority cos all the issues they seek to address has already been given to them, all they need do is to "go get it"..

You can't eat your cake and still have it, if you want entrepreneurship opportunity, earn it and don't seek petty advantage because deep down you know you aren't up to the task..
Women should work hard as men do and stop ranting already..

iykedare:
Most Nigerian women are lazy. Like you rightly said,they already have all the bill will address but they want to be handed some advantages over the men.

They need to be reorientated and not pass any bill on gender equality.

Exactly!
The struggle for gender equality as they call it was originally designed by some pained women who didn't have a good sexual relationship..
If you have noticed, all the women fighting for gender equality have either broken homes, bad marriage or very bad sexual life, so to channel their anger and frustration on something, they designed this bullcrap to fill their void..

To me, any woman that seeks this struggle is either, egocentric, lacks male attention, a lesbian, has marriage issues or of course bad sexual life.

Just look at the lives of the women fighting for this and what I'm talking about will be clearer..

Pidggin:
Eya men no get shame, dey fear women One day that bill will be passed.

Not that my dear! If the bill should be passed, some things will need to stop:
Things like, Bride Price, Male taking care of Female (It will be all head for itself), no more respect for a woman that hits you i.e you punch me, I beat the hell outta ya!
Men won't always pay the bills, women will struggle equally like men, like driving cabs and trucks..

After all these, I'm sure only few(prolly rich) Nigerian women will have time for make ups, gossiping and all that..
Let's see if that beautiful face can be maintained with ll these struggle... Lol

purplish:
Not at all. It touches on discrimination in education, public and social spaces, economic rights of women (e.g access to employment opportunities, credit facilities, widows' rights to share equally in the estate of deceased husbands), and illegalization of several sociocultural practices that serve as barriers against the development of women and girls.

Which discrimination in education are you talking about?
Last time I checked, Nigerian woman are given every right to go to school..

There are many companies that prefers female workers to male so the issue of economic rights is invalid..

I think women don't want to fight for opportunities like the men do, this struggle is to promote female nepotism and superiority..

All what the bill seeks has already been given, all what the women need it to "go take it".

Zenas212:
There is no need for that bill to be passed. Women already enjoy all the issues the bill seeks to address. Our major problem is our state institutions, nothing else.

Exactly!

I think this bill is to promote women superiority... Aren't our women enjoying all the issues the bill seeks to address?

Opportunity for entrepreneurship is given to all (male and female) likewise the opportunity for education and if in any case there is a report of a woman being raped, the law will definitely punish the perpetrator so what else do they want?
The only aspect I think the women are not given enough chance is in the Political system which to me is due to lack of women strong enough for the kind of political games played in the country and besides, past experience has proved that our women are not ready to handle power, talk about the likes of Allison Madueke and Cecilia Ibru..

Obviously this struggle is to promote female superiority because all the mentioned advantages they seek are already given to them, Ooh maybe they want a system whereby every opportunity will just be given to them without them fighting for it like the males do..

DukeOfPersia:
May whatever demon that possesses you be with you.

Lol.. And you just proved my point..
Enjoy!

DukeOfPersia:
Despicable toad.
* Spits on his Fvcktard face **

May the Lord be with you.

Your post reeks of hatred.. What has the guy done to you?
I know you are a kid and you are pained so I won't drag this with you any further..

Hey! Cutehector, let the Kid be!

rosieluv:
Ibadan,oyo state at d moment,ah fit dissapear go anoda state for midnyt

Ooh.. I'm also in Ibadan presently.. Nice meeting you ma'am.

DukeOfPersia:
If I wanted to hear from an as5, I would fart.You ve gradually become the most disgusting dumbo on this section ,no wonder even the likes of Mamagee have better opinions than you.Grow up man, your as5licking attitude is legendary and everyday you are seen as a joke.
Man get your sh#t together and quit being a sissy.
Silly faggut.

Stop forming Alpha on a faceless forum man..
No one gives a fvck!

REALLY!

Yeah.. Sex sells faster in this generation..

Lol..

You can get a guy for play time like you put in your post but definitely not for marriage, because all the qualities you listed about yourself will only attract a guy that just want to fvck..

Good luck in your quest.

akike:
Nonsense! Have you read what their men says about them?

What do their men say about them?

ireneony:
they are probably suffering from inferiority complex

Not only that my dear...

Foreign ladies are more open minded, they tell you what they want and that's an attribute every man will find cool..
Most of Nigerian men just wanna leave the world they were and they believe a white woman means a better life, a new world..

Although inferiority complex is a major reason for a lot of men's demand for white women but frustration also plays a vital role..
Many men are frustrated with their lifes here and they see a foreign woman as an escape out of their mystery (which is a lie)..
White women are strong enough to curb their imoralities and they won't complain even when they are feeling caged..

There are a lot of weak ladies in Nigeria (they can't fend for themselves, they are weak minded) and the government isn't helping as well, they (Naija ladies) just wanna get married to a rich dude to escape poverty and that's where the problem is, demand for the rich guys are damn too much, what else do you expect an average Nigerian man to do rather than seek a foreign woman..

Can't ya'll see the lady is messing with you? Iyke, don't be too happy, she's only using her crush on you thingy to seek attention or prolly mess with some folks head in here..
Maintain your chill!