₦airaland Forum

merrymike47:
is it your children's responsibility to take care of you when you are old?

I take care of my parents and expect my kids take care of me, yes it's my responsibility

Orlandoo:
E go soon clear for him eyes.

Your plans won't work, nothing will happen, it's only poor man/woman that think like you

You must treat her like a trash

Jennyclay:
Imagine dating a man who waits until end of the month payday
Biko, don’t get me wrong, i support and encourages legit and legal work but a man who is a salary earner should be considered as a red flag

There are many legit ways to make enough money, you can venture into business, learn a skill like tech, videography etc.. even content creators earn more then these 9-5 salary people.

If you are in a relationship with a man who wait till month end payday my dear you’re in a situationship, men like that don’t know how to spend on their women. They are kinda stingy, they calculate too much .

If you ask them for financial help they will say can you wait till month end? So annoying
Their lives depend on month ending

Women doing salary work should be considered as what?

Don't worry you will meet your match one day

LeeSmart:
If your family dey treat u bad e no mean say others too their own dey treat dem bad now. Anyways what do i know

You will learn in a hard way and beside what she says is be careful

PulaPower:
He also questions why VeryDarkMan is linking the Lekki flood to President Tinubu, asking sarcastically, “Is it Tinubu that made rain to fall?”

As in ehh..

Any rainfall, dem go blame tinubu like say Tinubu suppose tell God to stop rainfall..

It be link to him because you people claim he build lagos

So your plan is to sleep with another man's wife? My brother it will do you no good

Lifestone:
Why do people always blame the female when things like this happen. why would a guy have sex with a lady without protection and turn around to be surprised that the female got pregnant and request for an abortion? how about him using protective gears from the beginning. The two are equally responsible.
I wish the girls will recognize that the impact weighes heavily more on them and keep their pants up

Who's paying the price now? Women have the final say when it come to sex that is why they take all the blame

According to them, they left their options open but Reality they're prostituting

Sccarrr:
this one definitely wakes in the middle of the night panting after peeing in his pants, Yoruba clearly gives him nightmares 😒

If this thing happened at igbo state this would have be opposite of what you will say

You're not far from truth, they use all manner of tactic to attract their prey

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth to these types of men comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that.

The way you people judge a case is worrisome

Gideonski:
I have heard that Igbo women are usually very expensive to get married to. Like the families of these women are usually known for their outrageous monetary demands either in the form of bride price or "marriage list".
But what I don't understand is if marrying an Igbo lady seems expensive for an outsider, then how do the average Igbo man get married? Do they invest so much money in marrying their wives like someone from another tribe?

Why all this stupid complain? Marry from your tribe, As igbo man I hate inter- tribal marriage

Let's wait and see how it ends

Ndubuisipaul1:
What is that lie you were told before you got married only to discover after marriage ?

For me I thought that married people enjoy regular sex . Your partner give it to you anytime you desire it . Few months of of getting married. My wife can just tell me she is not in the mood . And she doesn't care how I feel about it. I don't believe in having affair outside my marriage. But this sex denying can make someone go crazy.

On the other side this put woman on a higher advantage. Men need sex more often than them . If she is not in the mood, you will need to beg for it. If any party in marriage is begged for anything regularly. The individual begin to feel he/she has a higher authority in the marriage. That is why men cheat. Because if you expect me to beg for what I should get normally. Then I can get it elsewhere in other to make you feel less important.

The man of the house begging for sex . Makes the woman feel she is too important.

She is a good woman. But I just wish she will be in the mood whenever I need her.

Look after yourself young man, have side chic, she don't care if you die or not

uchkochi:
Putting your tongue into a ladies vagina does not make you a man. It makes you a fool. Yes, a big fool. How can you willingly suck in bacteria, viruses and fungi with your eyes open only because she is moaning. You are a fool. Stop the act. The mouth was not made by God for vagina. Avoid diseases by being wise. If she wants it then she does not love you. She hates you and wants you sick.

You copy what you see in blue films not knowing that those people are well tested and free from infections. They also sanities their body. Be wise.

There are things you do that's worse than suck pussyyy, we as Nigeria only condemned the one we hate

Mikespecialone:
How can someone mistakenly cheat ?? You girls are very funny ooo

Stupid not funny, they're all know what they are doing

Jeweltz:
I saw a post on NL last week where the author said men who forgive and take back their cheating wife live longer than men who don’t and I wonder if Nigerian men can actually do this, with their pride and all that 😏😔very prideful men we have here in the country. Men who will be expecting you message them first and ask them out hmm just don’t want to talk.

That said, the post might have some semblance of truth. Forgiveness isn’t weakness. It’s coming from a place of strengnt. God forgives sin because he’s strong and he’s the alpha and omega.

When a woman mistakenly cheat, it’s not an avenue for you to discard her like she didn’t matter, it just mean you should offer more support and get to the root of the matter. Maybe you’ve been neglecting her..

I’m not claiming an expert on relationship, I’ll leave that to counselors. Nonetheless, there might be some truth in it. I have never cheated in any of my relationships even when things weren’t going good, I’ll rather resolve it than step out.

What do you think?

Women and imaginary delusional thinking

bigpicture001:
... first and foremost, I cut my clothe according to my size... I dnt go after ladies with very high maintainance or unending list of demands...I specifically go after moderate ladies, also, I made my gf understand I am not a rich guy, but we can work thing out standing by ourselves...

But nomata how u do it, ladies will always be demanding of u to spend and spend..since that is the only way to show love by a guy in this part of the world .
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I am a mid range earner...sh also works but in low income...as usual once a while there are stylish demand for u to assist financially so inorder not to embarrass her or annoy me or come at a time I am broke...I created a plan...

I noted issues which usually need my financial assistance more often...

Data, sickness, credit, and sometimes direct financial support...

For the data..I migrated her to glo, ND did an Always ON plan for her..one of 5k for one month which gives her 1G everyday...l continually subscribe it for her . If sh use all watch sabinus lafter zone, na she sabi. nomata what, sh must wait for tomorrow to get another.. data problem solved..I warned her not to b calling with that data..and buy credit instead...

On credit.. sh buys it herself... And I dnt tolerate it when sh need to call me and didn't cuz sh don't HV credit...


On health.. I used 12k to register her for health insurance for a year at the nearest hospital closest to her.. that way.. whenever sh tells me I am not feeling fine.. I simply reply, go to the hospital na.. it's free... Sh no dey bring that talk come again, but honestly, it helps her alot...

On financial support.. I gift her 25k monthly... But sh doesn't know... Sh believes my giving are endless..... Before the end of first week of the month, I send her money... Sometimes, 5k. Next month might be 15k, another might b 8k,10, as the spirit moves me... And in the third week I send the rest Wich must total 25k..

And if I send her sometimes 8k ND maybe forgot the rest when the month is almost spent, I buy her gift with the rest or take her out entirely... All within the 25k...

That way I satify all my supposed gifting requirements in a relationship...

Guyz how do u see this my method...

Dnt mind those that will rush to thread to shout simp, simp, na them do pass self...


I believe in plans, I believe if u dnt plan, u waste money

Sorry if I may ask, what do you gain from this lady you are talking about?

Perfectnumber6:
Nice one though but he should have gone to Saudi and make money abeg

Everything is not about money, that's best decision

Nothing, in fact nothing stop her from approaching the guy

pussyphilia:
Na lie! That's the best marriage ever because misunderstandings are easily settled with great facking as the wife fooks her husband into submission.

Dey play, it will clear for your eye inside grave

That kind of marriage end in beating and divorce

This is pure manipulative relationship, it won't work

Very stupid people with their low mentality, men run away from this kind of woman, they're destiny destroyers