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jsp0:
not jobless

just the feeling ia overwhelming



I'm almost suicidal

She will treat you like a fool you're if you beg her

jsp0:
she cheat on me and i told her not to call me again last week

since days now i can't stop thinking about her, I have even lose appetite a bit,i just can't get her out of my mind

although i have cheated on her wit her friend b4 and i begged her


I don't have the courage to woo girl

i can't stop thinking about her should i continue the no contact rule maybe she will call me to beg or i should rather call her, please

Slap yourself idiot

VEXT:
Pity ur self poor man

Be happy for your fellow man so that your own will come, you can't bewitching another and expect your own to come , No it won't happen

immortalcrown:
Likewise you and your family.

Your family is good and here displaying stupidity

Bongadu:
I've tried to be friends but she won't agree

Sending her money , she refuses


Buying gifts for my daughter, she says no

Keep on trying don't stop

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

You must be an idiot thinking of suing her, Sue her for what? For being stupid, just keep on talking to her with time she will change her mind

immortalcrown:
Just as every family is not like yours. My own family is proactive. You just choose to live in denial. Gradually, the mother's feeling and reaction will either discourage her husband from being so caring to the daughter or even result in a family dispute. But a narrow-minded fellow like you will see it as an "awww!" issue until it gets out of hand.

You are stupid seriously, don't think that every family is useless like yours

Vikinatty:
For instance you are preparing to go to church and your husband stop u demanding for sex, what will you do?

Quickie won't kill you

Justkatty:

Atleast be happy that you fed someone.

Ewu

Enny2013:
I don't even understand.

Me too

KLEINBASS:
I have always said nigerian community in south africa is killing each other. Their barbaric and nigerians in Nigerians think their innocent and South Africans are bad one. Nigerians in south africa live like animals

Idiot before you comment please read

KLEINBASS:
Nigerians are a problem to the world.

You are such an idiot, they kidnapped your brother all you could say is that Nigeria is the problem to the world

Rokiat:
Any sane woman will only marry a man that’s financially stable, so the better idea would be, buy the land get his car build a house get his money in order and then marry.

And the stupid woman will come in to eat?

ELsmile:
Wetin concern contruction and sacrifice

They always do sacrifice before constructing any bridge

kelvinakproko:
Thank You Nairalanders for the counsel offered on my previous thread (link below).
So yesterday I threatened to quit the relationship if she doesn't tell the truth about the movement I spoke about in detail in the previous thread. She confessed that there's been a sugar daddy (he already has a wife). She said she didn't know what came over her. She had spent a whole week before with him some months earlier unknowing to me before the last movement that made me suspect something wasn't fine.

Now I guess where the financial support was coming from then. They both discuss me and the sugar daddy even give her tips on how to cover up after meeting him. From the chats she showed me, the sugar daddy always ask after me. She said he's been asking her out before we even began the relationship and that it was difficult for her to stop. From the chats she showed me, she had severally told the man that she wants to stop and she ain't cool with the games anymore that she loves her boyfriend.

I also discovered that since the day I suspected her movement, she hasn't been seeing him anymore and evidences from their chat thereafter supports that. She told him her guy is already suspecting her and that she doesn't want to lose her relationship because of several support or help he has given her in the past.

It's been hard to swallow the revelation but she's been crying since yesterday that I should forgive her that she's stopped everything with the man. She called the man that she's already told me about everything that's been going on. And she told him he's disconnecting from him in anyway and she blocked him on all communication channels she has with him.

I couldn't sleep last night. I really want to end it all up despite the fact that there's evidence she stopped the whole thing with the man after I suspected her movement. What do you think I should do?

Link To Previous Thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7961986/forgive-when-she-hasnt-said

Once a cheat is always a cheat, Think about it carefully before taking any decision

funkmrflexx:
I always heard that women were manipulative but I didn’t experience it until I got married.
My wife isn’t a bad person, in fact she’s a wonderful woman but I noticed that she develops this cold attitude towards me anytime I don’t dance to her tune most time

Recently she told me I’ve changed because I refused to go and pray with her and her mom and siblings. I told them I wasn’t interested in their prayers, it was new year eve. I told her I wasn’t going to cross over with her and her siblings , she was very angry.
She claims I’m too stubborn that I don’t listen to her , even when I try to tell her something new about my business , sometimes she will try to kill the idea and want me to do it her own way , so I stopped telling her about my business.

Another instance was when I told her that as a man I needed some time alone with my friends, because anytime I go out , she’s always calling me even when I’m in meetings. I got angry about and we quarreled about the issue . I work from home so I don’t go out a lot . I only go out maybe once throughout the week to either play football , hangout with friends but she’s always calling me , so after the quarrel she became very cold towards me .

There are other instances I can’t mention here where she has tried to label me bad because I didn’t agree to what she wants.

I now see that men who women label as good men are those that listen and act on their every whim but if you are a man who doesn’t like to listen to her and try do your own thing sometimes , you’ll become a bad person.


I Think this is how women are in general

It seems that you are newly married? If yes , She's fighting to be in control of you and family , Stand your ground don't give in to her manipulative ways because if you do , you be miserable in that marriage

Wainey:
Throughout my time in school, I never had light.
You should be grateful you even have socket and power bank.
I always go for night class just to charge my phone and torchlight and also read.

Someone might come to ur rescue but believe me, you have everything you need as a student in Nigeria

So you want everyone to go through hard time because you went through it?

pleasureosondu:
I fit send you go heaven if you try this with me shia


Cc dominique

I swear

labake1:
Guys, why are you afraid of sleeping in your babe's house?

It's not proper in every area you look at it

nstore:
Both of you should 'grow up!'.. Be real to yourselves..
No pretence in sincere relationships..

What do grow up have to do with what the girl said? You guy always fast in judging people without thinking

Nope because the person don't have your new number

Artiiclebeast:
You fit start correct business with this fish..

Imagine frying and selling each cut for #500 and you can turn this over 50 times in a day. You should also sell other fried fish accomplices such as Sugar, Garri, etc plus a small corner where guys can sit to enjoy some cold ijebu Garri with fried fish while thinking about their individual and collective lives viz a viz Emilokan.

I am a motigetional speaker and I'm here to encourage someone.

You, or anyone else here can begin this business in the new year while we keep this thread starred to monitor progress and see where we get by this time next year.

See you, if he sell it for 500 naira will you buy?

Liliantalks:
are you comparing emeka ike to yul? i’ll pick yul any day anytime over a wife beater.. how foolish can one be to think people are expected to put their problems on social media to know their pain. i see it as him being grateful for what he has achieved and not making people concentrate on his shortcomings. there is nothing he said that was bad.

Stop believing what you hear on social media, were you there When he was beating her? Women uses every possible means to bring down a man

Abujafish:
I met this girl when i was in my final year i loved her so dearly, i even hav this thought of saying i have arrived that will be my final bus stop, but unknowly 2 me that girl was something else i never knew i was dating olosho who claim 2 be a saint, quite okay she told me she doesn't like and that she was still a virgin which i agreed not 2 touch her in the name of i've seen my life partner. So one she started giving me attitude she no longer come 2 my place, no call, no chat she kept on givhng me excuss not until the day i caught her red at one guy's house and she has been sleep there for a very long time which i can't tell. So since then i cutted tires with i told her not 2 ever come close 2 me in her entire life, which she didn't even bother.Highest we meet in school nothing more.Now it's been 2yrs now since we graduated this same girl has be disturbing my peace dat she just realise her and she is sorry i should give her chance to mak amend but i have been ignoring her till today. Am confuse now pls hlp

Are you really considering a girl that have waste her innocent years now she want to give you rubbish

Nothing concern me again

Wahala dey ooo

No because they stinks whenever they sweat

carl90:
I met her when I went for service in Rivers state some years back. I live in Lagos. After the service year ,I have to go back to Lagos .
Now, of recent, we initiated a conversation that she still wants me and is willing to relocate from P.H to my base in Lagos.
I am still single. So, is she .
However, there are other women in the picture (there is always some in a man's life, right? whether you are single or married ?)
I am not committed to any of them though.
Should I encourage her to shoot her shot by relocating back to Lagos?

Make sure that you are doing the right thing to avoid had I know

Unclebayo:
hey guys…. Another simp spotted 👆

He is more than a simp, he's senseless idiot

SoNature:
This comment is totally unnecessary.

Fools can never be pleased