₦airaland Forum

Whalis:
Mikel wouldn't have become a player of repute without a family member introducing him to NFF. Here is Africa. You don't need to reciprocate good gestures on the person who helped you it might be another family member. A family member took Mikel's father to Jos. This is Africa.

Image what this one is saying, who is that family member that introduce him to nff

DonBenny77:
Learn to make use of your brain first

You are such an idiot, answer him instead

OZIOGU1:
In this life ehh fear women,

I had the intention of bringing this story here since the journey begins but i wanted to be sure that she finalized her plans and actually believe the saying that if you meet a snake and a woman in the room, my guy secure the snake and deal with the woman .

My friend is married for 14yrs with no child, all effort to get the hubby to hospital for fertility test prove very difficult, on the other hand she did her own and it was confirm she is ok, fast forward to last year the hubby finally yielded to the family pressure and did the test in three different hospitals, lo and behold my guy was confirmed to have LSC or He can't give woman beans chop, the wife became very sad coz for her if the Man had agreed right from time by now there would have been a solution medically or trad.

Now she confirms to me she wasted her 14yrs with the Man and now she is no longer young enough to even look for a guy to settle with, then she open up on plans to japa last year October, i ask why? she said if she no get children make she get money and possibly oyinbo people no dey despise older a much older African woman the way we do here she is 40yrs. she requested i borrowed her 500k to support her movement i told her i dont have, even if i do i doubt i will give coz i am not happy the hubby is not aware of this plans.

fast forward to yesterday, this babe don move and she arrive safely and she just said comrade as she use to call me (Marriage don end be that), the hubby is not aware as i speak, how can women be this wicked?

I believe it should not get to this level, what do you think?

Why are you blaming that woman? You should blame the stupid man that refused to open up to his woman , she do the right thing bro

Kobojunkie:
Such parents shouldn't even bother having children? I am certain the kids wouldn't complain if they weren't born.

Oga this is give me I give you, go and give back your parents stop arguing foolishly

Sonnobax15:

Na wa...

Wife,ok.....but girlfriend,hell no!!

Tho you've got a point..Buh don't you think a busy man who values his life and future won't have time to be a monitoring spirit upon his girlfriend.........

Stay there and be claiming busy man until she knack you HIV your eye go clear

Darevofpeace:
I am so sick to my stomach!

*A 73-year old woman's statistics:*

She was a UNTH nurse and retired since 2007.

1. Widowed in 1999.
2. Gave birth to 6 children with 5 surviving *_(4 boys and a girl)_*
3. Her husband was a retired Principal
4. Her only daughter lives in Lagos *_( in a bad marriage since her husband doesn't allow her to bring her mum over)_*
5. Her three sons live abroad. The only son in Nigeria lives in Enugu and his wife pays her a visit on Sundays but stopped for reasons not revealed.
6. Her only sister, who is older than her but still strong in health, visited and found her in a bad state and decided to take her with her to her Umuahia home.

She had signs of dementia. She also suffers from diabetes and weak bladder. So, the urine smell complained by people is well understood.

Her only elder sister took care of her since her arrival till her sister's son had accident in Abuja and was left for neighbours to attend to her.
The sister's neighbour left her and travelled.

*_Mama was found dead close to an open fridge. Her corpse has been deposited in a morgue this morning._*

Her first son is a medical doctor in America, married to a Brazilian and only called once in a while after her mum was moved to Umuahia by her sister and kids.
___________
ANALYSIS::

Mama is not childless.

She raised all her kids and they're all professionals.

Money was not an issue. Her husband, though a principal, built a bungalow where Mama and her kids lived till her death.

Mama's sister said her only daughter has only called twice since she came to Enugu and picked her younger sister with her.

Mama's senior sister wants to bury her Junior sister on her own and mourn her quietly !!

*_Her kids are now back crying and saying they will give their mother a befitting burial._*

I wanted to call them out & curse them.

I am in pains.
___________

My heart is heavy.

*_A woman that raised five children should not have suffered like this._*

While you're popping kids, remember that one day......

- The bones and muscles will be WEAK..
- The eyes might lose their functions
- The bladder might be weak and you cannot control your urine.
- Cash flow will cease.
- Your legs won't be able to carry your weight.
- Your hands might not hold things due to parkinson or rheumatism or any of the other numerous infirmities
- Your mouth may be smelling because you cannot brush it well.
- Your brain might stop functioning.
- Dementia and loss of memory can set in.
- *_You may not even be able to take care of your personal hygiene..._*

It is called OLD AGE characteristics.

*_Life can be harsh and your children may be too busy with their lives that your care will be relegated to STRANGERS._*

*Children are NOT retirement benefits.*

*_Old age is a reality !_*
*Prepare for that time.*
*Take care of your health.*

*Be armed !*

*_Learn this big lesson Today !_*

Thank you.

*Copied*

Then parents should not train their children, let them save the money for their retirement

Blackmoran:
That is Two days ago...... Am not sure of any important match on Monday..
I pray he is found and in good hands 🙏

6 was Saturday

Urheadmaster:


Ekiti and Ogun state, the home of skull miners

I doubt that Anifowose Adesina Joseph head is still intact

I'm sure they have mined that head

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Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/11/30-year-old-man-declared-missing-after-leaving-home-for-unknown-football-viewing-centre-in-ekiti-2.html

Go to any Alfa around there and look for his head inside pot

Beremx:
So it's because the man doesn't have money he's requesting for your sister to come back? Probably he has lavished all he had on women and he's now looking for his wife to come suffer with him.
Your sister should move on with her life and take care of the kids.
Nonsense

Please read before you comment, The man does not have money before and his wife left him

Kushites:
SOMEBODY SHOULD HAVE TOLD MAMA THAT WE ARE IN A DEMOCRACY WHERE MAJORITY VOTES CARRY THE DAY.

AND THAT PEOPLE ARE NOT ''ALLOWED'' TO BECOME PRESIDENT BASED ON THEIR ETHNICITY.

You just said it she will hear

YourBestWriter:
A friend of mine have been dating this lady for two years, and he was planning on getting married to her. He is 30 years old, and the lady is 27 years old.

By this time next week, the lady will complete her master's degree program, which was sponsored exclusively by the guy. But disaster struck last week when the guy lost his job, and the guy's best friend had introduced him to forex, where he lost big money.

Now two days ago, the guy sold out his apartment and left town. He also left his girlfriend behind. In fact, he told me he hasn't picked the girl's phone calls since then. He wants to quietly let her go. The guy was afraid that if he continue wasting the girl's time at 27 years, it is not right, but at the same time, he doesn't want the girl to see his sorry state.

So to the ladies, is this a real man?

Oga open up to her

eazzzy1:
He’s going to lose her anyways, he may as well do it on his terms. It may seem mean but it’s a good way to protect his dignity and self esteem.

What if the girl is his destiny helper?

englishmart:
I'm planning to tell her husband, who happens to be an acquaintant of mine. On the other hand, I'm considering the consequence. He's been suspecting her of infidelity, and this could finally nail her.
I will be very glad to destroy that marriage if need be.

Find a way to tell that make

HelpfulBro:
I'm a young man and still living with my parents and sisters. I earn some good amount of money and I'm doing okay for myself, I try as much as I can to help my family out with food stuff for example I've helped with 100k for food stuff from now till December and did a little things too like support my mom and help my dad but I'm very unhappy with my sisters and mom.


My sisters always verbally abuse me by insulting me when I don't do something for them and try to make feel guilty for not giving them what they ask for, when I try to set boundaries like what I don't like they tell me to shut up that I'm the junior that I'm talking rubbish

Just this Morning while I was still getting up with sleep in my eyes and praying they started banging my door that light meter has finished and I should come and pay but I was confused so I just didn't respond till I finished praying and came out. Before I did she was already shouting that they should leave me since I don't want to answer and she'll put #200 naira own if that what I want.

She injured her leg from the door while she was going out side to do it and now she's blaming me that I'm the reason why it happened to her, saying I'm still her junior and I don't have sense that why would I not answer her. I'm shocked and I told her how I'm I the problem and I just literally woke up, I just told them that I hate them and now she's insulting me more

I don't respond but I'm getting very angry at this and I'm looking for a way to leave the house and relocate, they are my older sisters and they don't even work or do anything but I don't say it to their faces but I don't see why they don't give me mutual respect at all

What are you still doing in that house? So far you are still in that house they will never respect you

Rich4god:
So went to prepare and decorate a hall in a hotel for our friends wedding. We were there into the night of Saturday and also came back Sunday morning for final touches.

I noticed several matured men going in and out of the hotels with young and very immature ladies. Haba....

Yes we all know that these young ladies are into hook up full time. But as a matured man, how can you stoop so low to pick up a girl who is below 18 years. Assuming the ladies self have matured body, like maybe the look older than their age, I can even understand. But these young girl one can visible see that they are so young and could pass for students of SS 1-2.

To the men, plz of you want to pick up ladies, pick up matured ones or maybe those who looks matured by appearance not toddlers.

Let's not be the ones encouraging this hook up because of the little money we give to these girls.

Why can't you advice your fellow gender and also tell the implications of what they're doing, must you put the blame on men? Nobody force them into hookup

Mjshexy:
Wow..people are really going through a lot

Problem take her up there?

Fryx:
I will think about how this can work.

She did something recently, and usualy I will call her to tell her how I feel, and how I want her to change. But from experience, it's useless asking her to change. She will make efforts and start watching her actions if I point out anything I don't like. But she will soon get tired of it and start accussing me of forcing her to be who she is not. She will start picking fight with me, will do exactly what I complained about and told me to accept her as she is. She is that stubborn, and I have learn to let her have her ways.

She is still young though (in her earliest twenty) maybe age will help her gain more control.

I am in my early 20 too. Maybe I will understand what you said with age. Because right now, I really don't know how to cope with this.

That woman is not for You, Any woman that love you will always want your happiness first

slimjohn2k5:
15k monthly?
For children, not child?
In this economy?
You are the problem in the marriage not ur wife.
You either increase the money or hustle more

That is what he have he can't kill himself

Skyview01:
15k monthly, for what!

That is what he can't afford

guobe:
Most men won't really know the value of a woman till a newly cooked stew or soup full with plenty big meat and fish get burnt when the man is warming the soup or stew and forgot to put off the gas when it has fully warmed.
I don't know how they do it but it is very difficult for a woman to allow her stew or soup to get burnt.
Women deserve their flowers for this.

Shut up not every man is lazy like You, I cooked far better than some women

Cruise777:
You had an experience with a single Egba woman (btw Abeokuta women are liberal sexually)

God is my witness I have lost count of how many Igbo girls I have fvcked

Not 20 or 30

How do you know that all this people on Twitter and nairaland are all igbo? You people have a serious problem, hatred is real

VawulentMan:
This is her third time?
But she took the move after you answered her that you will marry her if she was single
Op too slap you eh..

He is just trying to put the blame on the lady

Chijeep:

She told me that this will be the 3rd time that she's telling her husband that even before we met and that I'm not the main reason but just that she's tired of the marriage ever since but she's only enduring

Stop giving stupid excuses for destroying another man's family

Chijeep:
It all happened like this...
I(a single man) and a married woman with 4kids who we both work in the same restaurant fell in love with each other, though we never had s3x but we use to have hot romance because I don't think I can bear sleeping with another man's wife.
These hidden relationship have been going on since 2 months now.
Like a joke, she asked me that will I marry her if she's single and I told her that yes because she's a spec both physically and otherwise.
BUT NOW I'M AFRAID OF WHAT'S COOKING NOW BECAUSE THIS SAME WOMAN HAVE TOLD HER HUSBAND THAT SHE WANT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE JUST FEW DAYS AGO AND THIS WEEK SHE HAVE INFORMED HER PARENTS OF HER INTENTION OF GETTING OUT OF THE MARRIAGE THOUGH HER PARENTS ARE NOT IN SUPPORT OF IT.

THOUGH I TRIED CLEARING MY MIND BY ASKING HER WHY WILL SHE LEAVE HER HUSBAND AND HER 4 KIDS AND SHE SAID THAT SHE NEVER LOVED HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE AND IT WAS HER MOM'S IDEA TO ACCEPT THE MAN'S PROPOSAL BECAUSE SHE WAS JUST 19 YEARS OF AGE WHILE THE MAN IS WAY MORE OLDER, AND TO CROWN IT UP, SHE SAID HER HUBBY ISN'T GOOD IN BED THAT HE PRACTICE HIS CHRISTIAN WAYS OF HAVING SEX SO MUCH THAT EVEN THE LITTLE SHE'S ENJOYING IN THE S3X OF A THING THAT SHE'S THE ONE TAKING IT UP ON HIM.

PLEASE HOW DO I GO ABOUT IN THIS KIND OF ISSUE, THOUGH I LOVE THIS WOMAN BUT I DON'T WANT TO HAVE A HAND IN THEIR SEPARATION.

You have foolishly destroyed another marriage , karma awaits you

goodness4ever:
Hello everyone. I'll go straight to the point. I just hit it off with this lady a couple of months ago.

Things have been great, but I observed that during intimate times together, she's fond of teasing and sucking my nipples.

I am a guy and that's what I like to do to babes. How come she likes to do the same thing? Could she be a lesbian or bisexual?

I need honest opinions. Thanks.

You sound like a dummy

badboyTee:
Hello Matured Nairalanders,
Advice needed on this.....


Me and my bae been dating for awhile though we met online so when we resumed to school we don't really get to meet.
She is always claiming the serious student using lessons, tutorials and all as excuses .Each time I push us to get to meet up it one excuse to the other.

Boom finally we met accidentally last month, one thing led to another she came to my lodge 30 minutes into our conversation she initiated the kiss we started kissing and I was pressing her boobs , I couldn't take the romance longer then I went down to finger her then she got really annoyed, she stood up that she was leaving I tried telling her not to see me as a playboy (cause am cute though many people perceive me to be a womanizer for that) and in my life she's the second girl have ever loved. She didn't even heed my plea she vexed off wear her cloths back I tried following her to persuade her off the impression she might have of me, she just shouted at me to go back, I followed her she was hesitant that she will trek home i told her to take a bike after several begging she heeded
She took a bike which I paid for I texted her after that to be sure she's gotten home. She didn't reply I called she didn't pick

I texted her on Whatsapp all my texts were all ([I]am sorry for what happened[/I] )after that she read my texts and didn't reply my texts later on she replied with "next time ask for my permission first".

Then about a week later, she asked me for 2k which at that time have exhausted all funds with me which I declined that I don't have anything on me,
We kept talking then all of a sudden she stops picking my call, replying my text, she posts on status each time I text her to show me she's online that she isn't replying intentionally,

Please was my move about her showing all I wanted was sex and what can I do to get her back cause I really love her or is it all lust?

So mumu like you still fall for this tricks

milkan05:
So easy for you to say.
But when the guy cheats you ladies call for his head? nAAAAAAAAAAAHHH!!!! GUY DO YA OWN BACK JO!!!

Stop quoting Nigerian girls on nairaland they're senseless

Hideaki:
Nah I don't think so


Religion has blinded so many people that they can't do without criticising other people's beliefs system

You religion do not blind look at how miserable your life is

Domaining101:
Please Nairalanders I'm in serious trouble
So i just recently moved into the house my father just rented for me of recent ohh and because I've been a virgin all through my life (currently 22), immediately i moved into the new neighborhood, my main aim was to get a girlfriend and have the sex I've never been privileged to have while living with my parents.

I met this girl about a month ago and we officially started dating So last Saturday, we were chatting on WhatsApp, i initiated an argument about her ability to cook, i just wanted to use style to bring her to my place so that we can have sex. So on Sunday evening we had sex without condom, only for this girl to call me this afternoon to tell me that she's pregnant for house wey my papa rent for me wey never reach two months I don't even know where to start please. I've told her not to tell anyone for now, let's see if we can find a way to fix it because I'm not sure neither my father nor her mama will like that news...

I've been googling about postinor 2 but it seems that one has to be taken 72 hours after pregnancy and it seems too late now.
Please Nairalanders help me i beg you in the name of God almighty

Slawormir
Ilegend
Siofra
Jennyclay

Ewu she's lying to you, you just want to collect money from you

Onyiiobi7735:
You are an animal because I don't get the unwarranted insult from a frustrated,demented idiot like you.
You are even more daft.
Northern animal.
Please learn to take your drugs for your mental illness regularly or if exhausted get another.
Ewu.

You the reason I said that you are a daft