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Testiebobo:
This is one of the big problems i got. My bestie is a girl, we are very close but no romantic gems. I dont want to date her, but i still get jealous of her when i see other guys around her. I think am ENVIOUS

You don't know what you want

MrCork:
Truthfully, i havent stop dreaming about my friends wife since 3week ago when he introduce me & i hug her.i had to play it smooth thou....problem is she's lightskin & It was love at first site.

Please help!

If I'm that your friend I must kill you with my hands

chudez0147:
You are the one with empty skull. She has entitlement mentality.

You type will talk nonsense but if the case is reversed you will do the worst mumu

Kobojunkie:
1. I am very much against it is what.

2. If you don't like the kids in your place then why allow them in?

3. You should not do that at all. I think you are being overly sensitive here about this by the way.

Nigerian like to blame people but won't take the same shit they blame others for not taken

izonborn098:
Saying you want to end ur relationship with ur friend because of what a child said'' is an intitle mentality..
There are better ways to solve this issue and you know's it..

You don't have sense at all , they eat and dime in her house but can't help her whenever she's in need

Ginaz:
why did she not tell me she doesn't want her kids to run errands for me? And besides , the same kids come to my house everyday , eat my food and all. Have I ever complained the way they come to my house and scatter my things?
do you know the inconvenience i go through when 5 of them come to my house? I cook and make sure they're ok.

what's little errand they can't help me go? and I give them the change left. so who is stressing more between me and the children ?

Don't mind those people blaming You, you did the right thing by cutting her off she's ungrateful

yoniehuin:
They are not your kids, why do you think you are entitled to send someone's kid on errand just because you are friends with the mother or because you feed them

The mother was right, her kids are not your errand children

If you had a kid and people send them on errand as they feel like, will you be happy.

Dont you think if any thing happen to those kids on errands, do you think the mum will be happy with you, she will blame you forever

Why won't she stop them from taking food from her?

Ginaz:
which errands am I sending them apart from getting me tomatoes or milk or fish within the street as the distance is just 2minutes away.

they come to my house by themselves and sometimes I'd drive them away before they would leave. I never let them go home hungry , whatever I eat, they eat too.

I don't send them to go to the market for me or use as slaves.

Don't mind that double standard mumu , she won't let them help you but she will want you to give them food

Kobojunkie:
1. The first is a miss on your part. You for sit her down, look her in the eye, and tell her pop and plain that you do not mind the mess at all, and so she should stop complaining about it.

2. I take offense with you sending her kids on errands. Sending them with a message to their own mother, maybe, but sending them on your own personal errands, no.

You pick offence on errands he send them but you don't pick any on the food he or she give them, double standard Nigeria youth

YorubaDemonswag:
Your ipob brain is leaking, wetin concern Yoruba concern hamas?

nothing concern Yoruba yet they were protesting against Israel last month

360degreess:
..It doesn't justify the killings of innocent civilians in Gaza by the Israeli forces..

Criminal, terrorist that's what you are

Bintabisiriyu2:
Bros go and make money make woman matter no kill you

Dangote

1TrippleCee:
Oga. Go and space the writing well so we can be encouraged to read. Do this before you ask us for any advice

You are such an idiot ,even At this time of his life you are looking for who will space write up for you

marvelck:
Thanks to Akwa ibom State, guys can get married without emptying their bank accounts

Unlike in other states, especially in imo and Anambra states, getting married to their girls is usually very expensive. And they won't even beg you, if you can't afford it. Cos they are never short of wealthy suitors, according to them

But in Akwa ibom State, one can marry even without paying the bride price and spending millions of naira. All you need to do, is just an introduction, in case you are not bouyant enough to do the whole marriage ceremony. You can.always do the rest later. Doing the introduction alone, is enough for you to take the girl home as your wife....

Can you see how easy is it to get married to the love of you ur life in Akwa Ibom State

Idiot and you are proud to marry without paying bride price

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

You don't have fiancee, she don't have respect or regard for you

Mercisharelove:
What's the big deal? What are you starring at? Why spend precious time watching buttocks used for defecation, oh my God, what a generation, have you ever been to the mortuary to see very big ass ladies lying dead and lifeless?

You all are just wasting precious time debating on morality and ethics, it shows how jobless the world is, though gainfully employed but imprisoned in their minds.

It's part of beauty of a woman, don't castigate others because you don't have it

Teeyoo:
The First thing that comes to your mind is sex. I can't do that. Even we courted for 3 years and did not have sex or romance her. The respect is there. I'm a matured man and she's also matured (late 30's). So don't judge

You can't keep yam and goat in the same room and don't expect goat not to eat yam

Teeyoo:
Yes, I do. Almost everyday and anytime of the day. Although she's already married with a child, she's still in love with me. The cause of the separation wasn't as a result of fight or abuse. It just happened. She couldn't recover the shock until we reconnected back. She's coming to my place this weekend to spend some days with me. This is a reality and not falacy. She's my first love and likewise I'm her first love. We're madly in love with each other during our undergraduate days

And you are proud to speak about another man's wife like this? It's only idiot or a dog goes back to their vomit, which one are you?

obinna58:
Just admit You’re a simp, she said she coming to stay for some days and your divk wouldn’t let you see the obvious

As if idiot like you won't do the same or even worse

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Where did you serve? I was every corpers target, even teachers. I manipulated them to the brim. Honestly some even used to carry my school bag. Guess what, none of them got what they wanted. I manipulated them to a point that I concluded in my mind that majority of men don't have sense or better say become so stup!d in a bid to have a taste of puna. Old men oh!

Na only you dey There, we no dey there so any lie you give us we go believe you

Asawoboy:

Me number 5

JuanDeDios:
Yes. But that's in the eyes of the law only. You're her husband not but not in the eyes of her family "elders". That means they won't recognise you as their SIL and you can't participate in extended family events as a family member. Everything else, you're good.

I know ladies who didn't bother with trad for their second marriage (after a divorce). They felt they didn't want to go through that again since village people had eaten on top their head already.

Bride price first before court wedding because if you don't pay and something happened to that lady na double wahala

GenderMix:
This is not correct. You can do court wedding without paying bride price. Infact when i did mine, only 2 of my friends were present to sign as witness. Our parents were absent because we felt it was unnecessary but for them to travel down.

However, bride price /traditional wedding is what our culture recognize. It has to do with recognition of the couples by the families. It's the most important as far as nigerian families are concerned. You may be deprived of certain traditional benefits if you're not traditionally married. Although those benefits will not prevent you from living your normal lives.

If you are a fan of African traditional culture, then you need to do it to promote the culture

This nonsense you are saying stop it , if you don't pay pride price and the woman die you will see hell

Puss360:
Hmmmm na wa ooo..... Who should we blame...

That man is not her biological father

akinsmail51:
From your own perspectives or observations, What Do Couples Argue About the Most?

80% of the argument is all about sex

Testiebobo:
All my village people are already against me(you should understand those i am reffering to)
I really love Helen, not because she is beautiful but because she behaves like me. We got something in common. But she bi ibo. I hate yoruba tribalistic behaviours towards the ibos. What should i do? Should i go ahead or withdraw?

Go and love your people, let igbo girls be small time you will come here and be spitting trash

Deicide:
I am talking about females that are above the age of 18, because they are no longer kids!

You and a guy that you have been seeing agree to go on a date, you agree on the date and where to meet up. The guy pays for your transport and arranges everything. Only for you not to show up? And even worst, you didn't call or text to say "oh I would not be able to make it for so so so reason.....". If you know you didn't have plans of meeting the guy, why agree in the first place? I know that plans can change mid-way and something might have come up, but to call or text is a problem? Sometimes the guy would even call just to check how far, hope this girl is ok? It is either they don't pick the phone or it doesn't go. It is only until the next day when you call her that she would start giving you bullshit excuses.

Guys, feel free to drop other bad behaviors that irritate you from this gender.

When you knack her and start your own shakara she will tag all men scum

Disgusting

Adasun:
I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...


I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.

We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...

I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.

I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.

They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.

This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.

He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.

Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.

How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.

Thanks...

They want to useless him, your mother should be prayerful

Cooolme:
I have a stepsister living abroad, the daughter of my mom. She's been there since childhood, raised by her father, and has become independent.

Despite the physical distance, she has been supportive, particularly to my mom. Although she occasionally sends money to my mom, it's never quite enough for her.

I share a unique bond with her; we've always been close, even during her visit. The last time she sent me money was during my 100 level when things were tough. However, my focus shifted from financial help to maintaining a connection with her.

Recently, I noticed a change. Since July, she has been snubbing my messages, a puzzling behavior considering I don't seek financial assistance. I've made it a point to check on her regularly, something she mentioned our mom doesn't do. At my level now if she needs money I can even send for her but her recent attitude has totally changed my mind towards her. I'm contemplating blocking her and ending contact, as it seems that's what she wants.

It's a challenging situation, and I'm curious if anyone here has experienced anything similar.

Let her be for now but if it bothers you delete her number and social media

Testiebobo:
I feel discouraged to look at myself in the mirror, anytime i noticed that i dont have a single hair under my chin. Even someone that is sixteen years old is already having on6e. I dont feel ok. What could be the deficiency problem?

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When it comes please don't run, I wish I don't have bears

vickydevoka:
When you give each member of your family 500 million each n pay them salary at your active years. The moment you stop when you retire. Just know you are an enemy

Poor man mentality, how much will remain for him? How much did he Make? Did he owe them money?