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eastOFwest:
From the message, it seems that the influencer has already knacked the woman. What's the point arresting the man? Is the husband blaming the influencer for pestering his wife too much to the extent that she opened her legs for knacks? Joker 😂. So long as the influencer did not rape the woman, it is her fault and the husband should face her. Although morally wrong by the influencer, no amounts of pestering shoul make a married woman agree for knacks with someone else. She should have reported the influencer during the pestering stage, not after he has knacked.

Trash as usul

Sirchiboy:
You think with your dik

You think from anus

Sirchiboy:
Case of my useless elder brother

If a rich guy have family like you he will be poor forever

COFFINSELLER:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/04/25/nigerian-police-recover-human-parts-buildings-disguised-churches-ogun-state

This evil people can never disappoint, animals in human form

Ayjay44:
Please I want to join drug dealership to get some huge amount of cash.
How can I build connections to start dealing drugs like cocaine


Please share

Think about how you will spend the rest your life in prison

RevenuesBoost:
My husband don't want us to return to his state because he is enjoying this woman's kpomo in Cross River State.



Today, my husband jokingly said, "Do you know why we didn't relocate after we had concluded that we will? I thought about the Kpomo, Bush Meat and Chicken 😄
Where Will you see 50 and 100 Naira tasty fried Chicken? If not in Cross River State"😄😂
My Funny Husband 😂😂

Why will you eat death skin?

jenny2007:
Guys I need ur opinion,like seriously pls.

He will never marry you bet me on that, you will never know when that guy travel back and come back with a wife

jenny2007:
Hi everyone,
Just thought I should get your view on this topic. Am a marketing executive in an energy company and meet a lot of peole including foreigners due to the nature
Of my job. am in a relationship with an arab presently, a lebanese.
I truly luv him. This man is like the most kind-hearted man on the planet.he's an
Engineer and was born in nigeria. He speak yoruba fluently (though am igbo and teaching him the language
Too. Am learning arabic myself).
Now the issue is that it is popular knowledge that arabs don't
Marry black women. They can be very racist too and some of them see
Black women only as sex objects. My man's friends think this way but my man
Has never given me a reason to to believe that he's a racist. He respects me completely.
But still am worried becos my other arab friends who I have spoken too tell me that an arab marrying
A black woman is almost like a taboo. Is this true?

All of them are the same, he is just pretending in your face wait until he makes you a baby mama it will clear for your eye

zed7:
My greatest challenge when I used to date. I only call once in 2 or 3 days while I send text just to check in everyday.
They never liked it and it was always an issue. I don't like phone conversations, very stressful. Send me a message and I'll reply.

This is me, exactly the way I like my relationship but this chic won't agree

BigBlackPreek:
I met this girl from Rivers state
She gave me 10k bill, I did not pay
She told me to pay her house rent, I did not pay
But she keeps calling me to check if I'm fine and some sort
of caring. Mind you she usually does the calls with her own
airtime. I have not sent her N1 naira for now
Does it mean she likes me ?
Is this how Rivers state girls use to do ??
Guys tell me about River state girls and your experience with
them.

She's setting you up for another billing

Obainoman6:
Use sniper and end it quick.

You are such a wicked soul, may GOD punish you

They will cause you and your generation join

NikoDeBonAmi:
With the way things are currently, if your ex happens to be based abroad and now contacted you for reconciliation in order for you both to get married and sponsor you to relocate abroad as well. Lets say you are not yet married but in a relationship, will you accept your ex?

Make sure the ex is not using you

Logins2125:
There's this girl I love so much wen we were dating then, before she traveled to meet her parents, and since then she refused to come back to her aunties house and she said that she can't come back here either anymore. But we keep communicating to each other. And as well ,she told me that she had another boyfriend she can move on with,but she's still in love with me . It has been up to 2&half years now we have not seen each other Face-to-face. Recently she called me on phone that she's pregnant,and it's up to five months now. And she keeps begging me let's see each other. I told her that I can't come over to her side , rather, if she agree to see me let her come over to my house here , and she agree on coming over with her 5 months pregnancy which happens to be on Tuesday she's coming or next week tho. And seeing her again will definitely leed to sex! Please what can I do in this situation?

NB: she told me that her husband to be hasn't paid a dime (bride price) on her head. But I don't know if it's true or not.

Please no insult!

You're very stupid

Stephen2324:
Why do tenants always prefer packing out at night?

Because they're owing for one thing or the other

stan4b:
Hello guys!!!
Pls, I need some advise.
My soon to be wife, already engaged. We have been together for more than a year now. She's currently serving in Benue, while I'm staying in Delta.
We have had our ups and downs. Some of the major issue we have been having is her closeness to guys, she likes making friends and talking with guys.
The major issue now is, yesterday I went through her status on Whatsapp, and saw the picture of a man she posted and captioned it as " THIS IS THE MAN BEHIND MY HAPPINESS". A man she just met this month o, cos she started service this month.
She said the man gave her money to celebrate her birthday, which was this January, that's why she did what she did.
Anyways, I already blocked her on Whatsapp and on my phone. Told her our relationship is over. She should continue being with the man that is behind her happiness. So guys, is it bad i cut off our relationship because of that??

You still call a girl like that your gf abi wife to be? You be mugu

NeoWanZaeed:
Poverty in you is way way beyond revival.


Why would you expect someone to give you money because you found and returned his lost property?

Do you know if that 100mil is aimed at paying debt or whatever? You think all money is money one can just dash out money from like that abi?


Stop expecting people to pay you because you show kindness.

That's a lowlife expectation.

Stop displaying your stupidity everywhere you go

myweb:
Same question I honestly want to find an answer to, I'm 40+ and I've never like drinking. I was pressured by peers during my university days which made me started to drink but deep down, I hated myself for tasting it. Well, later I just have to accept who I am. In fact, it got to a point, I was questioning if I was okay for not drinking when everyone else does...very odd, but I love the way I am now more...

The same question i ask womanizer like you

Demigod22:
Most ladies have the mindset of enjoying life first, however, the guys that usually meet those kind of ladies, most of them didn't come for marriage. I have seen scenario where the guys want to chop and clean mouth, catch them young and all that.

The guys that such ladies dated from secondary School are not financially ready for marriage either, and those who will argue about hustling together, these girls are still young to develop such foresight.

And no thanks to the mature men that are looking for young girls to prey on.

In life what you present is what received

Ekeneegwu:
The same energy used to condemn women should also be directed to their male counterpart .. they both took the same vows

Why can't you do the bashing yourself

Bro you do the right thing if not she will keep on blackmailing you with marriage as if she's doing you a favour

Matix222:
Me and this girl have been dating more than a year though the relationship has ended now I mean from her side but I didn’t know she refused visiting me since December but we talk from time to time

Yerstaday she called me and we talked for sometime she told me to send her money which I did thinking we are still together not until I asked her if we could see then she told me she has gotten a man now and she is not coming please should I tell her to send back the money I sent her

Nb: she is also using the phone I bought for her but I’m leaving that for her

Mugu slap yourself

Sonnobax15:
Thank your stars I'm in a very good mood,if not,you for receive the greatest insult of your life this morning from me........

Nlfpmod, Mynd44... please you guys should take a look at how this guy just poured insults on me for simply dropping a comment..........

You should say amen to that pray, your insult mean nothing so far your brother is a cultist one day he will reap what he sow

CrazyBen:
I don't, I still don't know what they taste that I don't taste
I just perform the motions

I wonder what a girl enjoy with you during sex, you must be boring as hell

omaira:
Good morning nairaland,
Since thursday night, i’ve been hoping that i’ll find the time to make this post but my busy ass won’t let me.

I dated this girl within a period of 3-4 years. During this time, i take 100% responsibility of all her bills even as far as his family as i’ve assisted with part payment of the family house rent, took care of parents hospital bill when the dad was terribly sick, sometimes when they run into some domestic bills, i’m the one they call out for.

Despite all of these, this girl was cheating on me back to back with any single tom, dick and harry that comes her way. Your guess will be that our sex life is boring, truth is our sex life is perfect, i’ve read chats of she and her friend when she confesses of how i handle her in bed and please her very well just as i also read chat of her and other man.

To cut long story short, at every timeni caught her cheating, i secretly advise her and talk to her about how bad her actions her. God knows i can’t count how many times this girl has cheated. But i know i never disgraced her publicly unless she begins to create drama.

I made several post about her here on nairaland and also talked to my friends about her and i was advised to leave her.
June last year, i finally broke up with her and moved on with my life, immediately my life took a dramatic turn around. While i was dating her, although i had a good job and a good pay but i was always looking slim and unhealthy.

In less than a month after our brrak up, i swear even my mom waa shocked at my new looks. For the first time in my life i realised that a man could actually look cute and be so attracted to girls that girls will just want to have u for sex.

A lot of people gave comments about my new looks but the most shocking comment came from my ex who said she never believed i will look so good. Like she never imagined i could look handsome.

Now here is the gist- After our break up, she always come to my place for sex, she spent the christmas with me just because she does not want me to be with another girl. I just laugh in my mind.

She sometimes ask me for money but i don’t give her a dime, we just have sex and go our seperate ways until she’s sex starved again.

This week wednesday she came to my house, spent night, we had sex as usual, she asked for some money, i told her i don’t have. When it’s morning, i left to work she also left my house and went to her school.

Just at my arrival at work, i got a text from her saying some of her school documents are missing and she is certain that i took it. I said i did not, and truly i did not. The next message i got from her was that she is going to drink poison and kill herself cos i’m frustrating her. I told her what sort of stupid message is this, and she said yes that she will kill herself as she meant her words.

Immediately i called her elder sister and told her to caution the girl. Later that night she came around with excuses of forgeting something at my place. Then when she came i confronted her at her message and she kept saying she will commit suicide because i am frustrating her. The big question now is how am i frustrating her I have asked her several times and all she says is “you know what you’re doing“ “ i don’t mean anything to u anymore“

Just yesterday night she came around and was apologising about her messages as she said her sisters confronted her.

Dear nairalanders, what does this girl want ??

You're a dog that goes back to it vomit

codedgalaxy:
Pls physicians in the house help!
Back during sapa days I use to experience this strange blankout. like, each time i try to rise from the bed or a chair, everywhere will suddenly go blank like a blackout. This could last for a minute or two.
Though it no longer occurs, i'm still curious to know if it was becase of hunger or an unknown ailment.
Pls if you have experienced such pls kindly drop your quota and what you think

Brother na hunger

YourGFsnatcher:
These girls are accustomed to a certain lifestyle.
They ball on a high.

The odds are that when she's about to settle down, she will settle down with someone of lower value than she's uses to. This is because the high value men will never marry an overused girl, especially when they they know they are the ones using them.

So high chance is that she will settle for a man of lesser value (eyaa)

Knowing that these men cannot afford the lifestyle they are used to, can they truly change and be faithful?

Never don't let anyone deceived you

Hardunmhi:
I don’t understand why women marry who they don’t love, so many of them.
I married a girl out of my foolishness lol , I was thinking money could save her, I snatched her from her boyfriend, after we had a kid the relationship got sour and we divorced, I don’t need advise or opinion on it OPs.
A girl who left me when we were younger to go marry a soldier who I know clearly that she didn’t love has been phucking me again for some months now lol, tho she has divorced, now she thought I would love her like before lol, she wan use love and gift kill me
A girl who loved me dearly but I refused to break her virginity when we were in school so I left her, now she is married to another man and last month she gave birth to her second kid, she has been telling me since when she got married that she does not really love the guy and till now she loves talking to me and most times she accuses me of going too far from her, I no Dey near person wife abeg lol

Why exactly women they do like this Ehn , marry who you love nah lol

Use your brain oga that gender can manipulate for Africa