Why dont we kill fowls and celebrate christmas everyday. because a day has been set apart to celebrate christ, though we do love him everyday!
why dont we kill rams celebrate sallah everyday/time we conclude fasting? because a day has been set apart to mark the end of the yearly religious obligation. Same goes for birthdays, yeah we are alive everyday, we only set one day apart to mark our entrance into the world.

No long tin jare. Vals just like anyother occasion AND ITS NOT EASY on the pocket, so what? Abegi, Me, am gonna love myself, spoil myself silly, love God, and all other things shall follow.

iF you'rE stilL sittinG dowN you'rE oN a LONG TIIIIIIIIIIIIN

lets just be friends. i think you are rushing me.

I aint a BOSS yet and am sure i wouldnt like it if anyone says that to me but there are things to be considered. what kind OF JOB IS IT? is it one that your boss can find a replacent for you sharp sharp? or can u work a replacement for him/her? theres nothing really new under sun. i know of 2 tv presenters who got married a certain day they both had live shows with VIPS dat day. They went to church got married, got to the tv station, did their live shows and joined guests at the reception later. all it takes really is careful planning, and prayer. hubby's or jobs dont come easy in nigeria, so my dear, think think think. besides some people just dont know how to talk, not like they are wicked.

Eh ya Nameless. Pele(sorry) Pastors have done much worse to me o. I no fit laugh. NO be small thing. I aint proud of it and I pity the “men of God” involved but it helped me build my faith (of course that was much later). I trust no one and don’t listen to dogmatic crap from anybody (including pastors). I respect and love God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. The Bible helps a lot for guidance n I pray wella. So girl dust yourself; men are men, whether pastors, gigolos, presidents or boys. Dem be dogs. hahahahaha. He’ll just mess up your life and still ask for forgiveness. Look for another church (like me) and move on. There’s no path or future for you there.

In my opinion, the term forgive and forget does not mean forgive and have amnesia.

I think it means hey look, am human and i just messed up. Can you please not hold it against me and drop the issue and leave it alone? I promise never to do it again or at least I'll really try.

Understanding forgiveness is just like understanding Love. Its more of a state of mind rather than just feelings. Love like God and forgive like God. You must remember though, that wisdom is profitable to direct. Learn from lessons and don't be a fool, i.e. Forgive those who truly need forgiving and leave hurtful memories where they belong, In the past!

Speakin from a spiritual point of view, sometimes only God can truly heal deep hurts and pains. Look up to him.

I think Obanikoro and trinigirl are right. Pity some pple didnt understand what "spice up" means. Y r guys complaining girls need attention. if you wont give your woman/man d deserved amount of attention, someone else will give them! wen ladies clamour for attention, it means they really really like you!

@ seun
If a guy was toasting me and i knew he was too busy for me, there wont be a relationship. the problem is most guys find time to do the toasting and once they got d girl they settle in into their old life pattern! Dont get me wrong, i work too and a lot of times am busy as hell, and sometimes i fall back on the attention i should be giving but its MOST DEFINATELY not all d time. Even when i fall back, i try making up for it.  Love is like a garden. it thrives and flourishes only if its giving the right amount of attention

Besides, Ireti pipe maa n fa irewesi okan- (not sure how to translate) prolonged expectations diminishes passion and will power.

this is by no means a reason why you should nag/bore/kill/ruin your otherwise beautiful relationship with incessant complaints/dissatisfaction!

@mr mayor, the name is QBY

secondly, Naomi sha, u go try o. Try chop IYAN WITH HOT EFO ELEGUSI garnished with snails, goat meat and correct PANLA!!! and FIRE, FIRE, FIRE!!!

u funny o abi make we try Louisa the mermaid!! dat one na easy pick, naomi too far!!

Because we dont see things dont mean they dont exist. Some people see things that others dont see, either as a gift(sprirtual) or as delusion(psychos, madness). Some are opportuned to see things in unison for a purpose(proof) even though others may not believe them.

The bible records we wrestle not against flesh and blood but principalities and powers, there is a possiblity that mermaids are not flesh and blood tho they look real physical to those that see them, just like demons look and smell real to those that see them.

in my opinion, if u've ever seen a mermaid, u have special gifts or u r bunkers, if its the earlier, develop them, u may have more spirituality than u know, if u r bunkers, see a doctor!!

as for me, i'd rather remain ignorant of whether they are real or not. at least, i'll enjoy all my beach parties and not worry dt some kuchiras are watching

@pictures, gross!

Na wa o. This thread is serious

@dude4love: cosmic streams just kiddin!

Men have a lot to ponder, if its not d size their bank account, it is the size of their wallet and pocket(for immediate spending), then the size of their "tool" and now, its the size of their whole being

Eku suru! No wonder men live shorter years     

My father once likened man to drip. He said women hang men in the air and run the IV cord, plug it into their veins and keep draining them till the once robust pack is all gone! and then they shed crocodile tears and say, why, why has he gone, meanwhile they mean, more more!!

Baseline, marry for love and not for looks. your state of mind is what makes d marriage, not the image of the people in it! I do see a lot of people not ready for marriage here o.

if ur friends and family yab your fiance(e) and u cave in, u were not in it with your heart.

, choose ye this day whom ye shall serve, love or looks. one is forever, one dies

SHIKENA

Talk! Talk as loud as you can. air your views once and for all, approach him in an honest and intelligent way and am sure, he'll understand.

Better to be heart broken now than to be in d next 5 years wen all d hopefuls dat come your way would have left whilst you're waitin for oga to make up his mind.

if he still does not know too, leave him. some men only realise and appreciate what dey will lose after they have lost it. move away from his comfort zone and see his reaction. dont pick his calls for a while, inshort make him want you then ask again.

ma candid opinion.

I am just 5"0 in height, so i'd say i am brief. I can marry a short man, but marrying a man shorter than me would be equal to marrying a midget.

There is nothing to it except that BRIEF men usually have inferiority complex, and think that people will cheat them or bully them just because of their height. So, they then go for bogus things to prove they are "big", i.e. Huge houses, large cars and women with thunder thighs!!(d more robust, d better), maybe even extra wives. They may also be unneccesarily Wicked/opininated/quarelsome/stubborn etcetcetc, just to drive their existence into your brain.

All in all, marry a man that loves you deeply and can do anything for you irrespective of how he looks:tall, short, thin. fat, muscular, lankyETC. The body(our body) is just a shallow hunk of skin. There is more to life and love than skin.

Besides, the best gifts may come in not so attractive wrappers or as in d Bible advices, don't reject your talent(blessings / man), simply because you think it is small or you don't like how it is packaged.

@wa do mi, eleya! anything for attention. you re sooo LEWD ar an. na wa o

@topic
Vocabulary to MISS: transitive verb to feel sorry that somebody or something is absent or to desire somebody's presence

what he/she means is relative and equal to your relationship.

a shagmate + Miss = where u dey? am Hot!! lets F**k our brains out.

a passionate relationship + Miss = I wish you were here so i'll share my joys and pain with you, take you out, laugh and cry with you, and of course play with you.

equation balanced.

i think there are too many narrow minded "men" around. If u r constantly trailing "cheap" girls, check yourself. you must have an aura that attracts cheap thats why and in that case busy yourself by making yourself a better person and you will attract good or should i say better girls.

To say there are no cheap girls will be a faux pas, but sayin "nigerian girls are cheap" is the most myopic statement i have heard in a long time. and to think dat if one man makes a blunder here in N/L, several short sighted men are hailin him too is nothing short of a catastrophe. Wat manner of men are we breeding?

Lawd av mercy. All cultures, nations and tribes have their own "cheap girls".

*sighs*

Maybe they are intimidated, besides i really dont think most men have d capacity of taking d bull by the horns. Most can't stand d drama that comes with "breaking a girls heart"