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ijustdey:
why can't some men accept rejection




they always believe they can have their way every time

police shud have cut his foolish manhood. someone's wife? can you imagine? he is an animal.

agarawu23:
smh!!!
I endorsed buhari govt doesn't mean I will welcome bullshittt from them.

And tell me how is buhari @fault here. Na him include Nigeria?

childish question

DaBullIT:
Nigeria an Arab country ?


I would have believed if they didn't mention APC specifically

You must be funny. Didnt some people warn against this during buhari's campaign concerning the fact he had an agenda? You havent seen anything o. watch out

nairalander2015:
Good day nairaland.
As I write this... I am depressed, simply depressed.. If suicide led to heaven mayb i would have been a victim.
Truly itz nt everyone who smiles that is happy.
MY story
I was born into a deeper life family 20yrs ago.. And I can say i regret being born into deeper life.. I would ave preferred been converted there than being born there.
My travails started in secondary school.. Wen i failed to attend a fellowship, my mum talked harshly, slapped me an said i was a dishes disgrace.. Just because i failed to attend a school fellowship.. And I knew that I wasn't a bad kid.. Jes the gentle type.. Since then it has been bad... When others celebrate their mum.. I can't.. I am as far from my parents as anything.. Jes because they are deeperlifers.. I can't seat comfortably with my parents.. Cos of principles. Next was the battle concerning trousers.. She woke me up one black night with a thundering slap over a slim trouser.. Imagine dat was @16.. I cried and cried dat day.. Dat God made a mistake borning me in deeper life... Jes because i walked with a girl.. She banned me from going out..
Even at a young age... Threatened me that she"ll disown me if I marry a lady who wears wigs, trousers.. Omg.. Now.. I am in the university.. I never want to go home. I hate home.. I am depressed.. So so depressed.. My dad didn't send me any cash for a month cos a friend told him I failed to attend a midweek service.. Imagine.. Yet i am not rebellious. I know fellow guys like me who had big problems with their children but they were rebellious.. But i am not
I feel depressed writing this.. Spirituality without love is a disaster.. Aw i wish i wasn't born to a deeper life's family.. Itz a curse.. I am tired.. Itz threat all the time. I am not close to my parents.. Imagine.. Seems i should just die.. I now see my mum as a enemy.. Anytime i see her i am sad.. Talks too much about simple things in a bad manner quoting Bible over needless things.. Watching ball outside is a sin.. Visiting friends is a nono.. Cos they are highly placed in the church.. Yet no one to share my burdens with.. So sad... Yet they think i am happy..i know many out there experience something similar but are helples.. Oh God have mercy on me.. Itz calamitous to be the child of a fanatic especially if you don't wanna be a fanatic also.... Advice pls.. What can I do? So so depressed.. Feel like dieing to be reborn elsewhere

OP, i feel your emotional pain. I understand how uneasy this situation can be.
However, first you must understand that your parents wish you well. The greatest legacy a parent can leave for his/her child is not wealth, is not house, companies, education, all these things are good but the greatest is leading such a child to salvation and let him live his/her life. When God is in charge of your life, you do not need your parent's protection even as young as your are.

I may have problem with the way they go about doing it, but i must tell you they are pushing for something that indeed you need as a young child.
Having said that, you can actually do something. I do not subscribe to those ideas that you rebel against your parents, No dont do that.
This post you put it here, are you sure if your mum or dad see it, it wont make any change in the way they go about this push ?
My suggestion is, write a very comprehensive mail stating all these your worries, pains, fears and even blunt thoughts about wishing death could come due to this issue, and pass the letter either via email or hard copy telling them to take it easy as you have grown and they need to understand it may not be convenient to attend such fellowships all the time.
Assure them you wish to make heaven and you are determine to work towards it but you need them to understand you have other very critical schedules like your studies and so on. which is not to mean you wont attend at all.
Appeal to them and make them understand your plight respectfully.
I pray God will guide you.

HungerBAD:
Boko Haram?

At the end of the day, and just as i have repeatedly said before, take Dasuki out of circulation and Boko Haram supply of weapons will end. You don't need to be a War Historian, to know that Boko Haram became strong as a result of the Government, or somebody at the top Echelon of Jonathan's Government supplying them all their needs, to the detriment of the Nigerian Military.

Somebody might ask why?and the answer is simple,to be Politically relevant.

As the National Security Adviser to the Government, what Dasuki did, which even a Kindergarten kid can see. Is to use his left hand to cause an artificial terror/mayhem, while using his right hand to milk the Government dry, and making his office to be very relevant,and in the case under Jonathan, very powerful.

Who else would the Government run to?if not the National Security adviser.

Dasuki is a traitor, and deserves the hottest part of hell for the rubbish he has done. Why are Boko Haram, not suddenly as powerful as they were before?except for some skeletal guerrilla attacks here and there, the Boko Haram has completely been wiped out. And it was only achieved because their chief sponsor, is currently talking to the Federal Government, and most importantly not at the helm of any Power.

Dasuki was so powerful, he was withdrawing from the C.B.N as if it was an A.T.M on the Roadside,and yet, i repeat, and yet. Some Clowns will come here to support this murdering heartless man.

And as they say in the Old England "OFF WITH HIS HEAD"

bold part, do you have evidence or you are just speculating? remember the case is still in court so you are not qualify to make such assertions which only the court can decide on at the end of the day.

So talk with caution on this.

naturalwaves:
Nonsense! So, they can't find a person to fill this position around there? What's the big deal about the position that requires a placed advert? Companies taking advantage of unemployment to waste people's time.

Lol
My dear take it easy.
That job could mean alot to someone somewhere. E be like say hungry never catch this person before eh?

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tasceige:
Username bro

lol ok tnx

tasceige:
Your monicker though...kinda funny

pls wat is monicker?

Dongorgon5:
Politicians are the architect of problem like armed robber,yahoo nd other social vices.
Judgment should start from them

Then why are u not stealing as well, or better still why am i not stealing. Are the robbers the only ones facing the after effect of politician's corruption? Can two wrongs make a right? nobody has the right to commit crime bc someone somewhere did first.
Pls get it right, nobody under any law has that right. And we cannot justify crime by any reason. So let them die , if i actually rob, let me be killed too.
Judgemnt can start from anywhere so forget about that.

espionagesavvy:
Dear Cynthia
I caught my husband of five years sniffing the panties of my 15 years niece. I don't know if I should confront him or let the issue lie.
I also think he bought my niece a new blackberry phone because the day I insisted on making my niece tell me where she got the phone, he became too overprotective of her and we almost fought over the issue.

My niece recently lost her father, making my sister a widow who let go of her children to stay with her relatives, that is how my niece came to stay with me,
On the 26th of November 2015, I saw him at the backyard next to the heap of clothes my niece brought out to wash, he picked up a pant, my niece's pant and sniffed it, I almost screamed where I was.
Also I keep noticing the look they exchange, very flirtatious.

Lastly my niece is acting like she is his wife, she dishes his food even before the children's food, doesn't knock before opening the door of our bedroom, and the most disturbing is, she asks my husband where he is going when he wants to go out as if she is his wife, my husband is 37 and this girl is 15, I suggested to my husband that we send her off to a boarding school, he rejected the idea and even got angry with me saying it will affect the girl psychologically, as if I want to dump her in a boarding house and run away. I want to confront my husband but I have no evidence, and for my niece I respect my eldest sister so much that I don't know what to do, I feel like an outsider in my own home.

P.S. My husband is a banker and also a pastor at our church.

I sincerely need your advice.
Thank you.

Sad depressed housewife in Ikeja

I do not know how you and your husband relate in your house. whether as husband and wife or as master and slave. It looks to me like you really do not have a say in that your matrimonial home.
First, God gave a very clear opportunity to raise alarm on your husband by at least let him know he saw him sniffing your niece's panties, but you cowed away.
My dear there is nothing like conscience, that thing you failed to do even a 5 year old would have brought your husband to his knees the time he was sniffing the pant.
Now you are lamenting that you do not have evidence, which other evidence do you need? Maybe you want to see the little innocent girl with pregnancy before you take up the matter with a man whom you call your own husband yet you are scared discussing such sensitive family matter with?

Secondly, did you guys court before going into this marriage? or was about he is tall, handsome, gentle, banker, pastor kind of stories that endeared you to him?
Any way go here and follow this link then get you self better prepared>>>>

http://courtshipandmarriage.com/index.php/2015/10/22/why-marriage-by-the-way-2/

Dongorgon5:
is deir any difference btw dose thieves and our politician

whoever his own time comes let him face it bro. If it is the time for the politicians to go, let them also face it. Do we say robbers shud be allowed
until politicians are killed? let judegement start from anywhere to sanitize the system.
robbers, politicians any criminal who's time has come for judgement shud face it. my take

Dongorgon5:
Suspect killed
Naija police force is cursed

i suspect you

MrKong:
Let me give you a theory of this whole ruckus:

Our ex president, Goodluck Ebele Dumbhead Jonathan, the undisputed olodo PHD holder, the worst President in the history of Presidents, The Jaw-Jaw War-War,The Lame one, The Fresh Air The silent criminal, The Condolense Visitor, The Drunk, The Confused One, The Clueless,The stealing is not corruption, the steal but don't steal too much, Lord of Wailers and Hero of the Fs from the Rising Sun, His Excellency in Failure and holder of the exclusive right to wanton display of stup!dity...had 3 plans pre election, well not his plans persay we all know he can't even add 1 plus 1 to hundred;

First he ordered Dasuki to make a last minute quick fire purchase of arms after he's seen the popularity of PMB, the arms to cause chaos and disorder....then he told Orubebe, the CHURCH ELDER, to initiate the chaos and then in the ensuing confusion...They scuttle the election process and hang on to power but Jona The Clueless, developed cold feet and spoilt their plans

That's why they hate him na...EVEN PEG HATE HIM TOO

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Dealmadam:
We have up to 10, call in the morning as we have some potential buyers also but no one has paid as of yet. This will be a first come first serve deal. Thanks

How long does the battery stay? Any repairs done on the fone? and can the phone still server for a few more years before packing up?

kagorba3:
Right now I'm confused and frustrated at the same time still I don't wanna make lifetime mistakes.


Here is my plight...There's is a young man seriously in love with me but I'm far from liking him let alone love him yet he wouldn't stop, this his relenting spirit kinda attracted me to him but still I can't find a place in my heart to accommodate him, everything about him just irritate me, he laughs uncontrollably over my not so funny jokes, from the look of things he seems so happy and settled with me yet I'm at the opposite end, whenever we have a date I do keep an eye on my wrist watch and keep wishing time flies so fast.

But I discover he is serious and focused and sound to interact and have a meaningful convo with but his physical looks is just a big turn off, I really wanna give birth to lovely kids not some "oputu poyoyo" please y'all should not tell me to look beyond looks cos these things do come into play...I'm saying this cos my mouth no good oh, anyday we have any misunderstanding I might mistakenly yab away his future.

I have been postponing giving him a yes hoping for someone presentable to show these signs of seriousness but no way, now he has fix March for the main thing, all my thoughts now is how can I maneuver my way and make all my kids take after my beauty instead of his and it's my baby girl I'm so scared for cos most baby girls take over their dad.

Note: he's not rich oh just a struggling guy before y'all will conclude I'm into his money, the only thing is he acts different from the rest that will just act so sex starved, any focus girl wants a focused guy too but to tell y'all the truth I'm still in doubt since I don't feel a thing for him and he seem not to be bothered which I'm certain he will after the main thing.

Please to the lovely ladies that once said yes to a not so presentable guy(I mean a man with bending shaped head, undefined complexion and petit in nature ) how is the journey so far

lol, very funny u. U said u are fine, yet your mouth is terrible. u better not marry him so u wont use mouth to make him commit murder one day. Of course you cant marry out of pity. Just close your heart and tell him so you can live freely whoever God wants for you can come at his own time for you. Even though appearance alone does not make a marriage a good one but it counts to some extent. I stumbled into this site and i think it will help you http://courtshipandmarriage.com/courtship/important-courtship-marriage-part/

PassingShot:
Children of hate and anger, is SaharaReporters no longer owned by Tinubu or APC as you normally claim when their stories don't favour you?

TANoids lack common sense! When good news is reported about Nigeria, it's the Clueless legacy but when any bad news about the economy surfaces, it's Buhari's fault! May God deliver them from their affliction that makes them reason irrationally.

may be tinubu and Buhari have stopped paying their dues. or what do you think?

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some news can make someone fear sha

When Muhammadu Buhari clinched victory in Nigeria’s presidential elections in March, stocks soared as investors looked to the former military ruler to reverse decades of economic mismanagement and policy inertia. Now hopes have fizzled in his ability to turn around Africa’s largest economy and oil producer.

Money that flowed into stocks and bonds in the West African nation, which McKinsey & Co. says could become one of the world’s 20 biggest economies by 2030, is now fleeing as growth prospects diminish along with oil prices. While Buhari, 72, has prioritized stamping out the graft that has plagued Nigeria since independence from Britain in 1960, policy-making appears as uncertain and haphazard as ever.

“After the initial euphoria, people have become disillusioned,” Ayodele Salami, who oversees about $500 million of African equities as chief investment officer of London-based Duet Asset Management Ltd., said by phone. “He would probably say that he’s being deliberative and cautious. But we expected more.” Duet’s Africa fund has cut its investments in the country to about 24 percent of the total from 38 percent in the last year.


Buhari waited five months before naming his cabinet, hasn’t proposed a clear plan to revive growth and backed foreign-exchange controls aimed at defending the naira. His retention of gasoline subsidies, plans to raise spending in the face of declining revenue and silence about a $5.2 billion fine levied on mobile-phone operator MTN Group Ltd. have added to investor unease.

Nigeria’s benchmark stock index has plunged 22 percent since reaching a year-high on April 2, the day after Buhari was declared the winner of the presidential race against incumbent Goodluck Jonathan. That’s the third-worst performance globally in the period, after the bourses in Ukraine and Egypt. The index advanced 12.5 percent in the two days after Jonathan conceded.
To be sure, Buhari inherited depleted government coffers and a bureaucracy that multiple probes have blamed for looting billions of dollars of oil revenue. The president has said he delayed appointing ministers because he needed time to vet suitable candidates.

Garba Shehu, a spokesman for Buhari, didn’t immediately respond to written questions after requesting they be sent that way.


The hiatus has compounded the pain caused by the slide in the price of crude, which accounts for two-thirds of government revenue and 90 percent of export earnings. Growth, which averaged 6.3 percent annually over the past decade, is set to slow to a 16-year low of 3.3 percent this year, according to the median estimate of 15 economists surveyed by Bloomberg.

Many filling stations ran dry this month as the government withheld fuel subsidies to suppliers, preventing them from restocking. Lengthening lines forced Buhari to ask lawmakers for permission to pay 413 billion naira ($2 billion) in overdue payments, an amount that hadn’t been budgeted for.

While next year’s budget has yet to be finalized, Buhari wants to raise spending by 56 percent, according to a person who attended a briefing on the government’s plans and asked not to be identified because the matter is private. Vice President Yemi Osinbajo says the government plans to spend its way out of a slowing economy and that an infrastructure fund will be created with public and private financing.

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Cc: Mod

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after all the rules and regulations, you are silent on the ko ko that many will like to hear about----money!

adekolaelect:
Electoral act indicate dat any aspirant 2 any electoral post Must come under political party which means any candidate in any election is just a representative of dat party 2 attain their political goals ok Who is Audu Who is APC as a party?? Can the death of a representative invalidate d goal & objective of a party or any organization?? Sorry failed case!!!!!:::::::

in bold, fine so what happens when the candidate after winning the election in the said party, assumes office and while in service decamps to another party, does the initial party demand that he/she quits the position? We have seen governors, senators etc leaving their initial parties to new party while in service yet the court has being silent even when their initial parties approach the courts to return the mandate to the initial parties.
I think the matter is complex. What the electoral umpire must do is to ensure they pick any option that is nearest in meaning to what is in the constitution. Bc at the end of the day the constitution is the supreme set of laws everybody or org. must obey.

bellville:
Wow! The Murtala assassination was '76 I guess. You don't belong to this generation o.

Yet osibanjo is vp in this generation ?

Firefire:
Can this photo change the fact that Nigerians are suffering untold hardship since May 29th 2015 ?

@ur pix lol

apaghaltd:
4 days

So 65k cant run it?

Judas2013:
Lies

From your I.D we know you wont believe.

Paris Concert Crowd Was Singing ‘Kiss The Devil’ The Moment Terror Attacks Began by Geoffrey Grider.

Mere moments away from slaughter, Paris fans at Eagles Of Death Metal concert sang song glorifying the Devil.

1 Peter 5:8 warns “Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:”

With their hands raised high in the air, Paris fans at the Eagles Of Death Metal concert made the Satanic “devil horns” salute without seemingly a care in the world. Amazingly, the song that was playing the moment the shooting started was called ‘Kiss The Devil’, and here are some of the lyrics from that tune:

“Kiss The Devil” – by Eagles Of Death Metal.

Who’ll love the devil?
Who’ll song his song?
Who will love the devil and his song?

I’ll love the devil
I’ll sing his song
I will love the devil and his song

Who’ll love the devil?
Who’ll kiss his tongue?
Who will kiss the devil on his tongue?

I’ll love the devil
I’ll kiss his tongue
I will kiss the devil on his tongue.

As the French Death Metal fans were singing along with those lyrics, offering their love to satan, the devil responded with death and destruction as he always does.

Now, you go ahead and spin that any way you like, any way that makes you feel comfortable, but as a Bible believer, I know exactly what happened Friday night at 9:40PM GMT in Paris, France. People asked for a manifestation of satan, and guess what? They got it.

It may be safe to say that there were no Christians at the concert that night, and that the vast majority of those people were lost, unsaved people. I wondered how many of them were offered the Life-Saving Gospel of Jesus Christ Glorified and they turned their nose up at it. It might probably be more than a few. We see it all the time as we street preached in St. Augustine. To most lost people, the devil is a joke and Hell will be a beer and sex infused party. Nothing could be further from the TRUTH.

Hebrews 2:14:says “Forasmuch then as the children are partakers of flesh and blood, he also himself likewise took part of the same; that through death He might destroy him that had the power of death, that is, the devil.”

As those people bled and died on the dance floor of the Death Metal Concert, they went from singing about the devil to meeting the devil face to face. Hell is no joke, it is absolutely not a party, and you do not have to end up there.

Click the above source to read all about a place called Hell that you can avoid by trusting in the finished work of Jesus Christ Glorified.

Friday night they “kissed the devil”, and the devil kissed them right back. Don’t let it happen to you.

Read More: http://www.robminds.com/religion/unbelievable-see-what-was-happening-in-paris-before-isis-struck/

Cc: lalasticlala

apaghaltd:
honda 99 65k

rav 4 70k

how many days to get it ready?

Nice analysis and report. continue to update us.

MoltenMagma:
There is no N and C, just 6. I have checked several times yet I didn't see it.

My brain is not aging!

they are all there o i saw them all. not a joke

kestolove95:
no lady in politics...in politics sex, everibody ar same, hajia alhassan of taraba will tell u more, we taking ova very soon from men, u guys hv cheated us for long nd damage our country

U have a point , you can do it without violence my dear. Peacefully you can take over without shooting a single missile

kestolove95:
We dnt want pdp in north central, so d madman call wada should start packing

comment unladylike.