₦airaland Forum

That was how a lady picked her iPhone from a road side phone charger in Zaria only to observe some knife guys trailing her. Tried to run, but caught up with her, but she refused to part away with the phone and was knifed and eventually died

Ikpongiton:
they will reverse the law in due time ,just like tunisia did,to allowed people marry outside their religion and tribe.but for now?its serve them better.

Nigeria is more complex a country than Tunisia is

tell her u are infected with HIV and aids, but that u can still marry her and be using CD or going raw when ur viral load is down

for what again, after bleeping each other, it's now u know of test? Except u going for pregnancy test to confirm d sex of d baby

won't pdp want to take credit for projects like this? well I hope they don't sabotage or attempt to, cos pdp are hell bent on proving to all that they are d only ones who can successfully govern Nigeria

a Hausa Fulani lady told me, hausa is Fulani and Fulani is hausa . But all the same, our Hausa president must do something against ds Fulani Atiku ppl

And many corrupt youths- boys and girls plus some ppl of no Conscience were hoping and praying for such opportunities

do we have to wait for Saudi Arabia?

duvetmaster:
You don't have the right to choose for a man what age he ought to marry.

An educated woman is less fertile. Quote me anywhere.

what makes her less fertile?

raphemmanuel:
Until they Hausa reverse the law or tradition of allowing their men marry an under-aged girls, this educated matured ladies will find it difficult to get married.

I served in the north during my NYSC, I get to believe so many things said about this people.

I was shocked when I saw girls of 14yrs, 15yrs already a mother, what annoyed me most was those that married them are at their early 40's or late 40's.

Now tell me how it will be possible for the matured ladies to get married.

The men have believe that this small ones are ONU UGU and this will make them not considering the matured ones.

But once this tradition have been reversed the men don't have any other option than to go for the ladies that are due for marriage

They won't reverse it o. U even see a university professors here in d north leaving all his students, past and present and picking a jss girl for a second wife.
I really wonder whether they see graduates and career women as ladies who may not be virgins or whatever

blizard44:
Is there any law refraining them from marrying outside their tribe?

Let them marry other progressive-minded tribes... if they feel they are not complete without a man.

The average northern man is totally insecure when it comes to learned women.

Yea many do marry out of their tribes, d only problem being religious differences , as in they ain't allowed to marry xtian men.
But they themselves also create problems, in that while still within youthful ages,some may they reject to be second wives

To be seen with one prostitute talking by d road is even very degrading and damaging not to talk of sleeping with them-all thru ur life u gonna feel so smelly and impure.

stefanweeks:
The woman just dey happy
Her Congo will be shinned properly tonight

why are u like this na

in many cases, dating or marrying a girl who has dated before is like having a firewood that has been lighted b4 as against a fresh one that hasn't been lighted b4. The fresh wet firewood won't easily catch fire but d one that has previously been lighted will catch fire effortlessnessly anytime anyday

time for SS and SE to unite with SW to wrestle power from d north. if another norther comes d nepotism might b stronger o

Well this is just my personal observation and I hope I'm right. Having stayed most of life in d north , I have come to observe that hausa men don't really and necessarily go for highly educated working class hausa women. You see d men befriend the women at school or at work, but that's only the much it goes. When it comes to marriage, the Hausa guys value those young teenage secondarians more than these hausa ladies with bsc,msc,mbbs,llm,phd or whatever qualifications. Even hausa traders and merchants also hardly go for these educated independent women. At the end of the day, these educated and carrier minded ladies are left for very late marriages- some don't even get married at all, others end up been second, third or fourth wives of some less educated business men or they arrange marriages with their drivers or other domestic guys who may even have a first wife already.
Right now, all over major cities of d north, we have successful career women with porch houses and rides in their late 30s, 40s and 50s who have never been married for a single day. They are been let down by their fellow colleagues and mates who look beyond them and go for teenagers. I do hope and sincerely too that this trend of educated hausa men not considering their fellow educated hausa women change so we won't have a major social problem in our societies.
In the meantime, I would like to advise fathers to at least get their daughters engaged b4 sending them for higher educational qualifications ,if they can't get married before going for further studies. That way the men won't feel intimidated that the ladies are so highly qualified or educated ,because they got engaged while still less educated .Also the ladies won't easily look down on the men, since they would have now known each other for long and respected each other well. It's a known fact among men that once women acquire more educational qualifications and careers they become extremely difficult to impress and will in most cases look down on the men or see themselves as some kind of equals

are kogi xtians barred from contesting the govnorshp of kogi?

MyGeneration:
Its enforced on both Muslims and non Muslims in sharia States

. it's enforced also on dead xtians too

Awol1:
Could it be your brain is being ravaged by too much concentration on "Game of Thrones" Mr Igbo man?

As an Igbo man, are you saying there's never been a time when projects that should naturally be sited in the East has been taken to Kaduna?

Why is there an Abuja-Kaduna and Lagos-Ibadan rail line both nearing completion or completed, without such project in the East?

Why does the flight from Nigeria to China cost about 250k from any other airport in Nigeria but costs about 360k from Enugu airport?

There's deep seated grand plan against Igbo progress in this country that is glaring to all.

How you don't see it can only be associated to 8th wonder of the world.

shebi una say na GEJ start d kaduna n Lagos rail? why didn't he as well start biafra rail so that buhari can complete it?

okorocha is working

obaiagbon d Greek English grammarian shd make a good gov

all this cds causing cancer and impotence in later life?! my advice, get some holy water and mix with olive oil and pray lords prayer over it b4 rubbing on ur organ, then u are good to go

Davash222:
Why is Tonto Dike like this?

Op, edit your headline.

other than the fact that I know she is a nolly wood member, I don't know much about her

Many times you hear ladies showing how religiously committed they are, dress well and behave ethically correct - sometimes u hear them telling others to fear God- but alas these religious girls will b found straffing recklessly, not even with religious men but with dirty naughty men who can take them to a secluded place.
Why do ladies do all ds hypocritical lives? Nowadays seeing a lady well dressed and well behaved or quarreling a play boy isn't much of a sign that they are as religious as they appear. Many of them will even sleep around with pegans, agnostics and traditionists.
Bottom line, guys don't b deceived by all those facade o. A typical ashwo can as well dress and behave as a very religious lady

ds shalom is only being mischievous

why u guys calling Asari juju man? This a Sufi Muslim man with strong Islamic knowledge who may soon b ist indigenous sheikh from SS

airsaylongcon:
Dubai is NOT homogeneous o... They have Sunni and Shi'a there. They have just decided to live above that

yes but even at that d shia religion is not large enough, it's a minority religion. The Muslim population is much larger and dominant more than that of shia religion

2buffagain:
The man fuckup.
He for invite the neighbour come...so long as the neighbour doesn't look like a disgusting butch.

The said neighbor is herself married and living with her husband na

Iranian government and their system made him too hard and fearless, so they shd take their rubbish

Bello is a youthful governor . Nigerian youths say no to old men. it's time for d youths

HORLADSTAR:
go ask ur sis the same question cos am sure she is one,
why can't you just let them be abi na ur life them dey live.

Oga this issue concern us ,we d men. if we allow our women spoil, its gonna affect us too.
While I was in Zaria, I learnt of a court case instituted by a man against a female neighbour of his for lesbianising his wife. The man ,claimed that while he was intimate with his wife, she started displaying strange and new skills, which then aroused his suspicion, b4 d wife later confessed that it was d neighbouring lady who comes into her apartment after ppl have gone to work- showing her blue clips and once she realised she was carried away started romancing her.