₦airaland Forum

I really don't know why men as the leaders in most segments of the society don't lay good examples. We men are the most corrupt of the two sexes. In fact the men are the ones who go corrupting the females. Men have now made a very large percentage of ladies believe that the only way they can get married is by getting sampled- whereas that is the beginning of the corruption. Well after been sampled, they are still not married, instead the men simply brief their friends about them and how to go about getting their own share of the women's bodies - in other words they defile, disvirgin, use and corrupt the females and then dump them- making prostitutes of them. Situations have now gone so bad that you can hardly see a lady in her 20s who hasn't slept with hordes of men, some would have even slept with more than a man simultaneously at a particular time- yet none of these men are willing to marry them- in fact some of the men actively work against their marriage chances by maligninng them.
Now the big question is these ladies if eventually they get married tomorrow, will they be able to stay faithful to their husbands after they have been over exploited by all manners of men in the name of dating? Won't they become sex maniacs- because a lady who did 3 some and the likes or out rightly slept with multiples of men on regular basis can't be so easily caged by a single and responsible man. And lastly, can their be trust in the home? Won't the husband be always monitoring and accusing the wife and she also doing likewise?
In conclusion, men please be responsible , the fact that it's a man's world doesn't mean that we should go about spoiling, defiling, corrupting ourselves, the females and the society at large

And you want to tell me his family members don't know before now that he is a high caliber criminal? On a more serious note, I don't easily see ibos as legitimate business people because some just use their shops as a decoy and deceit while they travel to rob, kidnap, or partake in diabolical rituals

Seems they are all spoilt and lack morals. Its guinea pigs that normally practice this kind of life, where you see younger males sleeping with much older females

Yeah. Extradite them please

Well it depends on the sincerity involved. If it's a highly sincere one no problem but if it's not then I may not. But the major reason I may not even like the idea is purely based on the fact that neighbors will eventually interfare and spoil things for you guys

Please house members I wish to get your views on a particular burning issue that has been disturbing me. I told my friends and relatives that I got a marriage material from a particular tribe- around central Nigeria and the next thing they are telling me is that the ethnic group I mentioned are very strong in witchcraft. Some were even saying that because of that hardly any tribe marries them. Others were saying that they could easily affect family members with the said witchcraft. please house can these issues be true or they are just mere superstitions.

The property should be sold or government should aquire it and compensate his victims

So unfortunate. Melaye should just relax. Why is he engaging the governor in the very domain of the governor? That in itself is madness and a call to civil disobedience. He should have gone to kaaba or other places away from the state capital

These afenifere grouping are an extremist grouping. I am so happy we never elected their member Olu Falae in 1999. They speak only for their myopic extremist minority yoruba side. I don't need to tell anyone that most yorubas don't recognize them

You didn't mention ladies who before marriage were taking on 2 to 3 men at a go
Secondly, ladies who initiate sex at a very young ages or ladies whose mothers gave birth to them without being married

Abeg it's better for the ladies to demand rather than steal if they are trully in need. But her demand should tally with the man's earnings and she should show gratitude and appreciation

She simply doesn't love the man again. NO any disposal of secrets period. But honestly it's not easy to please some women especially those highly enlightened or educated ones- reason why some people will never marry them, but rather marry secondary or primary students

If the child is away the so called ogugu may not have easy access to him na. Since environment and atmosphere has changed

ehie:
Na christian soldier, how many fulani herdsman have they sentenced to death for killing children

What trash are u saying? Just because you suspect somebody you just kill him? So if I suspect you for anything I have the right to attack you?

Adultery and fornication now the order of the day. This is trully bad o. Who is going save us from this imminent destruction?

Yea sleep is such a great favour from the almighty God. Without sleep for a few days it's death. Growth and cell repairs and renewal occurs during sleep. Every adult need a daily sleep of approximately eight hours, however the duration decreases with age

Bism:
ladies always waiting for guy to apologize after a fight. its a two way thing, if he does not call try to call him to know his what went wrong. Stop all this ego talk and do the right things because you might have said something injurious to his personality.Men think straight and might have read meaning into your last rancour.

y u talking like ds na? Women must have pride na

In the cultural context of the land, it is not a rape but consensual illicit sex between both parties. It is now been called rape because they need to hold somebody responsible for the immorality - had they not been discovered, she or her parents wouldn't have accused the guys of rape or any offense. Who knows , this may not have been their first time of having sex there.

I really wonder if the ibos can ever leave the north. Because they almost every where doing one thing or the other. Even the sokoto and borno with very harsh weather still boast of ibo businesses and interests. What the ibos have succeeded in doing so far is a deliberate expansion, they have expanded from their South East to kind of capture or colonize more advantageous terrains. Ibos in the south who gave never been to the North always think that there are only a handful of ibos in the North who are highly marginalized, but that's far from the truth, because ibos are a dominant force in the north- I don't know what they do in their homelands that they don't do in the north- is it ease of movement , business, or the building of massive churches and houses? Perhaps the only thing not been done by ibos in the north is masquerade events and baby industries. The big question , now that ibo have established themselves as a trully dominant and expanded race - can those five miniature States in the south east still accommodate all of them including those of them in the north, Secondly with whom are they going to be doing business if they only stay in their enclave?

chi4ik:
there's a mission behind this... I hope is not the process of Islamizing the whole of West Africa

. Yea u are so smart. It's meant to Islamise the whole of Africa, just as Buhari was accused before he won election of plotting to islamise the whole of Nigeria. Anyway some people are stupidly myopic in reasoning, thinking, talking and in all spheres of their lives

Another is, do not engage in excessive and sinful pleasures , the types you couldn't engage in while with your parents. Secondly , do not forget your parents and relaives- make time and money for them

Really