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Chai, this boredom is everywhere

EOD

Hisincrease:
Nonsense.

From the responses above, it shows that a greater number of ladies have just sex on their marriage plan and they are ready to cheat just to get satisfied.

It's fine. Sex is damn good but c'mon there is more to marriage other than sex. I understand the part of some men hiding their sexual deficiencies but the way you women drive this sex agenda depicts the level of reckless live you are currently living. And if a man is not able to meet up with your reckless sex life, he's termed, one-minute man.

My advice to men is simple, discuss your sexual preferences and ability with your lady, if she can't cope, please leave her and move ahead with life.
Sex is created for man not man for sex.

Started an online course, it has been quite engaging. I have also been working from home.

What can I say Lord, please have mercy and take this coroguy away biko

All the best babe, it's your life after all.

Was kidding but really, just laugh it off. It was probably expensive where she got hers

Lifedonor:
Really ... For something we both would use

Personal discipline is key and try not to be alone with her as much as you can.

Correct babe

Lifedonor:
Kai!! My babe don finish me ooh!!!
She just sold me hand sanitizer #1500

Deep and insightful piece. Thing is, i have never really taken time to observe the sequence. All in all, I feel it just happens.

AfroKnight:
Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

This left me speechlesa

AfroKnight:
Bro haven’t you heard? Good guys finish last.

Most babes reserve a spot in their hearts for good guys. They treat such guys as a fall-back plan in case the cocky bastàrds they want, leave them broken. This is so they can carry their broken selves to the good guy to patch up and marry.

If they’re lucky, the bad boy sticks with them and they endure a tumultuous marriage. If not, it’s mr nice guy they’d be buzzing on Whatsapp after 5 years incommunicado.

Don’t be the nice guy. Don’t be the last option on the list of an unstable untrustworthy woman.

Congratulations

This year - 2020

jimmyolasun:
survive the epidemic first

Best advice so far

Brunosamel:
You don't need to breakup with her for you to stay focus all you have to do is to talk to her about your priorities and tell how difficult and hard it's gonna be for you, she won't be getting any of your attention as she use to cuz you need to set your life straight... if she loves you enough she will stick around and support you....

Na wa o. RIP to the dead though

Thank you for speaking my mind

Ariza:
If a teenager can leave her parents house to school in another city or state for years I wonder why a Lady shouldn't leave her parents house to live alone for some years before she's hooked again.


Sometimes I wonder why the Woman is believed not to have/ live a Life of her own in this part of the world, while the one who should be tamed (The Man) is let loose. That's how backward our society is! Very backward!

My thought exactly, haba

Kalapizim:
You are narrow minded to even bring this topic up.

Congratulations

Lovely

Congratulations

Wise words

donstan18:
Traditionally, a man is the chief sponsor of any wedding ceremony while the woman supports in a way she can. Reason, it's expected a man goes into marriage when financially stable and ready.

Allocating 50% to her passed a message that you'll be a type of husband who will be after the statistics of the wife's earning and spending. You sure wouldn't have done what you did if you hadn't any knowledge of her earning, you acted because you know her earning and that's a red flag for Nigerian ladies, because they don't like dragging and equal responsibilities in a home.

You don't go direct when you want a woman to contribute financially to something. You go Tactically[Not imposing, but asking how and where she can take care of, she'll choose, no matter the percentage of her choice, you lock up, keep the planning going, pretend like you are cool and then sketch out a personal plan of how to act worried and restless before her, she'll wanna know the problem, act like you wanna hide it from her, she'll be worried and pissed that you are hiding things from her, then you'll come up with a story and open up that you are facing financial crisis and don't know how to sort some things out concerning the wedding, she'll willingly help with pity without seeing you as a stingy or mean person]

No be everything dem dey form mancho, you go dey use your head.

You've spent on traditional wedding and for that not to be a total waste, kindly go and meet her, reason with her and go tactical, not directly with authority.

Happy married life in advance!

In Ghana already

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Congratulations to them

Honestly man

Ogbunigwe2018:
This is the wrongest time to not own a car in Lagos state.

I concur 100%

kazyhm:
23 years old girl won't marry you with such an option at her disposal......and again you shot yourself in the leg by encouraging she keeps communication with the other guy normal..........that's a cap in hand approach


Love is deceiving you..........that I know because you're not ready for marriage yet........it only her beauty that is boosting your attraction to her.


How do guys start a relationship with marriage topics ? I Bet you, you know nothing about her yet

This voyage is very risky.....stop investing in a deal you don't have 60% control over and 95% assurance its yours because whatever that can go wrong always go wrong.

I can relate to 'if i had met you before my wife, i would have married you. SCAM

Petyprincess:
"your face looks familiar"
"if i had met you b4 my wife i would have married you"
Ladies when you hear this two sentences please run for your life!!!

Who con loose RIP though

Strange indeed

Thank you

Liposure:
u are cute

Hi Liposure

Liposure:
hi

So sad. So so sad.