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you may become extreemely h***ny

or hepatitis

he she might have herpes

bread and popocorn! my life!

yea they do! I should know

lol- chair that wont be possible, how can he when he's only attracted to men?

What will happen is all that you've mentioned but it will be his male companion in the nail salon 'queening' himself, . . unno waxin the underparts for the next bedroom adventure . . . . . . .

@saga
I cant wait for the day a man steals your heart,

I also cant see the new insult you've directed at me because my company blocks all media- but i will be sure to check later on. . . . .stay gay dude  

we know. . . . .most of us are just extreeemely idiotic.

Sometime i wish i could just start pushing the dumb ones over the edge. . . . . .*sighs*

@jaybee how did i not see it!

*saga added to 'inthecloset' list*

chaircover please tell them.

they make it sound as if all married women are doing nothing but draining money from their empty pockets. all because of a few celebrity examples. like they compare. . . in any way. . . . . ever *rolls eyes*

do you not just love nigerians? the responses here are the reason im soo addicted to nl! chineke!

@zayhal- the woman is heavily pregnant. . . . . the husband is not. . . . . . thats all actually I have nothing more to add.

@op- you married this man. you deal with it. abi what do you want us to tell you? to pack your bags and leave him? you just run along and carry his baby while he ignores the fact you need attention.

like nigerian accents, when the posh kids speak. . .very loffly! :p

awww @tisabone *hug*

life is only hard on women because we continue to follow the footsteps of women that will lead us to the edge of a cliff.

there are many strong women out there- and when i say strong i dont mean single mothers draggin babies from the tail. I dont see that as strong I see that as a result of poor decision making. - anyways, there are strong women in relationships with succesful careers and families.

If we all strive to be like that rather than chase nuisance men around the world be such a better place!

@harakiri cos it aint trickin if u got it!

saga- the millionaires you are crying for are not complaing. after paying one woman they still go and marry another so it goes to show they are more than fine.

if your wife is richer than you how much can she milk you of during a divorce? if she can milk you at all?

yes yes- you cant hold a decent female, live alone die alone dont marry, do whatever you like just stop blaming women for your issues.

and dont get me wrong, im not saying marriage is the truth way and the light- i don't believe that. the question asks if its worthwhile. To those that hold traditional values yes it will be. But there is nothing wrong with an alternative lifestyle.

The only problem is that rather than admit, most of you cant actually hold a relationship or most of you are undatable. Your shifting the blame claiming women want to steal your money.
If you really believe that then marry someone richer than you. stop lying to yourselves.

Sagamite
All millionaires do not HAVE to date millionaires; did they tell you it bothers them?
Most people partner up with others from the same social background as their own, even a fool knows that. Harvard students marry other Harvard students the list goes on.
None of you here are millionaires yet you keep crying over women that want to steal you pennies.
Now back to the fantasy success you all claim to have, are you trying to tell me you alone are successful in your own little worlds? You don’t have colleagues? You were the only person in your place of education? You alone succeeded in this world? Even a social recluse cannot claim such nonsense.

i dont know what your reading, I do conclude succesful people (in my definition) will be surrounded by like.

Its probably easier for you to believe millionaires only know tramps, of course, since it will give you an excuse to live a lonely pathetic life pretending its due to there being no succesful women.

you can go and dig through journals to further justify this delusion and present them to whomever asks you why your soo lonely and pathetic.

^^ on the basis that our definitions of success will be different yes.

on the point of you asking me whether 'succesful' people will be surrounded by men and women of thier kind. . . . . . really? i mean really? seriously?

op- i really doubt there are any fine men on nl. really doubt it

still water you have said it all! absolutely hit the nail on the head-

[quote author=moremi2008 link=topic=859170.msg10099627#msg10099627 date=1328126919]Spoken like a true golddigger!
Unfortunately, most of the "successful" women around me aren't Nigerian. Marrying a foreigner is a no-go for me

Spoken like a true close minded slowpoke. Well then. Die alone its not difficult.

[quote author=davidylan link=topic=859170.msg10099627#msg10099627 date=1328126919]hmm ok. What were you saying?

Hmmm ok what did you read?

[quote author= coogar link=topic=859170.msg10099627#msg10099627 date=1328126919]are you successful? define successful[/quote]your right, our definitions of success will be different

[quote author=Sagamite link=topic=859170.msg10099627#msg10099627 date=1328126919]Was that a scientific/sociological research[/quote]Probably, if you need to dig deep to utilize common sense.
Again i say, success if different for each of us so I retract my last statement.[/quote][/quote]

Its very obvious none of you are actually that succesful otherwise you wouldnt be surrounded by women that are soo poor the idea of sharing cyber irks you.

And dont even come here talking about kobe bryant im fed up of that nonsense.

Never have i heard that as an excuse not to be married, then again what is nl for if its not to hear such nonsense! Carry on!

erm people have been talking abt stephen p since i joined nl? i swear his last post is from like 5 years ago!

ahh sorry o madamu!

i am JUST finding out that man is half ghanian! I MUST visit that country this year! they CANNOT continue to tease my eyes in such manner! kwasiabilities!

they havent stopped- I hope they make it very clear when seeking a SA visa that religous tolerance is non existent there.


quite sickening really

lmao! lovin it!

o men of nollywood, please show yourselves!

Marriage isnt worth anymore for a woman than it is for a man.

Lets kill that misconception and free women of desperation.

Marriage is for those seeking companionship, those that need extra strength to grow and those that beleive in the institution as a viable way to have children and their own family.

Believe it or not, you cannot have a family with a string of girlfriends. . . . . all you will have is nonsense! lol

So moremi I think you should ask yourself, if you want companionship, Someone to grow with, and a nuclear family that makes sense. Then yes marriage is worth while.

i'm no expert but I will say take your time and don't rush into anything.

Pay attention to men that seek your frienship in place of those that want to rush into a relationship.

Those are normally the men that are no good.

Treat all men that seek a relationship the same way you will a friend, in time you will be comfortable enough to proceed to the next level with whoever is suitable for you.

Take up a nice hobby and try your best to get confident.

@ the title of this thread. . . . . . . . .GBAM!!!

http://madamenoire.com/132601/chile-please-8-signs-youre-not-a-grown-a-woman/8/

I think a lot of women here need to read this :p

ill try a salad. maybe throw some eggs in it

i was about to read- saw bible- saved my time!

this should probably be in the religous section