₦airaland Forum

higgs:
Good but please don't stop there.Lend your considerable influence to the movement by marching with the protesters even if for just an hour

RockyEyo:
Who do you call hoodlums?
The same people fighting for your freedom from oppression?
Doing what you have been afraid to do all while?
All u do is talk... talk they say is cheap, isn’t it?
Let the revolution begin
#NoMoreFear##EndBadGovernance#EndIgnorantGovenance
Enough of a few people in the country feeling they can treat over 200million people as they like
What is it?
Emancipate ur self from mental slavery.......
#IStandWithRevolution

MrLekan95:
Abeg you fit connect me with any menial job within Lagos?
I stay around ogba,
just SSCE cert at hand at the moment...

Thanks.

HajiaNotu:
After this protest.

Lets all get our voters card READY.
Thank God the youths of this country can now see the TRUTH

No voting for APC or PDP...

Never again!!!!!!!!

GreenDee:
Wow thanks,your write up was superb!!

30naira:
On the contrary. When it is legalised, it would be better regulated to avoid these issues

tobechi74:
I see your point. It is a lifestyle.

Marriage is an individual choice and not a collective one. The government has no business regulating how I use my genital.  It is mine and mine alone.  I decide who I choose to get married to . I can decide to share it with a single person or a married person.  It is  my freedom to choose to be a celibate or be married.   While married, I decide with my partner whether to make it open relationship or monogamy.

Marriage is not for everyone. There are people who are happier single. I mean those who are do introverted that they cannot tolerate a very long time without feeling drained. There are people who prefer long distance relationship with few visits and frequent absence rather than continued presence.  those whose high attention sexual urge cannot be satisfied by any one individual. There are others who dislike the boredom of sticking to one  partner scares the hell out of them. Variety is the spice of life.The fun of experimenting with various sizes and  types thrills them. There are yet another group whose need for independence and freedom makes them dislike the idea of  consulting with another before making decision.  There is another group that  love to be in motion. They wake up one morning and decide to relocate to another state only to explore another culture the next year. Traveling is their hobby and getting married with kids hinders that . Settling down is like a death trap. Flowing water is cleaner. Stagnant water attracts mosquitoes and other microorganism.

Human needs are various. the concept of getting married does not fit into their ideal future. They are better off single or in an open relationship. imposing  monogamy marriage on them will choke them. Their partner and children would suffer . Cheating is bound to occur. The fact that cheating still exist means we should question the effectiveness of monogamy and possibility of open marriage.

Investment experts would advice you never to put all your eggs in one basket to mitigate against risk. Economic  expert suggest diversification and not depending on only crude oil. Why don’t we  Apply  the same analogy to our own emotional life.   Risk is mitigated when we stop expecting one person to be our confident, sexual satisfier ,friend, mother of children etc. Can we consider open marriage and celibacy as alternative to monogamy

higgs:
RIP Rashidi Yekini.The greatest striker Nigeria has produced.

emonis88:
U r d fooool. U think with ur arse.

kayrukky:
@op,you are right about what you did. But it would have been better if it can be addressed with the school authority.
Similar things used happen in my children school, it was causing unnecessary competitions among the parents, the school authority have to limit the gifts to be shared in the school to cake and drinks to return to normalcy.
It is not about poverty.

PS: FYI, I pay about 500k per term per child, it is not all about money as so many people are attributing the man’s behavior to poverty.

MrTAnonymous:
Firstly, in no way did I say that prostitution should be legalized because of its age. I only emphasized that it ain't a new profession, it has always been in existence.

Moral system you say? I laugh.

Are you telling me that Nigeria has a good and formidable moral system? The truth is that we shouldn't always use our emotions and moral justifications to make decisions all the time, we need to be logical and stay on the objective side of issues no matter what.

That has always been the difference between the developed countries and the underdeveloped, they don't make decisions based on their emotion or moral justifications rather they work on the more reasonable way out of a problem.

On which model to use and the agencies that are going to be involved.

We can create a model which works for us. We don't need to copy any country's system.

The government can create tippelzone and prostitution legal zones with prostitutes having ID cards this way it will be easier to curb the excesses.

The Government just like the other parts of the world that has already legalized prostitution will sit down and have talks on how to regulate and create
models and agencies to enforce it. Since tax will be involved, funding the agencies won't be a problem.

And just like marijuana was legalized in Canada, people convicted of prostitution related crime will be free to continue working in the industry.

There is nothing to worry about as long as the government creates a tippelzone and create ID cards for the workers and the excesses are curbed.

And on safety and human rights of the sex workers, laws are going to be made for the safety of sex workers and non sex workers. Human rights issues has always been a problem since time immenorial, it can always be curbed.

Thanks for your points.

Incase you don't know na me talk