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PrimadonnaO:
He should have also edited his vows.

A marriage isn't a joke. Fidelity is an EXPLICIT covenant both parties agree to in entering marriage.

pocohantas:
Jealousy is a natural feeling and every woman who eventually got to her break point, once thought she wouldn't mind. Annie Idibia knew who Tuface was, but went ahead to marry him. Only to start fighting him everyday. Same with Natasha his new wife. So it is not about them having a RIGHT to be jealous, it is that jealousy is inevitable and natural.

I don't have a problem with a man cheating. He is an adult with will, just as I am. What I have a problem with, is him expecting me not to express my will by kicking him out of my life.

Understand, not that you've done anything o.
The question is, shouldn't she be more relaxed than other wives in view of her unsolicited pre-marital promises? Does she have a right to be just as possessive and jealous??

Which one of them is the federal lawmaker?

pocohantas:
Your expanded post captured my stand on it. Interestingly they hate when you are unruffled by their cheating. They enjoy being the one in charge of the narrative, while the woman crashes out. I don't joke with my peace of mind and I cannot lose it because I married a man. He has to go work out his salvation away from me.

They keep recycling this topic with hope of convincing us to accept it as normal. We no gree, and they are angry. 😂😂😂

PrimadonnaO:
So much talk about "a man cheats without emotions" to psyche women into accepting a dysfunction as a norm.

I really want your take on this:
Suppose the lady so wants to get married she promises u she wouldn't care what you do as long as she's your wife? And not that you asked her to make this promise o. After marriage does she have a right to get jealous if u as much as say hi to another lady??

Mrexcell:
Come here in delta state and see for yourself this is no joke men from isoko and some parts of uhrobo do die in reality till today u don't joke with ancestral covenants.

But that's a STEWW covenant. The most steww covenant on earth. How on earth is it your fault your wife opens it for another man?? If anything u should be compensated, instead you DIE!!! (And nothing happens to her!). Whoever came up with that ought have been hung up by his balls!

So if your rich husband you depend on 100% go get one unserious side girl so, divorce him immediately? Okay o, me I no understand this "spirituality"

SadiqBabaSani:
😄😄😄😄😄😄 You guys are wicked, what I'm thinking right now

I no understand. How e be wicked when u just dey talk obvious fact?

Sheuns:
What did they say about birds of a feather?

They tend to flock together, especially when the feathers' sameness is mainly due to their corruption

DuttyChuks:
western media propagandas

Western media like BBC below or CNN? Most Western media are liberal and woke and hate Trump, and actually act as propaganda arm of IRGC

Merry100:
Biblically, virginity could be proven, and traditionally the old methods of detection were widely accepted and considered valid in Nigeria and many other societies.

The published studies people often rely on today are not absolute conclusions that are superior or cannot be questioned. Many are based largely on self-reports and populations from foreign countries rather than direct medical evaluation. At the same time, traditional practices such as laying a white cloth to observe first blood after intercourse were also forms of observational conclusions developed from repeated experiences, even if they were not universally accurate. No single narrative can be treated as the absolute and unquestionable standard over every other perspective.

The issue is simply that physical signs are not universal enough to serve as definitive proof in every case because some foreign studies suggest that some women are born without a hymen, some hymens may already be stretched before intercourse, and some naturally appear different.

However, there are still women whose hymen remains intact before intercourse and who experience noticeable physical changes during first-time sex. Therefore, the reality is that there are noticeable signs in some women, while there are no noticeable signs in others.

So whether you personally dislike the term or not, the word "virgin" remains a valid and established concept in language, culture, religion, and human society.

I don't know why you keep using the word "foreign", as if human anatomy is different in Nigeria!
I'm surprised you can't already see that your obsession with "virgin" is irrational. Ancients got many things wrong and female virginity is one of them. The ridiculous thing is that they acted as if a girl who had sex had the sex by herself. No concern whatsoever as to who it was that induced her to have sex or wether she was raped.
Once again, it is impossible to disprove a childless woman who says she's never had sex.
You go with what u can verify. U can verify a woman doesn't sleep around and what sort of family she's from and that ought be enough. If you're obsessed with wether anything happened long ago durring choldhood plays then you're the one who has a psychological issue!

CaptainFM1:
MJ himself copied Manu Dibango of Cameroon.

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/3Zkn-8IDdIg

EXACTLY!!! I WAS JUST ABOUT TO POINT OUT IT WAS FROM RIGHT HERE IN AFRICA!
It was first copied in 1982 by MJ, then in 2007 Rihanna copied it also.
Dibango sued them both, MJ in 1983, Rihanna in 2009. He settled with MJ in 1986, and Rihanna in 2009!

Mattswaggz:
Hahaha.....what triggered the war?.... Zelensky has been there long before this war so tell me again exactly what triggered the war.

Triggered ko, Patricia ni. Putin's objectives were clear and he wasn't hiding them. A certain Nigerian Pastor was among those to be arrested.
"Denazification" and "blitzkrieg" were Putin's language!

Merry100:
If that is how you feel, your feelings are valid. But, I won't avoid using the actual term, which is "virgin," just to make it sound softer. Virginity is a valid word. "Virgin" is not an invalid or meaningless term; it is a standard word used in language, law, Scripture and other religious texts.

Other terms like "chaste" or "abstinent" describe behaviour, while "virgin" traditionally refers to someone who has not engaged in sexual intercourse. They may overlap in some contexts, but they are not identical in meaning.

You go with what u can verify. U can't verify if a woman is a virgin, but you can verify she doesn't have a "reputation"!

Nnamdipapa:
They will be super powers at the end of this conflict thanks to the idio.t Trump.

I that case ANY country can be superpower. Nigeria can become superpower by going to Hormuz or any other passagrway and harassing any ship that trys to get through till Insurance companies refuse to insure.
ANY country can do what Iran is doing. Cable doesn't pass only through Hormuz. Any country can start kidnapping leaders and scientists and threatening to kill them, holding the world at ransom.
Does that make them superpower or TERRORISTS??

Mattswaggz:
Lol....lies.

His main aim was to stop Ukraine from joining NATO and to liberate the donbas region which has been achieved so far......the rest are to solidify the primary aims...for instance if Zelensky is removed a pro Russian or neutral govt will immediately end the war.

This is not something that happened decades ago na. So u can't fool anybody
Do you recall that Putin amassed unbelievable amount of troops at Ukraine border and they started marching towards Kyiv with the aim to arrive within a week, with a list of those to be arrested. It was not meant to be a war or even a months-long conflict.
It was NOT about Donbass. That was 2014
The commenter below replies u well.

mayor1814:
But if u hear IRGC of Iran killed netanyahu, u go believe or netanyahu has grown 38 fingers u go believe


https://x./AJENews/status/2052905368385200331?s=20

Seun, Nlfpmod front page material

Merry100:
"Significant" simply means large enough to be meaningful. It could even be 10 out of 100.

The concept of virginity itself cannot simply be "nullified."

Personally, I believe every woman deserves equal human dignity and should not be reduced to her sexual history. That does not mean people cannot personally choose to remain virgins, identify themselves as virgins, or share their experiences.

If you have an issue with it, deal with it. It did not only appear in dictionaries; it also appears in Scripture. Whether you agree with the concept or not, the term will not cease to exist.

A virgin simply refers to a person who has not engaged in sexual intercourse, regardless of hymen status.

Many men and women will continue to choose abstinence and set themselves apart from sexual intercourse. So the term "virgin" can never be cancelled.

Point is that "virgin" is virtually meaningless in any practical, verifiable, provable sense! Any woman who tells you she's a virgin IS a virgin, unless she has a child or you've seen her with a d*ck inside her.
Better terms are "virtuous", "chaste" "celibate" "abstinent", "continent", etc.
None of these terms is dependent on whether you've ever had sex or not

Mattswaggz:
He has achieve most of his aims(especially the primary ones) and still has the upper hand on the others.

Do you know the meaning of "primary". US primary aim in Iran is have them give up enriching uranium. Putin aim was overthrow of Zelinski and bringing Ukraine into Russia's influence. Instead the opposite happened. Ukraine is even more aligned with the West

HacheNoire:
Call it delusion, the reality you cannot call delusion!

Now countries are optimizing military budget and what is the cause? Kuwait or Qatar!

Did you see the statement of your US defense secretary with regards to optimizing military budgets?

Only you is drowned in emotions. Nations have learnt and moved on. They now ONE $2 million dollar missile is not just worth it!

Floating military platforms now old generation! Just readily available floating targets.

No matter the side you take, always appreciate Iran for redefining warfare! Not that you support them, but appreciating their innovations.

Major delusion indeed. Just compare to Ukraine, Iran is practically finished. US can blockade them and they CAN'T even fire anything that'd hit US ship or their airplanes. Harassing ships trying to cross Hormuz and dumping oil in the Gulf are mere criminal acts that any country can perform

HacheNoire:
Iran taught the world one thing!

At your lowest keep those brains working!

Totally deluded fellow, this guy

HacheNoire:
What weird way?

If the word ended today and status quo maintained, who won?

Putin already captured strategic points he wanted. They only holding on and being defensive to protect those areas, and not seeking more! Ukraine is the one trying to reclaim!

If the war ends today, the map of Ukraine will never remain the same!

You really do have a WEIRD way of reasoning. Read below what Putin's initial objectives were according to BBC and Brookings Institution

HacheNoire:
You think people like Putin care about how many soldiers die? He has captured what he wanted months ago and just holding grounds.

If the war ends today and status quo maintained, who lost and who won?

Trump strangled Ukraine and EU tried but could not match up.

You have a weird way of reasoning

Opportuneke:
Hmmmm
Russia won the war eventually.

DuttyChuks:
Putin my man any day! The other news, iran is dealing with US; they must learn not to fight everybody next time.

tiswell:
Man just needed to taught zelensky a bitter lesson

Get yourselves some education below, from BBC and Brookings institution

kingthreat:
It's okay to act matured and shake hands. But for someone that has constantly vilified your personality online, it would be understandable to refuse his handshake. That's why I like Donald Trump, don't think of even coming close if you mock him.

😅
Trump will say "you're a total disgrace as a human being", and likely try to punch him in the mouth but restrained by aides!🤣

PeterObash:
Dangote buys unrefined fuel then sells refined fuel

Stwwd statement. US also buys unrefined from Nigeria and sells SAME unrefined to Dangote.
What we're asking is why/how?

Merry100:
How did you eyes omit this?
However, medical studies still suggest that when bleeding does occur, it is often linked to physical stretching or small tears of vaginal or hymenal tissue during first intercourse.

This is the common one I have seen people experience. The other ones are what they suggest.

In statistics this is TOTALLY nolified by the statement:
"Significant number of people do not experience bleeding during first intercourse"

kiddaz:
Don't be stwwp and stop deviating. I was only countering the gibberish you Googled. Vaginal virgin= hymen in tact. Wether she's an anal, deepthroat or tribbing queen isn't what we're arguing about. Girls who do that are still considered virgins vaginally. A torn hymen = non virgin

You are the one being totally "stwwp". You just talk off the top of your head. The other guy at least does a semblance of research. See what he himself posted below. That puts an end to the discussion.
Henceforth find another word to use. Don’t "stwwp"ly keep using the word "virgin" as it is virtually meaningless in any practical, verifiable sense!

Merry100:
Many of these studies come from mixed or Western populations, and they show that a significant number of people do not experience bleeding during first intercourse, while some do. This is why bleeding is not considered a reliable or standard indicator.

End of discussion. So henceforth find another word to use. Don’t keep using the word "virgin" as it is virtually meaningless in any practical, verifiable sense. This concludes this discussion.

marcusverum:
Now tell me.
Does a woman with multiple sexual partners
carry zero emotional history from those
encounters?
Does she have no soul ties?
No comparisons she makes in marriage?
No ex she cannot fully let go of?

Does this also apply to men or only to women?

kiddaz:
Drop the cap and Google bs. No hymen no virgin I don't care to know if she lost it during ballet, running or horse riding. The Op made very valid and important points and it's the truth

So if a man has been anal and oral sexing a female for years she remains a virgin but a virgin with a torn hymen is no longer a virgin. You are a real genius

Merry100:
I have never personally come across a woman with such an experience, but I know it exists since it is scientifically documented.

This below is from MedicineNet, a top-doctors-produced health and medical information site. Study it then do further research so you'd no longer unknowingly be making a fool of yourself

Lovelink1991:
Who will you blame, the roommate or the boyfriend who slept with his girlfriend's roommate?

The content creator!😅

*But content has to be created in this age of monetization, so I can't really blame him

EmmaLege:
True just that the media isn't reporting it

Reporting what??
Which STUPID mod keeps pushing pure nonsense to frontpage??

Fredrick010:
Bro code 254
It says Don't date or marry Ur bro sis it an abomination Ur bro sis is also Ur sis we moveeeee

Stuuuuupıd code.
How about your siter is getting older will you still not like your friend marry her??

KingAzubuike:
It's total nonsense.

While some ogas treat their bois well upon completion of their apprenticeship,

Some do directly the opposite. I know someone who was given just 500k after 5 years of loyal service.

It's not all about that money paid at the end

KobolanderSegun:
Not really I'm very successful and I'm very self taught. I even give advice to Fortune 500 companies. Those guys love free advice. From Apple to Microsoft, and so many others my business ideas have been implemented

I hear ya. Kudos.
We are unaware of it but a lot of things are transmitted through osmosis - through prolonged contact. That's why it is crucial to associate with those doing well - even if it means you serving them. That's what boi system gives free of charge. Through prolonged contact the "success gene" is transmitted to a young man

KobolanderSegun:
Whether it's free or paying it bolis down to the same thing. I know a guy who used to train absolute novices in customised fashion for just two weeks and after two weeks they become masters of the trade.

Omo Seven years long o. Just to do rudimentary things it takes seven years.

My guy used to even teach people in just 3 days and they knew everything he knew.

That Seven years is exploitation. Some people will turn you into houseboy because they want to teach you. You will be washing their clothes. Is that what they came to learn ?

That's why boi is NOT regular apprenticeship. You can learn everything you need to know to order and sell building materials from China in one week. Yet no matter the amount you use to start the biz you'd still likely fail!
Reading this below will help you understand some of the dynamics.
We are unaware of it but a lot of things are transmitted through osmosis - through prolonged contact. That's why it is crucial to associate with those doing well - even if it means you serving them. That's what boi system gives free of charge