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TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by quivah(f): 8:33am On May 01, 2017
Kurupt01:
Lucifer is back
Into the Badlands , Billions , Chicago Justice , Silicon Valley continues.
my second favorite after designated survivor.

TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by quivah(f): 8:29am On May 01, 2017
soleexx:
any acction in the series atall??
yes o... it's action filled..
but you can try into the badlands for more action filled series.
RomanceRe: Does 'Playing Hard To Get' Make You Happy? by quivah(f): 8:25am On May 01, 2017
lilmax:
crap
yeah, exactly what defines you and your posts on Nl..
I just did you the honour of resonating what others think of you.
RomanceRe: Does 'Playing Hard To Get' Make You Happy? by quivah(f): 6:52am On May 01, 2017
lilmax:
as far I hurt you back I'm okay with you playing hard to get...... there are many ways to pay back, i don't stress, say no and I'm gone, that's all
this sissy go just dey act like say he sabi anything, nairaland appointed alpha malecheesy
if I knock your head enh, all this yeye for your body go drain.

RomanceRe: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by quivah(f): 7:32am On Apr 30, 2017
Kondomatic:
Lwkmd.

Where do you get these pictures?
some I saved from nairaland, some I got from WhatsApp.
RomanceRe: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by quivah(f): 7:23am On Apr 30, 2017
Kondomatic:
I know everything about you
grin you enh
I'm sure you do

RomanceRe: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by quivah(f): 7:10am On Apr 30, 2017
luminouz:
U sound like a gentle soul n fun to be with but what do I know...u could be vampire or virago! Women!!!!*sighs*
you see, I think it's rather funny when people think they can know another person over what he/she wrote online...esp from one single post.
I like the fact that you were able to caution yourself over what you perceived I could be..
while I know I don't get angry easily or fight back, I also do know am stubborn and introverted. many of my so called friends who give me shits or whatever that I refuse to throw back, also have to put up with some of my bad vices.
so I marvel when people on nairaland are quick to accept your online personality as real.
that's just one side they are showing, or who knows... trying to show!

so I could be gentle, fun to be with, stubborn and introverted,vampire,cool,virago.. I could be anything!! you can never know over my posts on ñl cheesy
RomanceRe: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by quivah(f): 11:11pm On Apr 29, 2017
Jazmiynne:
By the time the in-laws frustrate daylight out of her marriage E go be her like film-trick as the love go take dry.

Love is like a plant, and meant to be tended for it to grow and flourish.
Flowers won't grow in gardens of stone; the ground must be tended.... - Don Williams

Her husband would support her for the first few years (God help her if it's only for months) as E de hot and then slowly but certainly fire wood go cool. And then E go show say blood still de flow wella
His support gan-an would make them hate her more seeing her as a wedge between them and their son.

Why should she bring her children into a world where they are hated by their own family? Because whether she likes it or not, they would be that evil woman's children as far as his family is concerned.

Tell her to ask those whose mother in-laws loved them before the marriage, let them give her the up-and-down gists and then she can think again if this is the life she wants to enter where the mama no hide am say she hate you

I have a friend whose mother-in-law-to-be had to even poison her sef and till today she still de sick

Tell your friend say she fit find another love, but another of this present life to live happily no de o


Any day any man mama tell you wholeha say she no want, try to persuade her but no overdo, if E no work Nne count your losses and waka o. Infact give praises to your God that she displayed the dislike before the marriage

#iCantShout #ItsAlifetimeSomething
correct my sister!!!
leave her make she dey love up and down, e go soon clear for her eye after them don frustrate her life and marriage finish..Na she go pack love comot for window. love wey no dey look face, e go be like film..
it's only a matter of time before the husband falls to the pressure.
in the case of the OP, it's even worse the guy no fit talk to him mama..that one Na man!!
@op make she leave now o...or else hmmmm!

LOVE IS NEVER ENOUGH, it isn't enough!..anyone holding on to toxic relationships or whatever, on the basis of love is rather stupid!!! e go soon clear dust for your eye.. we have all been there, and we know it takes a whole lot more than love to make it work.

RomanceRe: Love Or Parents Which Will You Choose ! by quivah(f):
my mama dey say if your lover's family no give you eye, accept you or respect you.. flee!! love is nothing!! love isn't enough.. love isn't even supposed to be the reason you stay in such relationship. your hubby's attitudes. I.e if he stands for you in cases like this, should be the sole reason why you decide to stay or leave..

but worse off most of these guys in this sort of relationship don't stand up for their girls. after all it's family first!. a typical example is the guy in the OP, with time he might fall to his mum's pressure.

I no sabi talk, I don't know how to fight back..I take every shit thrown at me but all I do is walk away and most times, I don't ever get involved with such a person again. These persons mostly are hostel mates, my 'friends', class mates.. I don't know how to talk back, can't say no, state my displeasure or fight back.. all I do is laugh painfully, or just rub it off..
now imagine,if one gets into a family who doesn't accept you, disrespects you,of course she gets to take all those shits, they get to her, she cries within, self esteem get shattered and even worse the partner doesn't know how to stand up for her, or probably didn't see how his family hurts her.
it's terrible!! but it doesn't stop there.

knowing the kinda person I am, I can never marry someone whose family doesn't accept or respect me. it cant work! and I can't stay with a man whom my mum rejects either. this goes beyond physical, really!! that woman enh!

I think op should tell her friend, to leave aside that yeye love, love that can't make her partner stand up for her... love isn't enough!!! she better be wise.
if her lover can't stand up for her now, he can't stand up for her ever and the maltreatment goes on no matter how hard she tries to earn her mil's respect. Only her hubby can make things work out with his mother, something he is failing woefully at. With time, she won't take it no more, and then she explodes and release all the venom inside of her back at the mil. believe, she's sad her mil to be treats her bad, but believe me more....something deep is growing inside of her too. it's just a matter of time.
have you ever been bullied so hard but you werent too strong to retaliate or you hated to fight back?.. but you feel not only sad that you got bullied, you also feel very angry after each incidence??..but it's all in a matter of time. yeah right, you get my point.
from whence, things get really worse and the marriage/relationship go crashing down.. who gets the Blame? the wife!!

@op, her fight isn't with her lover's mum, it's with her lover.. if he cabt stand up for her, or he's afraid to talk to his mum..it's better she lets go. the woman is feeding on her son's silence, if he just talk to his mum..things will mellow. and it's better he makes his mum realize what he wants, if he waits till marriage before he stands for his wife, believe me, a typical Nigerian woman in this state,would revert back to spiritual uhm uhm. thinking her son has eaten concoction.. you can see how complicated things get.

PS; the ability to say no, state your displeasure in respectable manners, shows some level of your maturity.
she can't fight her in law but she can't take the insults either.

the emboldened is one of my personal development goals.

#modified
FamilyRe: I Was Deceived by quivah(f): 8:52am On Apr 29, 2017
kaboninc:
You and I will live as one.. .

CrimeRe: Uniosun Student Brags About Raping A Girl And Enjoying It by quivah(f): 2:35pm On Apr 28, 2017
Kondomatic:
That's just a stupid facebook status.
joke or not he's very stupid to have posted such a sensitive thing online.
what it actually happened? or you think there's no possibility it could have?. I'm glad many Nigerians are confirming him either it's just a lyrics, a stupid status or it actually happened. there's note'just' about the stats.
anyways, from what I learnt he's at the central police station, island.
CelebritiesRe: Comedian Mummy Ndioha Recreates Celebrity Looks And It's Hilarious by quivah(f): 9:32am On Apr 28, 2017
tsw

RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 9:28am On Apr 28, 2017
Kondomatic:
You will forever be grateful to God if you experience half of what we go tru.





The moniker has been silenced till December 05
since Dec 5 abi

RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 8:29pm On Apr 27, 2017
Kondomatic:
Jesu



How nah.


That's my offline nik o
I'm quite your opposite na, so each time I come across it. I get this heart beat. grin grin
RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 8:13pm On Apr 27, 2017
Kondomatic:
Kondo?
huh
matic cool

tal*** is depressing to my condition angry
RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 7:43pm On Apr 27, 2017
uk10:
yea i meant for herself so that she won't depend solely on the man
very well then.
RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 7:42pm On Apr 27, 2017
Kondomatic:
This is me


gringringringringringrin
oh finally cheesy
I like this better sha
RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 6:37pm On Apr 27, 2017
Kondomatic:
I am not understanding
.
no worry, I'm just trying to connect some dots.
I don't back down easilycheesy
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by quivah(f): 6:32pm On Apr 27, 2017
kingofcasting:
grin and the cowards retreat.
WINNER: the casting crew.
LESSON LEARNT: never start a fight you can't finish.
*Enters shrine with swag*

RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 6:31pm On Apr 27, 2017
uk10:
if u have a problem with what i said ,say it rather than highlight i particular sentence,give ur opinions,abi are u the type that does not want to help their man,besideswhat i meant by small busines is that if u have some skills like sewing etc ilu can always help out and what i meant by blogging is that if ur good socially or u a techy kind of girl u can start up a blog just to help him,pls next time give ur opinions instead of pictures undecided
wait o ..no vex, I thought you meant she sets up a small business for him or help him start a blog.
I for fear! I guess you meant, if she's jobless too, she can start a small business FOR HERSELF or a blog, to support herself so she wouldn't need to ask him for financial helps..
right?
if so, thumb up!
but if you meant, she set up a small business for him then my picture was appropriate.. even worse if she helps him start a blog, then that dude must be either lame, blind or outrightly crazy.
RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 5:36pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
broke guys are a pain in the arse, it's a suffering and smiling relationship.
if you are a Nigerian, you will easily get by.

RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 5:33pm On Apr 27, 2017
Dominicah:
some men like to be dependent on women, always asking from her, those are the ones I warn ladies against.
and ladies that depend solely on men deserve medals abi
RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 5:32pm On Apr 27, 2017
uk10:
it will be better if the girl starts up something to support the man since she knows that he is broke,i don't really like the idea that the girl just extracts money from the broke guy without doing something to help him at least maybe a small business,or some blogging stuff

RomanceRe: What Is The Value Of A Boyfriend That Is Stingy? by quivah(f): 5:28pm On Apr 27, 2017
Kondomatic:
tallesty.
oh oh I SAID IT!!! grin

lipsrsealed still observing wink
BusinessRe: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 11 by quivah(f): 3:40pm On Apr 27, 2017
cheesy cry

Business To BusinessRe: PALM OIL BUSINESS( Productions, Sales and Storage) by quivah(f): 2:44pm On Apr 27, 2017
Peeo:
No spoil my language Abeg ** frowns**
Na ADIAHA. Lol

Anyways, you are on point with the price thingy sir . I dey give discount now sha Cos it's too early for the outrageous increase.
discount bia? how much do you sell?
Business To BusinessRe: PALM OIL BUSINESS( Productions, Sales and Storage) by quivah(f): 2:40pm On Apr 27, 2017
Peeo:
No spoil my language Abeg ** frowns**
Na ADIAHA. Lol

Anyways, you are on point with the price thingy sir . I dey give discount now sha Cos it's too early for the outrageous increase.
discount bia .. how much do you sell?
TV/MoviesRe: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by quivah(f): 11:14am On Apr 27, 2017
omg designated survivor is that bomb!!!!

agent Wells is in trouble!!!
RomanceRe: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by quivah(f): 7:15pm On Apr 26, 2017
Kondomatic:
You are getting it wrong dear.

Too much freedom has its consequences and talking about trust, the cold hearted guys you see are people who trusted too much in the past.

There are places my girlfriend will want to go but if I as a guy have accessed the situation from a guy's perspective and have seen the dangers there, I will tell her not to go and it will become an order if she insists.

There are times I say NO and mean it because I do not want her to get hurt, secondly she will still find a way to blame me if poo happens.
undecided order ko.. other ni!
so you can't simply tell her why she shouldn't go?, I see no reason why you have to order her around. it's up to her to see to your reasons, and it's also up to her to agree with you or not.. if there are dangers around this place you 'ordered' her not to be, then it better be obvious. besides which kind relationship be this wey boyfriend dey order around. she even went ahead, even after the 'order' cheesy that relationship is dead o jere. and I believe Raine is absolutely right!

order?? hahahaha shoooo!
RomanceRe: Her Boyfriend Ordered Her Not To Attend A Party. See What She Did Next - Photos by quivah(f): 7:10pm On Apr 26, 2017
orderedhuh

cheesy cheesy boyfriend feeling funky grin
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by quivah(f): 5:57pm On Apr 26, 2017
udemzy101:
If I buy any phone,before I begin do anything,screen protector must dey am..

that's why I buy tempered glass from noobody before my phone arrive sef..

sorry about that,just buy another tempered glass put to avoid another scenario.
yeah have gotten a tempered glass..
@kondomatic, thanks hon. but those are for rn3 pro. the SE version is about 0.2mm longer.
@princetom1 hi there. thanks, have been around , silent mode smiley
@stormyweather cry see me o.. thanks hon, will get used to it soon.
@davit, shooo! 3k?
anyways I just bought a tempered glass now.thanks
@gptech, weytin happen na cry
@dukeo e sure for you smiley
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by quivah(f): 3:01pm On Apr 26, 2017
melorious4:
Dont tell me u can't get another screen for the phone, what if the whole screen break? Is that going to be the end.
well, I don't know how others with broken screen did it o.. but I can't find the screen replacement.. so using a screen protector at all time is the best o.. mine got dirty so I had to remove it.
dukeo:
That moment the devil opens your file and say "e don wey fvck this lady life up" grin

Hard luck.. Please put your tempered glass back on
hahahah
yes o.. right away. the thing bad sha
davit:
That phone no dey play with fall jareh. But no matter the fall, its screen still works. It is another beast from Xiaomi. Unfortunately, the phone is no longer available in all the online stores.

Better take care of it with care. I have a colour full screen protector available for sale in case you are interested. It is still new. If you use it to cover the screen, no one will know it has been cracked before. I m based in Ikeja, Lagos.
how much biko?? I might be interested

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