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Kurupt01:my second favorite after designated survivor.
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soleexx:yes o... it's action filled.. but you can try into the badlands for more action filled series. |
lilmax:yeah, exactly what defines you and your posts on Nl.. I just did you the honour of resonating what others think of you. |
lilmax:this sissy go just dey act like say he sabi anything, nairaland appointed alpha male ![]() if I knock your head enh, all this yeye for your body go drain.
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Kondomatic:some I saved from nairaland, some I got from WhatsApp. |
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luminouz:you see, I think it's rather funny when people think they can know another person over what he/she wrote online...esp from one single post. I like the fact that you were able to caution yourself over what you perceived I could be.. while I know I don't get angry easily or fight back, I also do know am stubborn and introverted. many of my so called friends who give me shits or whatever that I refuse to throw back, also have to put up with some of my bad vices. so I marvel when people on nairaland are quick to accept your online personality as real. that's just one side they are showing, or who knows... trying to show! so I could be gentle, fun to be with, stubborn and introverted,vampire,cool,virago.. I could be anything!! you can never know over my posts on ñl ![]() |
Jazmiynne:correct my sister!!! leave her make she dey love up and down, e go soon clear for her eye after them don frustrate her life and marriage finish..Na she go pack love comot for window. love wey no dey look face, e go be like film.. it's only a matter of time before the husband falls to the pressure. in the case of the OP, it's even worse the guy no fit talk to him mama..that one Na man!! @op make she leave now o...or else hmmmm! LOVE IS NEVER ENOUGH, it isn't enough!..anyone holding on to toxic relationships or whatever, on the basis of love is rather stupid!!! e go soon clear dust for your eye.. we have all been there, and we know it takes a whole lot more than love to make it work.
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my mama dey say if your lover's family no give you eye, accept you or respect you.. flee!! love is nothing!! love isn't enough.. love isn't even supposed to be the reason you stay in such relationship. your hubby's attitudes. I.e if he stands for you in cases like this, should be the sole reason why you decide to stay or leave.. but worse off most of these guys in this sort of relationship don't stand up for their girls. after all it's family first!. a typical example is the guy in the OP, with time he might fall to his mum's pressure. I no sabi talk, I don't know how to fight back..I take every shit thrown at me but all I do is walk away and most times, I don't ever get involved with such a person again. These persons mostly are hostel mates, my 'friends', class mates.. I don't know how to talk back, can't say no, state my displeasure or fight back.. all I do is laugh painfully, or just rub it off.. now imagine,if one gets into a family who doesn't accept you, disrespects you,of course she gets to take all those shits, they get to her, she cries within, self esteem get shattered and even worse the partner doesn't know how to stand up for her, or probably didn't see how his family hurts her. it's terrible!! but it doesn't stop there. knowing the kinda person I am, I can never marry someone whose family doesn't accept or respect me. it cant work! and I can't stay with a man whom my mum rejects either. this goes beyond physical, really!! that woman enh! I think op should tell her friend, to leave aside that yeye love, love that can't make her partner stand up for her... love isn't enough!!! she better be wise. if her lover can't stand up for her now, he can't stand up for her ever and the maltreatment goes on no matter how hard she tries to earn her mil's respect. Only her hubby can make things work out with his mother, something he is failing woefully at. With time, she won't take it no more, and then she explodes and release all the venom inside of her back at the mil. believe, she's sad her mil to be treats her bad, but believe me more....something deep is growing inside of her too. it's just a matter of time. have you ever been bullied so hard but you werent too strong to retaliate or you hated to fight back?.. but you feel not only sad that you got bullied, you also feel very angry after each incidence??..but it's all in a matter of time. yeah right, you get my point. from whence, things get really worse and the marriage/relationship go crashing down.. who gets the Blame? the wife!! @op, her fight isn't with her lover's mum, it's with her lover.. if he cabt stand up for her, or he's afraid to talk to his mum..it's better she lets go. the woman is feeding on her son's silence, if he just talk to his mum..things will mellow. and it's better he makes his mum realize what he wants, if he waits till marriage before he stands for his wife, believe me, a typical Nigerian woman in this state,would revert back to spiritual uhm uhm. thinking her son has eaten concoction.. you can see how complicated things get. PS; the ability to say no, state your displeasure in respectable manners, shows some level of your maturity. she can't fight her in law but she can't take the insults either. the emboldened is one of my personal development goals. #modified |
kaboninc:
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Kondomatic:joke or not he's very stupid to have posted such a sensitive thing online. what it actually happened? or you think there's no possibility it could have?. I'm glad many Nigerians are confirming him either it's just a lyrics, a stupid status or it actually happened. there's note'just' about the stats. anyways, from what I learnt he's at the central police station, island. |
tsw
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Kondomatic:since Dec 5 abi
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Kondomatic:I'm quite your opposite na, so each time I come across it. I get this heart beat. ![]() |
uk10:very well then. |
Kondomatic:. no worry, I'm just trying to connect some dots. I don't back down easily ![]() |
kingofcasting:
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uk10:wait o ..no vex, I thought you meant she sets up a small business for him or help him start a blog. I for fear! I guess you meant, if she's jobless too, she can start a small business FOR HERSELF or a blog, to support herself so she wouldn't need to ask him for financial helps.. right? if so, thumb up! but if you meant, she set up a small business for him then my picture was appropriate.. even worse if she helps him start a blog, then that dude must be either lame, blind or outrightly crazy. |
Dominicah:if you are a Nigerian, you will easily get by.
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Dominicah:and ladies that depend solely on men deserve medals abi |
uk10:
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Peeo:discount bia? how much do you sell? |
Peeo:discount bia .. how much do you sell? |
omg designated survivor is that bomb!!!! agent Wells is in trouble!!! |
Kondomatic: order ko.. other ni!so you can't simply tell her why she shouldn't go?, I see no reason why you have to order her around. it's up to her to see to your reasons, and it's also up to her to agree with you or not.. if there are dangers around this place you 'ordered' her not to be, then it better be obvious. besides which kind relationship be this wey boyfriend dey order around. she even went ahead, even after the 'order' that relationship is dead o jere. and I believe Raine is absolutely right!order?? hahahaha shoooo! |
ordered boyfriend feeling funky ![]() |
udemzy101:yeah have gotten a tempered glass.. @kondomatic, thanks hon. but those are for rn3 pro. the SE version is about 0.2mm longer. @princetom1 hi there. thanks, have been around , silent mode ![]() @stormyweather @davit, shooo! 3k? anyways I just bought a tempered glass now.thanks @gptech, weytin happen na @dukeo e sure for you ![]() |
melorious4:well, I don't know how others with broken screen did it o.. but I can't find the screen replacement.. so using a screen protector at all time is the best o.. mine got dirty so I had to remove it. dukeo:hahahah yes o.. right away. the thing bad sha davit:how much biko?? I might be interested |
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