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jay bee:
Guess who stabbed her?
Mentally challenged brother in-law.
Stabbed himself afterwards in the flat. Heard he only just arrived in the UK like 3 months before the dreadful thing happened.
May her soul rest in perfect peace

are you serious, WTF

A Nigerian mother, who worked for asylum seekers in Britain, has been stabbed to death in her London home in front of her own children. The victim, who was named as Ayodele Akinsiku, was found a few metres from her front door where she had bled to death after trying to escape from her killer. It is understood that her three young children were inside the home when the murder took place.

The body of a man, who was thought to be the killer, was also found at the scene in Deptford. Police said they were treating the death of the civil servant as murder. The man’s death was officially described as “unexplained.”

Detectives on Friday working on the theory that he had stabbed Mrs. Akinsiku first before turning the knife on himself.

Neighbours of Akinsiku, who lived in a tower block in Evelyn Street, said she was a Christian with three children, aged eight, five and two, and served as a parent governor at Grinling Gibbons Primary School.

Friend, Annette Reid, 34, said Akinsiku dealt with appeals at the Asylum and Immigration Tribunal, and her husband, who was thought to have been out at the time of the killing, had just finished a master’s degree.

Mrs Reid said: “Apparently, there was an altercation the previous night and from what I’ve been told, the man stabbed her and then killed himself.

“She tried to get out of the door but collapsed on the landing. You could see the paramedics trying to resuscitate her. The children saw everything and are very traumatised. That’s what her husband told my husband.”

Mrs. Reid said her friend had previously argued with a man who had been living with the family after moving from Nigeria. Scotland Yard said the man and woman were pronounced dead at the scene at about 8:00 a.m. on Friday.Nigerian Woman Killed In London.


http://www.tribune.com.ng/24102009/news/news4.html

Ujujoan:
See this one! If he wants he could arrange for his lady to travel that weekend you'll be in town!!

I guess you just ahve to trust him on that one! You should also know you are taking a risk. Nothing is guaranteed. That's why you have to go only if you really want to. So you dont end up regretting your decision and blaming yourself!

funny

ceysaga:
Hey! You guyz shld nt crucify me o. I havnt gone yet. But am curious, u knw guys can lie 2 gt wat dey want. What if he is hiding a lady & cms 2 lag 2 c me. I wldnt knw d koko. I dnt wnt 2 waste my precious time wt a 2 timer, am thinkn i shd go cos he calld me last nyte 2 say he'll repay me.

like dat makes any diff

chic2pimp:
She needs to hear a few home truths nah?

true but take am easy on her bf is giving her headache alrdy lol

chic2pimp:
ADMITTING YOU ARE FAT IS THE FIRST STAGE. NOW GO AND LOOSE THE BLOODY WEIGHT AND STOP WHINNING.

baba why nawww

jay bee:
who is leaving who?
dude is not even married to you and def doesn't have any right to threaten you abt the gadamn relationship.
tell him i said he is a jack ass and should leanr how to communicate.

oya bring your fat ass here to come get a pat on the back

haha

oh well
face your wife and your kid which should be your priority right about now

sooooooooooooooooo

yeahhh

jay bee:
^^^^^
why?
chat here. she is happily married

oh oh

chic2pimp:
No be true I talk dia? OR shey u ready for 24/7 woman wahala?

woman be wahala generally either u date/marry/Bleep buddy/friend nd so on lol

chic2pimp:
Omo am too young to be thinking about marriage jare. Abi you no wan make I enjoy life?

haha

Ani Lee:
true. thats what happens in the end,,, i realize they are unmarriable to me kinda bredren,,,, there's always much much more left to be desired but sometimes its for the fun of it  

well you are right

whats d point of dating the person if i can not marry her thats like a waste of time and space init

Rosabelle:
Ah toh. This one we've bought over another womans case and are fighting it. Typical nigerians we all are lol
Meanwhile the owner of the story was left us to be arguing. For all you know, she's there with him now
All this good advice, gone to naught lol

Raindream:
I met him in August and he's been married since April, so still some time to go.

really if you love him and you think that u can hang in there till nxt Arpil/May and see what happens or what do u think cus  u r d one dealing with him and u probably knw him beta

Ujujoan:
LOL   well, I dey to remember God sometimes.

[size=3pt]How've u bin? Ope the wedding plans are coming along fine ?[/size]  

I am ok,,,,,,,,,,wedding plan is not easy especially wen u r not in 9ja but we jus got a planner now so she can take away some of my headaches lol

Ujujoan:
@ r231

No! I'm saying he's not responsible cos he's shifting his responsibilities to her.

Firs of all, he found a good reason not to make the trip so she has to go!

Then he found a reason why he cant give her T/fare or even reimburse, so she should spend her money.

I mean what's next  . . . . .  she has to pay his bride price. Gimme a break!

now dat part is funny but like i was saying we don't knw what she told him whether she agree or not we don't knw so we can really judge him at dis point

Ujujoan:
No! God dosen't complicate issues for us. If he wants you to marry him, he'll sow that seed of love in your heart for him!

Life is filled with choices, but the hardest of them is knowing when to let go. You did the right thing and I dont want you to ever let anybody convince you otherwise.

The worst thing you can do is marry a man you dont want because when the problems come (and beleive me, they will), you'll only be looking for a way out!

didn't knw u r dis religious lol

@Op
you did the right thing for being honest with him cus some pple will jus play along and take him for everything he has dats if he is loaded

well it depends on how long you have been seeing him and how long he has left for the whole paper issue

mayorde:
u avnt said anythin at all. u replies ar vague

you need to grow up 4real now i agree with your girl

Ujujoan:
Hahahaha . .  see this one! You berra go to your village and pick a girl in secondary scholl to marry! Because trust me hun, no educated matured woman is going to sit back while her hubby makes all the decisions relating to their family and their future.

true

You know contrary to popular belief, you guys are not always right when it comes making decisions!

not true

dat you should grow some balls and stop acting like a damm CHILD

whitelexi:
I believe in karma, what u give is what u get returned. . . 

Still the dude is a Arrow!

What were u thinking when u married a club guy? someone who loves the club sooo much that he works there. . .

I only worry about a 6yr old son in the middle of this mess. . . Another street yob to bug me on my way back home from a hard day's job!!!

bros we not all bad o, as much as i see over a thousand women coming in and out of ma club every wknd, I still return home to my one and only it all depends on d individual

Rosabelle:
Me ma, Im looking for the poster.
As to him spending money on a flat, I still dont believe that story.
Very typical story of : my ship is on the high seas!

but you knw there is more to dat story and also we are just assuming here we don't even knw what she told him wen he asked her to come down

Ujujoan:
Without being told, I can tell he has never bought her even 100 naira card. Infact I'm sure he flashes her and expects her to call back. You prolly think she should pay because there's a chance he'll marry her. In order words, she should pay IF she want him to marry her! LOL! You guys are unbeleivable!!

You are talking about shopping, let's pray he dosent expect her to pay for ther meals when she gets thare. This one he's already crying broke! LOL

how do you know all this lol

where is dis girl anywayz cus i am sure there are lots of question here dat needs to be answered.

@uju
so are you saying the guy is not responsible cus he spent all his money to get a flat and can't afford to give here transport money. At least he explained himself

nope