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My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by fatjulie: 3:30pm On Oct 26, 2009
please help, my boyfriend said it either i get slim or i leave
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by Nobody: 3:32pm On Oct 26, 2009
Did you gain weight during the course of your relationship? Your bfs approach is very cruel and nasty instead of criticising you, he should be helping and supporting you.
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by MissyB1(m): 3:32pm On Oct 26, 2009
Do what is right for You and not just Your bf.
If You're TOO fat . . . . .Do away with some flesh.
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by jaybee3(m): 3:34pm On Oct 26, 2009
fatjulie:

please help, my boyfriend said it either i get slim or i leave
who is leaving who?
dude is not even married to you and def doesn't have any right to threaten you abt the gadamn relationship.
tell him i said he is a jack ass and should leanr how to communicate.

oya bring your fat ass here to come get a pat on the back cool
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by r231(m): 3:37pm On Oct 26, 2009
jay bee:

who is leaving who?
dude is not even married to you and def doesn't have any right to threaten you abt the gadamn relationship.
tell him i said he is a jack ass and should leanr how to communicate.

oya bring your fat ass here to come get a pat on the back cool

haha grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by facibabe(f): 3:38pm On Oct 26, 2009
is this guy after your body or love. lady if you really wish to slim down then you can go for some exercise but if u like the way you are then you have to look for someone that will like and love you the way you are and if you love this guy you are writing about then you can loss some weight so both of you can enjoy the relationship
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by justwise(m): 3:41pm On Oct 26, 2009
Ebonyeyes:

Did you gain weight during the course of your relationship? Your bfs approach is very cruel and nasty instead of criticising you, he should be helping and supporting you.

Have to agree with u, he needs to support her, then slagging her off.
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by chic2pimp(m): 3:41pm On Oct 26, 2009
Missy B:

Do what is right for You and not just Your bf.
If You're TOO fat . . . . .Do away with some flesh.
I couldn't have said it any better.
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by Ben13: 3:44pm On Oct 26, 2009
lol MissyB says ' do away with some flesh' grin
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by AniLee(f): 3:45pm On Oct 26, 2009
i dont mind his choice of words. Sometimes, the harsher the words, the closer to reality we are brought to and the more we are imposed to take action. Lose weight for yourself dear, not for him or any one else. Remember its your HEALTH hey.
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by fatjulie: 3:48pm On Oct 26, 2009
i wasnt this fat before the relationship started, i was plump
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by Pharoh: 3:49pm On Oct 26, 2009
I don't support the threat part but if you want to you should do because of yourself and not for him. But its good to bring out issues like this instead of suffering in silence because of ideas like 10 things you should not say to a lady  grin
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by MissyB1(m): 3:50pm On Oct 26, 2009
Ebonyeyes:

Did you gain weight during the course of your relationship? Your bfs approach is very cruel and nasty instead of criticising you, he should be helping and supporting you.
The way NLanders jump into conclusion is so funny.
Do You realise there are 2 sides to the story and
he prolly didn't say it in a mean way?
He should help her get fat? Ebony ehhhhh cheesy

Ani Lee:

i dont mind his choice of words. Sometimes, the harsher the words, the closer to reality we are brought to and the more we are imposed to take action
.Lose weight for yourself dear, not for him or any one else. Remember its your HEALTH hey.

Thank You!
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by Nobody: 3:52pm On Oct 26, 2009
Hmmmmn! Na wa oh! undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by whitelexi(m): 3:53pm On Oct 26, 2009
Lose the weight or vamoooooose! grin grin tongue
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by AniLee(f): 3:53pm On Oct 26, 2009
fatjulie:

i wasnt this fat before the relationship started, i was plump

Ok i hope dat aint a justification but an answer to what was asked. Well, in any case, you have to shed off some of that fat, cause girl you know like we all do, being overweight comes with its fair share of risks as compared to being fit or within your normal BMI,
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by Ben13: 3:54pm On Oct 26, 2009
whitelexi:

Lose the weight or vamoooooose! grin grin tongue

The boyfriend knows what he has seen lately grin
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by chic2pimp(m): 4:12pm On Oct 26, 2009
whitelexi:

Lose the weight or vamoooooose! grin grin tongue
Abi ooo. Na who wan carry fatso for house cheesy grin
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by ichommy(m): 4:15pm On Oct 26, 2009
even your USERNAME PROOF IT LOL grin
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by iz2much: 4:19pm On Oct 26, 2009
ichommy:

even your USERNAME PROOF IT LOL grin

i 4 say
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by Nobody: 4:26pm On Oct 26, 2009
LEXI, YOU AINT EXACTLY TYRESE FIT YOURSELF undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by walestar2(m): 4:29pm On Oct 26, 2009
Your husband prefer Lepa to bad to Orobo to bad and he has probably telling you with style to leave
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by Ben13: 4:32pm On Oct 26, 2009
wink
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by whitelexi(m): 4:35pm On Oct 26, 2009
Ebonyeyes:

LEXI, YOU AINT EXACTLY TYRESE FIT YOURSELF undecided

AT LEAST I SHOW MYSELF, U NKO? HOW WE GO KNOW SAY U NO BE ONE YOKOZUNA SEF??
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by AniLee(f): 4:36pm On Oct 26, 2009
Ebonyeyes:

LEXI, YOU AINT EXACTLY TYRESE FIT YOURSELF undecided

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin dats just cold @ebony

cheesy didnt knw ppl still rememba dat bredren
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by AniLee(f): 4:38pm On Oct 26, 2009
whitelexi:

AT LEAST I SHOW MYSELF, U NKO? HOW WE GO KNOW SAY U NO BE ONE YOKOZUNA SEF??

Commandment #1: Defend thyself with all thy might. grin grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by jaybee3(m): 4:43pm On Oct 26, 2009
Ebonyeyes:

LEXI, YOU AINT EXACTLY TYRESE FIT YOURSELF undecided
He ain't tyrese but he sure has the lyrics to rival even the best.
go lexy go lexy go cool
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by yme1(f): 4:47pm On Oct 26, 2009
if he is dumping you because you are fat,then he is not worth having you as a gf
just do what is right dear, burn that fat no matter what wink
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by jaybee3(m): 4:48pm On Oct 26, 2009
my one and only YME is voluptuous and i lover her like dat? init though tongue
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by Nobody: 4:50pm On Oct 26, 2009
whitelexi:

AT LEAST I SHOW MYSELF, U NKO? HOW WE GO KNOW SAY U NO BE ONE YOKOZUNA SEF??

Im not claiming to be a perfect creature wink. You cant start shouting at someone to lose weight when you look like you should drop the fork yourself wink

jay bee:

He ain't tyrese but he sure has the lyrics to rival even the best.
go lexy go lexy go  cool

You mean the lyrics he plagiarises from the internet? Woopeedeedoo grin

Ani Lee:

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin dats just cold @ebony

cheesy didnt knw ppl still rememba dat bredren


I believe if a man doesnt look like tyrese with little to no fat content on him, he has no right to critisise a woman's weight.
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by redsky1: 4:52pm On Oct 26, 2009
is this man ur husband - abeg if he can't love you for you then move on to someone better - i made this mistake many many years ago startving myself cos my ex told me he doesn't like fat women and that if i put on weight it means he would have to cheat (meanwhile my dear i was a UK size 8/10 at the time) he still cheated and is still useless

me i'm happily married to someone who loves me for me fat or slim o!

abeg if you want to lose weight do it for yourself - if u do it for a man u will not be happy
Re: My Boyfriend Said Am Too Fat by jaybee3(m): 4:52pm On Oct 26, 2009
@ebony larv
I'm sure it was all jokes.
oya kiss and make up. no fighting.

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