₦airaland Forum

anonimi:
....and INFERIORITY complex of the mentally LAZY black man who nevertheless is EQUALLY intelligent as the white man.

BTW the 'oyinbo' in the picture appears to be a Kora or yellow man!!!

Yes he looks asian

BlackBaron:
Oyibo on lastma motorbike makes front page.

Are they a royal species of Man who are not to be seen or ride on motorbikes ?

I do not understand ooh... Its not a big deal!

agarawu23:
If the person na black, that lastma will not carry him/her.

I don't know when we Nigerians will stop taking oyinbo ppl like 'god'. But they don't give a damn about you when 'you' come to their country.

Nonsense

or maybe the oyinbo man and lastma are friends / know each other. Sometimes its not about race. Have you seen a lastma who owns a bike turn down someone for a bike ride because they're black?

I think we are grasping at straws here!

Nairaland keeps encouraging racism against the few immigrants to come to Nigeria! Its not good at all

Raymondenyi:
and how can we help?

No need for your help, I'm just updating my thread.

hilaomo:
...see your big lips as a result of your lie,ruka,take your time.

why should I lie on nairaland.?

I took the foreign Job and I started today.

Thanks guys!!

dBard:
Not as rare as u think, actually quite common.
Financial projects doesn't just mean lands/housing but every project needing major monetary commitment...and from that viewpoint, u find a lot of women do that.


@o.p, the ' Why' may be varied, but I guess it has to do a lot with the innate 'false' sense of responsibility towards family(hers) and friends, pride and insecurity....
As well as that Pressing Need to always have something a secret.

Don't know sha...but neither will our self righteous women come here to speak d truth.

#justsaying

please give examples of major financial projects

Policewoman:
Sowing seed for a husband in my opinion depends on the condition.

It is neither here nor there. All my fellow ladies condeming then should wait till menopause starts knocking while you are unmarried.

Unless of course you made up your mind to be a spinster for lyf.

Exactly, I don' see whats wrong with helping your husband financially.

tayediggss:
She didn't say anything about career, she said she would rather remain single than marry someone who thinks he is doing her a favor by marrying her. If you are marrying someone it should be out of love and genuine respect.

This is very sweet!

rman:
Of course there is nothing wrong online. In real life, they are sad and lonely no matter other achievement. If you are indeed close to any in real life, they will tell you the truth. Dem plenty for my organization.

What organization is that?

inestimableChic:
pls stp quoting him. Ure ova doin it.

so you have logged back with your other account.

Jollyjoy:
are you serious Infact by the time you clock 29 and you are still single it then u will understand the true meaning of depression.

Well, that is if your life goal is to get married at 29.

STFUareyouGod:
are you dumb? Yes or No?

No I am not dumb.

Why do you think I am?

profojah:
Your lips eehn, my friend beside me said its like one chik's pvssy he used to gbensh

I am glad that I give you and your friend something to talk about!

rman:
The same mentality that is making a lot of ladies unmarried at 35. Make una keep preaching independence while time ticks away.

At a certain age, women needs the family setting more than men. It is how it is, forming strong and independent online changes nothing.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with an unmarried woman at 35. If she is happy with her life choices and decisions, what is your business?

STFUareyouGod:
Cuz you are

How do you know this??

STFUareyouGod:
it means 'stop quoting me pls'

Answer my question, Why am I dumb?

BiggyB242:
lol you still you middle twenties or probably younger when you on your thirties you go understand

What age is there? This is the typical nairaland response. You are not old enough to know anything..

The poster is right.

Marriage is a choice and a huge life commitment. You don't just get married because you are getting old. You have to check that you are marrying the right man/woman.

STFUareyouGod:
Good night

It 8:12PM in Nigeria now.. Do you usually go to bed this early?

Dottore:
Single ladies don suffer

As in ehn... We don't view them as human beings anymore on this site.

yanabasee:
It baffles me how this girls think diz days!

Look, OP, if a man is worth keeping, then you should work hard to keep him....

A friend will say, if I work hard to ensure that my woman isn't gonna be taken away from me from other men... Then my woman should also work hard to keep me to herself so that other women won't take me away from her.

You ladies should ask Urselves questions... What kindaf seed are u sowing on ur man's body?

-Nagging seed?
-Cheating seed?
-Quarrelling seed?
-Imposing seed?
-Arrogant seed?
-Self Important seed?

Ask yourself!

The typical women are always nagging, quarrelling,blah,blah,blah post... What has this got to do with anything?

When we have a post that seeks to enlighten women or a post against domestic violence against women.. You bring up this rhetoric!

STFUareyouGod:
who are you pls?

You don't know who I am but yet you claim I'm dumb??

STFUareyouGod:
I don't think you are dumb. It's obvious, YOU ARE DUMB! ONly a _dumbass wouldn't notice

what makes it obvious...

STFUareyouGod:
Maybe I am

You are actually dumber than I though
Goodnight

why do you think I am dumb

STFUareyouGod:
what's this one saying? She hasn't even seen my pic. I've not put my pic up. So don't you thing something is wrong somewhere?

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Yes there is.. you are probably running both accounts

STFUareyouGod:

your head must be swelling now!

Its weird that this moniker that wants to be your gf was just created today and only post is about you..

ultrazone:
I have quite some examples around me. Though this question goes both ways, It feels awkward when I hear about a wife who completed a personal house without her partner even knowing she owns a piece of land. You come across businesses owned by married women without the awareness of the spouses.

Whether it is right or wrong is not as important to me as the reasons that motivated such step.

Have you done this before? Do you know someone in this act? What do you think is your/their reason?

I'm waiting for inputs from everyone, especially our married folks. Thanks.

You are watching too much Nigerian movie. This situation you mention is very very rare.
If a couple is in a loving marriage, its difficult for such to occur.
Building a house in Nigeria is no piece of cake. You make lots of call, plenty sites visits, spend a lot of money... list goes on. A CARING husband will notice.

The only way a wife would do what you said is if the marriage is already in trouble.