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Dissap:
Yo ma niggar. Sup!
I saw dah shit mehn, but I no read am...
So fvcking cheap story mehn, ha ha ha! u understand me? Yo that's ma hommie there!
But if the writer wanna fvck, imma help am, b*tches are getting scarce these days mehn, damn!
Op ,Rabbi4real, if u be a b*tche, dm me, let's play mehn, imma fvck u real hard. Yeah, let's do this! Imma fvck ya like a cholo! Ha ha ha! So funny n slippy, damn!
And to you, ma hommie, EzegeNdiigbo, relax mehn, imma see ya around!

I am shaking as I write this. I feel like my whole world just got tumbled under me. I need to know that I am not dreaming cos I do not know how Jide (we choose to give a fake name) could be so cruel. I have no need to keep this anonymous...if you like...do whatever you like...just post this cos I want to expose this wickedness of a man called Jide.

Jide ...my boyfriend of two and a half years of love and planning and praying decided to do the dumbest thing to hurt me: he proposed to a side chic or whatever a couple of hours ago...leaving me wondering if all of these is just a bad dream. I cannot even pick up my phone cos everyone is trying to call me to see if I am aware that the man of my dreams just put a bullet in my heart.

No joke o....its still on his whatsapp status as I write this...he is engaged to this b*tch...oh my God...oh my God...what did I do to deserve this? Jide and I had a great relationship for two and a half years. Everyone knew he and I were together. We started planning our introduction and wedding this year. We have looked at wedding gowns and tuxedos online together...

We have checked wedding venues...I have been cutting pictures of wedding cakes, bridesmaids...everything in my file. I never knew this guy was planning evil for me. If anything, I was looking forward to today, being valentine to do some lovely things together. 

Jide is my prayer partner...my soul mate...he is my everything...I only wish I was smarter. I only wish I saw this coming. Now, this same man that I have dreamed of spending the rest of my life with is posting pictures of his engagement with another chick on Instagram.

My story is messy...yes...I got...


https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/15/my-fiance-just-proposed-to-a-random-girl-on-valentines-day-pls-advise/

hmnnn

tonyson010:
Good.

It is as if having sex without protection.

Good evening Ma,

please keep me anonymous thank you...I had a baby while i was still young and naive and i had to stay with the father I'm 24 now and my baby is 4 years old..While i was pregnant he wanted to pay my bride price but in my tradition it's a taboo to do that when a woman is pregnant..We had to live together,,Ma I'm deeply in love with him,but he has serious anger issue and feels too entitled,he feels he knows it all even though he's very smart and intelligent...For some years now i haven't had peace of mind

I've lost my sanity Aunty... see ehn I'm a very beautiful young girl,Smart, Tall, Intelligent i don't want to name but i don't know what love has turned me into I'm even feeling i have Bp my whole life is bored, I'm just existing...I made up my mind and...


https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/14/22109/

SmellySperm:
good riddance

hmnnn

That right!

Angelluvy:
Without talking his wife down in your presence, how can he gain your confidence?



Don't mind them, they're just lieing.

Besides, a man who calls his wife those hurible names, is incapable of geniue love.

hmnnn

tobechi74:
A woman can take used condom from a man dustbin and insert it in her self artificially, if she gets pregnant, man must pay for child support.

That is what women do to rich men is that not worse ?

cassidy1996:
monkey

A lady has leaked her chat with a married man who is asking her out, and vowed to give her anything she wants if she accepts to date him.

From the chat, the man in a bid to convince the young lady to accept his proposal regardless of his marital status stated that marriage is just a title and doesn’t stop a man from having an affair with another woman.

Reacting when the lady noted that he recently got married to his wife and she’s expecting his baby, he described his wife as a pandemic.

In his words, “Marriage is just a title, and it doesn’t change anything. I still want you n I’m ready to give you the luxurious life. My wife is a pandemic”.

The married man claimed to be deeply in love with the single lady and vowed to give her whatever her heart desires if she accepts him into her life.

See the chat below:

https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/13/my-wife-is-another-pandemic-married-man-gives-reason-for-cheating-on-his-wife/

adontcare:
Rubbish

Hello madam,

I just need a quick advise on my relationship. I am in love with someone that I think is the best man in the world. I just need to know one thing about him. I think he is keeping a secret from me.

We met while attending a conference in Dubai. We started dating a month later.
Today we are engaged to be married after two years of dating. The problem is: he is estranged from his family. He comes from a big political family and he is completely cut off from them. He told me there was a fall out with his family especially his father. His mother is late,she was the first wife to his father.

My fiancé has never told me the full reason for the break up with his family. I know that whatever it is....is so deep that the only family that he talks to is his elder sister and that one is in the UK. We speak from time to time but when I asked her why her brother is cut off from their family,he is like,do not go there my dear.

So...I let things be out of respect for him. But when he made his intentions known to my family about marrying me...my dad insisted on his family being a part of the marriage planning. I begged my dad to let it go cos its something that my fiancé may even break up with me for if we insist.

That made my dad...


https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/13/how-i-discovered-my-fiance-secret-an-affair-with-his-step-mother-pls-advis/

doggedfighter:
Amateur blogger.

Is this all you can come up with?

Hello,

Kindly keep my identity.

Five years ago, my girlfriend got pregnant for me but I refused the pregnancy because I couldn't shoulder the responsibility, secondly because I had found out 3month prior that she was cheating, she was sorry and we gave the relationship another go even though I wasn't fully sure she was all mine, for this reason, I wasn't sure if I was responsible for the pregnancy.

She aborted the baby eventually with severe complications and the doctor said her chances of having a baby is quite slim, she swore that I'd never have a child if I married someone else apart from her and my marriage will never know peace.

I got married to some else a year later and 3weeks into my marriage, we had started.....


https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/12/my-past-mistake-is-threatening-my-marriage-and-my-ex-future/

hmnnn

Women...they are such mysterious creatures and God knows they have always been the downfall of men right from the time of Adam and Eve. What can I say or do in this situation? Please read with open mind...I am not trying to condemn anyone cos I am not a saint but I need your advise cos I feel somehow about this.

So it goes like this: I am in a relationship with Soma (not real name) . We are actually engaged to be married in a couple of months. But last month, my ex girlfriend who got married to a Lebanese reached out to me that she and her husband are in SA for a two week business meeting and she would like to visit me during their stay.

I was surprised she would suggest that cos she is married and I told her I was engaged too. She then said her husband would like to meet me cos he has heard so much about me and that I am investment expert. Her husband would like to do some business with me. I said alright.

When they came two week later, they invited me...


https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/12/my-ex-is-threatening-to-show-my-fiancee-our-sx-tape-pls-advise/

California Assembly Bill 453 would make stealthing a crime punishable by law if passed.

Stealthing refers to the act of removing a condom without your partner’s knowledge or consent.

While it is a known form of sexual assault, no existing state or federal laws prohibit stealthing.

A new bill could make California the first state in the US to make stealthing – removing a condom without a person’s consent – illegal.

If passed, AB 453 would categorize stealthing as a form of sexual battery and allow survivors to sue for emotional and physical damages.

The bill would amend the state definition of sexual battery to include a person “who causes contact between a penis, from which a condom has been removed, and the intimate part of another who did not verbally consent to the condom being removed.”

Assemblywoman Cristina Garcia (D-Bell Gardens) told the Los Angeles Times that, while stealthing has been an existing problem, it has gone unrecognized legally because of its covert nature.

“It’s been going on for awhile. There’s blogs online that are helping individuals, teaching them how to get away with this,” Garcia told the Los Angeles Times. “We need to be able to call it what it is in order to be able to deter behavior.”

Stealthing has been a problem for years, but is only just being discussed in the mainstream

Stealthing has gotten more attention in recent years because of its increased visibility on popular shows like “I May Destroy You.” Written by Michaela Coel, the show was lauded for addressing less recognized instances of sexual assault like stealthing as what they are: assault.

However, stealthing has existed for years with little recognition as a growing problem.

A 2017 report published in the Columbia Journal of Gender and Law found stealthing is a trend in sexual assault that is on the rise, as more people report it has happened to them. A 2018 study by researchers at the Melbourne Sexual Health Centre found one in three women and one in five men who have s*x with men report being stealthed during s*x.

“Survivors [of stealthing] describe non-consensual condom removal as a threat to their bodily agency and as a dignitary harm,” Columbia report author Alexandra Brodsky told the Independent in 2017. “‘You have no right to make your own sexual decisions,’ they are told. ‘You are not worthy of my consideration.'”

https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/11/california-may-make-it-illegal-to-remove-a-condom-without-consent/

From my inbox

Sorry for coming to your inbox, pls post and hide my ID and notify me.

I have this strong habit of anger it’s uncontrollable and it’s controlling me I have tried to stop It maybe it’s part of me I don’t know I’ve come to hate myself for it because it has taken over me it’s also ruining my relationship i always talk to my partner carelessly all because of it.. it’s not intensional maybe it’s my life but it’s bad�.

AM blessed with a faithful young man we are getting married soon my attitude of anger is eating him up he complains of it whenever I start.. I unintentionally react over little thing, I get angry easily and later I regret my actions.. he keeps complaining over it thou he has been bearing it and hoping I will stop it but I think he’s getting tired of such attitude he complained that it’s getting out of hand because sometimes it makes me embarrass him in...

https://livelystones.ng/.../my-uncontrollably-temper-is.../

It was the summer of 2014. I was at a music festival in Brooklyn with some friends, and couldn’t wait in the enormous lines for the port-a-potties. We spotted a firehouse across the street and dashed over, hoping they’d let us use the bathroom. It was a moment worthy of a sitcom — not only did the firefighters on duty say yes, but they were ridiculously good-looking and asked us to stick around to play pool. We couldn’t resist.

When the alarm went off, the firefighter I’d been flirting with — let’s call him Martin — jumped into his gear and onto the fire truck, sirens blazing. He told me he’d see me soon, and I melted into a pile onto the floor. Martin was the kind of hot where the New York City Firefighters Calendar asked to photograph him every year, but he didn’t take them up on it, because he said he was too timid. He was the kind of hot that was simply too hot for me to handle.

Martin and I never dated seriously, but we saw each other regularly for months: We’d shoot pool and down shots of whiskey, never shying away from PDA. We had sleepovers several times a week and were even photographed arm-in-arm at an event together by a party photographer. He came to my house crying when.....

https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/10/how-i-finally-forgave-myself-for-being-an-unintentional-mistress/

kiddkash:
what style did your Ex give you

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Good day ma'am,

Please hide my identity. I need your advise please. I was in a relationship with someone during my first year in the university. He was actually in final year while I was in year one. I can say he was my one true love. We met in the campus fellowship ...he and I became very good friends.

Towards the end of his final year,he made his intentions of love to me. I also loved him. His family wanted him to go do his master abroad immediately after final year. Because of that,he wanted to make love to me...I was a virgin and he wanted to seal our love before he travelled out.

I refused initially but he made it look like I did not love him enough so I gave in and he took my virginity.

After that, he gave me postinor to avoid getting pregnant. I cried when he was leaving and we kept in touch on phone and social media after he travelled. He always confessed his love for me all these time.

Until I discovered I was pregnant three months after he left. I almost died from shock. I took drugs so how come I got pregnant. He too was shocked ...he then told me to abort the baby cos he is not sure he is the one. He insisted that he gave me postinor and there is no way he is responsible for the pregnancy.

That really broke me cos I have never slept with anyone ever after him. Long story short, he...



https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/10/i-am-having-sx-with-my-ex-in-my-dreams-what-does-this-mean/

A woman named Loretta Eloho Ogbemi was kidnapped on Saturday, Feb 6, and loved ones are asking for help to find her.


According to posts shared by friends online, Loretta was kidnapped at gunpoint last Saturday and hasn’t been seen or heard from since then.

Friends ask for help in finding missing young woman kidnapped at gunpoint in Bayelsa state

She had gone to work on that day at Biogbolo, Yenegoa, where she was kidnapped.

Emeka Felix, a friend of the missing woman tweeted: “Please guys, I need help finding my friend Loretta Eloho, she was kidnapped on the 6th of February and her family is in disarray right now… Loretta is a sweet soul that doesn’t deserve this. Please any info, help, RT, anything please!! #HelpFindLoretta.”


Responding, the Nigerian Police Complaint Response Unit wrote: “We sympathise with you, Please kindly go to nearest police station to lodge this Complaint. Thank you for contacting NPF-CRU. #PoliceCares.”






Source: https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/09/friends-ask-for-help-in-finding-missing-young-woman-kidnapped-at-gunpoint-in-bayelsa-state/

Yes oohhhh!

Isaacetim19:
fresh

hmnnn

cooooooks:
Why was she with someone for 9 abortions?

She followed a NFA man, started doing abortions for him and just never stopped??

I know that even as early as Primary 4, the Nigerian education curriculum teaches about the dangers of childhood pregnancy and abortions.


We have an epidemic of non-marriage children, drugs, under-education, hopelessness, etc. This country frightens me.

10 pre-intimacy Tips for the Best Sex Ever, According to Experts
If you and your partner jump right to s*x these days, let me remind you what you’ve been missing out on. Many activities other than vaginal s*x are completely fulfilling all on their own, like oral s*x or genital stimulation using hands or toys.
“Skipping right to vaginal s*x means you are missing out on the myriad of pleasures that you and your partners’ bodies can experience,” says Robin Milhausen, PhD, s*x researcher and professor at the University of Guelph in Ontario, Canada. “And vaginal s*x tends to be organized around male sexuality, with the end of s*x symbolized by the male orgasm.”

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For women specifically, Dr. Milhausen says that research by Debbi Herbenick, PhD, and colleagues at Indiana University found that women’s experiences of an orgasm were associated with engaging in more s*xual activities (i.e., manual stimulation, oral s*x) rather than vaginal s*x alone.

Though pre-intimacy can be the main event of your intimate time with your partner, it can also enhance your s*xual experience if you do plan to finish everything out with genital intercourse. “If folks are having vaginal s*x and they want to amplify the sensation and pleasure they get from engaging in that activity, adding in other activities before and during s*x can do that,” Dr. Milhausen says. “My own research with university students and midlife adults suggests that spending about 15 minutes on other activities before penetration is associated with higher pleasure ratings of the s*x.”

All in all, for those having s*x, Dr. Milhausen says that “extending a s*xual encounter by engaging in a variety of activities can make the whole experience more fun, exciting, and pleasurable.” So, the next time you’re ready to get it on with your partner, don’t forget to build up the excitement with pre-intimacy. And if you aren’t sure where to start, here are some expert tips for amazing, hot pre-intimacy......

https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/01/10-pre-intimacy-tips-for-the-best-sex-ever-according-to-experts/

HRHQueenPhil:
Fake story

Share This Story


Please keep me anonymous

I really need advice. I am this guy who has run so many things in this world(smoke, drink, jazz, s*x etc)

But Allah found me and I became religious suddenly and many people see me as an extremist. I met this lady who is older than me through a referral for business and suddenly love thing started with us meanwhile I have been single for a while and so also is she.

We had lots of video calls conversation until I decided to go meet her in Lagos. We talked and few days later, she said yes and I was happy. Little did I know she didn't attach emotions to the yes. She is 4 years older than me and I have a small stature that doesn't align with my age. I guess i didn't meet her expectations in height and body shape.

Then, we started the relationship based on likeness from her end hoping she will see the true love I have for her and things would change. Dec 25th came and I posted I can't say Merry Xmas to anyone and she took it all out that I hate Christians (she is a Muslim) but have lots of Christian friends. She made me understand and I apologized. We moved on but conversation dropped then.

The more the conversation reduces, the more I think negatively until recently I went to her in Lagos to say hello. And spend the weekend. She took work more important than relationship and I don't care coz I was hoping things would change. Long story short, she told me God gave her what she wanted in a....


https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/08/help-my-girlfriend-wants-to-break-up-with-me-because-of-my-looks/

MickzyDonald:
It's well,but that's like a consequence to what you did,marry the one you truly love

Please hide my identity. I have been married for 5 years now. I am not happy in my marriage at all. I actually got married out of necessity.

I finished my WAEC in the village for over 4 years and no hope for the future. My parents wanted me to marry someone, maybe a farmer in the village but I knew that would mean I would continue to suffer so when this guy that came home from Lagos for Christmas toasted me, I agreed and intentionally got pregnant so that he will marry me and take me to Lagos.

He lied to me that he had a big job in Lagos but he is a Keke Driver and a love-vendor. Things have been very hard for us cos he does not always have money. He gambles alot...I am a hard worker. I got a job in a nursery school where I teach, I get paid 18k every month. I also sell petty food stuff in front of our house just to make sure we do not die of hunger.

Even though I grew up in village, I loved to read and its my dream to further my education one day. I also know that I do not love my husband...I only married him to get out of the village. This man is crude...he does not take care of me or our children. All he wants is his food when he returns and s*x everyday. If I refuse,he goes out to sleep with prostitutes.

I have two children. I am miserable cos I am really working hard everyday to raise them by myself. My husband is not providing or caring at all. I see how other young women of my age(I am 22) are being treated by their boyfriend and lovers and husband and I regret...


https://livelystones.ng/2021/02/05/i-am-tired-of-fighting-poverty-a-loveless-marriage-pls-advise/

hmnnnn

MickzyDonald:
Its a nice story, but the day you accept him back just mark that day as a day you'll forever regret, he'll never love the child like his own, the child will cause quarrels among both of you most of the time, wont the child later know the real father, I'd say if you are financially stable, leave both the man and George alone, nevermind what your family will say because they might not be there when you will cry in the future, start a new life and let the child know that his father his somewhere out there,then you'll have peace of mind even if the child later meets his real dad

HopeVictor:
Open leg no be the problem.. open leg with caution