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I am 23 years of age., waiting for youth service. I have been in a relationship for about a year now. My boyfriend is ok. He says he wants to marry me but we always have issues. And these issues is about girls. He plays with other girls too much. Liking girls pictures and generally being a playboy.

Every time I tell him that I do not think he is taking our relationship serious, he will tell me not to mind his behavior. That he plays with other girls but I am the one he will marry. In September, one girl was always chatting him and using him as her WhatsApp status. I could not take it anymore, I broke up with him.

Even though he was begging me and truing for us to get back together, my mind was made up. Anyway, that was it. One of his friends who knew we were broken up started to flirt with me. I did not give him any attention but he then bought me an iphone.

I thanked him for it and he asked me what will I do for him in return. I asked him what does he want from me cos I was not ready for a friendship. He said ok,we can hookup just...

https://livelystones.ng/2020/12/10/why-are-relationships-so-difficult-where-there-is-no-sx-involved/

She keep beating security for 7 years.... were are our intelligent officers?
Only God knows many other tricks been used to triffic weapons

ijustdey:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/i-cover-ak-47-riffles-with-baby-clothes-distribute-them-to-bandits/

Good day house,

I need your advise. I am a married woman,38 years old, with four children. My husband and I work and contribute to the running of the house together. But he lost his job last year and since then, he has not been able to secure a good job. So, he runs taxi services which hardly brings in anything tangible.

Since then, the entire running of the home rests on me. Whatever he makes …he uses to buy fuel in his car to run as taxi. It has not been easy. I earn 70kas a nurse and I work long hours. I had to withdraw my children from their private school to public school.

My children don’t like public school. They have been getting bullied and they dont like the environment. So, I decided to start saving 20k from my salary every month. I have to deny us so many things so I can save that 20k. Sometimes we have to eat once a day.

The mistake I made was.....


https://livelystones.ng/2020/12/05/i-am-trying-to-invest-in-our-childrens-future-but-my-husband-wants-to-spend-on-the-dead/

Good day all, house too cool this morning

Good evening house,

Please I need your advise. We live in the same compound with this woman who has three children. There are 3 other families all living together with us. Since we moved into this compound, a year ago, I and my family have been living fine, mind our business.

This my neighbor is a full time house wife. The husband works in Port Harcourt, as an Oil worker, I am told. So, she stay at home and takes care of the children. Something happened last week. The children of this my neighbor got back from school and were all sitting outside.

I came in around 6pm and met them outside. I asked where their mother was and they didn’t know. So, I asked them to come into our house. I got their mother’s no from the eldest, a boy of like 8 years. I called and the mother said she was stuck in traffic.

Long story short,she.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/30/my-neighbor-is-cheating-on-her-husband-should-i-tell-her-husband/

Hi,

I am anonymous. I have been in a relationship with this guy I met two years ago. He is a very nice guy. He is sweet to me and I love him so much. We became engaged late last year and wedding plans have been going fine.
All these while, I have been keeping myself till marriage even though he sometimes try to seduce me, I just make sure we don’t do more than kissing or touching. Since that time, he has been saying he cannot wait till wedding night o…that he will enjoy everything I have denied him for almost 2 years.

Our traditional wedding took place last month and we had s*x after the traditional wedding. I don’t know what happened but I am not a virgin but I know I am not a prude…but soon as we finished making love…I noticed my husband’s countenance changed.

I was worried and asked him what the problem is. He said nothing…he got up and left me on the bed. He came back a few seconds later and he looked at me with so much anger. He said these words:....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/27/i-was-humiliated-on-my-traditional-wedding-night-will-there-be-a-church-wedding/

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I need your advise. I think my proposed marriage just ended …I just want to sample opinions before I take my final decision. Myself and my fiancée have been together for 3 years now. It was initially off and on relationship because I was away studying abroad while she was here.

Things became finally stable for us when I moved back to Naija last year. Somehow, she found out that I was involved with one or two women while I was abroad but since I returned, I have not been with anyone else except her.

We started the traditional marriage rites last year. We have done introduction. We have printed invitation, we have put everything on social media…pre-wedding shoot…everything…what was remaining was Traditional wedding rites and the white wedding which will be two weeks apart.

It was at the traditional wedding rites that things went array. In my place, its part of the traditional marriage rites that a woman will....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/23/how-do-i-marry-my-fiancee-she-is-not-willing-to-apologize-to-my-family/

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OLOBAM:
Seem people don see zenith result

PharmAlfred:
http://www.nse.com.ng/Financial_NewsDocs/31925_ACCESS_BANK_PLC%20_QUARTER_3_%20_FINANCIAL_STATEMENT_FOR_.pdf

Access Bank don land. Good result. Access is underpriced.

Hello ma,

Please hide my identity. I just need a confidant. Goke (not real name) and I have been friends since 2010. I knew him from work. He is a Christian youth leader. He invited me to his church you program and that is how we became friends.

We are so close that people tease us ,that we would get married. But we are only best of friends. Goke already was betrothed to his Pastor's daughter right from secondary school. They have been in ministry for so long and they are both known to get married in future.

Goke and his girlfriend at the time seem like an odd couple to me but he always tells me how much her family helped him. I think he was marrying her cos of how her family helped him from when he was a Youth church member until he became a coordinator.

The girl is fat and a bit unattractive for Goke. Goke is a handsome bloke and everyone seem to think he and I were better together but Goke never tried to date me to be romantic to me. He was like a big brother to me. Anyone who tried to date me,must be screened by Goke.

My first heartbreak...Goke was...

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/18/i-slept-with-my-best-friend-how-do-i-keep-my-marriage-after-this/

What if its not what you're thinking? She could have had a seizure for crying out loud!

Sundrus:
I hope say she go learn her lesson after this ordeal.

hmnnnn

Good day,

This is asking for advise for my friend, a young man that i am living with in same flat. I over head him one early morning arguing with his fiancée over the phone. When I asked him he said that his fiancé got a revelation from a prophet in Kenya (not real location) via face that he is cheating on her. This made the lady to end the relationship.

This young man pleaded with me to speak with the lady. I called the lady last night and she was just boiling like hot water to the extent i felt like making eba. She started with , she flew from the UK (not real location) , across the ocean to Nigeria to see his man just to to discover that he was cheating on him.

When she discovered , she prayed and God asked her to forgive him which she did. Then , she sponsored their trip to South Africa (Not real location). According to her , She brought this young man to SA just for him to have a good life while they plan for him to come over UK for the m to marry .

She complained of how she has given so much into the relationship and the guy keeps....


https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/16/my-friends-fiancee-is-a-prophetess-did-her-visions-reveal-his-cheating/

Good day ma,

Please hide my ID. I need your advice. I 32 years old. I have been in a relationship for 3 years with someone I thought was the most innocent and faithful man but I was wrong.

We got engaged early this year and had our traditional wedding in August. White wedding is supposed to be in September but this is what happened.
After my traditional wedding which I posted our pictures on my Facebook and IG, a young lady called me and introduced herself as Lucy (not real name) She said that she is pregnant for my husband whom I just wed traditionally.

Lucy said she has done 2 abortions for him previously. That she knew about me...that we were dating but that he kept promising her that...

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/14/my-new-husbands-side-chick-wants-money-to-leave-us-alone-pls-advise/

hmnnnn

Definitely

They just increase tarri of PHCN by 100%

This people are heartless
See breakdown:

PHCN Recharged


*N20k* bought on 19/09/2020 -: Units: *853.5Kwh*

*N20k* bought today 14/11/2020 -: Units: *426.8Kwh*

baliyubla:
It must reach that 200 naira I projected.

hmmmm

lian555:
Did you not notice these attitudes before accepting his proposal?

hmnnnn

doggedfighter:
When you're ready you will come and finish your ficticious story

I met Wasiu (not real name) 7 months ago in a telegram group that my former course mate added me to. Its a group that sells network marketing products. I am a small business owner cos since I graduated 3 years ago, no job.

I also have not been lucky in relationships. I am 27 years old and I really want to get married...at least before 30.

But if its not God's will, maybe latest,32 years. Wasiu got talking to me about my products and that's how we became friends. I found out that he stays in Kwara (not real location) and he is into business, he is doing very well for himself too.

He used to encourage me not to give up as a business woman and not too long, he asked me why I am not in a relationship. I told him, I have not been lucky. He was surprised that such a hardworking and beautiful lady like me was single.

Wasiu asked me out and we began to date even though it was long distance. I am in Enugu. The first time we met, I could not...

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/11/my-relationship-is-in-jeopardy-but-was-it-part-of-a-prophesy-or-scam/

same here

Dear ma,

My name is Judith (not real name). I am 29 years old. I have been in a relationship with my fiancé for 2 years plus. He is the only son of his mother who is widowed. He has two sisters, both are married.

Since we been dating, we been planning our wedding cos he told me that he wants to get married quickly to bear children and keep the father’s name alive. The only reason we did not get married sooner is because we sometimes have disagreements that make me fear that our marriage may not work out.

Like I said, been an only child, the pressure is a bit much. I feel I will be put under the same pressure once we get married. He may want a male child very strongly. Even though he says he does not mind the gender of our children but his mother sometimes asks me when are we getting married, when are you giving me a grand son?

Most importantly, we argue a lot and I feel he is.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/09/my-fiance-i-argue-a-lot-will-our-marriage-be-a-happy-one/

Post for me, Please I need advice

I got pregnant for a man who later denied the pregnancy, I was sent out of the house my parents were angry with me, I cried and cried, after some times my church people pleaded with my dad to let me stay in is house

After some months of my pregnancy I met someone who showed me what love is, he cared for me and provide my needs, my pregnancy didn’t show quick, I later told him am pregnant I was 3-4months then I taught maybe he wanted to come and play with me and go, when I told him am pregnant he didn’t call me for some days later he called me and told me....see more

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/08/can-this-be-true-love-he-is-taken-responsibility-of-another-mans-child-am-happy-scared-confused/

fati2001:
SO SAD

LikeAking:
Story.

With that salary you can still marry a village girl and she will feel like a queen.

Hello Madam,

I need your advise. My name is Salam (not real name). I am in a relationship dilemma. Last year, I met this very beautiful lady at a wedding. Very attractive and my head was truly spinning soon as I noticed her. I tried to say hello to her and get her attention but she was being overly formal.

However, as faith would have it, as I drove out of the wedding reception, I noticed she was waiting for a cab. Wow, such a pretty woman without a car. I drove close to her and offered her a ride and she hopped into my car. We exchanged pleasantries and I found out that the guy she came to the wedding actually dumped her at the wedding cos they were arguing.

Long story short, I went in for the kill and we were dating by the next week. Her name is Hawa (not real name). The most fun woman I have ever been with. She told me she was a model and also social media influencer. My first time of meeting one or dating one for that matter. She spent her time on internet all day. Well, that is how many people make money these days right?

But that was also an issue for me cos she was always chatting with many guys. All in the name of social media business. I tried to cope but she seemed so addicted to this business. I had to.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/05/my-girlfriend-is-an-instagram-model-but-is-she-taking-it-too-far/

sanity12:
ok

The purpose of writing my story is just to get this off my chest. Its been like a burden for a while. My name is Titi (Not real name). I am 55 years old. My first husband passed on 20 years ago living me with four children.

I raised my children all by myself. I did all kinds of jobs and it was not easy. I vowed to stay unmarried because my late husband's family showed me pepper. They treated me bad after his death. Even when my husband was alive...he also did not treat me well. He controlled my life and I had little or no say in the marriage.

His death was a surprise but also my freedom. That is not to say I have not had any relationships since then. But I made it clear to each man that I was not going to get married. I did not also want to have more children if I got married. I was done having children.

To the glory of God, my children are doing well today. My eldest son and daughter are married. While the other two, one was engaged to someone close.....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/03/my-daughters-ex-wants-to-end-his-marriage-to-be-with-me-pls-advise/

Amen

YoonSung54:
God help you ooo

Good Day Ma,

Please hide my Identity. I need help cos I am so confused. I don’t even know where to start from. So, I am in a relationship with F**k boy. I call him f**k boy cos he is the one that landed me in this trouble that I am. When I met my fiancé, I thought he was an honest and decent guy.

Henry (not real name) is a fun loving guy. Made me laugh and I was completely in love with him. I only began to notice that he liked to live above his means when he started borrowing small amounts from his friends and he was unable to pay for sometime and they would be getting upset with him.

I advised him to check himself and stop borrowing and he would say: even Dangote borrows. He lied that he borrows for business or investment and he lost the money. I began a little worried but he always assured me that its for a while, that he knows what he is doing …that he is trying to build a financial future for us when we get married…hence he needs to constantly invest.

This continued until he borrowed money, this time, .....

https://livelystones.ng/2020/11/02/my-fiances-gambling-lifestyle-landed-me-into-this-dilemma/