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And who told you that is peculiar to Edos or that is the same thing??

Yorubas and Edos share alot of cultural exchanges and similarities so is no surprise to see other ethnic groups using a similar sword

This is very common in the west

Women who get MouthAction from their dogs

Women who have sex with their dogs

Men who make their dogs lick their penis etc

If you check online you'll see the videos

Those people over there do some really weird and silly things

Lol yet another thread for insecure men to masturbate to bashing women awon red pillers

If this is true then am really disappointed that lydia is young and beautiful I wonder why she will be dragging a community penis that are more men in entertainment industry to move on to and she's beautiful self with her new found fame

Ahh it must be tough then especially with this corona,is wonderful how you make time for this forum

Yeah I have been away for a while jusy came back come back and not surprised to see your comments lol no1 yoruba nationalist

TAO11:
Got it!

Work has been eating deep into personal time — even right now.

Is just inferiority complex they don't like yoruba people using the cultural links as an excuse for supremacy takes,funny they are still the ones that claim Lagos so both sides aren't holy



Anyways how have you been

TAO11:
Hahaha

I swear that western region thing is so cringey.

Like, Oba Eweka II was literally paying homage to Ooni of Ife and Alaafin every morning inside one secluded room in his palace.

My insecure Bini friends said he was doing that for political reasons.

And I’m like wait — Eweka II died before there was anything like Western Nigeria.

Moreover, no Yoruba was there or peeping at him to realize he was honoring the Yoruba monarchs.

If he didn’t inform, a European visitor in the 1920s nobody would have known he did that privately every morning.
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Just like me, every morning I pray privately to the King of Morocco in my room — but guess what:

I’m doing it for pOlItIcAl rEaSoNs.

Is just inferiority complex they don't like yoruba people using the cultural links as an excuse for supremacy takes,funny they are still the ones that claim Lagos so both sides aren't holy



Anyways how have you been

TAO11:
Hahaha

I swear that western region thing is so cringey.

Like, Oba Eweka II was literally paying homage to Ooni of Ife and Alaafin every morning inside one secluded room in his palace.

My insecure Bini friends said he was doing that for political reasons.

And I’m like wait — Eweka II died before there was anything like Western Nigeria.

Moreover, no Yoruba was there or peeping at him to realize he was honoring the Yoruba monarchs.

If he didn’t inform, a European visitor in the 1920s nobody would have known he did that privately every morning.
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Just like me, every morning I pray privately to the King of Morocco in my room — but guess what:

I’m doing it for pOlItIcAl rEaSoNs.

Lol maybe their oba created the festival to join the
then western region for politics lol the level of inferiority complex that will make you want to rewrite history

TAO11:
Lol.

Even if they would claim he came from Benin, the next question is why the foreign name “Oduduwa”?

Why not the name of Oduduwa’s supposed Benin ancestor themselves? Why did they have to stop at Oduduwa?

Why not the supposed oRiGiNaL Bini name “Ekaladerhan” or the later oRiGinAl Bini name “Izoduwa”, or “Idoduwa”, among other fictional names??

But anyway like you said, let’s wait for their explanation on this. They’re good with explaining stuffs.

"Honours the obas paternal ancestors" lol i wonder how they will explain this

This is clear evidence of yoruba-edo cultural links except they want to claim that oduduwa came from benin

TAO11:
Lol.

Yeah, they actually do celebrate OdUduwa festival.

Lol "see gaslighting"

Lol she can't counter my point as usual she is making it about race

Am a black man and i am proud of being black but i will never follow any woman who worships white men marrying them and condemns black men for doing the same

Lol i don't see myself as trash am not an AA come to online forums and see your black queens complaining that white men don't want them and how they "put black men first"


Lol white men are not gods to me that's why I care less if you women are going for them,lol you black women especially in Uk love to talk about how white men are these and that once they give you eye but am the one who sees myself inferior lol abeg go and settle for whitemen and leave black men alone

Someone who was praising whitemen just now wants to pretend

ziondaughter247:
OMG. You must be terrible inferior. I feel so sorry for you! How can you hate yourself this much? I won't respond to any further comments because in all honesty I can tell you're barely educated, but read what you typed slowly �

'No white man will come out to proudly say he picked a black woman over white that's why you see more black women married to white british because those are the only white men who give them "eye",in america they have to settle for black men'....

�This is the the most shameful statement of all time. So you mean you see yourself as trash to the extent that people have to 'settle' for you? So whites are demigods to you? Wow.....Your self esteem is in tatters. Anyway.. bye�

True but they should stop talking down on our women when they are doing green card marriage

Hathor5:
Do you say the same when you see young ladies marrying their daddy's age mates? It's a transaction in both cases. The parties willingly participate in it and if that makes them happy so be it. I can never understand how they can sleep with their daddy's or mommy's age mate but everyone is different. In some cases it's not even poverty. I don't know if it is greed or a daddy complex or true love but this is not my headache.

Sha some nigerian men dey fall my hand like wetin dey old white women,chai poverty is a disease

Hathor5:


They probably live off there meagre retirement pension so there is nothing left to collect or the marriage falls apart before they get to claim any alimony.

The few ones who marry old whit women

Hathor5:
Which Nigerian man will tell you that his wife is richer? Let's start from here.

Wow I really love your thinking seems you are one of the few unbiased Nigerian on this platform you seem to know alot

Please mind asking are you in Nigeria??

MrBrownJay1:
here is a simple clue: if your wife stays at home for 10yrs, cooking/cleaning/taking care of the kids while you are the only one who works and brng the cheddar, then A) if you divorce and SHE gets custody of the kids, then you have to pay this jobless woman to take care of your kids and to have a decent place (similar to the one you were living in) where to live with your kids.... But B) if you guy divorce and YOU get custody of the kids, then she has to pay you for taking care of the kids.

The reason why you never hear stories about men receiving child/spousal support is because these same men believe it's wrong for them to stay home watching telemundo while wifey goes to work all day...but these same men have no problem whatsoever to go to work all day while their wife stays home all day doing nothing (but watching telemundo all day). The problem is NOT the law here, it's the failed mindset of these foolish men who allow their women to be lazy/jobless.

Do you even know that you can clean the house after work?! Do you even know that you can cook dinner after work? Do you even know that as soon as kids turn 2/3yrs old, they go to kindergarden all day thus nobody need to stay home all day for them?! So technically, as soon as kids turn 2/3 yrs old, EVERYBODY can get a job and provide for the family "equally".

Lol what "fact" keep deciding yourself am so happy finally white men are giving you guys faces so all your pretence can end

Lol I have seen alot of old,fat infact some even feed the whitemen

Yes aunty all the blackmen who marry whitewomen do it for papers and your black women in america are complaining of whitewomen taking their men right??

Lol you guys brag you don't do it loudly because is small small whitemen you go for,awon nigerian men aren't romantic but tell them they love money they will say is because we love whitewomen abeg and be with your whitemen people who use to satisfy their fetish

No white man will come out to proudly say he picked a black woman over white that's why you see more black women married to white british because those are the only white men who give them "eye",in america they have to settle for black men

Women who allow white men do whatever they want with them lol well as far as it is not a blackman lol i rather be with a white woman than be with a black woman in UK or USA lol people once any whiteman finally marry them after using them for sex will shouting about how their white marriage is so awesome tueh

ziondaughter247:
My dear, don't delude yourself. Most black women do not go out of their way looking for love in a white man's arms 'FACT'. Most of the few who do marry white men actually found real love. That is why it is rare to see old, fat, etc, types of white husbands among the blacks who marry them. Unlike the black brothers who will marry anything and anyhow just to get papers or because of inferiority complex. it is black men that brag when they marry whitey, because they have suffered years of inferiority complex, so they try to do that and appear like they've arrived before friends and whoever.

FACT!!!

Lol who?? The AA or those whitemen they follow

Beautyaddy:
That's not true though.

Nigerian women abroad also have the same options as Nigerian men abroad do.

Most Nigerian women who live abroad and have develop an opened mind to date outside the Nigerian circle tend to have more peaceful and lasting relationship because these men don't treat like second class or slaves like how most Nigerian men treat Nigerian women as a whole.

Lol worst are the ones who are used trophy wives or the ones you to satisfy their fetish lol we see them here in Uk

Gamesmart:
Most Naija girls just get pregnant and ask to stay with their citizen children or say "the children grew up here and are used to the country". They are not marrying oyinbo yafun yafun.

The oyinbos they marry (if they find ones to marry them) do not tend to me tall, handsome quarterbacks.

As for dregs, there are people that are dregs of society. I have no apologies to your God for saying that.

No like i mean i hardly here of a nigerian brother who divorced a white woman and got spousal support or alimony is that Nigerian men are richer than their white wives over there

MrBrownJay1:
How are our Nigerian brothers not benefitting?! Do you believe that Nigerian brothers should live abroad under 9ja laws? Probably, the reason why Nigerian brothas are not benefiting abroad is because they expect to receive ABROAD the same one sided benefit they would receive in NIGERIA.

Marriage law isn't about benefit, it's about being fair....

Lol you dey mind them to our Nigerian sisters once you date one ugly whiteman is achievement since is not a Nigerian

topemama1:
It's vice versa as I have seen our Nigerian sisters abroad with old white men with wrinkled skin and it got me wondering. Most fine young white boys don't really date black women, they date women of the same race as them or asian women. I have actually seen a lot of hot white women with black boys

And your black women who claim achievement once every Caucasian shows interest in them are what

A beg you guys should look front many of your women even suffer same when they follow white men that's why you see they don't like to brag when they have a whitey

ziondaughter247:
The weird thing about this thread is that 99% of the guys here are in their face-me-I-face-you sheds in Ojuelegba typing rubbish and thirsting for things they will never have(white girls). The 'socalled' few abroad are either in Vietnam or India or somewhere remote also bashing Nigerian girls. Shame many of our men have condescended to this level. Honestly, from Nairaland posts, I can tell many Nigerian men suffer from extreme inferiority complex. You will think that their mothers and sisters are whites! No matter what you do, black men will continue to be at the lowest rung of the ladder....You are still a 'black monkey' to the average white man, unfortunately! Feel so ashamed reading some of these comments. I wonder how most black men married to whites truly feel. Imagine lying down next to your prized 'oyibo prized' wife and all she thinks in her heart is see this 'black monkey'. What a sad and condescending way to live your life. You will never be enough unfortunately. I have heard this conversations from white women themselves, who are married to black men. Imagine being ashamed to introduce you to family and the public. Unfortunately, white people generally are known to be polite no matter the situation and can hide what they truly think.....Black men that are supposed to be at the forefront of preserving heritage are willing to trade it for a morsel of bread today, just to impress your fellow blacks and villages people. Very sad.....lots of lost heritage! Shame


Don't be pissed off... I just said the truth and nothing but it! And before you come for me, I am very established where I am, not interested at all in lowlifes, especially those Nigerians living in their rat holes 'abroad'!�
So glad ladies on nairaland ignore you people most times. Very few ladies here and lots of inferior men on nairaland

Lol go and do your research nigerian men are highly priced from Africa to america

The Nigerian women who are trophy wives of whitemen ,some even feed the whitemen they are with go and check not all Nigerian men with white women are in it for green card

ziondaughter247:
Even from the posts we see here on nairaland. I put it to you that young naija girls abroad who do marry whites guys, do a much better job than the nigerian men who marry white ladies. Please google and check- it is mostly the Nigerian men that marry old, fat, worn out grannies. Hardly do you see such from the ladies...Hardly! Pls do your research. Nigerian men are more likely to marry 'dregs' of white society than the ladies...Peace out!

BTW, it is condescending to call anyone created by God a 'dreg of society'! God, I'm sorry for using that term!�

I have a question,if the law is fair to both men and women why is it our nigerian brothers who marry white women are not benefiting from it

MrBrownJay1:
Very simple:
-never allow a woman to be lazy because she is dating you
- make sure she always pays for her fair share (no free ride) in whatever you do
- make sure she keeps her lifestyle, and dont try to elevate her life to yours
- if you guys are living together, make sure she pays half of [b]EVERYTHING
- protect your wealth, protect your assets, protect your wealth.... by putting your assets under a LLC/corporation or in an offshore account etc. today many banks offer the service of an offshore account in less than an hour.[/b]



I guess my opinion on the subject misled the judge AND the Canadian court of law as well, abi?! Lol

Lol that's what many of them settle for and come here to tell us how non-nigerian men are romantic

Lol they will be one yeye white or AA that is drilling them

Gamesmart:
She can find.

It would just be a dreg of society who wants to taste novel stuff for his freaky needs.

Handsome, successful white guy? That one na like hoping to get 24 hours light in Sapele for 1 month straight.

Lol you dey mind them people who are desperate imagine carribbean and AA

Gamesmart:
Your first 2 sentences are probably right.

But saying Caribbeans and AA are romantic? ................................................

I laugh in patois.

Lol lies upon lies lol many nigerian women can't find men outside their circles,lol people who are begging whitemen to date them then will come and lie is because they want "only Nigerian men" lol is like african-american women who lie that they choose black men first then one dirty white man will ask them out and story will change

sisipelebe:
It is because they don't want to date outside of their race. They want a Nigerian guy at all cost. Carribeans, Native Americans, Africa Americans are available, but no it's Nigerian. These guys from other race are even more romantic than our Nigerian men. I know the reasons why they don't want to test the waters.

Lol whitemen are not going for them,only few Nigerian women can get a whiteman is mostly the yeye ones especially if you are in Uk

lefulefu2:
dem dey forbid her to marry oyibo man?
anyway many nigerian girls overseas are now opening their pool and trying foreign men.It is not a must u must marry from ur own tribe and nationality.If the person wey u dey move with is compactible to u and u like the person and the person is ur spec..marry am oo
forget about tribe and nationality
life is too short abeg

Lol black women for you once one whiteman give them eye like this they will start saying trash up and down about black men

lefulefu2:
i think she said she has a polish guy she is dating

I think the cause is yoruba nationalist views encroaching on benin nationalism,funny i have met benin people who believe Yorubas came from them and some who claim yoruba influence in the early monarchy

Funny thing is that this debate is mostly in Nigeria,outside Nigeria everyone accepts the ogiso monarchy myth,hell if you check britianicca it's there,i think Wikipedia has been edited to modern benin nationalist one the last time I checked

To me the whole debate are shrouded in supremacy and nationalistic tones very pointless though the Yorubas maybe be supremacists the benins are clearly revionists they are like hoteps and afrocentrists especially that greyboy

TAO11:
Actually, the Benin positions have been two (at least from the 1970s).

(1) The extant, classical and official position which admits the Ife origin of the Benin monarchy.

(2) The apocryphal view which emerged in the 1970s in a strange attempt to reverse the ties.

It is only on Nairaland starting sometimes this year that you will find angry Benin kids claiming no ties at all. lol.

The same kids used to be strong proponents of the apocryphal view until they were exposed to seeing that such view is pseudo-historical and made-up.

And they were angrily left the option of upholding no connection rather than the “official” position of Ife origin.[quote author=TAO11 post=93914871]Actually, the Benin positions have been two (at least from the 1970s).

(1) The extant, classical and official position which admits the Ife origin of the Benin monarchy.

(2) The apocryphal view which emerged in the 1970s in a strange attempt to reverse the ties.

It is only on Nairaland starting sometimes this year that you will find angry Benin kids claiming no ties at all. lol.

The same kids used to be strong proponents of the apocryphal view until they were exposed to seeing that such view is pseudo-historical and made-up.

And they were angrily left the option of upholding no connection rather than the “official” position of Ife origin.

I agree with everything you say,i honestly hate how we Nigerians insult and disgrace themselves in public,I believe is because they have access to other people for dating and married even the nigerian women once one white man show them greenlight they start to bad mouth Nigerian men