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RomanceRe: Relationship failure in d North by raphemmanuel(m): 3:08pm On May 05, 2019
Until they Hausa reverse the law or tradition of allowing their men marry an under-aged girls, this educated matured ladies will find it difficult to get married.

I served in the north during my NYSC, I get to believe so many things said about this people.

I was shocked when I saw girls of 14yrs, 15yrs already a mother, what annoyed me most was those that married them are at their early 40's or late 40's.

Now tell me how it will be possible for the matured ladies to get married.

The men have believe that this small ones are ONU UGU and this will make them not considering the matured ones.

But once this tradition have been reversed the men don't have any other option than to go for the ladies that are due for marriage
BusinessRe: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by raphemmanuel(m): 8:15pm On May 02, 2019
gensteejay:
The only advice I can give is that you should try to improve your English grammar. To this end, you can visit these sites:
1. https://guidetogrammar.org/grammar/index.htm to master the rules of grammar and writing
2. https://www.thepunctuationguide.com to improve the punctuation aspect of your writing and speaking
3. https://www.vocabulary.com to improve your vocabulary and learn new words.

The indubitable fact is, if you're good and write well, you will always get ample orders. Daily.

If you are interested in the freelance writing niche, you need to follow the advice above and read a lot — read reports, news articles, opinion pieces, novels — and choose a niche in writing that is in demand, that you are passionate about.

Follow top writers in your area of specialisation on Quora, LinkedIn and study and imitate their style of writing.

You can entreat mrphysics, Grupo, and other ace Fiverr sellers on Nl for more tips. I use a Nigerian account and am averse to changing my IP in a bid to operate under a (foreign) pseudonym.
RomanceRe: Nairalanders Help!!! He Needs Your Advice by raphemmanuel(m): 11:48pm On May 01, 2019
After reading this I just became weak straight to my nerves.
Am just becoming scared of marriage...

Ladies whyhuh?

Why all this unnecessary heartbreak.
I really feel for the man.

I personally can't stand this.

GOD PLEASE HELP ME DURING MY TIME TO GET THE BEST...
RomanceRe: SEE WHAT I Found When I Googled This...Magic to Lasting Longer in Bed [Picture] by raphemmanuel(m): 10:27pm On Apr 30, 2019
iLegendd:
If you need the free version of Lasticle, drop your email and you'll get it today or tomorrow.
Raphemmanuel85@gmail.com
CelebritiesRe: Akpororo's Wife, Josephine Ijeoma Onuabughuchi And Her Kids In New Photos by raphemmanuel(m): 12:24am On Apr 25, 2019
Akpororo should run a DNA test on those kids.
How is it that no one resembles him? huh
RomanceRe: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by raphemmanuel(m): 11:12pm On Apr 22, 2019
lilianofentse:
but seriously you girls are showing too much hate to this girl. She bleeped up a little though
You know some girls don't know the kind of things the put some men (especially the nice ones) into.
I must say this, "it is mostly the NICE GUYS that suffers heartbreak most times".

Imagine investing, trusting and giving it best to a girl, just for her to come up with a FOOLISH UNREASONABLE REASON to end the relationship.

This girls will have one thing to give as a reason the should end their relationship. Whereas on a real sense, this is what they can sit down and discuss to settle it.
I don't know what the think most times? Do they always think u can get a man that is totally perfect.

If you look deeply into this girls, u will still find out that the have their own problem too but this NICE GUYS will still overlook that problem that is found in them and still try to get use it, but this girls will still be looking for loopholes to lay hold on.

I don't give a fvck to this girls, I never pity them when they are dealt with by the BAD GUYS AND SWEET-MOUTHED GUYS.

This girls don't like to hear the truth from the NICE GUYS they prefer to be flattered by lies.

To Hell with such kind of girls which this Op is among them.
RomanceRe: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by raphemmanuel(m): 10:26pm On Apr 22, 2019
lilianofentse:
formatted his face outta my memory..
Glory be to God.
If not God, what would have been the caption of your next thread.

May be it might look similar to that of this op "I have destroyed my life" grin grin
RomanceRe: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by raphemmanuel(m): 10:08pm On Apr 22, 2019
lilianofentse:
look how this one is high. grin
U see ur life sad Am i wrong with what I'm saying? All this heartless, bad and cheater girls don't deserve good.

But that aside; hope u are really getting rid of the guy u meet at club off ur memory.
RomanceRe: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by raphemmanuel(m): 7:08pm On Apr 22, 2019
united442:
you talk like a Messiah..

what happened to me.

broke up with me,our 5years relationship,
went to date a sweet mouthed guy,
a month latter,only to discover the dude has 3 extra babe,one of which was pregnant for him,
babe was trying to come back,
i notice, then push her away,
babe texted me she just wasted 5years of her lifegrin
Hello bro, I still remember ur thread about ur ex-girlfriend which I gave my opinion.
U mean that girl that left you for a rich dude that was planning to marry her is begging to come back to u?

I remember u said she canceled her flight with the guy because she was heartbroken after you told her to move on with her new relationship.
I also remembered you said that she told you to take whatever you want each time from her room which you turned down the offer.

Bro honestly, I am happy that what she saw glittering was not gold and she is regretting it.

Bro I swear you are now the King, atleast she will respect you anywhere she sees you and always wish for second Chance which will not come.

This is the kind of thing I love to see happening to all this cheaters.
RomanceRe: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by raphemmanuel(m): 10:02pm On Apr 18, 2019
sherylbakky:
This is touching, how I wish she sees this.

Since she told u she's not breaking up with u, then chill...But I still maintain my words, show her proofs that u wudnt do such again.

It is one thing to say sorry, another thing to "act" it. Don't distance ursef from her too much wen she's getting d breathing space...send her romantic msg and gifts, call her regularly (but don't disturb her with "too much" calls), after few weeks u can request to hangout with her. Just do things dat will make her happy, she's ur babe, u sud know d tins dat put smile on her face.

All u need is to "reassure" her n just like I said earlier, tins will change for good.

Please don't take her for granted again, relationship is sweet wen u respect ur partner's feeling.
Gutsoverfear please don't play with this advice by sherylbakky.

Let me just add to this:
Try to buy her a very nice gift (it can be a wear).
And don't disturb her with too many calls and text messages.

All this will make her feel u value her.
BusinessRe: What Business Can I Do To Be Earning A Daily Income? by raphemmanuel(m): 6:55pm On Apr 10, 2019
Muhammad2017:
Go into transportation
i dont knw ur location though, but transportation (bus in particular) is a good idea for the kind of daily returns you want
this is my type of business (in zaria) with a daily assured return of #2000
A bus cost between 500k-800k depending on the type and quality
please which type of bus cost 500-800k.
Is it the mini bus, or 14 sitters or 18 sitters
BusinessRe: CUSTOMER SATISFACTION IS THE KEY by raphemmanuel(m): 6:06pm On Apr 09, 2019
Stephenfid:
Dont worry my brother they will definitely resolve the issue soonest! just be patient.
From the way you talk, you look like one of their staffs cheesy

Banks slogan is always JUST BE PATIENT
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And where do the get all this money to pay you.
You forgot that no free thing again in this word.

Onyiye Ekwensu!!!
Nnweta Isi nwere Isi !!!
RomanceRe: "Big Joystick Is Life" — Busty Slay Queen Scientifically Explains Its Benefits by raphemmanuel(m): 11:43pm On Mar 25, 2019
Look at her finger like roasted plantain sad
RomanceRe: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by raphemmanuel(m):
Preshy561:
Lifeless man.
You will soon lose that job and go back to square one.
Ungrateful gold digger, you have seen a lady outside and you think the one you have isn't slaying enough for you.

I will continue to say this, don't ever date a broke guy, you don't know what they will become once they start seeing money.
Then, trying to help him financially is the worst mistake you will ever make Because, when the money starts coming, you will look outdated to him and he will then think that he needs slay queens in his life.
This is one of the reasons some of you will forever die poor, especially the gold digging idiots supporting him.


Ndi eriri eri.
Preshy kilode?
Why your blood dey hot like this.
One thing u should note is that: All men are not the same, there are still responsible ones.
But for OP action or decision, I am totally against it.

Nne nwere nwayo biko!!

Modified:
Beside girls do the same, both male and female are guilty of this scrap.
Haven't heard about a guy investing so much on a girl with the intention to marry her only for the girls to wake-up one morning and call the guys attention that she is not dating again.
Infact the girls does this most.

So no party is safe. The only thing one have to do is to pray he/she gets responsible partner or mate
RomanceRe: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by raphemmanuel(m):
Op raphretle, there is a big sense from what Generalnomercy told u.
If you break up with that girl u MIGHT not end well. ( I am not wishing bad please).
The mother, uncle that have invested on u and the girl won't be happy with u, and the may go extra miles to make sure they deal with u.

I wanna tell you a true story of what happened in my own area.
A guy fell in love with a girl, the girl so much love the guy that she invested on the guy to the extent that the guy opened a very popular school in my area and was driving a nice car.
But something happen, this girl was hoping to get married to this guy which lead her to keep investing on the guy so the both of them can live large.

This guy secretly engaged another girl in the absence of the girl that invested on him cos the girl travelled. The wedding card was out, everyone waiting on the day the guy will tie the knot.

This information get to the girl that have invested on this guy.
The next thing that we heard was the guy have been assassinated.
Though the assassins wasn't caught, but from the way the news was flying in my area, it was the girl that planned it.

That's karma for you.

But raphretle:
How will you date someone for good 5 years, u just wake up one morning and start saying u don't love the girl for no reasonable reason ?

Abey u don see another girl wey fine pass her.
OP I must tell you this: You are trying to light up a fire that may burn you, no put-on fire wey u no fit quench because now the uncle and mother are seriously involved.

If controlling you is ur major reason for not getting married to her, u can relocate to a far distance where the uncle and mother can't easily reach you if u marry the girl.

THIS IS MY PIECE OF ADVICE FOR YOU
RomanceRe: How Can I Chase Away This Naughty Girl Frequenting My Home by raphemmanuel(m): 6:38pm On Mar 20, 2019
Are u not enjoying the fvck again.
My brother fvck-on its ur time grin
BusinessRe: Bisiness Idea For U. by raphemmanuel(m):
bayo2018:
Good day everyone I have a business idea to give to anyone who is willing to learn. This idea and business plan is what I use in paying all my fees when I got admitted to school as a year one student but can't really continue the business plan again due to insufficient cash(got scammed of all my money through sending goods to someone )
So if u are ready let me know.
But u must have a good and solid cash ready for this investment.
can I know ur business idea.
Hint me up on WhatsApp 070xxxx
RomanceRe: I Met Her Online After 2days She’s Talking About Getting Married To Me by raphemmanuel(m): 6:39pm On Mar 14, 2019
Praisesongz:
Hello nairalanders
I’m gonna make this brief as I can...so I saw a friend request of this beautiful matured lady on Facebook and I accepted the request. We started talking and got fond of each other throughout that day. We got to know each other more better(Note she was pushing the conversations real deep) I was a little bit confused when she disclosed her feelings and intentions for me. She said she likes me that she couldn’t understand why she felt that way...she told me about her ex based abroad maltreating her and assaulting her physically and sexually. She told me almost everything about her life. Then I asked her what was so special about me she said she doesn’t know but all she knew is that her spirit just likes me naturally and she’s even falling in love with me. She said she likes the way I talk, my looks, my manner of approach etc. meanwhile she’s 3years older than me.

She’s from a very rich background I told her about my financial status disclosing how low I am to her standard but she told me she doesn’t care but all she want from me is to make her happy, treat her nice, make her feel lucky to have me and stuffs. She own a store in Lagos and she drives her own car which was gifted by her dad. She told me she will give me some money to start a clothing business so I could be okay before she introduce me to her parents.....she also told me if everything work out fine we could get married this year. All these conversations was just within two days of us meeting each other online.
Now I’ve been single too since last year and I like the lady too but I don’t know if I’m taking the right steps by dating her and hopefully settle down with her...I’m really confused I don’t know if this decision is right as I’ve accepted to be her man.

Please advice no insults please matured minds only
My nigga to be sincere that bolded dey fear me when it comes to serious relationship, I don't know about you.
I hate it when my girl is older than me.

Well! I will advice u, follow ur instinct, I think you should know what you want.

But come to think about this:
How do u see it dating a girl on internet, just within short time u are about diving into marriage without knowing this lady attitude and see if she is the kind of woman u want.
While will u just rush into a marriage because of those promises made to you.
Are u seeing it as an avenue to get rich quick?

What if after getting all those things, the person u settled with, the kind of lifestyle she live u are not OK with it?

Well!! All I have to say is TAKE THE DECISION YOU THINK IS RIGHT FOR YOU
InvestmentRe: I Am PDP But I Will Be Happy If Rivers Is Taken From Wike by raphemmanuel(m): 3:34pm On Mar 10, 2019
hisexcellency34:
I am a strong member of PDP but i will be happy if Governor Nyesom Wike is defeated in the governorship election. We havent forgotten how he armtwisted all other PDP candidates four years ago with the assistance of Dame Patience Jonathan to get the party ticket.

He is also very arrogant and a rabid drunk. The only saving grace is his gentle wife, Suzette
u be strong APC in disguise sad
BusinessRe: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by raphemmanuel(m): 8:09pm On Mar 07, 2019
routsz:
I doubt if you can get it out of Payoneer since you don't have their Prepaid card yet.
Bro I can get it out of payoneer. By sending the fund to another payoneer account.
This time it should be an exchanger, so I can get the equivalent to naira
BusinessRe: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by raphemmanuel(m): 7:50pm On Mar 07, 2019
I have $208 payoneer fund I manage to get through Fiverr. But selling it somehow difficult for me, because I'm afraid of this scammers wey full for nairaland. I don't want to loose that money, because e no easy for me to get.
And I no get payoneer card.
RomanceRe: He Has Shown Me The Door.... Am Scared To Leave by raphemmanuel(m): 11:28pm On Mar 06, 2019
Wonder2018:
He isn’t a wealthy dude but I would categorize us as the comfortable average Nigerian family.
The kinds of family who would use thrift to make travel trips, and use our last penny to make the kids comfortable. He is also a hustler but an hardworking hustler. I see him going places if he stays focus, and that’s why am stuck with him to be a part of his success story. Am with him because I love him for who he is, . When we met he was living in a self contain, after 2 years we moved to a two bedroom, and 2years later we moved to a bigger place, so I would categorize as a growing couple. Dude that still collects his 1000naira change from me.
So sorry for what you are passing through. An intruder (Husband snatchers) must have come into your marriage.
And ur husband feels she (husband snatcher) is better than you...

I will advice u meet those MATURED people your husband respect their opinions (either pastors or elderly ones), tell them what you are passing through, that they should speak to your husband on your behalf.

And again, if you know those things that makes ur husband always happy when you knew him newly, keep doing it.
I PRAY HE WILL REPENT AND START LOVING YOU.


Please don't leave, then expecting your husband to come plead with you to come back.
If you try it, it might be the end of your marriage.

IN ALL THINGS PRAY TO GOD, HIS HEART WILL CHANGE TOWARDS YOU
RomanceRe: He Has Shown Me The Door.... Am Scared To Leave by raphemmanuel(m): 12:08am On Mar 06, 2019
Nnaabros:
Sorry.

This usually happens when money and material comfort was the number one reason for the marriage in the first place. Sadly, women will always keep falling into this and men will keep taking advantage of this.

Most rich men do not really value their wives. They see them as completely dispensable, someone they can do without, after all, you married him mainly because of his money. Personality is never the first thing women consider before marriage. It's always money and comfort.

This is a sad tale that will never end.

Again, sorry
Bro u just spoke my mind.
As I was reading the story, I immediately noticed the reason why the writer was facing whatever she is facing when I haven't read all her writeup...

Ladies of this days wants to get everything at the plater of gold.
They need already made stuff.
They don't want to stick to a guy that is hustling tight to make it.

They forgot that MOST guys that made the wealth together with their woman, value and respect their woman most because the woman stood by their side when the have nothing.

Ladies prefer breaking up with their broke guy for rich dude and expect much love from those dude.
Only FEW rich guys can respect and value their wife, because with their wealth the only think they are helping the lady to leave a better life.
BusinessRe: A Little Help On Fiverr by raphemmanuel(m): 9:46pm On Mar 03, 2019
Op don't u think it's nice u share ur tips on getting 6k impression with 12 orders.
Will rise by lifting others.

Op you have nice performance
RomanceRe: Have You Truly Loved Someone,but You Just Couldn't Be Together? by raphemmanuel(m): 7:49pm On Feb 28, 2019
HeWrites:
Nawa.

They will hardly believe you if you tell them you guys ain't dating.


You suppose call her and curse her angry
Lol. E never reach the level of cursing.
RomanceRe: Have You Truly Loved Someone,but You Just Couldn't Be Together? by raphemmanuel(m): 2:08pm On Feb 28, 2019
HeWrites:
Nawa o.. I weak for ladies. Matter.

Those kinds of girls won't let someone have chance with other girls

Every chance go don spoil cause other ladies would be thinking you're dating
Yea bro, u are on point.
Up till today, they keep asking me about this girl.

Not knowing she is not my girlfriend
RomanceRe: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by raphemmanuel(m): 11:12pm On Feb 27, 2019
funmisticqueen:
Men do it too. Ladies are simply giving men a taste of their medicine. Infact we learnt from guys so why are you wailing here.
If I catch u there, I will hit u this stick angry

RomanceRe: Why Are Some Girls Like This? by raphemmanuel(m): 10:34pm On Feb 26, 2019
This girls self Una wahala don too much.
What is all this.

Tomorrow if guys start paying them back the way the treated the guys, they will start shouting MEN ARE SCUM.
RomanceRe: Have You Truly Loved Someone,but You Just Couldn't Be Together? by raphemmanuel(m):
HeWrites:
That's her own problem o cause I can never date her again because she was the one who asked me to move on/ let go of the feelings I ghat for her.


Working on her Best friend now grin grin
I don't know whether this girls have same lyrics.

A girl just came to my working place for a voluntary job, though some how related to our Boss.
She just came due to the ongoing ASUU strike which was suspended.

When this girl came she drew my attention to herself by coming close to me and we keep discussing, even till a point I become scared of being fired if our boss noticed this.

Every other staff now call her my girlfriend cos of the way she was close to me.
She stopped work on Friday 22nd Feb.

Since this while I have never proposed to her to be my girlfriend, so before she left I told her I will call her and we discuss.

I called her tonight, told her how I feel about her and I will like her to be my girlfriend.
Surprisingly she told me she is not ready for any relationship that I should just move on bla bla bla.... That we are still friends.

The thing just weak me.

Could this be pretence or what.

She was the one that drew my attention, leaving me with no option than to go for her.

I swear, girls I tire for Una oh sad
RomanceRe: Am Emotionally Heart Broken...please HELP ME! by raphemmanuel(m): 9:24pm On Feb 23, 2019
united442:
she told me she was suppose 2 take a flight with d said guy d next day (cux i told her there is no need hiding anything from me again)..she canceled it cux she was loosing strength dat night..

funny she left me because of money...i just told her that and she knows..
This is one of the problem girls have this days, the love material things more. Same thing happened during my own case. She was the first love of my life and I was her first too, but another man came in, she starts misbehaving until I can't bear it any longer, I have to breakup with her, though she pleaded but I have already made up my mind.

Every time she will chat me up and keep telling me she misses me.
RomanceRe: Help A Brother by raphemmanuel(m): 8:42pm On Feb 22, 2019
nwanneniressure:
wide toto alert.
Don't be a fool.i've had the same experience b4.
She is probably waiting so that her toto will heal by the time or she knows that if/when you eventually find out,you can't leave her again cos u are already married to her.
My ex girl tried that shit with me too,but no,i said i must go down and behold,the widest pussy in nigeria was between her legs.
Try and Bleep her by all means or run for your life undecided
u no go kill me with laugh grin grin

The bolded caught my attention

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